₦airaland Forum

Amodu again, patiently anticipating the recall of Yakubu to Super Eagle.

Goodluck to the bad ridder.

I smell poverty and hatred for either Oyedepo or the Covenant Uni itself on the part of some people. Though I have never been to private school, but the way some people are stating their points here is uncalled for: where there is no law, there is no sin....

If you are in Rome, you are expected to act like Romans. I can see clearly that somebody has to travel to Freetown before he/she would realize that freedom is not even free in Freetown.

DailyNews:
my brother, the only thing missing in my life now (at least d one I am aware of) is fiancee/spouse/whatever it is called. All other things u mentioned have been settled by God and I am not even open to dating or courtship, just so pessimistic about ladies generally, only God can help me on that.

Meanwhile, thanks for ur awesome prayer, may God bless u too

My brother, I have sufferred so much in this paradigm of life just like you before, especially when you love a lady wholeheartedly but latter downgrade you. In fact, I don't date any lady for more than 4 years then because of the pains and injuries inflicted in me.

But all of a sudden, I realize that God has saved me from much unnoticed problems that could have surfaced after some years. If that relationship works, I would have imprisioned myself unnecessarily for life.

But one thing is sure - at the right time , U will make a great discovery: all you need is to involve God and not depend on your own logic. The irony of life is that such lady might be within your reach now and you might not notice her. In the same vein, do not hesitate to give your ex the second chance IF YOUR HEART IS PLEASED WITH HER because lady would bye pass you sometimes before they realize how valuable you are.

Don't be fret if U are not interested in any lady now, but always remember that every fantastic idea/project/organization begins at unnoticed level. In other words, the essence of love is not to find the perfect person, but to love and imperfect person as a perfect individual. So, when the right person comes, U will swing into action willy-nilly.

I crave for God's involvement in this aspect of your life this morning: U are settled and your marriage will be a heaven on earth.

Good morning.

HARDDON:
U know why? Cos her big deddies don't hv time for chit chats . they call her to meet em in so and so hotels . what time does she have to respond to ur lil whack talks when she is rumping and humping?
Go make them money dudes . let em be

But why can't you do me a favour by telling me how much your father had in his account before he started "laminating" your mother then?

datguyojay:
I dnt no y dey like forming..nd dey will b praying for God to provide husband for dem. Rubbish jor

Their problem is that they have formulated standards/requirements, which their fathers do not meet before he started to "laminate" their mothers: leave them, by the time they reach the prime of their 30s, come and see them the way they will be searching for husband like "guilder ultimate search".

Women are additional bonuses: it is so easy to get them when you are rich, famous, and gather momentum.

DailyNews:
I am happy for u o. Me, I mostly admire ladies I see when I'm on d move or in a strange place; any lady that becomes my friend, that ends my attraction/admiration for her. Same with those around me or where I am well known. Dnt knw y

But from your point here, until a lady portray qualities beyond her physical appearance, your mind will not be at peace with her, and I know you will not be able to tell her your deepest secrets.

This shows you are now more matured than yesteryears. All what you need to know is that there is no perfect lady in this world and you will still need to work on her even if you will marry your mother in one aspect or the other.

Therefore, U are in the same shoe with me. Work on your personality a little bit: discover your talent and upgrade it:form a moralistic standard for yourself which you will never go beyond: be ambitious in relationship with ladies but don't be desperae and I can tell you authoritatively that you will soon discover that hidden "gold".

In fact, they will be running after you like money: I pray to God to bless you with good work too.

DailyNews:
Your own better o, me I only see people I admire on d highway don't always fancy people around me or those in my church/vicinity cos I'm always suspicious of their intention

Don't mind me; I am a chronic introvert: I always analyse the first perception before taking action. That is why I am a slow decision-maker.

Kudos to my friend is has been trying to neutralize me nowadays sha.

Max24:
For your info, politicians will always have an excuse for non-performance. Is Rivers the only state with so called 50% reduction of grants as u say? How come other states equally hit delivered on their own projects. Its all about management of resources, focus and self interest. Amaechi simply allowed his parochial interest override the interest of his Rivers people. He need not have gone the way he went. All his oratory skills did not put food on the table for Riverians.

Is the rail project carried out by all states? Or is rail project the only project being executed by Amaechi? Nearly all Governors are complaining if you are so current. If Lagos with much internally generated revenue can be complaining, how much more of River State. Or why is Fashola collecting Lekki's toll gate to augment the state's indebtedness?

If Amaechi planned well after his resumption of office, U should have known that he would have considered the grant from FG before embarking on such capital-intensive project which less than 4 to 3 states have only embarked upon.

DailyNews:
if truly u are a guy, u can't deny the fact that what attracts u first to a lady is her physical beauty (face, eyes, lips, smile, legs, shape, and sometimes voice). You notice those things first b4 noticing her character. Though character and manner is what will make a man stick with a lady or run after being attracted to her via her looks.

So to say, all men notice a woman's looks first b4 any other quality, so ladies try and look naturally good not artificial with all those red lip paint n eye lashes n big wig/weavon that makes u look so disgusting 2 reasonable men but appealing to randy men!

For somebody like me, I can only propose to you after knowing you for a while: may be that is the reason why I don't date much ladies. I find it difficult to be running after ladies at the first sight. So, the inner qualities in ladies will attract me most. I proposed to the lady I am dating now long after we have gone in our own ways after we live close for a while. So, it all depends on someone's personality and it may be wrong for you to generalize.

SmartProf:
The sheer arrogance he displays while answering questions is beyond me...so uncultured, unbecomin and crude for a leader. If he cant complete an ongoing project shuldnt he be soundin appologetic? Rather he rants his statement like a wild emperor to his slaves....#Leaders are not Rulers

But he mentioned a point you have not addressed: with over 50% reduction of grants from FG, will you able to complete such project if you are in his shoe?

I don't know why APC and PDP e-warrior always fail to read between the lines before attacking each other.

All well said, but a woman with quality brain, ability to think deep, and good human relations skills, knowledge and competency will earn my attention for ever. In fact, they are primary things that can attract and sustain me in relaltionship.

Physical appearance is secondary for me. Afterall, it will soon fade or change.

Baba God! Wonderful twins like this is my portion when my time comes in Jesus name: I like them like "kilode"...

When Pa Akinkunmi can eat both flesh and bone, nobody remembers him. Now that he cannot even eat fish conviniently, they started giving him elephant bones and meat.

It is high time our leaders do the right thing at the right time.

Until U tell me what can make a woman to slap a guy three times non-stoping, I don't know what to say.

I have once inquired from a man too to ascertain the reason why he was wearing his wedding ring on the wrong finger.

"Because I married a wrong wife" he replied....

This life sha...............

aljharem: Falana and soyinka have sold their souls for a house in ikoyi

Moreover soyinka son is an SA in ogun state


You see how stu.pid they are ?

Is falana in ekiti to already be accusing fayose.

Partisan politics since money done enter pocket

Politics, ethinicism, religion and sentiments apart, I doubt it if you are a through democrat if you have not seen anything bad in beating up lawyers and sitting Judges in the court room.

This is highest point of lawnessness...

michylabo: Ask urself... If a company drivers kills somebody, who is held liable? Who pays damages? Who is sued? who e.t.c.....

Good! U are now getting it right. If Dangote Plc driver kills somebody, Dangote would not be prosecuted: instead, Dangote Plc would be prosecuted and there is no any sanction that can go beyond payment of damages. Google the "principle of separate personality" or Section 37/38 of Companies and Allied Matters Act for further clarification.

In the case of Synagogue, it is also a registered organization though not a company: it can be sued and sue. Therefore, TB Joshua cannot be prosecuted: Synagogue Church of Nations can only be sued. In the same vein, it may be too early to judge occurrence whose cause has not been verified. Though not a member of his church nor his followers, but let us remember that he is not a Developer, a Planner nor a Builder who is well versed in construction. Incompetent Developer, fake materials bought, soil type, and lackadaisical attitude of government officials might also constitute another cause.

God bless Nigeria!

BERNIMOORE: you liar! the man did not want to talk to press, but he tried to lie to us that the incident was minor and taken care of on his tweeter account

Hmmm.... but the press still confused many Nigerians by saying it was the church that collapsed despite his refusal nau.

Pressmen are part of Nigeria's problem walahi.

nijanigga: Abi oh! just as like he was paying journalists 50,000 naira and they refused rescue workers entry for 52 hours to rescue trapped victims.
Nigeria is just a hellish country,inhabited by bigots who are brainwashed by religions. With all the churches and mosques littered everywhere,Nigeria should be heaven on earth,but alas! it's inhabited by crooks,thugs,scams,MOG="men of gold" and looting politicians.
200 million mumus.

Though not a follower of this man, but you are wrong here if paying 50,000 to Journalist the only humanitarian service you have ever heard about this man?

HaFor your information, apart from his humanitarian services which I admire most about his church, I was surprised when my friend who is a driver of a banker told me that TB gave him #20,000 during a call to his church.

We cannot sentence the owner of a car simply because his driver kills a being: let through investigation be carried out as it may be too early to judge.

What gives you assurance that the negligence might not be on the part of state govt, contractor, or even the govening body of synagogue? I could remember a construction that colapsed at off Ajose Adeogun around VI at Lagos a year ago. The irony of this was that the building is situated within LG environs, and nobody hears any outcome up till date, likewise the one that claimed many lives at Abuja in a year or two years ago.

This is Nigeria and no accused is culprit until the court proves so prima facie.

God bless Nigeria.

nora544: Soory what is this for a trash writing, million of nigerians will have no job when a church will got close, I know you are a brainwashed member of this pastor.

Heyaahhh, but he is partly correct if not wholely.

chrisbaba1: Both of them should be held responsible. Tb joshua asked for it, he paid for it.... if you really care about people you would ensure their safety, just like a mother would not put her child in a weak cradle. .....

U mean if your driver kills somebody with your newly-purchased Jeep, U must be jailed too?

Even if you ask me this question at Cheveron's interview I will commoult, not to talk of relationship.

Na JAMB I dey do?

stano2: Well, the devised another method of not sendin it as a text message, it just appears on ur screen with Accept/reject option, and if u ar in a hurry to use ur phone while ur backlight is off and u use ur OK button twice without readin what's on ur screen....SORRY 4 YOU

U really nailed it! That was what have happened to some people even the literates: only God has saved me many times from falling victim. Now, literates are falling victim, how much more citizenry without the knowledge of the content who have falled victim?

There is Godu ooo

JonBee1: Your pastor simply borrow from your sister faith Islam or the greek philosopher.
It is never in the bible. But, it's like p.i.m.p my ride verse
The quote God helps those who help themselves is found in the Quran
Verily never will God change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (13:11)
heaven ne’er helps the men who will not act. (Sophocle, Greek philosopher)

Read James 2:14, James 2:17-18. However, I expect you to do your home assignment very well before commenting.

Have a nice week.

lokito: There are only two churches in the world, the Catholic Church and Others.




Na wao. So many quotes/mentions on me 2day. These Pentecostals ain't loyal

Instead of promoting the name of Christ, U are here boasting of superiority of your denomination over others. What a shame!

While I am not here to vindicate the action(s) of CAN President, but you have to remember that an activist is not a man who discovers that a well has been poluted, but one who purifies the poluted water.

A tree may have many branches, but the body must be one: this is what Christ signifies in christendom.

Regards.

I don't know whether it is only me, but I doubt it if this writer(Handysussy) is female as she claimed: I can perceive masculine tone in this write up.

flyca: OP, Personal Experience.

Sometime ago, I started "seeing" one of my sister's old time classmate, an Architect from a Federal University, graduated with a good result and have a Master's degree, and with two year experience too. These were the sketchy details I knew about him before we started dating. So yes!, he has potentials.

Ok. Two months into the r/ship, I noticed this guy was broke, broke with the necessities of basic leaving. I started becoming worried. I lived in a city two hours from his, but he couldn't afford t-fare (not time) once in a week or two to come and see me. Calls nko?, na me dey call most times. Ok o. I was still on it.

Once, I went to his office see him, by the time I set out by 5pm back to my city, I drank a bottle of coke. Even the taxi fare to the park, he didn't give me. Hmmmmm. No need to say, I was "down". Another day, I went back to his residence to visit him on a Sunday o, I nearly fainted at what I saw. His room in the family house even had a leaky roof

The one that broke the Carmel's back, was the day he asked me to transfer some call credit to his phone. At this time, I had completely lost grip!

So am I a gold-digger? Am I impatient? I'm I unrealistic or simply unreasonable? I leave the answers to you.

As much as having potentials is good, if its not translated into financial ability(lack of better adjectives), there is no need to bring out a lady from her father's house to starve her.

I understand your point here, but ladies have to bear it in their minds that men are finding it more difficult to earn a living nowadays. As a man, I have found a lady who have done that for me too especially as a fresh graduate without any job. The matter was so worse to the extent that I always go to sites then looking for blocks to carry upstairs in other to find money to apply for some jobs, but without any job coming forth.

In short, this ladies left all of a sudden, I was devastated and all my dreams with her died, but life goes on: it pains me to the extent that for over three years I avoid any other relationship and face my life squarely.

But all glory be to God Almighty who has changed my life for better. My work is Ok: my life becomes more meaningful, and my education is still in progress: but it alwlays pains me that she laboured but refused to reap what she has shown.

I met her by chance sometimes ago, and I offered her financial help willingly. She appreciated it but wept cos I made her to understand that a megre help like this was not my plan for her.

Ladies be more patient with guys please.

"My account has just been credited" - One word that is sweeter than "I love you to most Nigerian girls"......

Any business entity exists to satisfy the need(s) of somebody and that person is called - "customer". Or do you expect CEO, Board members, Managers etc to be paying their own salaries and even employee's own from heaven.

They are called kings because without them, no business entity will survive, and that organization will never be profitable: that is why they are always right.

Regards.

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"My account has been credited" is more fantastic sentence for ladies than " I love U"....

voltron: I keep wondering whether God is in alliance with this cataclysmic buffoon worse why he has sooo many gullible peeps under his control

Although not a follower of this man, but you don't need turn yourself to Chief Justice of Federation here as only God knows everybody deeper.If you have fact(s) to butress this, you can share it here and let's learn from it: judge not so that you shall not be judged...

Only God knows His real follower(s)....