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Sandydayziz:
Biko which one is cheating behind ur back?

calling of names..I guess u want to defend her

I love your story..continue

each time I hit my girl hard, she kept calling other guys name...why is she not always satisfy?fucking different guys behind my back...her attitude shows she is randy and nymphomaniac..I tried to change her but she does not want to change...pls nairalanders, should I leave her? I need your help

Zceesneh:
i know am wrong and so? iffa i hear

u even sound rude...u don't need advice....dumb ass

stop looking from favor from a girl...you are favor yourself if you believe..you can make it een without your gf..if u think like dis, u won't be able to do things in life

rubbish...op u dull

what if the new girl does not feel anything for you? have u ask yourself this basic question....though you said your I stint tells you...its better you tell the old one that shows care to you that you can't be with her in a polite way than you letting her wasting her time around you because at the end, she won't forgive u..so tell her now...the choice is in your hand

I wish i have something to say..your post made me remember my nymphomaniac infac I fact randy girlfriend that mess around with guys ad even married men....girls always take advantage of guys especially when she knows that the guy loves her so much...she will never change..it has become her habit...my girlfriend is yet to change...she lies and the painful thing is that she claims to be saint just like the positive characteristic u, mentioned about ur girl...to be too emotional is not good..it affects one being...i no how you feel op..I have been there and I am still battling with my emotion

sochristy:
Please nairalanders I am so confuse right now.I am 22 yrs old and there's a guy who is 47 and wants to marry me. People say he is too old for me. I want to ask does age matters in a relationship?

Another one is that he chases women about too. that means he is a womaniser. Pls i need advice

run for your life...just run and i will catch u at d other side...to be sincere with you, just leave him because your post already defined who he is...too old and goof around...I wonder what you are looking for..u r young and u have a life...u have dreams...don't let your eagerness of going into relationship ruin ur life..I guess your problem is badwagon effect

Immatex:
I beg to differ. His English is not as bad as now make it look, he only did not proof read his post and was probably tensed.

Learn to over look small imperfections, we all are humans.

thanks bro, it was a typing error

soberdrunk:
If she really loves you, by now she would have paid for English lessons that you really need!

that's harsh...its typing rror

i went this girl on the 12th of february last year. she is doing everything possible just to make me feel comfortable..she is just too over caring which got me scared.permit me to say she is completely into me. i love her but she loves more.. i no most guys will say i am in for her money but its not all about the money. it is all about having inner peace of mind...at first i took her doing ''caring attitude etc" to be delusive, may she being desperate but i was wrong..

my problem with this girl is that she pays money into my account as if i am one nigeria politicians like tinubu..my bank account is really fat and this got me scared.i have complained to her several times not to send huge or any amount of money into my bank account but she is not listening. the one that got me scared was when she paid N2,000000.00 (two million naira into my account) without asking her. i told her two days ago that "if you truly love me, you dont need to impress me with your wealth because i am scared of you and i am scared of my tomorrow with you.you may not listen to me when we finally get married.you may want to be in charge just like what you are doing now.you may feel you got money more than me and this will be a problem for our matrimonial home.so its better you stop all this or i quit the relationship with you''. i went further by telling her ''we must defined what we want and what kind of home and life we will like to have''.she just laugh at me and sod off and drove off.

this got me scared more.i was now thinking if she is using me for something.she has not called me for two days now unlike before and i didnt bother calling her..i swear i dont like this kind of love..i am scared of love like this..if she wants everything she has done for me back, i am ready to give them up.

please house, why is she so caring? is there something she wants from me?did i say the right words to her? did my words got her angry even when she laughh at me?is there possibility in the nearest future that she will be submissive if we are to be together?

maggilove:
op, your story get as he be, u love her and u were seeing another woman, if she can hold her body why can u hold yours? So u were secrectly cheating on her when she thinks u are a good guy, not fair. To be sincere with you, this has happened to me before, exactly the ways yours is happening now, the funniest thing then was that the pregnant girl's family chose a wedding date , one way or the other I got to know about it but I didn't ask him neither did he tell me. It was after the wedding he was calling to discuss something with me and I burst everytin b4 he could say a word, I accepted my fate and walked away honourably
Note: the relationship was 8years then, we live in different cities but we visit eachother, he didn't upload any pre wedding or wedding pix not even his child's pix. I know he's regretting his actions but I'm a happy person now. Op tell her and let her decide on time please.

that's pathetic.I want you to no that your story may not have a happy beginning but that does not make you who you are..it is what you chose to be

op I agreed with you...y d pussy no go smell when different dick don brush everywhere..most Nigeria girls pussy wide like well..easy penetration...I wonder why they are not always satisfy and the painful thing is that majority of them have nothing to offer in the relationship...dem go come dey form for guys again wen no be dem won do d spending..

my message to all guys Bleep d pussy down and be stingy with your money...

darbeelicous:
ikebe no dey heavy the owner...

what is so special about all this big butt ashawo

TEMINIKANSOSO:
Can u refer me to any deliverance center then?

just go cele

TEMINIKANSOSO:
I am a singer and a performer in real life, and i can't do without singing a day, but so many times in my dream i sing love song and danceable song to my audience, where people feel happy and i also feel great too. But havè not enjoyed real life performance due to cash/capital, my singing career is still hanging, thou i am still working hard. So what does my dream means, it happen once in a while, it is not first or second time of dreaming that i am singing.

you need deliverance...NA your fellow under world crew u dey sing to

I wonder why they kept on forming when they got nothing to offer...for me, they are dunce and all they want is your pocket..they claim to be smart but they are not...they are bunch of boyfriend and husband seeker without bringing anything to the table..guys if you are going out with nairaland girls, be careful..act smart, Bleep her pussy hard and sod her off..I wonder why some girls will have boyfriend and still claim not to have..that girl can kill and that is how nairaland girls are....nymphomaniac and randy..

Mizzysexy:
Please holla at me. 08068817735.

I no your mama..she gon hear this

she is just making public spectacle of herself...if your breast dey big, go donate some milk to cowbell

FILEBE:
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Bro. You are not wrong. I know you have seen that side of girls. The same way it is for girls is the same way it is for guys. Guys sleep around even when they are married. The thing there is communication. Girls can lie but men lie too. It is same time.
first is to not do what you speak against and then communicate well with her. The two of u should fight...settle it and fight again thrn settle it in a loving way.

I don't know...but all girls are not the same. We just need patience and good heart to find the right person or make someone the right person.

making someone who does not see the future with you is worthless..a dog will always be a dog...fine, both gender cheat, mess around and tell lies but I hate it a woman who knows how a man truly love her engage in different relationship.like I always say, men have conscience but women does not have conscience

lovat:
Sign me up for wetin

for your talent

lovat:
That one is to start up conversation in the whole bus.


You will hear from

Eze: That man is a wicked man, i pray make him die there, sebi na yoruba vote am? Una think say dem go get Yoruba and igbo price different


Ola: Ha Change yi ko da rara, Ti Nigeria fe break ko break ni si. Buhari is making things costi ooo.


Conductor: Make una no complain na una vote am, me dey field dey play ball that day


Driver; This man fon spoil this country finish, money no dey



THEN THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ONE MUMU KASSIM IN THE BUS


Kassim; The man is Trying, do you know it was your brother ( referring to Eze) that spoil this country? Lets continue to pray for him


Conductor; ( To Kassim) E be like say you go come down from this bus, abi d suffer no dey touch you

you are good, man..I wish i could sign you up

FILEBE:
Okay Sir. since you want to hear my view. This guys spoke my mind immediately I read this post.

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That was why I was asking if they have sex regularly. How can you be comfortable sleeping with a girl you know has another serious guy she sleeps with? Seriously, the guy didn't try. People, guys I know who do this are not always serious with the relationship...they are just in for the sex. but for this guy to love the girl. It is something else.


It will be a different case if she was not sleeping with any of them. how will the guy feel after marriage and later seeing the other guy and he knows he has slept with her several times?


Ladies. It is best you stick to one guy and be wise about it. Seriously, don't be a fool for men.

it is very difficult for ladies to stick to one man...they are not always satisfy..no matter the, love one tries to show them, they will never be contented even when they see true love before them..they are easily decieve and majority of them are nymphomaniac...the saddest thing is that they lie and cheat and claim to be good...I hate emotion especially when its too much

FILEBE:
O.P were you guys having sex constantly?

why are u asking op that? pls I will like to hear d answer from you..I am so much interested in hearing ur view to d question

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

i must say she does not no what she wants...she goofs around with two men and this shows she is nymphomaniac ...like most people say follow your heart but if u eventually marry her, be ready for the consequences

hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!![/b]

my gf gives me limit o..she cum quick and if I don't cum quick, she will push me away because she is tired

I its very hard..even though you forgive her, that trust is broken..you can never trust her again...I have been battling with my thought for some months now about my girlfriend who cheated behind my back with different guys..I love her so much and i decided to move on but its not easy moving on because each time I remember what she did, I am emotionally down..I tried to forgive her so we can start all over again but I must say i have hurt myself more because d trust is not there anymore even though d feeling is still there big time....I am d one who feels more pain because d girl I want to start a life with again is not showing any sign of remorse for the things she did...for four days now, we are yet to talk to each other and she doesn't care but I am here depress and dejected...I hate being in love cost its just a distraction..I can't think straight..I am trying to let go of her but its really difficult for me...so op, it will be very hard for you to cope with her because d memory of what she did will keep on coming to your mind every seconds...its not good to be too emotional and that is what has been disturbing me and I believe it also distract others who are in love too with their girl...some girls are just too foolish..they play with their future...I wonder why most girls are not always satisfy

donestk:
Hehehe if your chic is serving far away from you..... My guy sorry is your middle name.

The obvious is always hidden. Men are jokers when it comes to cheating.

Been slaying female corpers who claim to be single only for their boyfriends to keep call them and you hear stuffs like..... Baby I'm missing you.

Smh

you are right..It happened during my service year...most girl who claim to be single and even those who claimed to have boyfriend cheated severally...i must say girls cheat more than guys...guys have conscience but girls don't have conscience when it comes to cheating

ojun50:
Don't break up jst turn her to side chick nd get some1 serious

except you don't love her you can turn her to side chick but if you love her, don't turn her to side chick because you might end up breaking your heart more..d best thing is to let her go and not turn her to side chick

Kimberlylouis:
if I am ugly he wuldnt b wit me m pretty sure dat m prettier dan alla'ya grlfrnds nd 95% of grls here!
ur stupid senseless bashes n beefs makes me laugh so hard and 2 d nice ones, God bless ya'all n keep being who u ar! u never kno wts coming

op, how can we advise you when you don't have manner?I must say you have a perfidious attitude and your statements are ludicrous and gory. if you can't withstand nairalanders comment, why post such a stupid post for us to comment..you are damn ugly and you look like dumpy pigs with maggot that stink round your body...the basic truth is that your boyfriend is a gay...and once a gay man sees his fellow gay, they recognise each other...

HateU2:
Apart from your broke ass and small dick, what are you bringing to the table too You guys wont stop typing BS here every day.

I guess you are delirious..are you sure you can be supportive?lol