CatANDratTHEORY: Happened to me in my teen years. Sometime in 2006, I followed my cousins to their church and there I saw this damsel, I tried rather vainly to woo her.
I kept following her up but it wasn't easy, I used everything at my disposal to woo her but to no avail. I even got a resounding slap on one of those occasions. Even when I was made a functionary in my school in 2009, she wouldn't still give in to my demands despite the fact that most girls were dying.
I had to let her be and moved on, I even forgot that she existed . Some years later (2011), my phone rang one early morning only for me to pick up and lo and behold she was the one. I couldn't even recognise her voice again cos it's been really long I heard from her.
She explained whom she was and believe me, I was genuinely happy to hear from her. She was like "you just forgot about me, you just stopped talking to me..." I was like " I couldn't keep trying to woo you forever"
She explained that my cousins told her that I got an admission so she collected my number and called to congratulate me. I thanked her for her gesture... We are still good friends now, in fact, apart from my fiancee she's got to be the best female friend I have. She has matured a lot to be very calm, kind, attentive, and compassionate.
YOU DEY LEAVE UR GOD GIVEN WIFE NOW DEY FLOW ANOTHER MAN WIFE TO BE AS FIANCÉE...
D WAY U DESCRIBE THAT UR FRIEND,NA UR WIFE BE THAT.
RalphJnr: I have face this fears for years with Jesus I never indulge in fraud for fast money like most youths does and now I am stuck in 18k job for survival and bills The only thing in my mind now is going to meet him and ask why I deserve this s**t
sorry bro,when you kill yourself you will not see his face but d devil will be waiting to put a Chain on ur waist to drag you to hell.. You are even lucky you have a job paying you 18k A lot of people and myself don't have a job,we are self employed. Turn back and look,there are.many people praying to be in ur position,don't give up,if you can't swim in the sea just say afloat. Death is not d solution but d beginning of eternal pains and torment.
LordReed: In a thread that speaks to being decent to all you are gonna bring this then when someone replies you in kind you'll say they are full of hate. You perpetrate the hate with stuff like this.
Anonymous03: I'm a 21 year old virgin , a final year student in Babcock University and I created this new account to ensure anonymity. People say I'm good looking but I don't see such when I look into the mirror. Girls love to associate with me ( Note; I don't spend) but none is ready to get down with me. Girls flirt with me a lot but they would never have sex with me. Some of the girls willingly sleep with guys that are less cute and not rich,yet they deny me sex but still cling on me even when I try to caught them off.
Most of these girls are act naughty with boys but they suddenly become saint and holy when it gets to my turn.
I almost begged for sex at one point and I don't want to patronize sex workers. Where am I getting it wrong? How can I sexually attract girls? Do I need to dress like a pop star?
I solicit for your advice.
Just 21 years ...rubbish. Am more than 31 years and am still a virgin,and am not ready to break it yet till am married. Thank God I have Jesus in my life. without Jesus in your life,ur village people go dey use ur brain drink palm wine. You better face your life....someone like you, let me taste na dey kill dem...now weh God dey protect you ...u nor wan wise.
If Russia drags Israel to this war, Russia go suffer oooo. Anything weh make Israel join d fight,america must join...be cos america and Israel be like 5and 6(be cos america dey fear Israel,so dem make dem their friend.)
kellyjoesteve: Please house a friend of mine wants to learn something new but he's confuse on the one to chose Phone repairing Painting Carpenter Electrician Or welding. Which do you guys think is best and can easily be start when he finish?
PAINTING..... Electrician.... phone repairs which was ex handwork,money dey ooo but the wahala,the stress,the high blood pressure outweigh the money.
for example dem go just bring phone say bros this phone speaker no good ....u go open phone to change speaker..Later phone nor go on,d customer go say do am back as u take meet am...wahala don start.. my boss weh dey teach me as he know work reach yet dem dey com fight am,use police and soldiers fine am. na I run.. so in all I still say. painting is the best.
Freedom2022: Hello people. Please i beg someone here who is sincere and have the fear of God and want progress for his fellow human being to recommend a place where i can receive deliverance. The last 8 years of my life has been HORRIBLE. MONEY CANNOT STAY IN MY HAND FOR 48 HOURS and it is gone. I will not exaggerate, i have lost over 30 million naira over the past 10 years and i have been in DEBT for over 8 years consistently. I have NEVER been happy for straight 1 week for the past 10 years. Once money gets to my hand, it vanishes within 48 hours. I don't want to mention what it goes into because people are actually making millions from it so as not to discourage people. IT IS JUST ABOUT ME. Now let me say something.
Whenever I have money with me, a mysterious cough starts and once the money is gone, the cough goes. It has been like this for the past 8 years. I cant explain it.
Right now, it has gotten to the worst and no matter how much is with me, it goes within hours. For example, if someone send me money right now, a mysterious cough will start in less than 30 minutes that the money gets to me and immediately i will not know what i am doing again (for real). Then i deposit all the money immediately into my Forex account, then this cough will get intense, i will cough and cough without stopping and before i know what is happening, the money is gone. Then that is when i realize and come back to my senses. I am been real and this is a true life situation.
Please guys dont joke with this because my life ruined right now. I can't boast of anything in my life right now. I have NOTHING. and the worst part of this is that i owe all loan apps money. I owe about 20 apps money as of today and all loans due and they have rubbished me already which as been going on for the past 8 years too.
I have tried to find out what could be wrong with me and i believe there is an unfamiliar force in my life. I can't explain somethings here but i need a powerful/powerful men/man of God to lead me through because i am ready to embark on a journey to redeem my lost glory. I have tried several time on my own but i think i am facing a lot of resistance and i give up almost immediately. Some people call it "agbana" but this type is so strong in my life and needed to be broken else i will be finished completely because right now, i am at the last days of destruction.
To shock you guys, i have someone in my family that experienced this thing too but in a different dimension and recently another person (i dont want to give too much information).
I have come to realize or believe that its is either a generational curse (ogun idile) or something i dont understand. See guys, something is happening spiritually in my life that is manifesting physically and this has to be broken IMMEDIATELY. Some people here may think otherwise which i agree with for a long time until i begin to see a pattern and i can tell it is not ordinary.
Right now, i have run away from home and i have promised myself never to return until this chain is broken.
I will be reading advices and recommendations here and i pray God guide me to pick the best because i know someone will recommend something that will change the narrative.
PLEASE GUYS, THIS IS A LIFE ISSUE AND I HAVE GONE TROUGH A LOT ALREADY. PLEASE DON'T ADD TO MY PAINS AND SORROWS. IF YOU CAN'T HELP ME PLEASE I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD TO JUST READ.
UPDATE
I think i need to add this. On 3 occasions, i got a very juicy high paying job with big companies in Nigeria. One is one of the top 5 big companies in Nigeria and have spread across some African countries while another is one of the top 5 companies in the world (It is a big company). But guess what? My offers on the 3 different occasions were withdrawn few days to resumption without any explanation. Is it a coincidence?
FREEDOM, Your freedom is in delta state,ur case needs a genuine man of God to handle,not those prosperity pastors o h ones using marine power's. The man of God that can help well is prophet Amos of Jesus Christ temple ministry warri. if you want to go there message me or give me a call....he is the only man of God in Nigeria I follow 100% Because heaven knows him and he is feared by hell.
Note: as am typing now,d devil is angry with me that am showing you your way to freedom. here is my digits. 0.8.1.2.2.7.2.0.9.9.3 due to the fact that i feel ur pain thats why i gave you my number. again your freedom is in delta state,warri. I wait to hear from you.
Mummytoo: U don't know what is happening, where I live currently, girls don't wear bra, and they don't wear jeans trouser anymore, its a bum shot and crop top and tinted hair
Very annoying
You are very correct. All through December last year I was in delta state,that bum short and tight leggings and tinted hair is their way. even their married women dey drag am with the young girls. so sad.