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Romance / Re: My Male Friend Has Finally Stopped Ignoring Me. How Should I Respond? by Expresswriter: 4:18pm On May 23, 2020 |
Haviza: I can tell you for sure the guy is manipulating you. Ghosting people is totally wrong. He's playing mind games on you. If I were you I won't take him back. Because I bet you, chances are that there is 200% (or even 1000%) probability he'll repeat this behaviour. I bet you. Ask yourself-- is this what you want? Why settle for someone who doesn't respect you? Think about it! TWO WHOLE WEEKS he was busy and so couldn't pick your calls or reply your messages! So who are you to him? A disturber? A needy woman? Of course, that's the clear message he's giving you from his two weeks ghosting. You're expendable as far as he's concerned, period. He's conditioning you to become used to him. He's manipulating you. This may be one of his plans-- he wants you to dangerously fall in love with him so that you'd be the one to ask him out and NOT the other, usual way round. Probably, he has insecurity issues. I can't categorically say on this. Wake up and speak up for yourself. If he said he was in the hospital, this is understandable. Or that he was arrested. But not to say he was busy! Jeez! Even wealthy billionaires still have time for their wives. A man can act busy to outsiders but not to his wife or fiancee or girlfriend or a close female friend. TWO WHOLE WEEKS! Abeg, decide for yourself. The guy behaviour dey vex me. These are the type of men who give Nigerian men a bad image 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Expresswriter: 4:09pm On May 23, 2020 |
Confirm from your lawyers if it's right to record discussions you have with her so that going forward if you have to meet with her -- always record all your conversations. If possible, keep a spy camera in all your rooms. Activate them any day she's "allowed" into your house. You need sufficient evidence to keep yourself clean. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Is This Girl In Love With Me by Expresswriter: 12:52pm On May 23, 2020 |
Continue being used, you hear! |
Romance / Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Expresswriter: 12:44pm On May 23, 2020 |
You're the one hurting yourself. What do you expect when you live in the past? She's moved on. Not you. You're still having her picture in your laptop! Haven't you heard of burning or destroying mementos from past relationships? You don't want to get healed and move on. You're feeling guilty. And you think that by winning her back the guilt will go away. Wrong approach. The average American is careful with Nigerian guys. They know our Naija story wella. That's why she said you keep asking her for stuff and that's why she concluded you're trying to use her. That wasn't a time to hit back by telling her to go "Bleep her sand" as you said. What is wrong with "sand" as a gift? It's not about the substance, it's about the care laced to the act of gifting! But you missed this. Rather you tried defending your self in order to pump your ego. What better way than to tell her to go "Bleep her sand!" Now she has gone to "Bleep her sand" -- so why call her back? You're just complicating things for yourself, young man. Let me stop here. I have more to say but I have other things to do now. You're supposed to be paying for this advice sef. But that's not a problem. Money isn't my concern. I have it in abundance. I just wish you won't make this type of mistake next time. Leave your past if you must move on. Not every relationship can be remedied. No man moves forward by looking backward 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm Dating Her Friend Now She's Getting Jealous by Expresswriter: 12:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
Young man, never go back to her. Women think far ahead of men in these things. She's being manipulative. She just wants attention. Nothing else. I will advise you reduce how often you speak with her. If you decide to leave her friend (out of confusion) and go to her (who obviously has a boyfriend), then be ready to be USED and ABANDONED like play-play-play. She may ever be ready to lie to you that she has broken up with her current guy just to have you. Those type of women are insatiable. She just drools in ATTENTION from men folk. Obviously she wouldn't mind dating you and her current guy at the same time. How would you know? Until when it's too late. Use your head. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm Dating Her Friend Now She's Getting Jealous by Expresswriter: 12:14pm On May 23, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: 4 to 6 times? Because the man is jobless, abi? Are you now a business project? Imagine your yeye advice- that he should tell the girl he was in a relationship and go back to the first girl who is obviously being manipulative just for ATTENTION and not because she LOVES the guy. 4 Likes |
Romance / For Females Living In Idimu Lagos by Expresswriter: 10:02am On May 23, 2020 |
A young guy of thirty looking for a female friend living in Idimu Egbeda axis of Lagos. Age range: 27 - 29 Not for dating. Not for sex. Just friendship. She should be a graduate, intelligent, and communicative. Not a social media crazy type. Someone who knows her worth. Who believes that self validation is paramount; not someone needy. Let's begin here, bobmanuelhamilton@gmail.com |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Vs Burna Boy: Cubana Chief Priest Replies Burna Boy by Expresswriter: 9:30am On May 23, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: Omo see hustle. Lmaooooo 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Expresswriter: 10:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6: I concur |
Career / Re: Should I Pursue Another Federal Job Or Leave For Canada? by Expresswriter: 10:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
TallNigerian: What kind of question is this? Are you in Nigeria at all? Do you see the madness of our political elites? Do you see the paradox of your own situation? A Masters degree holder earning less than 80k and you're banking on a transfer with higher pay as a rescue! Assuming the next parastatal you're transferred to pays you 120k, is that "one" money commensurate to your educational qualifications? What about when you get married and children come and your financial responsibility increases, is it 120k that will handle ALL your needs CONVENIENTLY? Won't you want to buy a car? Build a house? Do other things? Or you prefer this shithole of a country where your human rights is next to nothing? I hope you have your answer. This is how we answer questions like this in Nigeria. Everybody's angry. Q.E.D. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Expresswriter: 7:36pm On May 22, 2020 |
gessica: God bless you. You just said my mind. No need for me to repeat. I concur. @OP, please note. |
Romance / Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Expresswriter: 6:23pm On May 22, 2020 |
It's a case of narcissism and psychopathic delusions. You need see a therapist. Buzz me: bobmanuelhamilton@gmail.com |
Family / Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Expresswriter: 5:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Call your mum and tell her everything.. Make plans to stay on campus when schools resume from the COVID-19 lockdown. Don't stay off-campus. Get acculturated to the East by staying off-campus where you'll mingle with other students. Also, staying off-campus may not be a good idea as it may open door for temptation to live a less-guarded life or a loose one. Summarily, by all means, leave your uncle's house. |
Politics / Re: Governor Ayade Exempts The Poor From Taxes by Expresswriter: 10:01am On May 22, 2020 |
oz4real83: Shut up and be grateful for the one he has done. If those allowances are stopped you'll still look for another fault. Fault-finders. Hard to be pleased. Ingratitude sits deep in their heart. |
Career / Re: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Expresswriter: 10:01am On May 21, 2020 |
Leece: Think of the consequences, brother. The beginning may be pleasant but the end can be shameful and humiliating. It can cost you your job. You may end up losing your dignity before your colleagues. It may even involve the woman's husband or another person who knows her, intervening. In which case, considering the peculiarity of the Nigerian factor scenario, police may be involved. It may even become news. In which case, busy-body bloggers will post your story and pictures of you all over the internet: "Male Employee Involved in Sexual Imbroglio with Fifty-year-old Boss, .... in ..." Think of the vast negative possibilities this situation can take. Don't build your self esteem or ego on the fact that women find you attractive. You're important through and through if you believe it. Self esteem comes from within you not what people say or think about you. If you know you're handsome and yet can keep a clean slate, that's what matters most. This is fine. Don't think your handsomeness needs to be validated by the praises of women. Read Proverbs 6: 24. Lastly, focus on your future, young man. You have nothing to gain from that woman but temporal pleasure. You have more to lose if you accede to her demands. If you must have sex outside of God's will as a single (which I don't encourage at all), it shouldn't be with a married woman of fifty. There are young, unmarried women everywhere. Think. |
Family / Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Expresswriter: 9:29am On May 21, 2020 |
ademidedavid: Involve a responsible marriage counsellor who knows both of you to advise her. She's become too familiar with you and will not listen to your advice at this point. Why? Because I suspect she's being influenced by a new friend or company. She wants to compete or measure up with her fellow women who have been gisting her about their experience and how their husbands are spending heavily on them. What she fails to understand is that these things are in phases. Like you said, it's gradual. Don't give up. I will advise you start praying for her and for both of you. It may not be easy now because you're hurting and feel offended. However, God will give you grace in these times. It is well. I speak healing into your marriage. Let love return miraculously this moment. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Expresswriter: 11:41pm On May 18, 2020 |
Forgiveness doesn't mean accepting those who betrayed you. A leopard doesn't change its spot. So if he hadn't seen pictures of you doing well he wouldn't have reached out? Is that a good friend? Ask yourself-- is that a good friend? |
Health / Re: "COVID-19 Is A Scam" - Discharged Delta Patient Says by Expresswriter: 5:36pm On May 18, 2020 |
Enoch07: Read well!!! Tufiakwa! The lady in Delta said "in Nigeria." Not worldwide. She was being contextual. It is a scam IN Nigeria -- this is what she said. And she said so based on her experience. She has not categorically said the disease doesn't exist. Where una de keep una head sef! Understand before you react. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Expresswriter: 10:23pm On May 17, 2020 |
What do you want from us? Tell you to continue taking this shit from your girlfriend because you've spent so much on her studies and can't afford to lose out? A broken relationship is better than a broken home. Marry her and be ready for times four of the wahala she's already giving you. Can't you think OP? Dem jaz you? If you like don't leave her. Continue. Na you sabi. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: What Secret Is My Husband Hiding? by Expresswriter: 4:29pm On May 16, 2020 |
Tasha7: Chat me up: bobmanuelhamilton@gmail.com |
Career / Re: LEGITIMATE: How You Can Be Making At Least ₦3,000 Daily Into Your Local Account by Expresswriter: 1:51am On May 13, 2020 |
bobmanuelhamilton@gmail.com |
Health / Re: Chinwe Chibuike Foundation Donates To Essential Workers, Homeless Persons In USA by Expresswriter: 11:34am On May 12, 2020 |
light099: Park well, jor. How many lives have you impacted? Talk is cheap. You're busy looking for fault. Who stopped you from donating? If people don't give you'll complain. Now that someone has given you're still complaining about their motives. So what do you want them to do? To be as stingy like you? Better grow up. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Rocks Branded 'Free Leah Sharibu' Outfits (Photo) by Expresswriter: 6:41pm On May 11, 2020 |
gamapoy539: Touch not God's anointed lest you incur His wrath |
Politics / Re: Governor Wike Monitors Port-Harcourt Lockdown. Defaulters Arrested (Photos) by Expresswriter: 4:48pm On May 07, 2020 |
Why are you people calling him a bad person? Do you think it's easy handling leadership? Think about the number of people that have been affected recently by COVID-19 in Port Harcourt then you'll realize how painful it is. The initial lockdown that they did for markets in Port Harcourt didn't get full compliance. Yet the Governor didn't complain. People were coasting and enjoying. He kept calling for compliance but never complained. Now that the same people who refused to comply are beginning to see the consequences with the increase of the number of infected persons they're complaining that Wike is too harsh! Do you expect the Governor to fold his hands and be like Buhari who nobody sees? Wetin be una problem sef! Wike is doing his best, yet you're complaining. Ask yourself, where is Buhari? Do you ever get to see him on news except on Nationwide broadcast and that is after Nigerians have complained and complained and complained -- before you'd see him on TV. Nothing ever pleases SOME of you Nairalanders! Bunch of complainers. Tufiakwa! 2 Likes |
Business / Re: 2 Million Naira Investment Needed For A Revolutionary Project!!! by Expresswriter: 7:55am On Apr 28, 2020 |
SocialJustice: Haba... Mbanu... Kid me not! You mean the great and mighty Cheki cars stole your idea? Do you have proof? Are you serious or sure of what you're saying? |
Religion / Re: It's So Hard Practising Envagelism As A Single Female by Expresswriter: 11:11am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Rozz, I admire your passion for God. However, don't quit. Do this: To avoid harassment from men, go in the company of a man while on street evangelism. |
Romance / Re: Lady Observing Lockdown With Boyfriend Cries Out by Expresswriter: 8:26am On Apr 19, 2020 |
That boyfriend is using you. Period. |
Romance / Re: Advice: What To Do With My Boyfriend by Expresswriter: 8:20am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Acmepreneur, That guy isn't ready to settle down. He also doesn't love you. He likes you. Love and like are not the same thing. Find relationship books by Praise George and read. You'll thank me later. After reading the right books you would know what to do. I won't tell you that. Find it yourself in Praise George's books or any other relationship books out there. Listen to messages by Myles Munroe on relationship. God bless you and Happy Sunday. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Macdonald In China Apologizes For Saying Blacks Not Allowed In Their Restaurant by Expresswriter: 12:03pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
PlayerMeji: God bless you... |
Sports / Re: Blessing Okagbare Files For Divorce From Igho Otegheri by Expresswriter: 9:13am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Unelephantable: And women will always make you happy, abi? |
Romance / Re: How My Fiancee Tricked Me, What Can I Do To Get Out Of This Mess. by Expresswriter: 11:50pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
She is not ready for marriage. It's very clear you're an option B to her. Rule number 1 in dating: Never, I mean NEVER accept a woman who comes back to you after leaving you. |
Romance / Re: I Had Deep Romance With My Cousin This Morning by Expresswriter: 11:02am On Apr 12, 2020 |
If you can leave that house, please do. As long as both of you keep seeing, something must happen. Thank me later. 2 Likes |
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