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Godoverevery:
Christian stand point that makes my family intruders in my house while are own aiin't.

which extreme she should stay in her father house now.....like marrying a man now is a favour??
A woman throws her husband bro things out is totally unacceptable no matter what he did....ask your mom if she smile if your bro wife do that to one of your siblings.

are you minding her. in the bible you know it says a man should cleave to his wife with her family.

Chii59:
Before marriage, a man's first duty is to his family, but once he's married, his first duty is to his wife, then his parents and siblings. God knows how hard you men find LEAVING and CLEAVING that's why Jesus emphasised "For this cause shall a MAN leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife" Mark 10:9

The lady in question, the brother's wife went to the extreme, true, but then the man's brother didn't honour the woman of the house.
And everyone knows a woman's office is the kitchen.
Hence he knew she doesn't like him, nor him, her, why then did he enter her kitchen (which is hers by right of marriage) to cook without obtaining her permission?

By virtue of marriage, the house is hers, the kitchen is hers and the food is hers, because "the two shall become one"
If you're married and yet you don't see your wife as a co-owner, a partner in that home, that's not the Biblical way.

"we struggled together" yes it can be quite painful but IT IS WHAT IT IS.
We don't know the woman's story, if she struggled or not before getting married, but we know that a woman, upon getting married, leaves her family, changes her father's name and adopts the man's.

Look, op, this is God's way. You can choose to obey or not, but if you don't, prepare for a peace less home.

Rubbish has usual. Is the wife's siblings too part of the partnership or union has you called it. The most important question, would she throw her own sibling's property if they were in the same situation as the guy?

Monogamy:
Osaka has been Serena's tormentor lately.

It simply means your time don pass Serena.. It's time to bow out of Tennis

Not lately. At least for 3 years now. Osaka is William's nemesis. She is just like that obstacle you want to overcome but you just can't.

Skepticus:
You are explaining MrColdSweat initial post, that mentioned Gender Equality better than he did. Like I said earlier, everything he mentioned about some aspects of the "Trad Cucks" expectations of masculinity putting men at great risk is understandable. I and some other guys here have made references to the risks that society's expectations of masculinity places on men, especially in the terms of sacrifices.

The concluding part of Gender Equality is mere unrealistic optimism that has some roots in the blue pilled matrix because in reality, women filling STEM jobs still shows that the most physically and mentally-demanding part of these STEM careers are handled by the few men still left there. This doesn't make MrColdSweat ignorant or blue-pilled. He is discussing issues that is quite prevalent in the blackpill. Men, much more than women drift towards responsibility and accountability as a burden of performance is placed on them, with or without sacrificing their wealth, time, resources and freedom. As a matter of fact, peer-reviewed research studying Scandinavian countries (Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Faroe Island) where government policies of Gender Equality was highly encouraged and practiced proved some earlier predictions wrong. To the shock of these researchers, they found that the genders moved toward gender-specific roles. Women moving towards health care and humanities with men moving towards STEM fields with a very highly significant margin.

Dapcity is a traditional "cuckservative" from what I've seen so far. If he is in a country like Nigeria where women still have some elements of traditionally conservative upbringing, I consider him lucky that he could still create a family where he can dominate as a patriarch, even though there may be a difficulty extending it to the larger society in this era of globalization. In the highly gynocentric parts of the developed world, he is setting himself up to be messed up by the system if he is a man of great resources. Patriarchy, alphaness, the red pill won't save you from being divorced-raped and mentally-battered by the legal system. Even within the "lenient" Nigerian system, there is a limit to which you can exert your patriarchal right over a woman (who most likely would be exposed to the "freedom" that modern women now enjoy) unless you are prepared for drama and constant meaningless conflict, a turf, where women would naturally "outclass" men.

Personally, I'm all for men controlling their own lives, spaces and destinies, regardless of what the rest of the society, which includes women and other men decide to do with theirs. In relationship with others, keep respectable and healthy boundaries that places your own priorities, that doesn't interfere with the rights of others, first.

You have said it all. I think wat Mrcoldsweat is saying about self control is if you can control your sexual urge you will beat any manipulative bitch to her game. This one of the reason I admire Martinez so much I mean if I can control myself sexually and a girl is coming with the mindset of manipulating or playing me using sexual seduction as I think that is their most powerful weapon I would just look her like a fool. You know it will play out like where an enemy is coming to a fight bringing a sword and he expected you to come with a knife but you have a glock hidden in your pocket. You know how you will be looking at him now like see this fool.

QuadrilAyinde:
I no even understand this TRP guys anymore... I already said it earlier today that A True RedPiller is an Insecure Man and a Control Freak Who Never wants his wife to be Financially successful and Capable since All he Cares about is the Domination/Absolute Control of the wife, smh... And this is the Angle that I've decided to come in to Let TRP guys to understand that this is a Vague thinking... Seems U have forgotten that she also has her Family Members she's financially obligated to be Assisting from Time to Time as well, thus the More reason U allow her to be Financially Independent so that She'd Automatically block any expenses coming from her family side from reaching You... And this is just inline with what MrColdSweat meant by Redefining Masculinity Coz too much financial burden on a Man has higher chance of shortening the Life of a Man

It's a very simple Analysis...

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QuadrilAyinde:
I no even understand this TRP guys anymore... I already said it earlier today that A True RedPiller is an Insecure Man and a Control Freak Who Never wants his wife to be Financially successful and Capable since All he Cares about is the Domination/Absolute Control of the wife, smh... And this is the Angle that I've decided to come in to Let TRP guys to understand that this is a Vague thinking... Seems U have forgotten that she also has her Family Members she's financially obligated to be Assisting from Time to Time as well, thus the More reason U allow her to be Financially Independent so that She'd Automatically block any expenses coming from her family side from reaching You... And this is just inline with what MrColdSweat meant by Redefining Masculinity Coz too much financial burden on a Man has higher chance of shortening the Life of a Man

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so simple that I'm surprised at how difficulty it is for some people to understand. Its just like gambling. if you play well you might win or lose but if you don't play at all you don't lose which is closer to a win than to a lose.

sajmark:
we should really learn to control our emotions while reading/replying comments, the bro you quoted told you the bitter truth but you are subtly attacking him.
the lady in question isn't sexually attracted to you, simple... forget whatever she told you, she is ready to be a LovePeddler for the right guy.

Bro the guy you quoted is right. Even in English comprehension extreme words like all, every are wrong. I mean there are people that we will find odd. so there can be girls that will be irritated by sexual things. All I'm trying to say is nothing is strange in this world.

GLYCOLYSISS:
Mr Martinez, I think I misjudged his stance on that submission he made about gender equality .
I had to go through his comments again, and I got to admit, he made some nice submission, even though some are questionable.
On the stoicism aspect, we was not even encouraging men to be stoic and all that, he was rather, in the contrary, asking men to drop the "be a man " tag .
At least, that's what I could infer from that comment.
Maybe one have to go through his comments again, he got that undertone to some of his submissions,which I could reason with .
My observation though, others could see things differently,like have contrary view, and that's OK .

I wanted to make comment on what Mr coldsweat said yesterday but I didn't have enough bar. most of his comment has undertone. I think what he was trying to say us if girls want equality we should give them though they might only want the pros but we will make sure they take the cons with it. I could relate with his comment because that's the path of redpill I've been following unintentionally. I mean I wouldn't play the game with any female even though I know to some extent their manipulative action. I would just create my space and any girl that tries to encroach into my space to manipulate me I beat her to her games. Like redpill preaches, its a knowledge in which people use in their own way.

fati2001:
NIGERIANS ARE USELESS


MEN ARE SO CHEAP BECAUSE OF SEX

WOMEN ARE SO CHEAP BECAUSE OF MONEY..

Your English is wacky. Its meant to be men are cheap when it comes to sex and women are cheap when money is involved. I already tired of seeing you being a nuisance all over the forum.

symbuul:
Th.reesome dey sweet oo. 10 people should post their aza make I waya 1k each.

3058899916 first bank F. O

well I can't say it put me into trouble even though I'm just above average. It was just a lady trying to sell me sim and I was like don't stress yourself ma'am because I don't have a phone then she was like as you fine like this you don't have a phone. Lol. I just told her to direct me to a place where they use fine face to collect money. Also I've been in several situation when I would be joking with ladies at different time and they will just bring up fine face topic like, please I want to buy two pieces of sweet and the lady will be like as you fine like this only 2 sweet or the day I was fetching water and a lady was telling me as you fine like this you dey fetch water. I'm always embarrassed, I wouldn't know whether to smile or look indifferent or frown. I go just change topic.

temi1290:
You are funny,so you think your sis ugly perception is like that for everyone because your dad
died early, what of those with both parents still alive? what of those whose mum died first?or do you think such people don't exist?

If your sis husband doesn't die by the time their children is 13 make sure you guys kill him oo, nonsense

You are the funny person bro. That wasn't my perception and it surely wasn't a fact. I'm just saying the impact of how male die early affected her. Bro don't read on the surface, some messages go deeper. What I'm just trying to say is that the initial poster might just be fatherless hence the reason for him saying he will be there for his mom. And people adding and the dad also I'm just trying to tell them he may have omitted his dad because the man is probably dead. Get the message bro.

LadyTiannah2:
Whatever. How about defending the other points I listed

I'm out. You don't actually want answer for your question, if you wanted you wouldn't have started it whatever.

LadyTiannah2:
Oh please. Where in my post did I mention that spoken English is a yardstick for measuring intelligence? I said most of y'all don't know how to hold conversations or have things to talk about outside sex. And how come you conveniently ignored all the other points I made? Defend your people na

Well what you saying here is actually different from what you initially posted. First was vocabulary now you saying conversation. Lady those are two different things. Don't try to justify it pls.

LadyTiannah2:
For the record sir, this thread was made in response to all the female bashing threads I saw on nairaland today. You're here defending men and forming humility. When they start insulting all Nigerian women and calling all of us useless how come you're nowhere in sight?

So you mean I should leave my fellow men and support a woman. No that's suicidal I can't do that. And I didn't know you were trying to react to some things. I just wanted you to know that not having a good vocabulary doesn't make you dumb. Moreover I rate communication higher than than vocabulary. So even if you don't speak good English or very little English but you can put the little words and gestures together to pass a message and I understand then I would never think you are dumb.

I am broke now though that wasn't what led me to redpill. Stories of how men train girls then later get dumped led me to it. Hearing those stories then made me angry that I usually wish such happens to me so I can just kill the girl or maim her for life. Now I can't say for sure if I'm redpilled but I wouldn't simp when I make money. Even my if my sister ask for money I will give her only half because of her actions now. And for any bitch I will just be own my own, you thread into my space I Bleep you and when you start getting too attached or start showing your true self or even when i get tired I cut you off. And for useblog the only wrong you did to me is you getting angry with the bitch. Though redpill is hard to internalize cos I've also failed some test even after reading the redpill for months that's why I said you wrong because you are aware of redpill by that time. In that situation after you realised you have simped and as someone redpill aware you should have calm down, count your cost and move on or at worse collect back the phone you bought for her and keep. So when the police that reading the stupid law to you, you just hand it over back. That way you only lose the initial money and not money you will use in buying another one now.




The way I simped that I wrote there is about a girl that came to my house after romancing even sucking breast she will just ask me to stop I will ask why she will say nothing or not just in the mood. No sex?!!! My dick is hard bitch. I will become angry but still keep calm. But where I simped and have learnt is that I will leave her then sometime she will ask if I'm angry I will answer no. She did this to me three times. I knew she was shit testing me but I didn't know how to treat her Bleep up just because I didn't want her to see me as a bad person. But now I'm going for a training and I know when I'm back my SMV will be higher because I am going for self development and she will want to come back and play shit on me this time I wouldn't even give her space. Because not all pussy should be fvcked and I've counted hers a lost one.

Yeah. I have girls I speak to too that I occasionally have to dumb down on my vocabulary for them to understand. But the difference between the two of us is that I don't think the girls were dumb, I just try to explain to them. Because you who has bread and is looking down on someone with a slice should know there are people with tray of loaves and also the owner of the bakery is bigger than the one with a tray of loaves.

temi1290:
What about our Dad,why are you leaving him out of the equation?

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What dad are you guys even talking about. The probability that the poster Dad is dead is higher than the probability that he isn't. Don't get me wrong I'm not wishing the poster Dad dead and I'm not saying we shouldn't love our Dad but most Dad are dead already. My dad died when we very young that my younger sister once said that when she was very young she believes when a child gets to an age of 13 the child is supposed to be fatherless. That's the impact of how men die early had on her.

Well I find it hard to fart in public. But I fart when I'm with my nuclear family. And when they fart I don't even see it as big deal. But when a girl fart when with me I vex even when I don't want to like the reaction is involuntary. Even its so bad if I see a girl that I like it only take me to think that she farts too to remove her from my mind. And 2 girls has intentionally let out a fart when with me. The 3rd one was like sorry I asked why then she told me she farted in my mind I was couldn't you lie since I didn't hear it.

Ifeanyicosta:
are u saying we should keep quite

To be truthful. Keeping quiet is the best. When a woman wants to argue just let her be. It will make her angrier till she tires out and calm down herself.

Chii59:

Go fvck yourself Chi. I'm done with you for now.

igen2:
done

I woke up to the data boss. I appreciate you man. Thanks so much.

igen2:
U didn't send me ur number

Bro I tops you Instagram is deleting it and I posted my number here. Here it is again 08106932248 edit out my number when you wanna quote it.

Martinez, skepticus, luminous and other redpiller here. I'm really sorry for falling unexpectedly. I didn't mean to. I should have followed the rule but all in all I'm sorry. It wouldn't happen again.