₦airaland Forum

mechanics:
It's a pity that those who are meant to be the agent of the anti-corruption war are the ones even partaking in corruption, it shows that President Buhari is really serious with the fight of the anti-corruption war.

IRREDEEMABLE ZOMBIE

Bodexman:
Stop being petty.

Even if we have our separate nations, and we still carry this mindset, a robust nation will still be a mirage. Being a Southerner, as those people helped you in any way?

Let's call a spade a spade. What is bad is bad, whether north or south.

How many northerner has been sacked? Hope you dont intend to tell me that they haven't been found guilty? INFERIORITY COMPLEX kill unaa there. RUBBISH

budusky05:
Abeg go trade ur profession somewhere else I dont want to buy. Olosho

The one wey all the females for your family never retire from? Silly

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story. Very useless article and writer. Imagine how pathetic you'd look reaching out to the girl to beg her to stop sleeping with your husband. I have too much pride and I'd rather pour acid on my husband's face after all I made the wedding vows with him.

Let him dare cheat on me first

I will burn him alive while he's asleep

I honestly pity the man that'd end up with me because I can kill if I ever get hurt

I've sliced off a man's prick before and I can do even worse than that

When you grow up, you ll realize that all what you just wrote isn't worth it at all.. Working away without a word might just be the best

EdiskyHarry:
This is what we are facing in Niger delta, but some fools will come here to vomit rubbish against a place that Is feeding their entire generation since nigeria was created . I pray that the leaders of Niger delta will have sense one day. We need only leaders like wike in Niger delta.

Thank you. And someone ll come here blaming Wine for his actions. ND region really needs more people like Wike

Exc2000:




the problem here is poverty, greed and stupidity

an Oil producing State shouldn't even have Fishermen as indegine... you cant see a Texas , Oklahoma or Alaska indegine/ land owning family in America or Alberta, Saskatchewan, province indigene/ residence in Canada or Abudhadi, Dubai and Sharjah Emaratis who is still a fisherman in 2020 while his state Oil is being sold for billions of dollars daily on internation crude oil markets..

Oil producing states in the world are known to house refineries , chemical producing industries, plastic and pvc factories, fertilizer plants and gas powered power plant, with plenty white collar jobs for indegenes

lets say Oil is found in my very own Ibadan, nobody.. I repeat no fucking body would have the balls to come into Oyo state to come and explore our Oil.. we go don harvest their heads use them for sacrifice... buying barren land without Oil sef, Omo Onile would extort you till there satisfied before you can start any foundation not to talk of Oil Rig

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Thanks for being truthful

budusky05:
Useless governor everything na politics for him. Na u chose ur fight against fg now ur the same person crying .

Not everyone is a weakling like you

michlins:
shey you hailed Wike of exercising his powers. Wait for Buhari to do just same. You don't go and hide your face now that it's raining

Abeg shift

cashreport:
Jubilation loading in rivers state


People happy to hear wike will be out

State of emergency sweet pass honey to us

We are on ground waiting for the announcement

Federal government go ahead

Wike must go

Evil man

Souless man

Investors have left rivers state

Business have closed down

Jobs lost

Wike must go

YOU GO WAIT TIRE...


LOL

Madam, your husband will DEFINITELY regret his actions. But I ll advise you STOPPED SPENDING for the family.. Save your money before you hear story and your family will be put to shame.

Just try as much as possible to safe your money and make him start paying the bills in the house.. Atleast yours can be a fall back should there be any issue (God forbid sha)

star4ever:
Hmmmm. We did exactly these things when he was discharged in 2017 from a govt. rehab center after so much money was spent in the process. We changed his environment completely, got him an apartment and a nice job. You know what? He called us six days into starting the job and said he was quitting and he left the job and travelled and never came back. I am only bitter because, he went back to our family house to stay with my mum. He troubles her for money every day and molests whenever she refuses to give.

HE IS A SPOILT CHILD.. I m dead sure he was given all he asked for whenever and how ever he wanted when he was growing up.. TALK TRUE he wasn't cautioned when he did wrong growing up.Excess free hand started all this.

She should remember to steam her face with lime or lemon juice. Lime.or lemon juice disinfectants her facial skin from bacteria that cause or enhance the growth of pimple. While the steam dissolves the fat ...

Other facial treatment can follow. I m.a living witness

Osidazz19:
Did Femi ever told you that there will be one today?

If he did, pls show us the prove.

COMPOUND FOOOOL

Sixfeetbelle:
If I admit that I'm insane, will it help you comprehend what I wrote?

You dont need to.. Every sane person knows there's something missing somewhere in your reasoning.. Okay?

Sixfeetbelle:
Let me type this slowly so you won't miss anything.

MY COMMENTS IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. NEXT TIME, LOOK AT IT AND SLIDE PAST, OR BETTER STILL, DON'T LOOK AT IT LIKE THE REST OF THE SENSIBLE PEOPLE ON THIS PLATFORM DID.

I hate being loud sometimes

What is even sensible in your comment that would require sensible people to read? Those tagging you are only concerned that you are ABNORMAL just like the OP's gf.okay?

Sixfeetbelle:
Whether publicly or privately, if your mother errs, you chastise her. Simple.

Are you insane? Or you don craze before? God forbid bad thing for your side..

zedegit:
Even if she forces herself to apologize, what's the need?
I understand I personally have anger issues but not to the extent of flaring up before my supposed in-laws nah. I chop craze ni?

Thank you for this. That lady is just arrogant.. Which kind anger go give her such guts? She don size dem fiñish for the house. And for her mind she be their trophy

Kobicove:
From where I'm standing you're the one who looks and acts very stupid.

The PDP is starting to sound like a broken record talking just for the sake of talking.

When you issue a time bound ultimatum then you should also specify the punishment or repercussions for noncompliance otherwise STFU!

Again dont you think you sound STUPID?

I PITY FOR YOU AND YOUR LIFE.. 'SORRY' IS YOUR FIRST AND 'KPELE" LAST NAME, SORRY KPELE

rummmy:
WHERE IS THE DEAD GRILL MEAT SELLER?

He has been RELEGATED by his party.. Lol

Kobicove:
Those guys are a bunch of jokers...I'm interested in what action they would take after 48 hours

But don't you sound STUPID?

sylve11:
This is deep..

What is deep about that? Does that even make sense to you ? Sighs

Ybaby:
You want the truth?

Any woman will act like OP wife... the husband may just never find out but she will seek masculine energy somewhere else
Usually from her boss at work.

RUBBISH NONSENSE.. You are obviously telling us here what you would do if I such situation

wirinet:
It seems you are ignorant that Cosmas Maduka was an "infidel" before he married Charity. Cosmas married charity at the age of 19 years when he had nothing, and they build their fortune together. Their company CosCharis (COSmas and CHARIty) is a testament that his wife was critical to his success.

Abeg tell her ooh. Also remind her tat his wife became a graduate at a tie she he wasnt even close to it..

djon78:
His wife was way above him in class. She was from an influential family in Nnewi, I know her family very well.
They never belonged to same class.
Cos was serious nwa ogbenye. Poor of the poor. Wretched.

So her people never wanted him. In fact he was chased away when he went to ask for her hand in marriage.
The woman accepted him despite all this. That's why they are very close.
He doesn't play with her.

They started from nothing.
Your ideology is a very dark and evil one.
I wonder the igbo man that will marry such a woman like you.
Our women don't behave like this.
We train them properly. Maybe na audio igbo man that is marrying you, in your dreams.
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I don't even look at a woman's money
A woman can't even feed me
When my dad in his seventies can still doll out better cash to his children talk less of taking excellent care of his wife. Na me no go spoil my woman?
Even my sisters are married to men taking excellent care of them, but they have there own money too and sometimes support there family.

They were going on summer vacation with children. My sister told her husband to fashy that she will buy there flight ticket for every member of the family.
Her oga was shocked and surprised.

Woman I have been reading your comments and you are dark, evil, a gold digger extraordinary.
In fact all you claimed here are audio to me. And you got no class by the kind of reply you have been giving here.

Abeg thanks my brother for responding to that FULL TIME GOLD DIGGER. Real audio money.. Lol..

dayleke:
First of all, let me say I'm sorry for having quoted you in the first place. It was this one I saw first that I quoted to debunk what you said but after reading subsequent quotes, I can only say SORRY.

With this kind of warped mentality and interpretation that you are giving that verse in the bible, I can only say WOW!!!!.

"Eating out of my wife's sweat"?
"An infidel" if I can not provide for the family?
This is the 21st century for crying out loud.
A wife/husband that you both said "in sickness, in health till death do you part"?
So pulling resources together as a family is now an abomination?
Like I said before, what works for you may not work for someone else but do not put the other person down or say their way is wrong.
You live in an environment in which you wanna have a better life for you and your family and you find out pulling all resources together by both of you can make you accomplish that, you call that eating out of the wife's sweat?
Just check this out.
Wife works dayshift, husband works night shift.
Husband gets the kids ready for school in the morning while wife gets ready for work.
Husband takes the kids to school and is home when they come back. Assist the kids with homework and cook for the family before wife comes back from work.(Since he is home, why will d wife who's been working all day will come and start cooking again?). Kids attend public schools cos you pay taxes and they are good schools too.
Husband goes to work for his own shift.
Household chores are shared as need arises.
All bills are paid from a common purse. Everyone is happy. So which one be INFIDEL there now?
If wife's medical insurance plan is better than the hubby's, all family members are put on the insurance including the "infidel".
My sister, if you find yourself in an environment whereby you have to do the right thing to survive and enjoy your life to the fullest, you have to do it.
God bless you and say you wanna do it by yourself and not be an "infidel", na "dead infidel" you go be sef.
In marriage, love and understanding is not enough, good financial planning is needed too.

I wonder what you will say to a man who has been shouldering everything for his family for years and suddenly have a debilitating illness like a stroke or something and can not do so anymore. Should the wife not work and take over the running of the family affairs?
Or she should just go and find another man to take care of her?

Like I said in my first quote, "God bless your family" but please do not use your own yardstick for other marriages out there and please also stop quoting that verse.

Shalom.

It's her background.. POVERTY STRICKEN MENTALITY...

dayleke:
Beautiful.
God bless your family.
One thing though, just because it works for you does not make it a yardstick.
I saw where you kept saying a man should not eat from a woman's sweat......and even supporting it biblically.
Is it not the same bible that says both of them come together together to become one.
If you find yourself in a situation whereby the way the traditional roles were supposed to be played out do work, adaptation is needed.
Marriage is a partnership, there is no my money or your money as long as trust is there and there is transparency.
In some environments where both the couple have to combine incomes to raise the family, it can not work especially in the western world. All hands are needed on deck. There is no traditional role for any gender. Understanding is needed.
Any of the parent can cook, assist the kids with homework, attend PTA meetings etc.
What works for couple A May not necessarily work for couple B.
Thank you.

It speaks volume of her background..

djon78:
I am telling you real life issues I have witnessed and you are here making noise.

Empathy is the key here. When a woman have your kind of mindset. It makes men become more business minded in there union. I am talking from experience.

I have always adviced guys to hustle up and not just have one streams of income, but several, that has been my philosophy . But on the flip side a mean less empathy wife is a no no. It turns marriage into more of business which may not augur well with the woman. That's how some men place there siblings over there spouse concerning there money.

Hers is already a MONEY VENTURE.. nd thats exactly what she wanted it to be.. Find her background then you ll know why..

Prymestrr:
Go back to my comment. Thank you.

Abeg leave her to 'jonze' herself here.lol

Ybaby:
Spiritually when a man is eatting from the sweat of his wife - things hardly get better for him.

I like the word you used "forced"

If she was still feeding you - you will not have this new job because you needed force to dust your books and I pray you continue to dust more books more knowledge so no one has to ever force you again.

Buy your wife a gift for forcing and demanding you step up and realise your potential.

She really tried for you. Many other women would be meek and feeding you and you will never dust those books and realise this new potential and well done to you for stepping up albiet it was after torture.

Go to a corner in your room and vow to your maker that you will never eat of a woman/wife sweat again.

PLS STOP THIS NONSENSE. I KNOW FRIEMDS THAT HELD ON TO THE FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES TILL THEIR HUSBANDS GOT HIS BREAKTHROUGH.. SO WHAT ABOUT THAT.?

OBVIOUSLY YOU MARRIED FOR MONEY

Preferito:
Please can you stop quoting the Bible upside down. What it means is that any man who does not provide. It did not say a man who is providing but it's not enough. Being a man does not mean to be a slave to a woman. Would you rather prefer your hubby to go into crime in order to provide for you?

No.mind am.. Interpreting rubbish

Obingene:
God is not an author of confusion, not every one that calls his name is of him or his kingdom.

Blessed are the peace makers.

My mum is the standard for a good wife and she is still enjoying her marriage, my Dad can take a bullet for her.

Men, marry a good woman regardless of whether you are rich or poor.

Marry a woman who truly has the love of God in her.

We can now see what it looks like when women marry money and not men they love.. I appreciate you for your ideology..