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In conformance to the tradition set by the woman who insisted that dogs eat crumbs from the master's table after Jesus tried to pull a fast one on her by throwing an anecdote of dogs and children at her ..i'll go on ![]() OLAADEGBU:U sure can play with the dog especially if you're a dog trainer you can also play with fire and not get burnt if you a weary and play safely Have you forgotten that the world is still suffering from Abraham's decision to go into his maid today?that's the point of view of us christians, ..I doubt if the Jews even think that way the other side (non-christians) don't percieve it that way either And guess what, the last time I heard about father Abraham, he was chilling in a cool place visible from hades after what he caused on earth, he was even giving a topographic lecture to the rich man -talk about reward ![]() can we then surmise by saying that those who try hard to keep to the letter do a lot of moaning, while those who don't bother seem to be having their cake and eating it ![]() |
OLAADEGBU:As long as the money was only an extra, and not the main thing the love was built on. yep she'll still love him Are you sure Jesus in Matthew 6:1-4 did not condemn it? :-Nope, he didn't. He only said "Beware". Just like saying "beware of dog". This is not condemning the dog or the person that might be bitten by the dog Remember the double minded man that James spoke about.Nope, he's not double minded. He's like Abraham the father of faith who believed God for a heir, but still had a son from his maid lest the story have been told that Abraham been try, then he doubted God at the last minute and ended up with no children at all ![]() ..it is said to be innocent as doves and shrewd as serpents ![]() |
MuttleyLaff:Using the English definition of HUMBLE just like you have (..make I no use original Hebrew translation and root because I no sabi am) suggests that the leader is perceived to accrue to himself less of the privileges/power/visibility than he would otherwise be able to have You are right You and I might not be under the influence of these leaders alright but perhaps, their followers call them humble because they are placed on very high pedestals by the followers to the extent that if the leader asks to slap them, they would oblige so here comes the leader instead of slapping the follower, requests only that his feet be washed ..."wow, the leader is so humble" they'd say So I guess humility has a lot to do with what is being measured against, and by whom |
[quote author=MuttleyLaff post=35846321][/quote]I agree with Vooks and yourself However, I ask where in the world do folks get some strange leadership-followership ideas from (which might end up being abused) I refuse (or fear) to believe that these leaders seat down to conjure up these practices hoping that their followers tow it I suspect its a natural flow from their value system (both the leaders and followers) Look at us arguing respectfully it is clear that our value system supports this, and any Christian leader that engages with us would have to come to the table with lots of brain power ... (though we also have some inert but suppressed vile values birthed by our cultures and traditions) However, it makes sense that an insultive Christian would only sync with a leader who is able to use brash coercive psychological force to keep him in check You can thus see a certain semblance of character between the follower and the followee. This I suspect is because they share similar underlying cultures (I am not talking about tradition oo) perhaps there is another angle to this maybe the leader has special gift that enables him stir and configure his followers values/culture/beliefs to be same as his. Whatever, the case, I seriously doubt that a man go siddon start to dey plan how him wan make a fool of him congregation That South Aftrican pastor that get his followers to eat grass should be a good case study for my line of argument ....all said, I largely agree with you guys. All of this is just me trying to turn the cube a little bit to see what else we can see *Additional comment..To buttress my thoughts around culture, you noticed how the OP laid out his argument for standing up for pastors. He came in from the point of view that we typically stand up for presidents, and then transferred that same honor to the pastors. That argument might not fly well with a British person who typically won't be bothered to stand for his prime minister. However, if the OP and his folks do a good job of transferring the adulation given to the queen unto the pastor, then indeed not only will they stand, they will also bow before the pastor. |
vooks:I did get your point (and I agree with you that leaders with an awe struck following can and do a number of times abuse such privilege. It is natural human flaw that is even replete in the Bible) However, for the sake of some extra intellectual argument -playing the "devils advocate" or should I say the "angels advocate" I am arguing that culture goes beyond that which is obvious in the community It is like an iceberg assemblage see https://equity.spps.org/uploads/iceberg_model_3.pdf A not too tidy example: if a church encourages the followers to wash the feet of their apostles you might find out that an underlying but seemingly unrelated saying in that community is "moni no dey shout say this man make me from toilet washing" Consequently, the follower doing the washing might be thinking "if I wash this pastor leg, God go give me money" The pastor himself whose feet is being washed might be driven by another philosophy embedded within the culture of his community. Now remember Peter was not pleased with unclean animals that he was given to eat in his dream, and it showed in the way it affected his ministry with the gentiles. I think Prophet Jeremiah it was who pleaded with God to change his mind about cooking with human poo, because it was unclean. All of this was as a manifestation of culture I am not holding brief for these guys, after all, the spirit of the prophet is subject to the control of the prophet I am just exploring an alternative reasoning apart from the normal "false prophet" label or the "you must obey God's prophets" mentality |
OLAADEGBU:I think we should first try to be nice. reward or no reward for example get up for that old lady to sit even if God no bless you I then think that the next step is to look out for the rewards for our niceness. Its like a girl marrying a guy because she loves him. But the extra is that the guy dey spend sha I think that if you have waited too long for God's reward for your niceness and u neva get am, then try mans own afterall, Jesus did not condemn it. I think that you can further jig it to have 50/50 potential reward distribution from God and man. Any one that comes first would be gratefully received. ![]() |
vooks:I would dig deeper than what is obvious in the community culture is often like an iceberg with a lot of its intricate underlining forces submerged in the subconscious -away from site Yes, cultural disposition is often abused and cases abound were such honor /loyalty to leadership has led to 'cultic' physical and material destruction when the leader turns from the right, and his sheep follow blindly However, looking at the history of Christianity you might notice that major thrusts have been achieved by a dangerous few who seem to bend the rules in an absurd but dogged way. It seems to strike the chord needed to galvanise a zealous following who would otherwise not have moved their behinds for the things of God. The gospel is warehoused by human vessels, so I guess Christianity has to live with the risk that what can be soooo gooood and powerful , can be abused and become sooooooo baaaaad and enslaving. Where do we draw the line? that's why I believe that sensible criticism must be tolerated |
vooks:My instinct would be to say that they are wrong, ....but wait a minute my instincts may be honed by my culture I guess all first 6 (and perhaps the 7th) have a lot to do with the Minister's and Congregation's cultural disposition for example I am not an expert in Italian culture, but I noticed that their movies depict that the dons stretch out their hands, and is kissed by those loyal to them I see the Roman Catholic Church Pope does the same thing I would assume that a minister and congregation from the Yoruba stock might not see anything wrong with laying prostrate before church authority. At first, I would feel repulsed if I am expected to do that....I don't have that culture ....but now for the 7th one uhmmmm Defining honor as agreeing with their EVERY word, doctrineI can't think of any modern culture that ascribes to this except perhaps dictatorial ones like Taliban and North Korea |
OLAADEGBU:YHWH has both characteristics of change and "unchangeability", so the answer is yes for both. Its just like the story of how definitions depends on what part of the elephant a man who happens to be blind touches. Consider this A mans wife screams at him for always peeing on the toilet seat and she says he needs to change he grunts back and says to her "I am a man with a dangling hose which sometimes misfires... . abeg.. You wan make I turn to woman? I can never change" Again, this same man some 5 yrs back had sworn that he will not marry until he clocks 40. He suddenly met a damsel who is not willing to wait for him. He repents of his oath and quickly marries her so that she doesn't run off with another fella. We can see that the man 'can change', and yet 'can not change' A question that can follow from such analysis is how can we be sure which part of God we are exposed to, and in what circumstance? Can we trust that he will not change when we need him to be the unchangeable one? |
A Third Alternative to PDP and APC by Ben Murray Bruce http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/a-third-alternative-to-pdp-and-apc/213992/ Months after the 2015 elections ended, Nigerian youths are still hung up on those elections. Nowhere is this more obvious than on social media which our youths have turned to a battle ground divided into pro People Democratic Party (PDP) and pro All Progressives Congress (APC) youths. So ingrained is this animosity that each group targets elected officials and party chieftains of the opposing parties and go after them just on the basis of their party affiliation. Things reached a comical stage when a youth attacked me for a tweet on Twitter and hours later was praising a popular youth for his tweet. Unbeknownst to him was the fact that the youth had merely tweeted my exact words but had not credited me with the quote! |
OLAADEGBU:Strategy wise ...yes humility or discretion wise -no It depends on which is the overriding factor at that point for example, if i pick up a man on the streets and help him to his feet economically ,....it makes no sense for me to announce it. What gain do I have for this even from men? however, if i want to encourage others to do the same, i definitely will use that experience as an example also, if like Rochas Okoracha, I want to run for presidency, I would be happy to draw peoples attention to my act of kindness so that they vote for me. I guess at the end of the day, the question would be if I would help that man if I have nothing temporal to gain from it if the answer is yes, then it doesn't really matter whether I do my good deed in secret (without gain) or in the open (for additional strategic gains) in essence, the overiding purpose was not that I have the glory of men, and probably neither that of God We could change the topic to trying to identify the blessings from both types of acts and then ask if God would go ahead and bless me after doing this act from the mindset i have espoused and I would probably answer that "your Father which sees in secret Himself shall reward you openly" he has seen your secret mindset and has rewarded you openly. Hence your ability, determination and capability to even lift that guy up economically in the first place |
nothing wrong with letting our good works be seen as it is written " let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven." if you take this literary, you see there is a distinction between the works and the light in order words, it can be interpreted as saying draw attention to your good works so that folks will see it and bless God But then what about the other verse that seems to suggest we hide our good works Well, there are a number of explanations I can give, but I'll give only this one. an excerpt from the verse shows this: "......that they may have glory of men." So we see that this is an admonition to those who are yet to emerge from self those who are yet to understand their oneness with God, those who are separate from God Remember what was said about Christ that he went about doing good. he sure wasn't trying too hard to hide it. |
Port Harcourt – Gov. Adams Oshiomhole of Edo on Friday advised public officers and politicians to get rid of their private jets as President Muhammadu Buhari had begun blocking financial leakages in the country’s economy........WOW!!!!! I can't believe this is this the kind of crazy mathematics that has been driving Oshiomole's arguments on Nigerian finances?? Jeeeez.....to think that this dull fella was actually arguing aggressively with Ngozi Okonji Iwealla ![]() what manner of dumb mathematics is this? |
The Chairman of CCB, Mr Sam Saba, expressed the concern in an interview with NAN in Abuja.....Extremely incompetent chairman jeez ...there are only 36 states in Nigeria how difficult is it to get at least some approximate statistics |
Uneasy Calm Pervades Kaduna Following Declaration Of N90 Billion Assets By The Governor ![]() calm down guys there is something called forecast asset declaration theory ![]() the theory states that when you get into government, declare assets worth what you forecast that you will live government with so that you are not probed |
anonimi:Men,.....Thanks for noticing this I was in shock when i saw the pictures, then i rapidly scrolled through the comments to see if anyone noticed what i was seeing i encountered one disastrous comment after the other and thank God I finally saw your comment,.. that you noticed something amiss With folks thinking like you around,... we still have some hope |
well done ladies. keep it upanyway sha..in another tori a number of Nigerian girls in the UK, with all the freedom and equality at their disposal ran back home to Nigeria when they had reached a certain age without hooking a man some of the complaints that I have heard include.. 1) the guys for UK no know the meaning of marriage. Na only how to date even into their 60's 2) the Nigerian guys in UK most times have done introduction for girls back home and have not told them 3) the guys in the UK no sabi toast like 9ja boys. They stay a distance and smile most times. 4) the guys in the UK no know say dey suppose spend money for girls. They are very happy for you to spend on them instead 5) The guys in the UK no dey go church 6) the female competition in the UK is much. Gals of all classes, races and sizes are available at the beck and call of guys. And the guys don't need to spend money which makes it even worse. 7) Gals on the plum side are not in high demand in the UK. In fact if not because of Beyoncé, men no for dey look them 8 ) In Nigeria, if gal wan date guy she might spend some time (weeks or months) doing shakara but still giving the guy green light. This is allowed and even appreciated by the males. For UK, no ways... the 2 exchange "I like you" , and the guy expects to sleep with the girl on the second or 3rd date max. anyway sha..... I think we generally threat our ladies unfairly in Nigeria. I've always felt this way |
OLAADEGBU:He was saying that when some members of a family believe in him, and some don't, it will cause division of loyalty between them. ...The gospel initially put a sword between brothers in Africa. The gospel is presently putting a sword between families in the north, when some turn to Christ. In order words, Christ is saying that he'll bring peace into the core of individuals, but this will turn people against the individual, and even that person against others. You can see this happening a lot in the religious section even between fellow christians So he goes further to say that peace is like salt. It is called peace because it is peaceful. You can't call a troublesome person peaceful even if he is full of the Holy Spirit. Therefore though the tendency of being a christian tends to put you on a war path with everything and everyone, you should try to stir up the part of you that whispers "shalom". Calm the storm around you with peace. |
plaetton:I hear the Southwest of Nigeria feel that the South East of Nigeria want to do this same thing to them in their own land ...umhhhhh |
Beckybeky:sales job is not the best job, especially when your basic salary is very small or none existent, and the bulk of your earnings is based on commission on the sales that you bring in. ....this is something a number of school leavers don't know>> You can come together with a group of friends and actually do sales jobs for yourselves instead of for an employer you guys can even hire others and pay them based on what they bring in its that simple |
vooks:You've said it all They are definitely not sins and definitely not commandments either I've always maintained this stand They are actually traditions which make sense in our present dispensation traditions are great for structure, purpose and discipline like you rightly said, and I believe that God does not frown at them if they do not distort his glory. However, I don't agree when people try to create some biblical doctrine out of tithing. The logic does not fly, especially when you realise that Abraham was recorded to have tithed only once from loots -for those that claim that it is a pass down from Abraham; And the Jews form of tithing is certainly not what we have in the church today -for those that say it is our inheritance in a spiritual Israel I believe that tithing in our dispensation is simply a prophetic desire of God in order for the kingdom to achieve some goals no need for folks trying to quote bible on top am as if say we be zombie wen no get sense Prophetic utterance don't really need a distrortion of logic. It is what it is In the start of the Apostolic ministry, the prophetic desire for Peter's 'headed' church was for them to sell their belongings and lay it down at the feet of the apostles for onward distribution. This had no precedence. While for Paul's ministry, they gave willingly to him, and he even went about working to earn money. I am also of the view that when the wind (Spirit) changes from tithing to something else then we should be girded ready to be blown in the new direction, not our MOG's and followers holding on desperately to tithing I don't tithe. I've tried to previously, but for me it brought condemnation (maybe because of the way I think) so I stopped. I understand the need for financing the Kingdom, and so make pledges which could be more or less than Tithes (I try to make it more based on realistic calculations). This edifies me more. If 2mrw I sense the wind (Spirit) blowing me in the tithing direction I will do so without recourse to convoluted doctrines The calling of Peter and Paul were different. One could eat unclean things, while the other could not David ate priests bread and lived, while Uzzah tried to help the ark of the covenant and died Zacariah questioned Gabriel about his good news and went dumb, wheres Mary did the same and Gabriel spread mat start to explain the process give am God deals with us differently according to his grace and purpose for us. ..may God continue to prosper those who prosper his Kingdom |
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What to expect in the future |
Desperation to survive |
Tinubu de' Machiavelli |
The power structure of the APC |
chiedu7: ![]() you sha, you opened a dead thread and started labeling those of us that do not share your view. In effect, you were not interested in sharing opinions in the first place me na anti-christ Joel na freemason you na chained mason i guess I'll exit your thread, and let the dead bury the dead ![]() |
ItsMeAboki:Ahhh sarcasm at PEJ,.... now i get it. ,,,honestly it s probably a cultural thing that I and many could not get this ... no vex much like the "dog and baboon soaked in blood" statement that we couldn't get too make i tease you small, for not being able to explain a point without resorting to insults ..you're one of the 2 million almajiris, right ![]() |
laudate:I read it. My emphasis is not on the point of the article but on some salient issues raised by Shaka while building his case, and the associated comments regarding the salient points I noticed. Its something like this A man takes his wife before the elders and wants permission to divorce her, his POINT is on the divorce and the return of his dowry However in building his case, he mentions that his wife Clara uses padded buttocks An elder who has been eyeing Clara's bum to take over in order to satisfy his ageing craving, might be more interested in that nondescript information about her padded buttocks You see my approach? |
chiedu7:wean yourself off KJV. it is poetic alright buy uses old English. plus its scholarship is quite dated. Old wine should not be used in new skin remember! "For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases Him " When i read this version, what i interpret it as, is same as what Victoria Osteen said and even what you yourself have said. the only difference between Victoria and you is that: 1) you take away the human element and make the pleasures of God a stand-alone for His benefit only.And then try to demean her 2) while she considers (emphasises) the nature of man in the equation and does not attempt to demean anyone in the process But this is what the verse interprets as "God makes you feel happy doing what makes him feel happy so in pleasing (or trying to pelase) yourself in Godly things you end up pleasing God and in trying to please God, you end up pleasing yourself' ....it is a win, win for both parties |
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