₦airaland Forum

Xj2020:
Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife

If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example.
My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.
My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date
My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time.
This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.
I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.
Mature advice would be highly appreciated.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.
.

Raalsalghul:
Marrying that lady might be one of the biggest mistakes in his life: let's not be sentimental please.

Dude made a wise decision.

Blackmann001:
Yes na... In abt 2 years time... Pepper never rest!

greatbrian:
Funny thing is she never asked me for anything not even sub. Infact there was a time I had issues with my 2nd account and I needed flying to Lagos from kaduna. Charming still sent the money and even when I tried paying her back 2 days later or so, she refused it. I really dnt know why she was so into marriage. Personally, hv promised God no sex before marriage and apart I feel marriage is a life thing since in my Bible the only reasons for divorce or remarrying is adultery or death of partner. So I feel one really need to take his time and pray hard not even with the sad news that grace the front page of Nairaland about domestic violence in marriage and level of divorce in that magistrate court in Ibadan.

Prettyvirginia:
OK. Thanks hun. Just that I don't see myself marrying while still in school.

I will reflect deeply on your advice. Nice Sunday to you

Blackmann001:
Mine is different ooo... Just to date her, sh took me to a lab for HIV, hypatitis, blood sugar, genotype and other STDs....

Guyz line up for this lady door all kneeling for her attention. Instead of shakara wey I dey read here by the guy, I am being hopeful sh says yes sef...... Sh dates me alone ooo... But rivals of docs, pharmacist, working abroad, etc full road....

Na me dey even remind her of us and settling down, sh is 26 ND very pricy cuz sh did her own job on time.. Intelligent, beutiful, tall, speaks fine, works hard both domestically and at work place. Earns enough.

Na God hand we dey for her matter!

elpochas:
divorced. She's back to Anambra single to stupor seeking my face... Some gals are really funny.imagine you correcting your Girl and her reply will be,do you know am a fine babe. my guy not all that glitters is gold.the most annoying thing is these gal made me leave my good girl then.Had to go back to my ex,just tank God my ex was still single and she acepted me back.

madridguy:
" My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, [/b]as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them."

[b]This part really touch me.

greatbrian:
Started last year as a white man. Met this damsel on my visit to Lagos through a civilian arty. Na so we start, I saw the red flags of are unending call even when I told her not to, so I won't get into trouble but damn it she have one mission at hand and she must achieve it. After I turned gold last year, that was 4months into the relationship, lady intensified the calls even when I was doing course in yobe nd begging her to take a step at a time. I was so choked up by her until of recent where she started mounting pressure on me talking of marriage. Funny thing is shes 19 and am in my early 20s close to mid. Charming told me she can't date a guy who doesn't have plan when I told her a step at a time. Well I told her I can't marry earlier than 4 years time when I will be 28. Na so she open dash and told me she no get time for time wasters. I didnt input the fact that she tried forcing me into sex. But hv made a covenant with God already so I told her it won't work.


Perhaps there were lots of stuffs I didnt know about her

elpochas:
Started dating these pretty lady 2017(big ass and boobs).Always telling me about mariage,having her own kids and that.But these babe was dam selfish even in the issue of sex(once she cums the sex is over).She was dam lazy,all these spoilt last born child with so many sisters.if i talk everytin i saw while dating her na novel i go write.
Had to run away for my life,babe later got married six months after we broke up.But guess what guys!she is happyly divorced now.Her marraige dint last up to a year,i really dodged a bullet.These babe even called me last year and was asking me if am now ready to settle down with her.she even denied ever getting married.Funny right?always look before you leap guys.

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

paulolee:
yup...she no wan use ear hear c.d or contraceptives, she buy pack of pregnancy test kits keep for her locker n they check herself praying it tests positive bt she didnt kno dt am serving a living GOD dt have a better plan for me....spent just a month with her and she de always like de ontop because she don tire 4 my Withdrawal tinz...me na sharp gee na, na when she don tire n come down naim i de always de cum outside d nunu...na me get gun n go decide wr and when to shoot am na.....one day she vex ask me say Y i do like discharging outside of her and I tell her say am nt ready for a child bt she said she just wana av a child (thinking it would lead to marriage) and said even if am not ready she go take Care of the child herself...told her to go look for another careless gee because i don de game since, no be today

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Me nor dey do dating and love plus mumu romance

Once i bang you i dey discharge you shaperly before you start to dey build bungalow or three bedroom flat for my heart

But some way don reach to marry still dey try hold me down for sometime.

Them go begin display zombie character. But girls dey mumu follow boys sha once them don reach to marry but them never see husband
First of all them go dey pet you. Check on you.
Even if you nor get one naira them nor go demand from you. Them go do everything to make you happy. I remember when one of our plasma TV spoil. I broke that period. No money to repair am. Na so this girl carry my tv by herself go repair with her own ten thousand naira..

If na you dey wrong them go apologize! If na them dey wrong them go still apologize
Any small issue. Na them first dey beg make the relationship nor go end or make you nor discharge them
But still me as a real niggarrr dey discharge them anyday anytime twice on Saturday

But the thing be say that experience na bad experience for females. Nor be wetin women supposed dey wish for because boys dey use them well well especially when them Notice say the woman dey in a hurry to marry.
Boys go make shakara for such woman ehnn
That is why me dey advise girl to quick marry to avoid such experience.

shestrong:
Yes ! nd it was a disaster.

solastar2:
Here come Joseph of our time.

monshow25:
Hello everyone
1 of my friend want to register for SAT exam and he asked me out about it and I don't know much about it, can someone help me on how to go about it so that we won't make mistake during the processing

Paultaiwo101:
Good day everyone, i got admitted to pursue M.sc., Accounting at the University of New Mexico, USA just two days ago, i'm currently processing my Form I-20, please what is the next step after the Form I-20 from my intended school. I'm to resume studies by August/September for the Fall 2020 admissions. Would it be wise to go ahead with Visa processing as the US Embassy is currently not operating. Many thanks!

Jubrilx3:
Hello, a friend of mine needs advice from the gurus, 4years ago he wrote on his Ds160 that his mum will be his sponsor, now he decides to choose his uncle, say the uncle want to sponsor him. And his uncle statement is boyyant

Is it not contradicting ? Any advice please

NikeMi1:
Please please and please are there any undergraduate scholarships available in the US if I get a high score in SAT?

If Yes,please can someone give me information about them

Thanks�

Rbab:
I had a late application picked 4 schools due to my professional over 11years in health financing and academic history graduated with MBBs 15years ago plus the covid 19 pandemic.I was given a GRE waiver after sending my synopsis to some school. Can any one help me out on how to go about visa application. I need to move fast pls

tot:
My racism "friend", hello there.

tot:
Courageous woman.
Women like her, Dora Akunyili are bold women that take a stand for what they believe in. May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Fabuloski:
Do every school provide full funding for masters programs? I am planning to go for Green Chemistry and I really don't have money to be serious.

timekeeper1:
Exactly.. Only God knows how many dicks she go Don fvck... Spit


Only a fool will propose to a lady that have had so many body counts.... The mumu even kneel sef... Chai


Tuehhh

tot:
That's life I guess.
Well, have a good evening.

tot:
You and 1sharon can go ahead and occupy yourselves by swapping videos. That's not my problem. I've made my point and stick to it. Kindly let me be. I cannot be using my time to write epistles on nairaland. Written enough for one day. Suit yourselves whatever you want to believe, think, or do.

Caseless:
wrong! Black take offense because they're hated for being blacks. Where's your brain?

tot:
Racism: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.

Would the cop have knelt on the neck of an unarmed white man for 8 minutes? Again, the names I mentioned earlier, there was no shared past so please defend those ones as well.