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Politics / Re: Senate To CBN, Ministers: Your Policies Are Failing by Excellentmind: 1:32pm On Feb 10
Governor of CBN doesn't know what to do, but only applying hearsay to be seen doing something to justify his appointment. Until he is thrown out, he will continue to devalue Naira.
Family / Re: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by Excellentmind: 1:24pm On Feb 09
MisterBanny:
I always kept wondering about this. I have seen many homes break as a result of marrying a woman who despises her In-laws, and treats them with levity and disdain, yet claims to love her husband genuinely.
A once happy family could be in total disarray immediately some women get into that family.
Personally, I think if u love your husband, such love should be extended to every member of his nuclear and extended family members and same goes to the Man. I believe that genuine LOVE is infectious and contagious. I have seen a lot happening In today's marriages that I'm already scared of getting married. People can pretend throughout the dating and courting period, but immediately after the wedding, the beast and monster in them begin to Manifest. It's scary.

Almost all married woman are guilty of this. But the men almost do not have any issue with Loving their wive's families.
It even gets to the ugly point that, the wife makes a decree that no menmber of the man's family must ever visit them to stay for more than a day or two.

Women don't actually understand what love means. Although, they use the word most often, it is all deceptive move to grasp as much as possible.
one who doesn't understand love can not be expected to love!

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Politics / Re: Electoral Amendment Bill Passes Second Reading In The House Of Reps (Proposal) by Excellentmind: 12:48pm On Feb 09
socialmediaman:
No 3 still doesn’t state that the electronic transmission must happen at the polling unit.

Without that caveat, a presiding officer can still conduct the election and decide that he doesn’t want to transmit the result at the polling unit, he can do it at his office as long as he does it electronically

In addition to the above, where the result electronically transmitted (result in Irev) is at variance with the physically collated result, the former supersedes the latter.

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Food / Re: Tomato Paste Is Not Good For Stew. Finding by Excellentmind: 12:24pm On Dec 28, 2023
fineboynl:
I have been wondering why does my stew don't turn out well no matter how I tried the reason is that I use too much tomato paste due to due to tomoto cost during buhari administration.

This Xmas I just decide to use full tomotos and eliminates impurities like tomato paste. And the stew turns out great 👍. So it was clear the tomato paste products have been the curprit all those while.

The problem now is that how would one cook a pot full of stew with pure tomatoes on a normal day? now that a painter of tomatoes is above 5k.

Both are required to prepare a delicious stew. Raw must be higher in quantity than the paste. The raw has to dry up before the paste can come in. Better still, get a woman who knows how to use them and learn from her.
Romance / Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Excellentmind: 1:28pm On Nov 02, 2023
Coleman7:
Let your words be few. Stop talking much with her.
Grow your spirit man be alive. Do whatever you feel is good to her, be nice to her.
Proceed and open the boutique for her, but don't let your mouth be open for long, always act more and say less. Don't treat her bad, even when she does so. If the heat is so much, you can leave the house and stay off for days without her knowing your movement.

Let your words be few but treat her nice.

I do not advise you to take these steps in a bid to address your marital issues as she will conclude that you are weak and afraid of her. At this assumption, she will step up the madness and drive you crazier. Remember nothing kills man easier other than pains of regrets. Sit up and face her squarely, word to greater word, action to greater action etc. If her action warrants beating, beat her up. Let her know that your life is not dependent on the marriage, and that you can afford to move on in life without her. if you keep acting like all is well because you do not want your neighbour to laugh at you, then prepare to die young.
Properties / Re: Nigerians Are Very Wicked by Excellentmind: 1:41pm On Oct 16, 2023
Severe your relationship with that your friend because he might be behind the attack.
Religion / Re: The Abuse Of Speaking In Tongues In The Christian Fold by Excellentmind: 6:39pm On Sep 10, 2023
ebubeson:
We have several verses of the scriptures on speaking in tongues 1 Corinthians 14:2 is one on them.

Today, we have problem in various churches concerning speaking in tongues, and the issue of speaking in tongues have been abused by so many people.

What are the abuses of speaking in tongues.

(1) Speaking in tongues after committing sin. Someone may just come from prostitution, do adultery or fornication, and then may go into blasting in tongues when he or she goes to church.

(2) Speaking in tongues during repentance prayer. It is wrong to speak in tongues during prayer for repentance. If your pastor leads a prayer of repentance to the congregation, it is not right to speak in tongues, but to point out clearly the sins you may have committed, telling God to forgive you. This idea I got from someone.

(3) Telling the whole congregation to always pray in tongues. It is good. But there are times to pray in the Spirit and there are times to pray with understanding. If you tell the whole congregation to always pray in tongues, there may be pollutions if many members of the congregation are speaking in tongues with strange or familiar spirits. It is not everyone that speaks in tongues through the Holyspirit.

(4) Praying in tongues "recklessly" during quiet time or morning prayers. When you wake up early in the morning, you don't just blast in tongues for long without sober reflection, deep prayer of openness with God, intense study of the word of God, examination of one's self and attitude etc. This idea I got from someone.


Dabbling into a terrain where you grossly lack knowledge is the most foolish thing to do.

1Cor 2:14 - But the natural man recieveth not the things of the spirit of God, for they are foolishness unto him, neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

Rm 8:6 - For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.

You must repent now before it is too late!
Religion / Re: Religion Has Finished My Mother.. by Excellentmind: 11:25am On Jul 13, 2023
[quote author=SultanOfPuna post=124383683]Religion has turned my mother into a shadow of herself.
Ever since our teenage years my mother was not the churchy type. We are raised Catholics
Back then she was active and bubbling.

all of a sudden my mother left Catholic faith and started messing around with different churches.
This has cause countless rift between us, my dad and elder sister have done everything possible but my mum is too brainwashed by these Pentecostal pastors.

How can someone be attending Christ embassy and winners chapel?? I Heard she wants to join mountain of fire but changed her mind.
Everytime church, church, church
Yet she never gain anything from it
I have been sending her money for her for upkeep since November last year only to come back home February this year and discovered she donates everything to different churches


I feel she might have a mental disorder and I don't know how to save her.
She literally spends all the money in church donation tithe and all those craps. And those pastors always calling her to come for one program or the other. I don't know what to do[

Just stop sending her money based on this flimsy excuse and watch your pocket dry.
Family / Re: Why The Rate Of Divorce Is High & Why Families Break Up by Excellentmind: 12:40pm On Jun 13, 2023
The challenges of marriage these days are numerous, and therefore, no list can be said to be exhaustive. But below are few of them:

1. When both go into marriage with conflicting purposes. One wants a successful marriage and prepares to make any form of sacrifices while the other who wants to make gain will stubbornly refuse responsibility and choose to make no sacrifices.
2. Insincerity of both or one of the parties. Playing games with the affairs of the marriage not considering the consequences of such gimmicks.
3. Many don't understand the primary purpose of marriage and so end up coping and applying what they see others do.
4. Most women want to take decision over the affairs of their marriages, but unwilling to back up these decisions financially even though the capacity exits.
5. Most want their presence to be felt and often times take unreasonable decision. Knowing that these decisions are unreasonable, they are prepared to destroy anything to see their implementations.
6. Third party advice from dumb individuals who do not know better.
7. Competition between the parties out of envy because the purpose of marriage is unknown to them.
I can go on and on, but for the sake of time!
Family / Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Excellentmind: 3:47pm On Jun 02, 2023
OChimex:


Forget, some men especially in Africa are so prideful and controlling. And it’s annoying how they treat women. They treat their wives as slaves.
These are dumb African men who can’t move their society or country forward. And have refused to build a modern society like the rest of the world, yet they have stupid egos.
Believe me honestly, when you treat women/wives/ mothers/sister respectfully, and love them so much, the submission and respect will come naturally and the loyalty and love will be massive. (When a woman loves, she loves for real) and you will be surprise how much success you will have in your home and life and business.

I don't believe that women are treated like slaves by men. Men have always taken risks to satisfy women in the name of love and yet many get nothing in return for it. Love must be reciprocal else it will fail. Responsibility to make a successful marriage lies in the hands of the parties. When one person bears the burden of making the marriage work, it will get to a point where the person won't be able to carry it anymore, and that will mark the begging of the end of the marriage.
Family / Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Excellentmind: 3:26pm On Jun 02, 2023
Fineman2:
My name is Dora.


I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.



The marriage is not consummated, yet, you have told your parents; marriage is for matured minds, until you realize it, success will be a huge task.
Family / Re: Lagos Court Grants Wives Equal Rights Over Husbands’ Properties by Excellentmind: 3:30pm On May 30, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
This is a revolutionary judgement . It no longer matters any more whose name is on the original property titles. The properties of the man is jointly owned by him and his wife even if it's paid for by the man.

There is nothing revolutionary about this case; it is an attempt to create illusionary sense of right to ownership of property not owned, and this is not known to the law. The judgement will not stand and those already jubilating over it are deceiving themselves.

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Career / Re: My Secretary's Resignation Without Notice Is Crumbling My Company by Excellentmind: 4:04pm On May 10, 2023
concho:
When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar

Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .

Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .

I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .

We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .

On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .

On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago

I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .

She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .

I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .

This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one

If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .

How do I start nailing her please ??

What is the size of this company that cannot afford an accountant? Why should the secretary be entrusted with the recording of financial records?
In any case, get her arrested and you will recover everything in her possession.

However, for sound financial recordings, the company need Account Software. Let me know if you are interested.
Politics / Re: Egypt Ordered Nigerian Students Back To Sudan Over ‘Unruly Conduct’ by Excellentmind: 2:57pm On May 05, 2023
yarimo:
I pity your parents not you

Speaking like one of those raised under the bridge will do you more harm
Family / Re: I Have Access To Half Of His Property - Nigerian Woman Brags After Court Wedding by Excellentmind: 9:09pm On Mar 22, 2023
jaybenugo:
A Nigerian lady, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu took to Facebook on Tuesday March 21, 2023, to share her excitement after her court wedding in Abuja, IGBERETV reports.

She shared photos from her court wedding with the caption;

https://www.facebook.com/1361988501/posts/pfbid08LGyWpSX7MYvfjc4ZgLFAiGakSx5JP82MWojp9JeExPKXHFQ93msJjYY6do9anM1l/?app=fbl

Gold diggers every Where! Who will tell this ignoramus that there is something called WILL? Who will tell her that her husband has the right to will nothing to her? Ezi?
Family / Re: What Are Those Things You Can Never Forgive A Husband For by Excellentmind: 3:27pm On Mar 14, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
I didn’t say it’s right to hit a man but maybe mistakenly. I only said a wise man wouldn’t hit bad, rather he’ll pick the silent treatment option

You hit a man and then choose a response for him! That is only possible in another planet.

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Religion / Re: Shiloh 2022: Covenant Highways (Live Thread) by Excellentmind: 10:50am On Dec 06, 2022
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate this shiloh nonsense with passion. I'd rather listen to Gurumaraji than that arrogant man in Otta. sad

Until you purge yourself of this deep bitterness, you cannot grow in faith.

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Politics / Re: Labour Party Chieftain Stabbed By Thugs For Pasting Posters In Osun (Photo) by Excellentmind: 9:31am On Dec 05, 2022
jaybenugo:
IGBERETV report

Labour Party Chieftain Stabbed By Thugs For Pasting Posters In Osun (Photo)



https://www.instagram.com/p/ClwYB37tI1G/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link


This is a political season where principles of democracy are expressed in different dimension, therefore, everyone must be free to showcase his/her political beliefs in a same level playing field. That attack is unacceptable and condemned in strongest term.
Politics / Re: Osita Okechukwu: Tinubu Will Win By 60 Per Cent In 2023 by Excellentmind: 1:54pm On Jul 04, 2022
This man is still lost in the dream. However, the results of 2023 election is going send heart attacks to some you unless you.

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Politics / Re: APC Presidential Primary: Tinubu Lands In Cross Rivers, To Meet Delegates by Excellentmind: 3:53pm On Jun 01, 2022
AnonPoet:
#AsiwajuInCrossRivers


The real party man and one that can win next presidential election for APC has taken his nationwide consultations to Cross Rivers State ahead of the parth primary next week Monday.

Only Asiwaju Bola Tinubu ticks all the boxes in President Muhammadu Buhari's address to APC Governors yesterday.

The 'City Boy' has a plan to transform Nigeria

#BAT2023 #Tinubu2023

Afterthought landing, running from pillar to post won't help him. He doesn't possess the character to be a president, in fact he is a criminal. His supporters should get ready for a resounding shock of their lives.

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Politics / Re: Umahi: Igbo People Are Responsible For Killings In South-East, Not Fulani by Excellentmind: 12:04pm On May 23, 2022
Umahi is criminal and he is behind what is going in the South-East. Since he forcefully assumed leadership of the South-East, there has been killings. His secrets will be exposed when he leaves office in 2023. Shame on him because his acts of sabotage will not earn him APC presidential ticket.
Politics / Re: Ebonyi People Hold 1-Million-Man Protest March In Solidarity With Governor Umahi by Excellentmind: 1:06pm On Mar 11, 2022
Arranged 1m match in government house, tueh! He must go!
Politics / Re: Signing Of Electoral Act Amendment Bill Postponed Till Friday by Excellentmind: 1:59pm On Feb 23, 2022
FreeStuffsNG:
Iyena nice. Delay in this case still falls with the time permitted by law for assent to laws already passed by the NA.
No sacrifice is too much for a free, fair and credible election.


Meanwhile, once again I appeal to fellow patriotic Nigerians to please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu .

Asiwaju Tinubu is a brilliant visionary leader who has a compassionate and large heart that doesn't discriminate against anyone.

Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights. He is an experienced public administrator and a Patriot to the core.

Please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu.
Thank you.
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Anyone campaigning for Tinubu is actually looking forward to see the total collapse of Nigeria. He has lost all sense of moral to lead in any human association, not to talk of leading a polarized nation like Nigeria, due to his legacy of selling public assets to himself. As it is today, he can't make any meaningful suggestions to a national issue, not even a public statement without coming up with clarification later.
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu Promises Free WAEC Fees For Every Nigerian Child If Elected by Excellentmind: 11:08am On Jan 19, 2022
Tunibu's promises are in the hell fire and those who want to grasp them must visit there.

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Crime / Re: Soldiers Dislodge IPOB/ESN Stronghold At Lilu Forest In Anambra State (Photos) by Excellentmind: 9:08am On Jan 19, 2022
When are these troops going to display the same gallantry in Zamfara State, Sokoto State, Kaduna State, Borno State and the list continues? It was reported that terrorists arrested in Zamfara were released without Charge. What a country!
Politics / Re: 2023: Tinubu, A Good Leader Without Tribal Sentiments - Sen. Kashim Shettima by Excellentmind: 7:41pm On Jan 17, 2022
linearity:


You are correct, but are only looking at one of the two factors a Presidential candidate in Nigeria must meet in order to be declared the President-Elect.

As you indicated, one must win the majority vote, but that individual must also win at least 25% votes from at least 24 states of the federation.

Agreed, the East are not strong enough to stop him, but it is not because of their meager vote margin compare to the North, rather it is because of their individual greeds and lack of cohesive unity.

Otherwise, all the South-South need is 13 states from the region to bound together and they will be at equity with the North and will be able to demand their equal share of the National Presidency. They don’t need Lagos or those other states.

There are enough States there to achieve this, but for the greed of their political leaders.

All these failed and futile political analysis will definitely lead to further regrets which have been the dividend of APC government since 2015.
Choosing to ignore how the 1m votes were gathered in violation of Electoral Act, just to colour your opinion and make it acceptable is a self deceit.
When making such mockery of polical analysis, use INEC register.
Politics / Re: 2023: Tinubu, A Good Leader Without Tribal Sentiments - Sen. Kashim Shettima by Excellentmind: 6:58pm On Jan 17, 2022
uzohrome:
I don't know what you guys expect , tinubu is the best politician african can produce.

He is the next president unless APC will be foolish enough to give ticket to osibanjo.

He is unstoppable.

Winning election entails good political wills and which will later act on peoples decision makings.


The next president of Nigeria. Mr Tinubu

In your warped political mind, I guess.
Politics / Re: 2023: Tinubu, A Good Leader Without Tribal Sentiments - Sen. Kashim Shettima by Excellentmind: 6:50pm On Jan 17, 2022
One of the governors who left legacy of Boko Haram in his 8 years as governor of Borno State is speaking thrash as expected. Somebody must let him know that he is not speaking to Almagiris that shout his praises when spewing rubbish in the name of speech.
Speaking in favour of the criminal, so as to create a niche for himself should the greedy and desperate power monger Tinubu be foisted on us, is a joke and will forever remain so. The time is up and no criminal will find his way to Aso Rock, never again!
Politics / Re: IPOB Order: Food, Cattle Dealers Mull Fresh Blockade In South-east by Excellentmind: 7:26pm On Jan 06, 2022
HacheNoire:


Smh!

Who told you all this lies?

Which lies? Don't want to believe you are one of the people peddling this falsehood, suggesting that the North feed the South.
Politics / Re: IPOB Order: Food, Cattle Dealers Mull Fresh Blockade In South-east by Excellentmind: 7:16pm On Jan 06, 2022
Islie:
The Amalgamated Union of Foodstuff & Cattle Dealers of Nigeria Wednesday expressed its readiness to stop the transportation of livestock and foodstuffs to the...




https://dailytrust.com/ipob-order-food-cattle-dealers-mull-fresh-blockade-in-south-east

This constant ranting is becoming a huge joke; I don't know the research work whose findings is being brandished every day by this uninformed group, in the name of supplying food to South. Let this be made known to them, that the South doesn't depend on their food to survive, not to talk of Southeast. The South doesn't need their food, and dare them to stop, to see whether there will be food crisis.

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Phones / Re: I Bought Four Iphone 13 In Two Weeks, I Can Pay Your Bills – Nigerian Lady Says by Excellentmind: 1:23pm On Dec 15, 2021
HushNews:
A young Nigerian woman who is fast becoming a viral sensation has slammed people criticising her for chasing clout, saying they need to respect her.

The lady known as Precious Ubani had earlier shared a video of herself on a motorbike commonly known as Okada and she claimed that it was her first time using such mode of transportation.

In a separate video, she visited the popular Wuse market in Abuja and expressed shock that Nigerians buy second hand clothes (Okrika).

Precious’ videos went viral and she received a lot of criticisms from netizens saying that she is living a fake life.


Reacting, she slammed her critics and showed off an iPhone which she claimed is the 4th iPhone 13 has bought within two weeks.

She then told those sending her hateful messages that she can comfortably pay their bills.

watch video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4FliIN-i1I

Imagine this foolish girl, living in someone's house and claiming to be wealthy, idiot!

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Family / Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Excellentmind: 10:20am On Nov 19, 2021
distinguish:
We have been married for a year now. We have been trying to conceive. Because of the emotional stress attached my wife said she can't be staying at home alone, it causes her stress. She said she wants to start doing something. At least a business.

I took a loan from my place of work and we started the business for over 2 months now. The issue now is that, I don't always have cash on me anymore. Any little money I got it's for the business. Basically, we mostly feed from the business.

Yesterday, after we returned home, she started giving me attitude, I asked her what the issue was, she started telling me how I am killing the business, not taking good care of her, not having money to take care of her and all sort of rubbish, she brought out how incompetent I am as a husband and what have you. I never said a word to reply her and its eating me up seriously, I could not sleep the whole night. This is the person that I sacrificed a lot for. I was supposed a take a professional course this November, but because of her I had to postpone it.

Please I need your advice.



PS: I did not eat the food she prepared last night.


When one party is making a huge sacrifice for the survival of the marriage and the other party fails to recognize and appreciate it out of a deep sense of entitlement, is always the begging of crisis in marriage.

OP, you need to know that pains of ingratitude and betrayal in marriage kill faster than cancer. A lot of men have developed high blood pressure and other related sickness because of pains of betrayal. Don't be emotional about your marital issues, and take everything off your mind and remain focused. Find a way to improve yourself and take care of yourself at all times. Don't reject food because it is yours. The kind of person you marry will determine the kind of sacrifice you will make, therefore, not all sacrifice is worth making. You will certainly pay back the loan alone, even though appreciation has already gone down the drain.

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