Blessedmercy8:
A responsible husband is one who puts his family first in everything, and takes care of their needs when he can.
One who provides for his family without complaining.

A responsible husband is one who makes himself available at his childrens school events and activities both curricular and extra curricular. He must be involved.

He is one who gathers the family to pray and fellowship with one another.

One who leads by example.

On point

Is this someone's sitting room or a centre where people watch football?

MelesZanawi:


I'm sure you are a lady, a foolish one at that.
This nonsense you typed is as a result of undeveloped feminine brain. Developed females don't think this foolishly

Must you go this far in exposing how badly your parents did in raising you up? I only made my comments without any abuse but because of your lack of proper home training that makes you to abuse people any how including your parents, all you could do was to abuse me. If you did not inherit your mother's undeveloped feminine brain I wonder why you turned out this badly.

Thank God that you confessed with your mouth that it didn't make you feel any better or even increase your empty bank account. As much as I do not support her cheating on you, yet you could have been a better man if you had gently and respectably walk out and end things with her instead of being petty. Believe me you might think you won now but it's still the same you that will suffer guilt when all the euphoria of this childish revenge must have worn out. She can only suffer it for some time but who knows if what you did might turn out to be a blessing in disguise as she may land a better paying job now.

BluntCrazeMan:
SOMETHING VERY BAD AND UNHYGIENIC IS HAPPENING IN OUR FOOD MARKETS

Please....
Which institution, or agency is in charge of sanitising and maintaining the hygiene standards in our markets??
(I guess it is the Ministry of Environmental in the various States.. -- that is,, the Environmental Health Department or Agency).

Do you see all those people that are selling food-items that we are NOT going to wash again before using them, those people should be well educated and enlightened more on extra hygiene.
Most especially those people that are selling Pap (akamu), Garri, Crayfish, Ogbonor, Egusi, Cooked Food, And so on..

They should be taught very well on how to cover those things they are selling with a clean transparent sheet,, and to also have tap-installed buckets filled with water for them to be washing their hands frequently.

The other day,, right in front of me,, one of those women that were selling PAP in the open market had to sneeze.. She sneezed three times while she covered her mouth with her two bare hands... Then she placed those two hands on the pap she was selling,, trying to sell to the next customer that was already waiting..

Eeeuuwww..
So disgusting.!!

You are right though but who said we can't wash crayfish? You are supposed to wash ur crayfish with salt and water before blending so if you ask me crayfish shouldn't be on that list, it's just like people who buys and slice their vegetables in the market instead of coming home to wash their vegetables with enough water and salt before slicing it. Moreso water boiled at 360 degrees centigrade will kill any germs in the garri we bought from the market, some people are naturally dirty and no amount of govt regulations can take it away from them. If the regulatory body can deal with wares already displayed in the market what about where it was originally prepared before bringing to the market? So to me the best we can do is to help ourselves buy from a relatively neat environment and also help ourselves in maintaining a certain level of hygiene when preparing those things at home. It's as simple as that.

FeliciaOja:
I use all the vex inside me and push the door open.
My room was smelling strong disgusting smell of Indian hemp. I saw this yeye boy snoring with music playing on speaker
I flog him belt as he was sleeping and we argued as I scolded him.
This morning he refuse to talk to me and even reject the fried egg I made

so I've started thinking of sending him out of my house. The trauma I experience last night still vexing me.
Should I punish him by not giving him money for 1 week
or
Should I purse him from my house?

This problem doesn't look like what you can handle I must be sincere, first he is already an adult who thinks he can take any decisions for himself plus he doesn't have respect for you nor have remorse for his actions. If the people who gave birth to him couldn't handle him and has pushed him to you, I wonder what magic you intend to perform on a 19 year old man. Bend them till they are 7 is not just a mere saying. So be careful before you enter into bigger trouble all in the name of being an assistant mother.

Nazgul:
Doesn't he have a phone you could have used to reach him to open the gate for you rather than banging on the gate for hours?

When next you have a visitor, family member or friends, state your house rules clearly on the first day of their visit, don't just assume they'll be nice, Nigerians aren't nice people, they're opportunists. If they can't abide by your rules, bundle them out of your house that very moment and stand by your decision regardless of how they beg or who they call to mediate on their behalf.

Believe me, when next they visit you, they would behave properly. 90% of Nigerians are mad, so you have to display your own madness so they can accord you some respect.

What happens to reading well to comprehend first then comment after, her battery phone died hence she can't make calls

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

But isn't 15 years difference too much?

Auduambless:
You are the only daughter and you also have a sister..

Hanty why

It's important to carefully read a thread before jumping to comment plus it's not compulsory that everyone must comment both those that understand English and those that don't

mrvictor:
It's mega childishness that's worrying you and your little sister. The "good Samaritan" is taking a big risk should something bad happen to you or your sister. Your exile won't last for you'll soon run back home and beg when reality sets in. Mother has no replacement. Honour your parents, there are some blessings in doing that.

Na wao, some people and their advices, God help us

Solofresh2:
You don't even know who I am and where I came from but all you have to do is concluded that I am poor
I am only talking about what I see happening everyday.Even my friends do the same too.
Do you even know how many fellow men I have helped in this country?
Do you know how many people I have employed?
I don't blame you sha

You don't sound like someone that can help anyone if not you shouldn't be jealous that someone helped pay their bills even if it's a man

PandoraObi:
IPOB miscreants and cannibals have started attacking the south west, you will be annihilated , no place for ESN cannibals hideout in the south west, don't hide under election to wreck havoc

Looks like the only word you have crammed very well to pronounce now is IPOB, be careful not to mistakenly call your girlfriend that name in the heat of the moment

Solofresh2:
I am 100% sure that good Samaritan is a man.This same men that find it hard to help their fellow men.
Make I no talk too much sha

What's wrong with those fellow men that must always fold their arms for their fellow men to come and help them? Handicapped or sick?
Put out your beggars plate boldly if you want to beg for arms and not hiding under another person's thread to do that and pollute the mind of people who are ready to help.

greggng:



What of if you and your sister die whereever you are ...how can they locate your body ? Sometimes we think straightforward without thinking backward...your action cab backfire...stop behaving like a coward...go back home and confront your problem ...let your mom know that her behaviour is affecting you and your sister..

Talk is cheap, somethings sound so easy when it concerns someone else.

Deborah200299:


She is a woman

Please stop responding to this person's unruly questions, just keep up with the good work you are doing and God will richly bless you.

[quote author=Deborah200299 post=118190245]I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


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Honestly you have moved me to tears with this your kind natured display, it's one thing to care about someone but it's entirely a different thing altogether to take a bullet for the person. And this is exactly what you have done, seeing you making this level of sacrifice is really so touching judging from the level of selfishness the country has forced people into now. Well done my darling, God bless your kind heart and I assure you that this your rare display of kindness will never go unrewarded .God in his infinite mercy will surely pay you back several folds even in a manner you don't expect. I wish I still have a very good younger brother that I can connect you with but I sure know that God will provide you with a man that he has specifically moulded to cherish and care for you to connect to you in Jesus name.

AbujaCitiBlog:
You refer to your Dad as a Dog? You are cursed eternally! Idiotic fool! Very useless somebody. Na your own Papa you call Dog. You don't even know the size of the curse on your head. Animal.

The way most people talk sometimes goes a long way in defining them and their upbringing to the extent that you don't even need to make any further effort to know how and where they were raised. Making your point without curse or abuse is not so difficult.

MrDoGood:
He might not be aware how it got there

Indeed

jetwonder:
their juju were their parents put hand to become famous turn back and carry those children

Sometimes let's try to be careful with our utterances especially concerning someone else pain before we use our mouth to attract the wrath of God.

Yul-1st
Datti- 2nd
Obi- 3rd
Jonathan-4th
The rest- Hmmmmmmm

The simple answer here is that your wife is far wider than you in reasoning because if you are still bringing a thread like this here for us, then you seriously need that counseling

The fastest, easiest and cheapest is rice water. Wash out the first water from ur rice preferably basmatic or any other scented rice before you start cooking. Keep in a bowl for 24 hrs, then pour out the upper part which would have separated from the creamy liquid the following day. put the creamy part into a container where you can put it in ur fridge to use. Rub it all over ur hair after washing or daily if possible and allow it to dry on ur hair. You can always get more anytime you are boiling rice and add to ur container in the fridge.

OkoRemi2023:
igbo girls are running away from the beast in their men but naive Yoruba girls are running to these beast



ask why Northern ladies preferred to married Yoruba guys than igbo guys. a lady is facing the same fate but thank God her parents have rescue her



Yoruba parents should do better, igbo guys no have time for endurance as we do in Yoruba land, people that use their own for blood go kill you with no delay

Abeg make we hear word, which yoruba men are you talking about? The ones that will leave their wives at home to be paying all the bill's while they go about having illegitimate children with every other woman that can open leg for them. Men that leaves every responsibility to the woman to carry and never care about what is happening to the woman and his children. If you are talking about the few percentage of the lettered and very exposed Yoruba men who have respect for marriage, I can understand but Yorubas in general abeg let the truth be told and find out the real reason why your girls run after Igbo guys. How can you even compare an Igbo man with a yoruba when it comes to taking care of their family. A typical Igbo man is a proud being who showcases his wealth and ability on how well kept his family is.

Pakute:
It's Baba Ahmed definitely sneaking in Peter Obi into Kaduna for the summit. I'm quite sure he would have prostrated to Elrufai before sneaking in the fraud to Kaduna. Remember, Elrufai locked out Obi from using Arewa house for LP conference. Elrufai would rather die than see an nyamree desecrate the iconic Arewa house.

Good enough so what size and colour of coffin does he like to be buried with because from your words his death is VERY VERY near. Don't forget to inform us so we can send our condolences when he finally die.

All these animals in human skin,mtcheeew

FaceTanke:
A Maryland native


Its not Maryland Lagos

She is not a Nigerian native

The trainee who caused the accident is a Nigerian (Ayomide Oyebode)

ideaz:
This settles soup matters for 1 year or 6 months. Looks like a good idea.

How can someone eat only 2 types of soup for a whole 6 or 1 year? It's monotonous na

Reno is only living up to his name(Omokri) so if he is not making mockery of himself how will he defend his name or don't you know that every name we bear in this life reflects our true self and tells who we truly are. Same Reno that claimed to be Peter Obi's social media manager sometime ago is still here badmouthing him. If Peter Obi can employ you and pay your salary Reno, then he is above you in every aspect, if he can relieve you of the shameful job of carrying women's handbags and running errands for them in order to feed? Then he is your boss and nothing can change that. But all the same go ahead and keep making mockery of urself, who am I to stop you from burning your bridges even the one that may bring you back from ur exile.

plaindealer:



https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1578822783123218433?t=FjD0U4ug0phAzuPka_6w2w&s=19

What's with you and Peter Obi, looks like you sleep, wake up, eat, bath and even make love to your wife with Peter Obi in your mind and mouth these days. Why are you so bothered about his affairs and life? Don't you think this so much concentration on Peter Obi will affect your productivity in life generally? Pls rest and allow Peter Obi to rest mbok

Knowing that something is bad and still doing it is a sin against God and humanity

Are those ones also Christians or ritualists?

Are you so wicked and heartless that you can't even the feel the pain that you are inflicting on ur brother whom you claimed that has been a father figure for you all thru? Even if his senseless wife has lost it, where is the blood that flows between you and ur brother. I thought they said it's thicker than water, has women finished on the face of the earth that it must be ur brother's wife? Anyways, my last word for you is that Nemesis and Kama does exist, just remember to inform us here on Nairaland when yours come visiting.