₦airaland Forum

Senator Kanti Bello is a deranged, uneducated, uncultured old f.o.o.l. I watched the screening live on AIT and his questions were merely sentimental and baseless.

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tolutara:
Since I am married, I can only give my opinion based on that perspective:

I am certainly not tolerant to being cheated on and reactions will  most likely be as follows:

1. Stunned that the absolute man of dreams, flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone would do this , Disbelief

2. Upset that he will find another woman so disireable not only in his mind but to actually carry out the action of sleeping with them, Hurt

3. Wondering what was my contribution to his actions (i.e cheating) , Confused

4. The fact that he will disrespect me in this way, Anger

5. Get my self tested  for STDs, being realistic.

Once all of the above is over, I will have him take a break for a few days to both clear our heads (i.e not being in the same house) and it doesn't matter who leaves. I will have him meet me somewhere neutral for a discussion.  Would like to know what happened, what led to this behavior, what was he missing at home and without being accusatory , what did i do to contribute to it, How long has the affair been going on, was it a one night stand or a full blown affair. Depending on his answers, we will take it from there, But I do believe in working on my marriage unless he wants out.

Very reasonable, objective and matured way to handle the situation. Most of the ladies ranting on here should read this over and over again and make it stick to their brain. Upping and leaving the guy doesn't solve the problem. You only end up being tagged a promiscuous lady who enjoins jumping from one man to another. Just accept it, most men will always end up cheating on their spouse at some point in their relationship. But not all men who cheat on their spouse are bad people. Sometimes, its just a one night stand, heat of the moment, just a "THING" with men.

If you think you have a "MR PERFECT" who doesn't cheat on you, you had better have a rethink and investigate him properly. You will be surprised at what you will discover.

Nothing , Leaves thread unexcited

Like it or not, Mrs Akunyili has done a very good job for Nigeria. We need more people like her who are not scared to stand up for the truth and do what is right and not those thieving, hypocritical, losing bastards called Ministers, Senators and Legislators.

Hmmm!!! Reads post comments and walks away pondering why Mistakay wants to dismantle 5 cars, instead of shipping them in whole.