₦airaland Forum

As in eh... Fan just dey blow me like say I dey for beach since morning and it's been like this since last year. Though my area is a special area. Weve always had constant light since 2007.

See my village leaf don go international.
Abia to the world.

The need for financial security in marriage can never be over emphasized. It's of top priority and many should strive to achieve that feat before setting down.

Marriage comes with a myriad of responsibilities. It's not childs play.

Better!

Ynix:
You aren't going to give him money. Look beyond the money, everything in business is not about money, at times it's about ego,at times it's about relationships.
A functional rule of engagement in long lasting business success is don't break the chain, keep the contact.

Ok. I've heard you.
Thank you.

Looks like he's going to work.

This is rubbish. Even if the hunger wants to kill him, Can't he at least wait till he gets to work? Not even snacks , Eba?? Not even rice, eba..

Not nice of him. Bad manners.

Ynix:
Invite him over for a meal or drink and tell him you have not forgotten him

Wait o, Shey na him give me the money? I don't understand o.

Tell them! It's not ordinary.

Of all the years they've been living peacefully as one family, why now?

Pikin no sick. nothing and he just died like that. When I talk some morons from dysfunctional homes who don't understand the importance of family ties and the consequences of breaking one will come and be saying trash under my comment and posts.

XAUBulls:
I have a vast knowledge of this field.
It seems you are in your late 30s so,
I'll generate my comments with that
in mind.

First off, NEVER bring a child into this world without letting that child know the biological father.

Male children worldwide especially want to know their paternal roots which they strongly use to define themselves and their future descendants. You will never regret
letting the child know this.

The issue is that getting the specific ethnicity sperm you want... can only be got in Europe and America.

Would you like to explore the coparenting option if you don't want to be married? Get a man who will be in your child's life and who doesn't want to get married and then raise your kid(s) together.

Regardless, IVF is very expensive and runs into millions of Naira and the failure rates are higher (the older the age of the woman and her depleting pool of eggs).

Wow.. thanks for this great info. I really appreciate.

How is the co parenting done?
Hope no physical contact will be involved for the conception..

IVF is in millions with slim chances? Wow! I never get that kind money to throw around o.

Thanks.

Brownshoe:
I wonder o, I doubt if grandpa said so, maybe a form of misinterpretation, Wetin the boy don achieve?

See me o.

Yeah you're right. Most girls with catholic backgrounds are very decent and good wife materials due to the doctrinal teachings and trainings they undergo from an early age.

In one of my posts, I talked about how as a catholic family, your children are enrolled for baptizmal classes at a very early age and from there they graduate to first Holy communion and confirmation classes. All these help to shape their lives as all they are taught throughout all the stages of the classes centers around the virgin Mary and her godly lifestyle, the holy Trinity, recitation of the Angelus, praying of the rosary, the holy conception and birth of our lord Jesus Christ and how to keep themselves pure like mother Mary. So they grow with this precepts and run with it making Mary their role model.
It was quite a peaceful experience.

Not to forget block Rosary. I remember attending block rosary too and that innocence about Mary could be seen in us the little saints then. The feeling that you're pure like virgin Mary is out of this world and so you work hard to keep maintain that level of purity till you marry and even after marriage.

Maybe that is why today, my ideologies and perception of life don't seem to go down well with many ladies here. Our lifestyles and upbringing are worlds apart, reason they always come for me any time I speak against some form of indecency or immoral lifestyle that has become a norm to them.

You can never go wrong raising a child in catholic. They have the best child training center.

Well, I can only say this about catholic of old. Don't know about now. Hopefully it is still what it was back then...

Let me see whether I can still recite the rosary

Hail holy queen
Mother of mercy
Help our life, our ( Shey na sweetness) our hope.
To you do we cry
Poor valley children of eve
To you do we send up our sigh
Mourning and weeping in this valley of tears
Turn them most gracious advocate
Your eyes of mercy towards... LoL ...

Haters Gon keep hating. 😂.

FairlyUSEDpussy:
This is Nigeria.......

U sud have appreciated him with a token.........not cus of today but u might still need his help some other time..........

Really?? I didn't know such monies are also used for sortings. Honestly I never knew.

Now when money don follow investment go like this, what shall we do? 👀

God1000:
Says the flibbertigibbet

Smart in what way? his antics abi


I've never seen such an egregious, obnoxious, mischievous and unscrupulous person

This is what the guy is talking about. He just said he's smarter, he never insulted you or any one and you carry insults full ground. You think it's by using big big vocabulary? Nah.. being polite with words doesn't require any formal education. It's common sense.

You need to have a rethink. Just because people don't believe in your ideology doesn't mean they are daft or give you the right to describe them as obnoxious.

Let people express themselves any how they want.

Danisaint112:
And you to you it's right to kick someone that brought you abroad out of his home. No that's wickedness/taking advantage of bad situation.

Madam wether you like it or not man and women will continue to marry till Jesus comes. Keep dreaming. 😁

Amen. That is our prayers but let the men receive some sense before they use their hand to do themselves.

AbdulMagaji:
I wouldn't even advice couples to go for IVF talk more of a single woman.

Science is good but there are areas it shouldn't teach.

LoL.. ok.
Thanks for your concern.

I don't understand. So for someone to last, they must not excel or have a smooth sail through life?
He's too young for this kind of philosophy na. At least, if he had achieved greater milestones and married before age 20, then I can listen but he has not even completed his secondary education. So where and how much has he excelled to make grandpa come up with this assertions? I no gree abeg.

I hope this is not a ploy to shift peoples attention from the dust many are already raising about this boys death.

Anyways, sorry about your loss, Sir Pete Edochie.

AbdulMagaji:
You forgot I asked you?

I don't remember answering any questions regarding my ethnicity 👀👀.. .

By the way, you haven't answered the question I seek in my op.

Nice one. He's business oriented..
Way to go!

AbdulMagaji:
Alright, but in case you change your mind, this is to let you know that I'm very serious and 3 of them have confided in me why they want to come home soon.

Igbomen prefer their own.

And who told you I'm Igbo?

Avoid this post if your IQ is too low to comprehend and respond sensibly.

AbdulMagaji:
You sincerely need one, if you are Igbo, I can link you up with some nice dudes in Europe.


Send a Pm

If I ever change my mind, I know where to get one. So thanks. I don't need any.

Is it right to sort somebody with loan money?

Sometimes last month, I saw a sharp business and wanted to invest but was short of the required capital to invest in it. So I called a client of mine in America and told her I needed a little loan to enable me fund a business and she said no problems. That I should write to the company and she'll authorize the approval.

I did and in the process, it passed through the table of one familiar guy in finance department. Wetin concern me. I just acted normal.
Some days down the line, he saw me and was like, has admin credited you, I said yes. I just thanked him and walked away.

Since then, I noticed he's been acting funny towards me but I just pretended I didn't notice.
Now, Ive been calling him to relate somethings about the company to him because he's the one in charge and he refused to pick my calls.

I don't understand the silent treatment. Like am I supposed to still sort somebody with loans I collected for a business?
Person dey use loan sort people again? Let me know if I'm wrong na? Cos Im sure it's because of that he's acting up. They are like that in that finance department.

AbdulMagaji:


Are you sure you are ready for this?
Better wait for your man to find you so that you can follow the natural course of life, even those that developed IVF still choose to mate for procreation.

IVF is a remedy for couples who could not procreate and not for singles.

Wait for which man? Didn't you read it in my op where I said I can no longer stand a man's touch? That their disease touch... Mtchewwww

Lemos14:
We know...you sef no marry if you dont want to

I hereby ban you from making any other comment

I ban you too from making any other comments.

Michelle55:
Hanty zukwanike!😏

This your fight against the male folks is becoming stale, no be today yarnsh dey for back.

You don't want men, we don hear. Allow those women wey still like dem despite their flaws and shortcomings to manage dem laidat, nobody holy pass.

Kindly drop this holier-than-thou attitude so you wouldn't age before your time!

With the way you're going about this men charade, you fit develop automatic hbp whenever a man's case is mentioned.

Just give it a rest, breath and relax!

Peace!!🙏

And the way you keep holding brief for them and repeating this " no body holy pass" baldadash is becoming dumb and repulsive.

If you too mind your business, you won't be all over my post searching for what is not lost and telling me to give it a rest.

Who are you to tell me when to speak and who to direct my speech to? Do I come nosing around your posts and comments here? You see now that you are the one who needs to shove your opinion down your throat and stick your nose back in it place cos you're obviously the one taking Panadol on another mans headache. You have no right to tell an adult like me what to do with my thoughts and feelings or how and to whom I express my dissatisfaction.

I won't be giving you the honor of replying any of your sick and lame backlashes.

Danisaint112:
Your whole article made sense except that line. Simply cancel that like because it's impossible. Women can hardly survive without men.

I won't cancel it. Women are already taking that decision and it's no longer news. Many who are in it are planning an escape route and the ones abroad are kicking their husbands into the streets; moving on as single mothers. So what are not saying?

Chai! I feel for May. Imagine the double loss pains and sorrow she'll be going through now...

AbdulMagaji:
what happens when the child requests to know his/her father?

I'll tell him or her why it's not necessary.

AbdulMagaji:
Marriage is not for everyone, don't discourage others from it please!

And who are those marriage is meant for?
Tell me, I'm listening.