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OLAADEGBU:
Don't be a quidnunc.

uhmm
nice word
i'll try to remember it for use sometime

OLAADEGBU:
Can you please tell us what your conclusion is about the video clips?

I think i answered in an earlier post

Uummh! I like a good Christian intellectual discussion any day anytime, spiced with a little gossip too
So though I feel a little bit shy carrying someones matter on my head, but ehmmm, ehmm, he's a superstar
so yan him matter I must



For this clip . I don't agree with him in most of the things he's said.
Just like I tried to make you see in your other thread, that the bible talked only about men of God, doesn't mean that the bible has ceased to speak about 'women of God'. Just like the bible does not speak of planets Venus and Saturn either

The word of God is alive, and not stuck in the past.
Even the book of revelation makes no mention of the bible, instead it speaks about books and the book of life. Now, this can be construed to mean that this book lives and grows. It has our stories written in them.

Also,it is said that those who believed were given the power to become son's of God. Daughters were not mentioned here.
If we want to be literal, then it means that even the ladies are considered son's of God. So, likewise a man of God can very well be a woman in this dispensation.

The bible actually doesn't talk much about "man of God" as a title, especially a God given one. I stand to be corrected.


In my opinion, all he needs to do his to go spend a month with his wife and shag her good, and I'm confident that she will forgive him for at least 2 years...no need for all this grammar and spirito tinz

Yes, the kingdom is important, but like God told Elijah, I have got 7000 that have not bowed their knees to Baal. So no need to worry that the kingdom work will not continue.

vooks:
She sent me a copy on email.
Grab your copy here

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0BziUSEnlC72tWlJXNEI1eG9PT2c/view

make i no lie u.... I am enjoying the blog ooooo
chei! e be like the writer dey use style diss wan person, while talking the God talk

Kai!! women sha


check out this one
https://www.pastoranita.org/beta/index.php/home/to-love-yourself

make I continue abeg

....'can't resist some little tatafo mehnnnn

QuentinDay:
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Stop acting the doubting Thomas but believe the blog is hers
If you're still insisting on being convinced that the blog is hers, then provide an email address to send the for your eyes only evidences to

We -those names you mentioned - are all different you know
we are all saying different things
every man is carrying his cross here, agreeing in some things and disagreeing in others

I on my part have no issues with Anita's own blog -for now, i really don't care whether it's hers or a clone
Maybe if I am interested enough later on, I'll do some investigations on it
But to be honest, I really don't care much about its authenticity for now.

..Whatever she does, may God grant her good speed, and may He also grant you the speed to pursue and attain his plan for your life
AMEN

[quote author=QuentinDay post=37654112][/quote]Here are some points
- Being the wife or husband of a scientist doesn't make you one ...agreed
- One or two things Oyaks said in that video can be busted if in a 2 way communication. ...This is the danger of listening only to oneself, you soon become an island unto yourself

- Anita helped create all of this. Its like designing a nuclear bomb and complaining if its thrown in your backyard ..although I cant hear her complaining
- We all have our loyalists many of who would close their eyes to our faults. Oyaks has is in the many, and so does Anita ..she'll be strengthened by them and by God
- From revelations so far, the real accusation was not really adultery, but more of abandonment
- Oyaks was built with a p.enis, and An.ita with a va.gina. So in a case of 'abandonment' its only natural that there would be some sexual driven frustration and suspicions. ..maybe na swhy Oyaks encourage us to dey masturbate sef ...just joking

-As women get more 'modern' demanding more and men remain in the past, not wanting to give more, so will the tendencies for divorce increase. You only need to listen to Oyaks to realise that despite him being a fine rich boy ehmm em,, he is like the "ancient of days"

- I hate media sensationalism and discussions chaperoned by simple minded folks.
This kind of sensationalism puts me off the current pro APC publicity machinery.
It tends to wrap too much fiction around little truths in order to gain pecuniary and psychological advantages.
..I am a christian and so will definitely have some bias towards my faith (not the touch-not-my-prophet type). I don't feel comfortable dragging 'visible christians' into the mud based on road side stories which may have only 5% truths in them.

OLAADEGBU:
The Bible has a lot to say about the Trinity, rapture and Grandfathers yet those words are not exactly found in the authorised version of the Bible. I know you see political correctness as 'wisdom', cut the pretense and answer the question.

you're yet to ask a question

OLAADEGBU:
I believe you can do better than that. Was it not you that was praising a popular 'MOG' for his 'PC' work on his gay stance?

You missed the point
let me explain

If I ask a question
"what does the bible say about goats?" or I ask you "why are you a goat?"

Well, the bible has little to say about goats, and you would immediately take a defensive stance and call me a cow or something.

So once more, I suggest you look for some other neutral phrase to use in starting off your inquiry.
No worries, you can then throw in the "PC", "hypocrite" etc kind of stuff somewhere towards the middle of the thread
..just my suggestion

OLAADEGBU:
What does the Bible say about political correctness? Should a Christian be politically correct? Is not offending others to be our highest priority?

I've never seen my bible mention "political correctness" in the first place, neither did it mention the planet jupiter nor global warming
Does your bible have such a thing as this?

Kindly approach your question from a new vista and lets see if it would ignite folks with sound reasoning instead of those with zealous tendencies

Guys let go,...this is getting too dirty
let the young man criticize all he wants
and let those who are being criticized come to their own defense ..if they've got the time

there is no spiritual or psychological profit in attacking one another even if we consider it defense
...night

OLAADEGBU:
Why would I be surprised that you also agree that Anita is not the owner of the blog?

I was referring to the OP blog, not Anita's blog
I.e. you framed your post around a blog that was so obviously a patch of various stories designed for sensational effects in order to make money

You are strong in aptitude.
I would have preferred your created and published your own narrative instead of pushing forward the OP's blog as a point of reference (I am not talking about Anita's blog) .

kingsolex:
jona call your boys to order by advising them on how to return our oyel money ... kingsolex says sooo

Are Lagos and Abuja No MANS lands despite the fact that the cities were developed by the might of the entire nigeria, fueled by oyel economy?
Is your mother you wife despite the cultural fact that she is is considered the wife of your dads house?
Before you talk about how the oil is yours because groundnuts and cocoa were used for its exploration, since when did oil multinationals foreign investments become cocoa driven? Or, even if it was, does your N100 cab fare mean that the taxi automatically becomes yours forever?

dude, do unto others as you would have them do unto you and don't let long throat get the better of you
...(N.B I am not saying that if someone steals money it should not be returned and the person prosecuted. However ethnic Tinubu jingoists should not make mockery of all of this)

habaa Olaadegbu

this is too below he belt naw
hope you know that you have more intellectual authority than the blogger
you are able to put together something more coherent than the blogger managed to achieve
so, why stoop down to his or her level?



Quite a number of us have a grudge against Oyaks throw-out-your-vision-and-take-mine style of leadership
probably because we've seen loved ones sucked-in, parroting like robots, and cut off from us,
with nothing substantive to show for it (at least based on our measurement)

I guess Anita just woke up to the fact that God's love and and his blessings towards us is not precedent on pastors
I also feel her pain, that as a fine chick you marry someone that you have to struggle to differentiate between when to call him pastor vs when to call him darling... what happens in the passion of the bedroom ? .......narcissism
She's made her choice, and this should be respected


..Olaa we are all filled up with mistakes, its part of what makes life colourful
Chris will make mistakes, Anita will, Kumuyi will, I will, and so will you as you just did
All of this does not stop our fellowship with Christ, and that is why for more than 2OOO years (even starting from the apostles) we've had lots of churches pointing fingers at one another while thinking that they are they chosen ones

hahn:
I came across this video on one of TED talks clips and this guy's point of view about our famous "underdog" story as written in the bible is quite intriguing. BUT was David really the underdog?

PERFECT!!
Me thinks there is still some missing bits

When David asked to fight Goliath, Saul would have been extremely silly to entrust his entire army and probably kingdom in the hands of a little boy.
I suspect that David first had to explain to him that he was extremely skilled with the sling (which was equivalent to a gun)
His brothers would have confirmed to Saul
And Saul would have tested David by giving him some targets to hit which he did successfully

Saul offered David his armour for defence in case Goliath threw his Javeline at him

rangeblog:
Pastor Dee Franklin from St. Stephen Baptist Church in Houston posted this photo on her Facebook page of a woman that came to her church dressed like that. Was it okay for the pastor to post this tho?

For fun, let's do a little mental exercise to weigh the pastor's morality.......

if someone had come to her church completely naked -whether man or woman
would pastor have boldly posted the pictures of the person's dangling bits on facebook?

If "NO", then why?
if pastor can post this clothed bum picture on facebook without a sense that she is playing with sin,
but would feel sinful if she pastes a na.ked attempted-church-attendee's picture on facebook.
.....then we can infer that this clothed bum is not as bad as she thinks it is


In the words of Daniel:
"....TEKEL. Thou art weighed in the balances, and art found wanting."

OLAADEGBU:
The type of Christianity TD Jakes, Obama and yourself practise is the type that doesn't disturb your comfortable sinful lifestyle, it is not different from a social club.

If you say so
however, I now spend more time on the 'things of God' and feel more bonded to Him in this 'social club' than when I was a chairman in the 'christian assembly of critics'
and interestingly, God has not complained about this to me

You sound like the Pharisees who feel superior to others who they deem inferior and dirty.
Why do thy disciples transgress the tradition of the elders? for they wash not their hands when they eat bread(Matthew 15:2)

The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican(Luke 18:2).

actual with regards to homosexuality
i think you sound more like the pharisee quoted ..my opinion sha

anyways, it comes back to the same point.. let those of us sinful 'pharisees' that want to worship God in aircondition go join to those with like minds not minding others
while the 'saints' who prefer 'self infliction', go ahead to worship with their kind and throw jabs at us the 'pharisees'

..and let God be the one to separate wheat from chaff

issylarry:
......Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

If you intend to break up
its only fair that you let a member of the family know the reason why, since you're close to them

If you tell her mum, the mum will put pressure on you to forgive her, and you wont be able to resist (that is if you have made up your mind to quit the relationship)
The brother is the best person to confide in. He'll understand and perhaps, it would make him more lenient with his own girlfriends if something like this happens to him in future

But should you forgive her in the first place?....uhmmmmm I don't know
she obviously had some other fellow that she loved as equally as she loves you hence she continued with him to this stage
she is probably better off with him but felt some loyalty to you because of the bonds you developed with her family.

philips70:
Nairalanders!!! The level of understanding on this site is depleting by the day. If you all know the import of Falana's analysis even the OP will delete this thread. I will not explain it to you guys since deliberate dumbness have been your lot. I watched this discussion live and understood very clearly what Falana was driving at. Engage your brains, they are not for decoration!


Hope you guys will stop demonizing Abacha and Abdulsalami since he also said he fought corruption?

mehn I concur
a lot of these forumnites that commented are like what was written in the bible
"“‘Keep on hearing, but do not understand; keep on seeing, but do not perceive.’ Make the heart of this people dull, and their ears heavy, and blind their eyes; lest they see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and understand with their hearts, and turn and be healed.”"

iamrealdeji:
Bro,you have nothing to worry about cos you're not yoruba.,But to call or address someone who's older than you by at least 5 years,(some people 2 years )is the biggest insult in Yorubaland or among we yorubas. And you must talk to anyone who's older than you by addressing them as "E" which is plural form  instead of "O" which is the singular. You must address someone older by "Eyin" meaning plural form of you instead of "Iwo" which is singular form of you. He should have addressed him as Asiwaju. He'd even feel really humiliated if someone younger addresses him as "Iwo" instead of Eyin",how would he feel if a 30 something year old guy comes over and calls him Bukola?  He'd feel like the earth should just open up and swallow him. 
My Elder brother is just a year older than I am and I can never call him by his first name or address him by "o" or "iwo". Its very important in yorubaland,we don't take it lightly
If someone that's obviously younger addresses anyone by Iwo(Singular) or call you by your first name or greets you that way,you don't answer and some would call him back and insult that younger fellow for being disrespectful or even beat the hell out of the younger fellow. Don't get me wrong,that still exists very much in yorubaland even though this is 21st century. If It's someone you don't want to respect,maybe someone you don't like,you either address the person by speaking English or pidgin,and yet,you don't call the person by name,you may call the person Chairman. But the English you're speaking won't make the plural way of addressing the elders reflect

Thanks for sharing this information

tpiander:
the enemy would not cut food supplies (if they were slavers they would not have time to wait for surrender). Rather, they engaged in open warfare if they were able to enter the town's perimeter undefeated and then took slaves afterwards.

Most towns, in an attempt to prevent this kind of thing from happening, usually had lookouts to sound the alarm if an enemy was sighted. And a standing army as well (most males were trained to fight as well as farm). If an alarm was heard, the males returned to defend the town and face the enemy in battle.

As to whether this method was effective, not really sure since most of the populace still got enslaved or killed anyway. Huge toll.

All this is as far as I know.

Thanks.
It's quite helpful

@olaadegbu

....And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing before the throne, and books were opened; and another book was opened, which is the book of life ; and the dead were judged from the things which were written in the books, according to their deeds. 13And the sea gave up the dead which were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead which were in them; and they were judged, every one of them according to their deeds . 14Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire 15And if anyone's name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire

I have no opinion
but I'm curious to what all of this means

OLAADEGBU:
To be laconic, the church of God comprises of a called out people who have been washed by the blood of the lamb. It is a company of people who are in Christ and have become new creatures. It is not a gathering were sin is condoned or where sinners are made to feel comfortable, it is like an hospital where the sick become healed and the sinners become saved. It is not a place for political correctness. It is a place where the truth is to be said in love and the saints are nurtured into maturity till Christ be fully formed in them.

Now, this is where TD Jakes and I differ from you
and that is why you would find Jakes suggestion strange
we are thinking of different things although we used the same words
For us, a church of Christ is where people (no matter how in-sin or out-of-sin they ) come together to listen to the Word of God, and get refreshed
the emphasis is on Christ, but in an environment that is suitable for us

-I would find it difficult attending a church where everyone is tying their hair and have probably not washed for days even if miracles pour down like rain there.. it doesnt stop it from being a church of Christ

OPCNAIRALAND:

Egbon, we are not in UK.

you sure got the point
neither is Nigeria a yorubaland... thats what i was getting at
Nigeria is made up up many lands and culture, so we shouldnt always assume that the rest of Nigeria must act the way we do in our tribal enclaves

makzeze:
....

Dude although you simply used the title provided by a newspaper publication for this thread
but we really need to be careful about re-echoing certain things

Now I don't know if you're one of the down down Jonathan &PDP, up up APC & Tinubu crew or just a Neutral guy

but the framing of this news is so pedestrian and pandering to external national interests
a bloody diplomat from another country who is only after his personal and national interest possibly to the detriment of ours
should not be setting the agenda for how we engage with our natural resources
the journalist ( and I hope you do not share his or her sentiments) is acting naively for the sake of providing news

...its a case of selling birthrights for plates of porridges

OPCNAIRALAND:
Well, in your land it is in order to address older ones with disrespect. In Yorubaland such an act is frowned on.

I'm sure that not all part of Nigeria is Yorubaland
the reason is say this is because there are more yorubas in UK than any other Nigerian tribe
and guess what, I call all of them by their first names except those outside my circle of official engagement

i've never heard them retort that in yorubaland, its disrespectful

Hope u know say Bola and Olusola they roll together well well for UK

kandiikane:
Erm, not the same but....

.........We started approaching a bridge where there were police men, that's when I heard the car lock sound, my heart almost jumped out of my mouth. I was not sure why he locked his car right after seeing the police men, that scared me. After we passed them, I pretended that I was on the phone(mind you, it was dead). I started talking about how I will be there soon and also asking the driver where we were................

In Nigeria, when you see the cops, you lock your door
that's the way its done here

eme40rald:
Hello nairalanders

Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not.

yep you should
if you dont do this, you will feel hurt for a very, very long time to come
while himself and her continue their jolly

but when you report, your own hurt will lessen while they also help you carry some, after all, its no fault of yours
its your choice,...but I've seen this scenario happen a lot of times and the dire consequences when the woman in your place chooses to carry the hurt alone, how they jump from one ministry to another trying to heal their wounds and further being taken advantage of.

..just do it and then move on

naa..... Buhari needs not prove he is a saint
we don accept am like that

what he needs prove is that he has more to offer Nigeria's economic growth than just turning to school prefect and punishing those who are not his guys for corruption

lol

Oshio baba will soon leave governorship
he needs to be visible and vocal in order to attract the attention of PMB for a top federal job
His adrenaline is pumping at the moment and his new found toughness would help his testosterone level keep up with his obviously young and agile bride

...there is a saying that when you grow big teeth, you need to also grow large lips to cover them

uhmm

the guy is as trendy as our pastors
i hope he gets a jet soon

OLAADEGBU:
Do you call the church highlighted above a church of God? Check the link below to see how wrong T.D. Jakes theology is completely wrong.

https://www.nairaland.com/2504886/should-homosexuals-put-death

umhhh Olaadegbu
there are too many points here
I really don't know how to tackle them in one place
What is a church?
then, what is a church of God?
Probably, this is were our thinking might fork into different paths

My understanding is that we tend to differentiate between these 2.
A church is a group of people (christians) that come together in a location with the main aim of calling on the name of Jesus
they could be extremely 'saintly' or extremely dirty or a mix. Their beliefs can be extremely different

A "church of God" is when we try to insist or connote only the churches that are made up of 'saintly' folks and follow some doctrines which we believe are the right ones. The emphasis in such description is that the congregation must be 'holy' because God is 'holy' and hates 'sin'. The goal here is to denounce and regularly flog sin while seeking to be as holy as possible.


I would have said yes, it is a church of God, however, the challenge I have with using the term 'Church of God' in such arguments is because it would immediately raise up a mental block in someone who's idea of the association of God and holiness is different from mine

It's much like when men are discussing sex and then if for any reason the discussion shifts to their daughters or wife immediately the story ends or quarrel starts

Lasgidy1:
I am 30 years, a contract staff in a commercial bank with a low income of abt 60k, Although I have my HND, but as a result of the trending dichotomy between HND and Bsc holders, I have recently opted for a direct entry programme to enable me brace up with current workforce demands.
My girlfriend, on the other hand is a final year student in a reputable Nigerian university. I don't understand why it is at this point of my current desire to go for a degree that she would get pregnant . For the record, I love my girlfriend so much that I don't want to loose her. Dear nairalanders, I need your candid advise on whether to keep the baby or not. Matured advise pls
Cc: lalasticlala, seun, ishilove...

uhmmmm,
well, na so women be. If she wan carry belle, there is nothing you can do about it no matter the contraceptives you use except you called it quits with her

but now that you're going to be a daddy, my advice to you is that you go on your knees to her parents and yours with a well laid out plan that they should help support the baby while you quickly do your university degree. Tell them that you will pay them back later.

Congrats again