₦airaland Forum

adaperry25:
Yes I know it's good to get a partner who aligns with same faith but aside that one has to look at personality of whom you're marrying.

She's Catholic and I'm not and she's a good lady. The condition she gave was that she can't leave her faith.

I've searched and she's the only one that ticked all the boxes aside the faith issue.

I got no choice

The price for what you are about to enter is huge. It will only work for you if you are a church goer and not really a christian i.e who do not intend to know more about God. They often refuse to change so as to remain in their sinful life of lying, manipulations, gossiping etc, and finally become spiritually useless to the family. The sacrifice of becoming born again in future is what they are not prepared to bear.

Jennyclay:
You that have started talking before Christ was born, don’t you know police collect bribe?

Keep supporting evil till it get your turn

I blame the wife for trusting the police with this case. She should have just prepared soup then the wicked husband can go collect Eba in hellfire quietly

I feel so irritated by this news

An agent of darkness, who sees lie as wisdom and manipulation as a way of escape; yours will come faster than expected.

EvergreenDiarie:
A Believer Should Never Marry an Unbeliever — Actress Eucharia Anunobi Warns Christians



Nollywood veteran and evangelist, Eucharia Anunobi, has shared a strong message to Christians, warning against marrying unbelievers. In her words, “A believer should have nothing to do with an unbeliever.”

In this thought-provoking video, she emphasizes the dangers of being “unequally yoked” in marriage and relationships, backing her point with biblical references. Eucharia speaks directly to Christians who may be considering marriage outside the faith, urging them to stay aligned with God’s word.

👉 Do you agree with her take, or do you think love should transcend religion? Let us know in the comments below!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkWo8vEcG-E?si=mJNzU1dE6KvN3qyb

This is a a genuine advice for those who want to prevent crises in their marriage in future. Take this for granted and pay dearly for it.

cococandy:
Save that nonsense for the women who refuse to set themselves up for success.

Marriage is not competition. It is meant for unity and not to hide under it to make wealth. It is not entrepreneurial engagement which many have mistaken it to be. See Eph 5:21-31

[quote author=cococandy post=136652997]Save that nonsense for the women who refuse to set themselves up for success. [/q

Marriage is not competition. It is meant for unity and not to hide under it to make wealth. It is not entrepreneurial engagement which many have mistaken it to be. See Eph 5:21-31

cococandy:
Using your youth and beauty to share community penis and getting nothing out of it. 😕

Men always remember and reward women who are loyal and useful to them. It is a risk being disloyal to your husband.

olushowunm:
Open Letter To Mr. Peter Obi: Nigerians Deserve More Than Talking Points

This failed from the begging government has nothing to brandish as achievement no matter how hard one tries. This is because hearsay policies are counterproductive, particularly when the arrowhead adopting and implementing them is bereft of knowledge and an expression of ignorance in economic matters. Now the suffering of the people the government is meant to protect using fiscal and monetary policies has been exacerbated due to lack of basic economic knowledge. Today, Tinubu has done his best and his best has brought woes other than good, therefore, he must go or be chased out in 2027.

Slytiger:
https://guardian.ng/news/fact-check-claim-that-peter-obi-left-no-debt-in-anambra-is-false/

But PO never said Anambara was not owning, that he did not leave debt behind for his successor. In a simple explanation, he did not incur debts for the State, that is what he said. All smear campaign writers should prove that he incurred debts for the State throughout his term in office. In today's Nigeria, writers for survival do no more have the final say because the readers are much more intelligent and educated and are able to point out lies from any write-up than the paid writers.

EmperorCaesar:
Most people lack comprehension skill and now i understand why comprehension passages were compulsory in Pry and Sec school

That David,Rufai and their harem of feminine-minded followers came up with that useless slogan of "IBB claim 1966 coup wasnt Igbo coup" after reading the whole book, shows why we might keep writing IELTS till 2050


Relax FFK, IBB dribbled those clowns like Neymar(they didnt read between the lines)

It is useless trying to convince anyone. The likes of FFK were the purveyors of the fake news, just to justify their already crumbled alliance against Igbos in a deceptive way as they sold the dummy of APC to innocent Nigerians in 2015.

mmadu4:
This Camry is approaching 3 million naira now. what's so special about it

before it was around 650k or 700k .

State the year it was sold for 650k to 700k.

I bought this car 12 years ago at 1.250m and is still sound.

Fuel consumption is normal and trouble free in terms of maintenance.

40 litres of fuel can cover 450km, and that is why the demand is high. The interior is good and spacious enough to accommodate a family of 5 on both long and short journey.

Governor of CBN doesn't know what to do, but only applying hearsay to be seen doing something to justify his appointment. Until he is thrown out, he will continue to devalue Naira.

MisterBanny:
I always kept wondering about this. I have seen many homes break as a result of marrying a woman who despises her In-laws, and treats them with levity and disdain, yet claims to love her husband genuinely.
A once happy family could be in total disarray immediately some women get into that family.
Personally, I think if u love your husband, such love should be extended to every member of his nuclear and extended family members and same goes to the Man. I believe that genuine LOVE is infectious and contagious. I have seen a lot happening In today's marriages that I'm already scared of getting married. People can pretend throughout the dating and courting period, but immediately after the wedding, the beast and monster in them begin to Manifest. It's scary.

Almost all married woman are guilty of this. But the men almost do not have any issue with Loving their wive's families.
It even gets to the ugly point that, the wife makes a decree that no menmber of the man's family must ever visit them to stay for more than a day or two.

Women don't actually understand what love means. Although, they use the word most often, it is all deceptive move to grasp as much as possible.
one who doesn't understand love can not be expected to love!

socialmediaman:
No 3 still doesn’t state that the electronic transmission must happen at the polling unit.

Without that caveat, a presiding officer can still conduct the election and decide that he doesn’t want to transmit the result at the polling unit, he can do it at his office as long as he does it electronically

In addition to the above, where the result electronically transmitted (result in Irev) is at variance with the physically collated result, the former supersedes the latter.

fineboynl:
I have been wondering why does my stew don't turn out well no matter how I tried the reason is that I use too much tomato paste due to due to tomoto cost during buhari administration.

This Xmas I just decide to use full tomotos and eliminates impurities like tomato paste. And the stew turns out great 👍. So it was clear the tomato paste products have been the curprit all those while.

The problem now is that how would one cook a pot full of stew with pure tomatoes on a normal day? now that a painter of tomatoes is above 5k.

Both are required to prepare a delicious stew. Raw must be higher in quantity than the paste. The raw has to dry up before the paste can come in. Better still, get a woman who knows how to use them and learn from her.

Coleman7:
Let your words be few. Stop talking much with her.
Grow your spirit man be alive. Do whatever you feel is good to her, be nice to her.
Proceed and open the boutique for her, but don't let your mouth be open for long, always act more and say less. Don't treat her bad, even when she does so. If the heat is so much, you can leave the house and stay off for days without her knowing your movement.

Let your words be few but treat her nice.

I do not advise you to take these steps in a bid to address your marital issues as she will conclude that you are weak and afraid of her. At this assumption, she will step up the madness and drive you crazier. Remember nothing kills man easier other than pains of regrets. Sit up and face her squarely, word to greater word, action to greater action etc. If her action warrants beating, beat her up. Let her know that your life is not dependent on the marriage, and that you can afford to move on in life without her. if you keep acting like all is well because you do not want your neighbour to laugh at you, then prepare to die young.

Severe your relationship with that your friend because he might be behind the attack.

ebubeson:
We have several verses of the scriptures on speaking in tongues 1 Corinthians 14:2 is one on them.

Today, we have problem in various churches concerning speaking in tongues, and the issue of speaking in tongues have been abused by so many people.

What are the abuses of speaking in tongues.

(1) Speaking in tongues after committing sin. Someone may just come from prostitution, do adultery or fornication, and then may go into blasting in tongues when he or she goes to church.

(2) Speaking in tongues during repentance prayer. It is wrong to speak in tongues during prayer for repentance. If your pastor leads a prayer of repentance to the congregation, it is not right to speak in tongues, but to point out clearly the sins you may have committed, telling God to forgive you. This idea I got from someone.

(3) Telling the whole congregation to always pray in tongues. It is good. But there are times to pray in the Spirit and there are times to pray with understanding. If you tell the whole congregation to always pray in tongues, there may be pollutions if many members of the congregation are speaking in tongues with strange or familiar spirits. It is not everyone that speaks in tongues through the Holyspirit.

(4) Praying in tongues "recklessly" during quiet time or morning prayers. When you wake up early in the morning, you don't just blast in tongues for long without sober reflection, deep prayer of openness with God, intense study of the word of God, examination of one's self and attitude etc. This idea I got from someone.

Dabbling into a terrain where you grossly lack knowledge is the most foolish thing to do.

1Cor 2:14 - But the natural man recieveth not the things of the spirit of God, for they are foolishness unto him, neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

Rm 8:6 - For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.

You must repent now before it is too late!

[quote author=SultanOfPuna post=124383683]Religion has turned my mother into a shadow of herself.
Ever since our teenage years my mother was not the churchy type. We are raised Catholics
Back then she was active and bubbling.

all of a sudden my mother left Catholic faith and started messing around with different churches.
This has cause countless rift between us, my dad and elder sister have done everything possible but my mum is too brainwashed by these Pentecostal pastors.

How can someone be attending Christ embassy and winners chapel?? I Heard she wants to join mountain of fire but changed her mind.
Everytime church, church, church
Yet she never gain anything from it
I have been sending her money for her for upkeep since November last year only to come back home February this year and discovered she donates everything to different churches


I feel she might have a mental disorder and I don't know how to save her.
She literally spends all the money in church donation tithe and all those craps. And those pastors always calling her to come for one program or the other. I don't know what to do[

Just stop sending her money based on this flimsy excuse and watch your pocket dry.

The challenges of marriage these days are numerous, and therefore, no list can be said to be exhaustive. But below are few of them:

1. When both go into marriage with conflicting purposes. One wants a successful marriage and prepares to make any form of sacrifices while the other who wants to make gain will stubbornly refuse responsibility and choose to make no sacrifices.
2. Insincerity of both or one of the parties. Playing games with the affairs of the marriage not considering the consequences of such gimmicks.
3. Many don't understand the primary purpose of marriage and so end up coping and applying what they see others do.
4. Most women want to take decision over the affairs of their marriages, but unwilling to back up these decisions financially even though the capacity exits.
5. Most want their presence to be felt and often times take unreasonable decision. Knowing that these decisions are unreasonable, they are prepared to destroy anything to see their implementations.
6. Third party advice from dumb individuals who do not know better.
7. Competition between the parties out of envy because the purpose of marriage is unknown to them.
I can go on and on, but for the sake of time!

OChimex:
Forget, some men especially in Africa are so prideful and controlling. And it’s annoying how they treat women. They treat their wives as slaves.
These are dumb African men who can’t move their society or country forward. And have refused to build a modern society like the rest of the world, yet they have stupid egos.
Believe me honestly, when you treat women/wives/ mothers/sister respectfully, and love them so much, the submission and respect will come naturally and the loyalty and love will be massive. (When a woman loves, she loves for real) and you will be surprise how much success you will have in your home and life and business.

I don't believe that women are treated like slaves by men. Men have always taken risks to satisfy women in the name of love and yet many get nothing in return for it. Love must be reciprocal else it will fail. Responsibility to make a successful marriage lies in the hands of the parties. When one person bears the burden of making the marriage work, it will get to a point where the person won't be able to carry it anymore, and that will mark the begging of the end of the marriage.

Fineman2:
My name is Dora.


I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.

The marriage is not consummated, yet, you have told your parents; marriage is for matured minds, until you realize it, success will be a huge task.

FreeStuffsNG:
This is a revolutionary judgement . It no longer matters any more whose name is on the original property titles. The properties of the man is jointly owned by him and his wife even if it's paid for by the man.

There is nothing revolutionary about this case; it is an attempt to create illusionary sense of right to ownership of property not owned, and this is not known to the law. The judgement will not stand and those already jubilating over it are deceiving themselves.

concho:
When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar

Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .

Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .

I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .

We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .

On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .

On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago

I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .

She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .

I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .

This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one

If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .

How do I start nailing her please ??

What is the size of this company that cannot afford an accountant? Why should the secretary be entrusted with the recording of financial records?
In any case, get her arrested and you will recover everything in her possession.

However, for sound financial recordings, the company need Account Software. Let me know if you are interested.

yarimo:
I pity your parents not you

Speaking like one of those raised under the bridge will do you more harm

jaybenugo:
A Nigerian lady, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu took to Facebook on Tuesday March 21, 2023, to share her excitement after her court wedding in Abuja, IGBERETV reports.

She shared photos from her court wedding with the caption;

https://www.facebook.com/1361988501/posts/pfbid08LGyWpSX7MYvfjc4ZgLFAiGakSx5JP82MWojp9JeExPKXHFQ93msJjYY6do9anM1l/?app=fbl

Gold diggers every Where! Who will tell this ignoramus that there is something called WILL? Who will tell her that her husband has the right to will nothing to her? Ezi?

IyaebeTheGreat:
I didn’t say it’s right to hit a man but maybe mistakenly. I only said a wise man wouldn’t hit bad, rather he’ll pick the silent treatment option

You hit a man and then choose a response for him! That is only possible in another planet.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate this shiloh nonsense with passion. I'd rather listen to Gurumaraji than that arrogant man in Otta.

Until you purge yourself of this deep bitterness, you cannot grow in faith.

jaybenugo:
IGBERETV report

Labour Party Chieftain Stabbed By Thugs For Pasting Posters In Osun (Photo)



https://www.instagram.com/p/ClwYB37tI1G/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This is a political season where principles of democracy are expressed in different dimension, therefore, everyone must be free to showcase his/her political beliefs in a same level playing field. That attack is unacceptable and condemned in strongest term.

This man is still lost in the dream. However, the results of 2023 election is going send heart attacks to some you unless you.

AnonPoet:
#AsiwajuInCrossRivers


The real party man and one that can win next presidential election for APC has taken his nationwide consultations to Cross Rivers State ahead of the parth primary next week Monday.

Only Asiwaju Bola Tinubu ticks all the boxes in President Muhammadu Buhari's address to APC Governors yesterday.

The 'City Boy' has a plan to transform Nigeria

#BAT2023 #Tinubu2023

Afterthought landing, running from pillar to post won't help him. He doesn't possess the character to be a president, in fact he is a criminal. His supporters should get ready for a resounding shock of their lives.

Umahi is criminal and he is behind what is going in the South-East. Since he forcefully assumed leadership of the South-East, there has been killings. His secrets will be exposed when he leaves office in 2023. Shame on him because his acts of sabotage will not earn him APC presidential ticket.

Arranged 1m match in government house, tueh! He must go!