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 Romance › Re: Any Advice For Anyone Who Masturbates? Someone Close Personally Needs This ,LOL by Expresswriter: 1:41pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Pray for him. My mind tells me he wants you to help him out but he doesn't know how to tell you. Or he has told you and you refused to help him Or you just want to catch cruise with your post. 2 Likes |
| Business › Re: / by Expresswriter: 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
All these time wasting facilitators them. 1 Like |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Skilled Writers Needed by Expresswriter: 9:42pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
As usual, #1 per word. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: I Need Confirmation Or If Anyone Else Has Been In This Situation by Expresswriter: 8:09am On Aug 30, 2021 |
Plut01:This is terrible. Imagine that! We live in perilous times like the Bible said. |
| Romance › Re: I Need Confirmation Or If Anyone Else Has Been In This Situation by Expresswriter: 5:05pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Na greed make many Nigerians to do MMM even after being told it was a ponzi scheme. Don't allow greed to becloud your sense of reasoning. Run. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: I Need Confirmation Or If Anyone Else Has Been In This Situation by Expresswriter: 5:03pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Scam. The person you spoke with on phone is either one of this: 1.) A white guy who is collaborating with Nigerian Yahoo Yahoo guys, or 2.) A Nigerian guy who wore a face mask just the same way Jubrin is wearing a face mask and pretending to be Buhari. Run. This is a case of Advance Fee Fraud. Don't pay #1. Not even 50 Kobo. This is scam. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Help! I Think My Best Friend Is Falling For My Boyfriend by Expresswriter: 4:58pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Avoid toxic people of you want peace and long life. They're not worth worrying about. That one you call friend is not a friend. They call them frenemies. Cut off from such people. In recent times, I have cut off many frenemies from my life. It is helping me now. I hate pretence. |
| Romance › Re: My Wife Is Flirting With A Married Man by Expresswriter: 4:51pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Men and women are different and respond differently to love. Men want to be respected while women want to be loved. You're the head of your home. This doesn't mean you must command your wife but it means your wife ought to respect you out of her own volition. She can advise you but she cannot force her advice on you. As the head of your home, tell your wife to stop entering the man's car. If it is okay by you, give her your car to be using for the time being and take public transport yourself. Explain to her that it is a sacrifice you're willing to do for love and not because you're weak. Tell her not to abuse it. That is if you're willing to give her your car to use for the time being. I'm really pained reading this-- that man must be very stupid. Asking another man's wife out! Well, so talk to your wife and sort this out. All the best. Women are VERY VERY VERY emotional. Entering that man's car, listening to the music, looking at him talk, enjoying his gist, the man confiding his own family gist with her, watching people on the road together everyday while going to work and coming back home-- haba! They must bond! They get blood flowing inside dia body. Apply wisdom and stop this unholy liaison before it is too late. |
| Romance › Re: My Wife Is Flirting With A Married Man by Expresswriter: 4:41pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Nonexisting1:100% correct. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastors Attacking Each Other On Social Media, the new norm by Expresswriter: 3:00pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Stop exaggerating issues. Human beings are imperfect. There are thousands of pastors, if not millions, in Nigeria. Using few cases of 3 or 4 or a low figure as a yardstick to conclude that pastors are attacking each other is a faulty premise with a faulty logical conclusion. You people just blow things beyond proportion to feed your selfish interests. Learn to mind your own business. You that is saying this about men of God are you perfect? No one is perfect. Me too, I am not perfect. I have my own flaws. Stop focusing on people's flaws. Bishop Oyedepo has given scholarships, provided jobs, built roads etc, none of you ever talk about this!! You see it and ignore it. When you hear that he has a jet you open your mouth and start running it. In Canaan Land, Living Faith Church, they enjoy 24 hours power supply. It has been so for more than 10 years. This is good management and administration. The Nigerian government is supposed to learn from this. But no, nobody talks about it. Nobody talks about the people who got healed after the doctor has told them they have a terminal disease and have few days left to live. It's fault, fault fault that all of you are looking for. If you're looking for fault, you'll see many. I assure you. Nobody's perfect. God is our helper. Learn to celebrate the good in people. Over 100 jets drove to Buhari's sons wedding yet only few people said anything about it. If it's a man of God now, all of you will open your mouth to start ranting. Remove the speck of dust from your own eyes first. Period. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Expresswriter: 3:11pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Your husband appears to be a narcissist. |
| Romance › Enjoy free Counselling on Relationship & Marriage.. by Expresswriter(op): 2:04pm On Aug 28, 2021*. Modified: 8:07pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Expires in 72 hours. In recent times I have been a regular on the Romance section here on Nairaland. I see people post about issues they have with their significant other. Some post about suspecting that their partner is cheating on them. Some post about what to do-- go ahead with their marriage plan or not after seeing what their partner did. Some complain about saying something annoying to their girlfriend or boyfriend and after that their girlfriend or boyfriend no longer wants to have anything to do with them. One recurring decimal I notice in most of these situations is that people are at their wits' end because they lack knowledge on what to do. How to relate with someone is something that can be learnt from books, audio, video, seminars and so on. It can be taught just the same way you attend lectures in your tertiary institutions. For the next 72 hours, I'll be helping anyone who is interested in taking this offer by analysing and dissecting their relationship or marriage issues for free and thereafter offering advice for free. In case you have issues, you can post about them in this thread and I promise to respond to them. I may not respond on time to all the questions due to a busy schedule but I'll definitely try responding to all issues. It pains me seeing people suffer in their relationships or marriages. I feel bad seeing good people settle for someone who is toxic. It is disheartening seeing again and again that most of my fellow youths don't know how to interpret red flag behaviour. Most are insensitive and overlook these patterns all because they get caught up by their emotions-- cases of brain chemical bonding at work, feelings that can't last for more than two years. I feel bad seeing again and again that people don't know what it means to love. They think to love is to feel. So they think love is a feeling. And once they feel attracted to someone, they believe they're in love. You can be attracted to a toxic person without knowing they're toxic. Some of them can love bomb you or show you their good qualities at the onset just to hoodwink and trap you into "falling" in love with them. Setting this thread is my own little way of helping you enjoy a peaceful relationship or marriage. Knowledge is so critical in these things. Alright, without further ado, the floor is open. Remember, this opportunity is only for 72 hours. And it is first come, first served. Let the posts begin. I pray you'll all enjoy peace, love and joy in your relationships and marriages in Jesus' name. God bless you. |
| Romance › Re: 10 Reasons To Avoid Africans When You Go Overseas! by Expresswriter: 1:47pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
billynoni:It's alright. You can say you didn't find it offensive. It's your right to say so. It doesn't change the fact that the word "idiot" is derogatory and a curse word. Funny how we normalize shitty behaviour in our world today. We normalize certain things we ought not to but complain when the aftermath and consequence becomes overwhelming on us. I should have minded my business. No wahala. Enjoy your Saturday. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Issues With My Boyfriend And I Got Blocked. by Expresswriter: 1:38pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Give him space. You need to work on your behavior. Not every thing can be corrected by saying sorry. From your narrative it is abundantly clear that that wasn't the first time you did the act. So what would make your boyfriend think you won't do it again? Men are moved by respect while women are moved by love. The gravest insult to a man from his woman is disrespect. A man's love can turn to hatred when a woman REPEATEDLY disrespects him. Men interpret respect as love. So if you disrespect him CONSISTENTLY, what his brain interprets that to mean to him is that you don't love him. That's how men were created. It can't be changed. You had your chances to amend your ways but you blew it this last time again by sending him the SMS you said you sent him. I can't say if he'll come back to you again or not. I'm not in his mind. However, telling you this as a man myself, if I were your guy I will never allow you back or I will never go back to you. It's not pride or arrogance. It's wisdom. I need peace. And so does your man. And so does every man. And so does every woman too. Everyone wants peace but not everyone is willing to give peace. What you sow is what you reap. When you sow disrespect why do you expect to reap peace or love? Why do you expect a mere sorry to erase your disrespect? Learn from your mistake, young lady. Develop your self. Read books on personal development. Most Nigerian women have a lot of entitlement mentality. Some think that that they can misbehave and say sorry to pacify their partners or offer sex as palliative. Most men are now wiser. Sex offered that way is manipulative. It isn't lovemaking anymore. The man may accept the sex but he may not forgive you. He may have sex with you and still refuse dating you any further because of your wahala antecedence. Lastly-- You have a character flaw. Work on yourself. If your man doesn't come back to you, you may likely do similar thing in your next relationship if you don't admit to yourself that you need help with your behavior. A famous philosopher once said, Man know thyself. How much of yourself do you know? Advice no be curse. Change, sister. God bless you. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Should I Return Everything Back To The Guy? by Expresswriter: 1:19pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Abbey117:Remind him that they blackmailed you on social media and that you're already talking with your lawyer to sue them for defamation. Warn him that if he ever dares to call you again you will deal with him. Did you ask him to pay 200k into your account  You were on your own and somebody willfully paid in money into your account and now he's asking for a refund! You owe him nothing. After defaming your character online he wants his money back. Doesn't he know he's supposed to pay punitive damages and general cost for publishing libelous statements against you? Or even if it was your ex who cyberbullied you directly as long as you can establish that there was collusion from this guy then you have a good case. Case closed. |
| Romance › Re: Are Most Nigerian Girls This Cheap? by Expresswriter: 1:07pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
It is really a troubling situation. The way we youths glorify sex in this country is so annoying. Loose girls everywhere. Randy and loose men everywhere. When it's time for marriage they start pretending to be who they're not. Deceiving others into marrying them. And afterwards the cheating continues. God help this generation. 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: My Wife To Be Daughter Is Seriously Asking Me For Sex/what Should I Do.. by Expresswriter: 1:01pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
20 minutes sex can ruin his stay in the UK. Sex is not a crime by law, agreed. But don't forget that stories can be fabricated to nail him. I agree with the concerns expressed by @FalseProphet1. He should look for a way to tell the girl's mother what the girl is trying to do. If he can record his conversation with the girl, better (as evidence to avert denial). But telling his fiancee should be a LAST resort. Ultimately, best bet-- he should leave both of them. On a second note, I have something against the guy's motive which is even a bad one-- he sees the white lady as a means to secure his PR in the UK. After getting it through her, what happens? Divorce? That guy has serious wahala. Exploiting people is in itself an evil and bad thing to do. Why can't he look for a better way to secure his PR? And it's even possible that he isn't comfortable with their age differences especially considering the fact that he's an African man but he is hiding this because he wants to be a citizen by any means! At the expense of your reputation and true personality you live a fake life just to get what you want from people. Terrible lifestyle. Terrible. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: 10 Reasons To Avoid Africans When You Go Overseas! by Expresswriter: 11:09pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: 10 Reasons To Avoid Africans When You Go Overseas! by Expresswriter: 9:34pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
AlphaMale666:Defend yourself with reasonable argument or logic. Not to resort to personality attack. Tackle points; don't attack the messenger. People who are intellectually weak are fond of attacking "the messenger." It is also a sign of guilt, a case of kettle calling pot black. When you point fingers at others don't forget that the remaining other four are pointing back at you. Most of what you said are true but it doesn't make you free of those "charges" as well. I kindly beg you to apologize to the guy you called an "idiot." It's a plea. None of us is perfect. I too have at one time or another used such words on people. God bless you. 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need Friends In Port Harcourt by Expresswriter: 9:09am On Aug 27, 2021 |
captainking:Lol  |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need Friends In Port Harcourt by Expresswriter: 9:07am On Aug 27, 2021 |
JOYOSITA:Are you born again? |
| Family › Re: Certified Marriage Counsellors In Lagos Nigeria by Expresswriter: 11:32pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
PST. Kingsley Okonkwo |
| Family › Re: Thank you all by Expresswriter: 11:12pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Join NSPPD everyday Trust God you'll be delivered. This is the link for today's programme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FnGJnyUmz9o Many people have been delivered from conditions even more worse than yours. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: My Male Friend Has Finally Stopped Ignoring Me. How Should I Respond? by Expresswriter: 9:14pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
emusmithyy:What type of illogical reasoning is this? Because ghosting is rampant makes it right? Why are you even avoiding the main points of my advice to focus on ghosting as a subject matter? What sort of diversionary tactic is this that shows ineptitude at its peak! I talked about ghosting as it relates to the context -- 2 weeks ghosting. I wasn't generalizing. Read my comments carefully again. Sometimes people just want to react even when they have nothing meaningful or sensible to say. |
| Romance › Re: Daddy Freeze Is Right, Pastor Adeboye Is A Fraudster and Scammer ( Photos) by Expresswriter: 9:06pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
MrChriz:Sure. |
| Romance › Re: Daddy Freeze Is Right, Pastor Adeboye Is A Fraudster and Scammer ( Photos) by Expresswriter: 9:06pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
hpk:What's this one saying sef |
| Business › Re: How Do I Invest 50k & Earn #1million In 30 Days? by Expresswriter(op): 9:05pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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| Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Expresswriter: 8:55pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Work From Home, Earn 500,000 Naira by Expresswriter: 8:51pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
BlueSprint:Let us discuss facts. Argue on points. Not this name-calling and derogatory antics of yours. Why tell me to shut up? Is it a bad thing I said in asking why a company that can afford to pay that much doesn't have a "common" website? Na wa o. Since when did argument or questioning become insult? If you can't afford simple PR facilities like a website of "common" #10,000 then I wonder if you can afford paying that much. You don't even have a social media presence! Please, do the needful. Advice no be curse. You can be genuine but if you don't have these simple things in place why do you expect people not to be suspicious in this present day Nigeria where crime is rife and rampant It's not our fault that we're suspicious. It's how the system is. We have to be concerned about our safety. Only a fool puts his hands in fire because all men know what fire does to the body. |
| Family › Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Expresswriter: 8:42pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Divoc19:I cover myself with the blood of Jesus! I have since left my days of having multiple women at my beck and call. Now I avoid women when it comes to sex. I just need a woman with the fear of God. Once I sense she's a player, or a pretender I withdraw. I have lived that type of life before so I'm not ready for it anymore. I have given my life to Christ. And only women who are GENUINELY born again and who have other qualities I want in a woman qualify for me. Of course, I also have to pass her own tests too to qualify so it's not just about me. In all, I am not Perfect. I am human so I have my own imperfections but the Holly Spirit helps me daily. |
| Romance › Re: For Females Living In Idimu Lagos by Expresswriter(op): 8:24pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Boy Alinco Celebrates His 53rd Birthday (Photos) by Expresswriter: 8:20pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
AlphaSoul:Wow! Thanks for this enlightenment! Most appreciated |
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