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JuanDeDios:
I do know effective remedies. How old is he?

phemmyfour:
That's a high level of stupidity and irresponsibility

sageb:
Wow !
Mavo?

vickydevoka:
Abeg wic one be first born daughter. Me way be 6th born the give me first born daughter money even 4th born and 7th (last born) , the dash am money. If I no get I no get simple. You choose to shoulder all those responsibilities. . Mikel obi, osime n psquare are all last born or second to the last.

emmaodet:
At the end, they will say what did/have you done for them?
For me, I just do what I can for now and don't stress myself on family again.
If I die today, they will always find a way to survive.
My immediate junior brother just came back from UAE this February after working for 5 years there with No dime on him and what did I get back? Ooohhh, how can you send me to a rubbish country like UAE to work and surfer when there are better countries like Canada, US, UK etc
This is a man that was given a work visa and a job right from Nigeria before stepping his foot out of the country with a starting salary of 1,500 diharms with extra side money to make.
My uncle that we sent there a year later has finished building his house here despite been a married man compared to him.
He was busy drinking, taking hard drugs up and down there and turned to a kolomenta.
Took the idiot to psychiatric hospital last week because he was just misbehaving up and down here and told the doctor it was because he lost his mum that made him start taking hard drugs that is about to render him useless.
Wetin consign mama death to smoking? Before the person die sef, one naira you no send to her, after she died, one naira you no send come home for burial. Na me do everything so who suppose dey smoke, who dey smoke kwanu

sageb:
Which LGA in Delta, do you hail from ?

spiceadole:
I can totally relate..You have to take it easy,my sister.
As a first child,first and only daughter.. the responsibility no be here.

People used to envy me because I earned well but I was suffering.
Would send money home for virtually everything..The worst of it..my jobless brothers would complain it was not enough and my mom would take sides with them.
All of us ..graduates..trained with family funds and some scholarships but it was me who was expected to bear family responsibilities.

I was at some point,almost resorting to loan apps,in order to satisfy them.

I started having palpitations and insomnia.
Whenever my phone rang and it's a call from home,my heart would skip a beat .
I know what I will hear is " Send money for this and that".

I was with some colleagues one day,my brother called to say I should send money for tissue paper and also to refill gas...
That mom was cooking and gas finished.

I was angry and flared up..
After,I sent them a token,The last born called and requested I send money for DSTV subscription..
I told him I didn't have.
There was no insult this boy didn't reign on me..he even went as far as sending me SMS to insult,calling me barren and ugly...afterall,I wasn't married(as at then),so what was I doing with ALL my money?


I received sense...stopped bankrolling them.
Saved up my money,got married soon after and relocated overseas.

Since then,I only send money to mom, occasionally.
The rest are sorting themselves out.

phemmyfour:
Happened to someone:
Acting like a mother to your siblings especially when mum is no longer alive. Unfortunately those sacrifices were not appreciated by her siblings

texannaija:
Make we see if you fellow “first born daughters” go share with us ooo!!!.. We dey wait!.

RoadMozart:
You should throw it to first sons too. We're humans too na

Freedom2023:
The Mods on this forum are so terrible. They don't investigate matters before judgement. They just ban u even if it was the other party that was culpable. It seems if you are able to first report even if u are at fault, they will end up banning the other person

Samantha124:
Most of the time I just ignore the trolls.

Sometimes the best revenge is silence...

IkeIgboNiile:
No Nigerian girl will talk here, that's why i like that southy babe,i can't remember her moniker but she's never afraid of sharing experiences.

I'm not a woman and this was not a sleepover but the weirdest was when i hooked up with a girl at her family house on a friday. Everyone was at work when i visited but suddenly they started coming beginning with her dad. I had to hide in her bathroom for hours before she came and sneaked me out.

Odewaleadesoye:
Happy birthday dear. Could you please send me a PM?

Lhimeet:
Happy Birthday 🎉

natureisgood:
Small world indeed

Happy Birthday, More Sweet Years of Grace

stormborn28:
Happy birthday

nymphomaniac:
happy birthday

Obanai:
I don't know, but am not the only one comparing. My family do. And some people around me do

Afokesco:
I live in warri let's hook up

Obanai:
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