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Why do a lot of guys always quick to address their fellow guys as simps on this platform simply because they choose to do things differently. Everyone cannot have the same understanding about life and marriage for crying out loud, the fact that you choose to do the wrong thing justifying as right doesn't make it right. Moreso you can't also force your fellow man to have the same ideology with you especially when it comes to handling relationships. How and where a man is raised up goes a long way in defining his approach to relationships with the opposite sex. You cannot expect a man who was raised and nurtured in a caring and well organized home to have the same ideology with one who was raised in a cantankerous polygamous family where women are treated as objects. So quit addressing any man as a simp because to me it's actually the real Simps that are always quick to call others that as a cover up for their weaknesses, it is a free world so allow people to make their choices and live with it. My opinion though so no one should come after me

As much as this is a good initiative why wait till now when election is by the corner to bring it out? Haven't Nigerians been suffering on issues of transportation for a very long time now, if Tinubu is so compassionate about the plight of a common man, why hasn't he initiated this before now instead of making it a trade by barter game indirectly now. His picture and that of Shettima is there and every other thing pertaining APC on the card, what information does that pass on the holder of such card naturally? Truth be told this is pure trade by barter .

Oizee:
even me i confuse, 4 kids at 26 and the oldest child is just 4 and he has not started school and the op thinks he has achieved greatly.

Even me too because some 4 yr old children nowadays are already in primary 1 or 2 so I wonder why his 4 yr old is yet to start even if he claim to be doing so well financially.

Oizee:
so u believed the op like dis? The oldest child according to him is 4yrs

According to him na ��

MufasaLion:
They'll raise kids in poverty and those female kids will be married off to men living in poverty also while the male kids will to back to village to farm and continue the cycle (breeding like rodents) their ancestors have started. Disgusting!

Honestly the worst crime any parent can commit is bringing innocent children into this wicked world to suffer them without any tangible plan for their future. Why having them like puppies when you are not getting any award or certification for that in this horrible economy. Mtcheeew

MufasaLion:
They'll raise kids in poverty and those female kids will be married off to men living in poverty also while the male kids will to back to village to farm and continue the cycle (breeding like rodents) their ancestors have started. Disgusting!

Honestly the worst crime any parent can commit is bringing innocent children into this wicked world to suffer them without any tangible plan for their future. Why having them like puppies when you are not getting award or certification for that in this horrible economy. Mtcheeew

MufasaLion:
They'll raise kids in poverty and those female kids will be married off to men living in poverty also while the male kids will to back to village to farm and continue the cycle (breeding like rodents) their ancestors have started. Disgusting!

Honestly the worst crime any parent can commit is bringing innocent children into this wicked to suffer them without any tangible plan for their future. Why having them like puppies when you are not getting award or certification for that in this horrible economy. Mtcheeew

CONGRATULATIONS but I think four is already a good number plus you have all the sex complete at an early age. Adding to this number might not be an ideal thing looking at the economy of the nation, no matter how comfortable you think you are still give room for unforeseen circumstances God forbid. So you won't jeopardize the future of these beautiful ones God has already given you. Just my opinion though.

Privatepart00:
Next time don’t pour the watery pap away , switch the gas on , and pour inside a pot, a little fire on it with a spoon to stir from time to time , will normalize the pap for you.

Yes but it's only if you didn't pour too much hot water in the first place because if you already overpoured hot water before it became watery, it will never thicken no matter how long you cook it on the gas

May Her Soul Rest in the bossom of the Lord

Hopeba:
Chop boli , is that name a type for a gentleman?

Not a good comment to the memory of the dead, is not good to talk I'll of the dead

GloriousGbola:
please stop highlighting your inability to think

i pointed you to an article by the american society of gynecologists and obstetricians

TLDR generation.

no wonder any fool can post something on nairaland and you will swallow it

small wonder all those staphlococcus hustlers are still making money - because the average nigerian is a lazy illiterate who cannot be bothered to actually take time to read.

The ability to pass our informations without using insulting words goes a long way in portraying our level of maturity and effective use of words. And thank you

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GloriousGbola:
https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/vulvovaginal-health

https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-clean-your-vagina

a simple google search will show you that

or are you, like the poster, another internet lgbtq who is a self acclaimed authority on female anatomy?

It's important to take time to understand before attacking, I m not claiming to be anything or anyone special rather just stating the obvious that the topic is educative to each and everyone here as we can never know it all even if we pretend to. And just for the records, Google is not and can never be a trained medical personnel so let's be careful on how we take everything that dishes out for us.

GloriousGbola:
The real problem is the lazy mod that pushed this nonsense to FP. This shit thread should have stayed buried

Now some tldr pikins and their ediat bfs will start flushing their vaginas.

On the plus side a well aimed stream of water can work.wonders for those who engage in self-help. Maybe that is the real aim of the thread. Stealth jilling off tips.

I don't really agree that it's a shit thread, yes the OP might not have done a good job to it yet it's educative. The fact that you don't need it doesn't mean that some other people don't because looking at some comments here you will quite agree with me that there are actually a lot of people that need this awareness. The OP may not have been very elaborate but some other people here have come up with very intelligent and guiding points to clear certain misconceptions especially in this area of where to wash and where not to wash.
Certain ladies hygiene level is quite low and to some extent some has drawn the conclusion that because the vagina is meant to have a certain level of smell, then any other odour that oozes out from there is acceptable and therefore won't bother to know when they are to see a specialist. Plus some people are naturally dirty that they no longer percieve odour whether offensive or pleasant. It may also interest you to know that there are women that gives out a very heavy odour of urine when sitting close to them, maybe as a result of not either using water or tissue after urinating all in the name of not touching the vagina. So if you ask me it's not a shit thread

And what is the dead man doing with all these luxuries now which I m sure he probably didn't enjoy while alive?

dawnomike:
But will it still be rotating in the grave?

Good question

Kenfil:
Biko, the only part of the vagina that self cleanse is the internal part and that is why it is discouraged to douche etc however your external parts do not wash themselves, please keep it clean and tidy or else you go use smell kill people �

Only God knows how many they have sent to hospital all in the name of "self washing "And some of us are boldly defending this kind of threatening polution.

SyrusdeHansome:
Who mentioned washing de vagina with soup? When i was in school a female doctor adviced female students to always wash their vagina with clean water but some of u will come here to show brilliance

I tire o

Chymummy89:
Wonders shall never end. Op is female vagina bathing bucket. How do u wash it? Like use soap and Spong? Don't give what you don't have. So you want ladies to insert one finger
with soap and water inside vagina because she want her vagina to have vanilla flavor kind of fragrance in a bit to please men? Pls ladies don't ever try insert ur finger insider with soap or anything so that your guy will be perceiving orange flavour in there or else you will invite a terrible infection when you must have finished the normal vaginal pH. So just live a healthy life and allow nature to handle the rest and mind you as we are here reading comments, we have about 2,000 men giving there women head. Note: a healthy vagina will always smell nice but not Sweet juice like fragrance.

I m not sure OP means cleaning with all these that you are mentioning here because everyone knows it's not healthy to use all that in the V area. But facts remains that you need to assist that area to smell nice, there's no part of the body you leave unclean that won't smell after awhile not to talk of a part that secrets liquid constantly. Haba na. we can't keep deceiving ourselves that nature will take its course on this type except you want to keep people away from urself because even me as a woman can't stand another woman with a smelly private part. You come and sit beside me oozing out that rotten mustard seed offensive odour and expect me to pretend and be dying in silence? I no fit abeg talkless of a man. Pls let's stop hiding under the umbrella of nature to exhibit dirtiness, everything in a woman's body needs attention and care

Redstubpen:
I am feeling empty and blank. I might now be insensitive to pain and trauma. I am tired of trying failing and being stagnant in life. I need a relief, someone to talk to, to offer advice, someone that would show empathy.

Have you tried having a private chat with God almighty who has answers and solutions to every situations? You can also get access to him thru the alter of fire @ the NSPPD 7am prayers mon- Fri @ the Streams of Joy int, for What God cannot do does not exist. I challenge you to give him 3 months of ur time on that alter if your life doesn't turn around for good, come back here an insult me as much as you can

Medianna:
I have read it from line one to last last.. but I can't catch the gist..
An average woman knows that the 'V' washes itself by itself.

NB: because of the above statements even guys that don't even have Virgina are attaching me.. plz read in-between line..
I still maintain my stand any day anytime.
Besides there's difference between wash and clean.

As much as we all know that the Vagina secrets a particular gland that acts as cleanser for it, same gland is a substance that comes from the inside which has an offensive odor that needs to be washed and keep clean with water. In as much as I m not encouraging any washing with soap or any chemicals that may be harmful to the body ,water is healthy to use even if it's ten times in day, the earlier we stop deceiving ourselves about the V washing itself by itself, the safer our marriages and health of our partners. Infact the most appropriate way for a woman to keep herself from exhibiting unhealthy smell is by making use of water each time you use a restroom no matter how many times in a day. Men are human like us and shouldn't be subjected to punishment of inhaling unhealthy odours all in the name of enjoyment

crafteck:
Pele ooo, if you were single at your age would you be mentioning family values and religion if offered a number.. Rest

I don't think greediness and lack of contentment has anything to do with age, if you can be a husband snatcher at 40 that means you can also snatch even at 20 because its already an accepted norm for you. This only has to do with choice and value, she doesn't want to be numbered and that's that for her and every other person that has conscience.

[quote author=Hadol post=116969539][/quote]This is not nice at all na, at least she tried as a woman let's give it to her

Gdmorning guys, pls I need someone to guide me on how to post a topic on Nairaland forum, I m not yet exposed to that pls and thanks in advance �

ozo13:
u should have stop at just teaching her how to make use of the roll-on without telling her she smells bad.when I have visitors that smells bad.i usually dash them perfume if I have one at that moment.the smart ones among them will know the meaning.people dont like to be body shame.
Some use expensive iphone but the pant they use u will want to vomit.

Honestly there's no point romancing the truth, fact is one who is wise is wise and the foolish will still display their stupidity no matter how you handle that truth. Even at just dashing them roll ons and perfumes without saying why, the foolish ones will decode your intentions and take offense in it or feel insulted. So to me she handled this the best way anyone can, sure we can't always please everyone

Ginaz:
aunty.. let's forget the issue. hopefully someone would help her more than I've done. they will buy her roses , sing celine Dion and buy her all the gifts in the world. cheers!

Please stop bothering yourself explaining so much cos I didn't see anything wrong in your actions, someone somewhere would still have told her the bitter truth maybe in a more insulting way so the earlier she learn to deal with it however it's said the better for her. You may seem like her enemy now just because you told the truth that even her friends may have been discussing behind her, but soon she will realize what it means for someone to walk up to you and tell you that bitter truth that others have been avoiding to say to your face yet make jest of you at the back.

2Radii:
There is always a connection between daughter and father, and between sons and mother.. I don't know why

It's just natural especially with the first daughters and first sons, it's something no one can explain cos God just made it that way

This is a big lesson for the living, rash actions begets rash death. Even if she had caught up with them and made trouble, it doesn't guarantee that her hubby will stop womanizing after that so women please be wise to live longer to train the innocent children you brought into this world

Kabirudeen25:
The other way round as in how? I have never heard any Ghanaian music in my life. That tiktok artist abi wetin b him name no dey hear 'swallow your pride'

I dey tell you, he who knows not and knows not that he knows not is a fool forever. But at least someone is telling them the bitter truth.

Pls who knows the name of the artist and the song title? Help pls