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ATERI:
Stop swearing. Funny thing is, you won`t say the same thing by the time you have a teenage daughter

And how do you know I don't already have a teenage daughter?

So many yards of wife material on this thread...
ElDeeVee come and hunt o

Naughtysite:
Tanx...

Lol! what are you thanking me for?

Our stup!d society be dictating how women should live their lives since 1300 BC
Awon weyrey alainisese!

abbiecutie:

Hi! You gat mail!!

God forbid

I'm just seeing this one o!

But this Iranu is getting too much. When politicians were plundering the reserves and spending money recklessly, CBN did not know they were supposed to set up policies to curb excess money in circulation. Now it is my money they want to use to build up reserve and strengthen the economy. So I now have to pay for every time i touch my salary account. Salary that is very tiny sef

I don't blame them. It's because they know all salary earners have to use current accounts. They know savings account holders won't accept it. Patapata na to buy king size mattres dey save money for there

The drama in 2016 just keeps piling...

I don't even understand the need for this bile. You wish to tell someone to improve on their craft, then do so with love, encouragement and inspiration.

This is either a case of unnecessary attention seeking or just another case of a woman bringing another woman down. The atmosphere is big enough for all of you to fly, so this is absolutely unnecessary. Madam, face your own craft. I know Chigul, Princess and Helen Paul, but you I do not know. Besides, some people like their jokes crass, rude and classless so who are you to dictate how a person should perform their trade?

Lol

tomyka81:
Noooooo! He will find out the hard way why so many big artist in the USA are independent orbown their own label. Be prepared to only get like 15 cent per album sale. Worst mistake ever.

Exactly what I was thinking

If the album/song sells, the record label recoups their investment first, songwriter gets paid, producer gets paid, manager gets paid about 5% or more of your gross income, the almighty IRS takes their share, and finally the artiste gets paid

I'm happy for him, but I hope he reads the fine lines of the contract

Speedy of life
The chocolate cookies of our time

This is the kind of man that would lure girls into his trap with his writing skills. Just look at his damn apology. Writer's excesses indeed...

Burning the midnight candle to write better books, giving yourself muscle cramps or muscle pull in the course of self pleasure is an excess: shoving your tongue down other people's throat is not. It is sexual abuse, plain and simple

I'm sure he makes them comfortable and also makes them trust him before he strikes. I hate people like this! I'm so sure he speaks so well and behaves well in public. I know their type. I can’t be fooled. They will begin to act like a big brother or a father figure.

Young girls have to be careful... Don't be deceived.

This doesn't make any sense

Bank customers already pay ATM withdrawal charges, VAT on cash transfers, et al.

Now we're supposed to pay tax everytime we do a transaction on OUR bank accounts??

At least they should have made the charge monthly. 50 naira per transaction is outrageous! Unless this is a short-term plan...

As usual, our legislators will keep mute when we need them the most

Lol

UIA04:
Smh
I'm not going to bash him more than I have done because this is a one sided story we've not heard from the wife. It is legally morally and spiritually wrong to base judgment on a one sided story it's unfair to the party being punished

Sorry... but if you were the wife, will you come out and issue any statement? After all the public embarrassment, the woman is probably hiding her face in shame.

There's nothing like one sided story in this matter. The man has already come to announce to the world that he's a cheat and you're expecting to hear the woman come and explain why her husband is cheating on her or what? Must there be an excuse for his philandering ways?

You're talking about spiritual and moral correctness.... Lol! I can't do this anymore

UIA04:
No one is justifying the man here at least I'm not that's why I said 'might be'. We don't know the wife and haven't heard from her so there is a 50 percent chance (that's to us because we don't have a clue who she is) that she'll divorce her husband. There is also a 50 percent chance also for the above mentioned reason, that she is already used to the man's life style.
Have you thought of the fact that they might have an open marriage which is very common in Nigeria and the lasting ingredient to so many so called perfect marriages.
In all this I'm sure she can't deny that she was totally oblivious that her man is a cheat that she didn't have the slightest clue even if it was just a suspicion by his phone calls or something Sha . Whatever she decides to do about is totally up to her.

What I'm saying is...

Why do we keep making excuses for men in these situations?

Okay, so now you're here again assuming that they might have an open marriage. And you're saying that you're sure the wife can't deny that she was aware of her husband's behaviour.

Intentionally justifying his behaviour might not be your intent but it is indirectly exonerating the man

If it had been a married woman that had come to social media to say these things about a single guy, we definitely wouldn't care if she has an open marriage or if the husband knows she's a cheat and is already used to her lifestyle. We would bash and slut-shame her, we would call the husband a victim of her whoreness.

Can't we all just agree that this man is shameless and bash him likewise without trying to analyse the state of his marriage? Afterall, what is wrong is wrong notwithstanding

Onliie:
The married cheater man is a better human than you will ever be. He was honest about it all, but Maima professes her love for ice prince almost on daily basis yet cheating on him like no tomorrow. Please tell me, is that not an insult on love itself. If you are bad, let the whole world know you are rather than claiming what you're not.

Am I seeing well this morning so?

A married cheat is better than a cheating girlfriend?

In what universe??

Who made vows? Girlfriend or married man??

So Maima cheating on her boyfriend is an insult on love itself. And a married man cheating on his wife is not??

Okay, it's obvious y'all will say anything to justify a man's foolishness.

I'm done with you people

OP, this gist is incomplete

"With sincerity I accept responsibility for the hurt
a writer's excesses have caused you all"
Does kissing ladies without their consent constitute a writer’s excesses?

People need to see the full story to realize that this 'apology' is unacceptable. I have attached screenshots of the testimonies of his victims

He worded his bullshit apology in a way that seems to present his victims as fussy or making a mountain out of a mole hill and that is what the ladies have been saying about him. Sir, you have failed this one. Go back to the drawing board and come up with a better apology

TheGoodJoe:

It does not make it right but the woman sticking with a man who does not respect her and beats her, takes the blame. If she is okay with it, who are we to complain.

If Ice Prince is okay with his girlfriend being a mistress while dating him, who are we to complain.

Maima gets the bash for lying.

Yes, Maima gets bashed for lying, I'm not disagreeing with that

But Mr Akin should equally be bashed for being shameless. His shameful behaviour is very independent of his wife's self-respect (Or lack of it as you say).

His children will grow up and read about their father. Do you think their mother's self-respect would be the issue then?

Akin is an hypocrite! He cannot come and cry on social media that a single girl swindled him and expect us to be sympathetic towards him. All I'm saying!

TheGoodJoe:
You have a legit point but it goes with a woman respecting herself. If this man knows the mother of his baby will leave him and Sue him for Child support, he will behave himself. If the woman has no respect for herself, then she deserves what she gets.

So what you're saying is if he doesn't respect her enough to do what he did, it's because she has no self-respect??

That's like saying 'If he's beating her, it's because she's weak and soft and it's her fault'

It's a flawed logic. Also, it doesn't make it right

TheGoodJoe:

It goes both ways. Here you have Ice Prince, with all the evidences still defending her. Probably because of her Instagram Status. If the chick dated the married man, Akin before she met Ice Prince and she broke up with the man to stay with her new love, I can understand Ice Love.

However, she still saw the Man while dating Ice Prince but Ice Prince is in the studio recording his love sessions.

If a woman reduces herself to a trophy wife, she has no say when he is enjoying his mistresses. Just as if A man reduces himself to a handbag, he has no say when her new Maga Lands.

Okay....

So your last paragraph just made me realize that it's pointless trying to make you see what I'm saying

I mean, with such mentality....

*Sighs

Okay...

I'm late to this parry, so I'm just gon read comments... nod my head where necessary... probably roll my eyes a lot and then leave when I can't take it no more...

jayriginal:
Meanwhile I'm trying to reconcile your signature with your ability to receive revelations (or even report them).

Choi! Evils!!

UIA04:
I don't think he cares besides his wife might be just like maima in it for the money so she will swallow the shame and move on

Why do we have to assume that the wife is a gold digger?

I'm just concerned that we are always trying to justify the actions of men, even if it makes the innocent wife look bad. We say things like 'He doesn't care', 'The wife may also be as bad as the mistress' 'Who cares about her? She'll move on'. All in a bid to make the man come out smelling like a bed of roses in these types of scandals

What kind of logic is this?

tivta:
Abeggi, this is Nigeria where love is for sale, most married women don't care if their husbands cheat as long as there is money to spend...

Imagine...

And this seems right to you as a Nigerian?

UIA04:
You are right but you know no one said anything until the girl posted on instagram about her under in love for ice prince when her cupboard isn't clean she could have just tidied up her affairs before flaunting her relationship forgetting she is dating a celeb akin doesn't have anything to loose that's why he has used different sources to call her out

Akin doesn't have anything to lose?

But he's married! I think he could lose his marriage. I mean, would you stay married to such a person?

Love Machine:
It could be the runs girl swindled him.Didn't she knew he was married before she date him?

Lol! The runs girl swindled him? With what? Juju? And then he forgot he was married??

I'm not saying she isn't wrong for dating a married man, I'm saying stop encouraging this foolishness on the man's part. He is the one that made vows, not her!

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What I find absolutely disgusting in this whole episode is the fact that everyone, including the female bloggers, are bashing Maima but no one is touching on the fact that it is a MARRIED MAN that is calling her out. This as*hole is calling her out for cheating and the whole world is crucifying this girl instead of shaming the bastard. Yes, sleeping with married men is repulsive, but more so on the man who made the VOWS. Shame this Akin idiot!!

I find it really disgusting that this man has so little respect for his wife and kids, that he would descend so low as to humiliate a single girl on social media and destroy her relationship, just because she has chosen to move on with her life. This man is humiliating his wife publicly by dragging a woman that is not his wife with a single guy and you all are hailing him like he is doing something right.

Or is it that you people are not seeing what I am seeing??

A MARRIED man is calling a single girl whom he is doing runs with a cheat!

This is so sad!

Isn't the so called runs girl Jyoti Matharoo, Musa Danjuma's new flame? Caroline Danjuma, Musa's wife fought this same girl on IG late last year and then deleted the post where she called her home wrecker and husband snatcher. I will not be surprised if Caro has created this new IG page to try and bring the sisters down.

My heart goes out to Madam Caro but this Jyoti is one hot looking babe o. I checked her IG page and literally had to pick up my jaw from the floor a couple of times. I mean, the clothes, the body, the lifestyle...

This is a new level of runs girl because this girl has upped the level to higher heights for all these local Dubai fake shopping runs girls o. She has shown them how it is done.

But really what do these girls really do for these men that make them shell out large amounts of money? Is it not sex again abi am I missing something??