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Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by FavouredNK: 12:44pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Romanoff: Exactly what I was going to say, divorce is still possible even if it's only her bride price that you paid so stop all these unfounded fears and marry the love of ur heart. Telling her that you don't want Court wedding will rather make her unsure of the marriage as it may present you as having skeletons in ur cupboard. |
Celebrities / Re: If You Know These Men, You Are Not An Indomie Generation by FavouredNK: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
I know only three of them, Van Danme, Arnold and Sylvester yet I m long married and about to become a grandmum 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Husband Reportedly Beat Wife To Death Over Loaf Of Bread In Anambra by FavouredNK: 12:47pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
chatinent: Whatever the case maybe, there's still no justification for a real man to lay hands on his wife irrespective of the level of provocation. Maturity in marriage is not just about age, every man should know this before jumping into marriage. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 8:33pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: I honestly i did not look at your username before wasting my precious time responding to you because I do know that most of these J. People usually reason things upside down as their heads doesn't do the normal 360". So check the next door, I m not available. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 8:24pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: You sure have a way of reading your bible upside down if you do have one and I will never stop connecting God to marriage because marriage is a union ordained by God himself so you just have to deal with that. Moreso I don't care about your definition of genuine love, I define mine by my understanding and yes call it whatever you like but I am proudly a Christian and goes to church. And so because I stand on the rock that is Jesus, I don't give a damn about ur unguided talk about Christians but one thing I m sure of is that myself, my whole family members and my marriage will outlive you and ur cohorts in Jesus name, Amen!! |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 6:45pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: This your response has also gone a long way in revealing how much of parental love you lacked in growing up hence you so demean the value of love in life generally. Love is something that infuses in you when you are the midst of it and reflects in you anywhere you find urself even without you knowing it. This is why it's very important for parents to create an atmosphere of love in their marriage to avoid raising toxic children who becomes a trait to the society and humanity. |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 6:36pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
xristos: Why then should we base it on sex and procreation alone.Moreso all of us must not be completely selfish and backwards, if we must adhere to a total obedience to the word of God concerning marriage, same Paul you so love his admonition about sex in marriage in 1cor 7 also talks so much about marriage in Eph. 5: 25-33 yet you still don't see the importance of love, affection and care in marriage. You choosed to concern urself so much with sex in marriage throwing away love and still avoiding my question " if it's possible to conveniently enjoy sex with someone you don't love or bond with? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 6:17pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: We do not need your validation to ascertain if our marriage is successful, enjoyable or blissful. It's us and only us in that marriage, built to our taste and our choice and it has been working beautifully for us for over 23 years now. I am not in any law court with you or anyone else for me to present my hubby as a witness for you to believe in whether what I said is true or not . It is what it is and you either believe me or believe what you like it's a free world. We are all entitled to our opinions when it comes to matters of the heart and no one can force another to think and act like the other. Whatever works for you go with it and leave me with mine as I owe you no clarifications. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 5:22pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
prophetfire: Yet majority of these taking the back door could have also been avoided if God and genuine love was a part of that decision from the onset. If these two were allowed to take preference from the beginning before the union was consummated, forgiveness wouldn't be so difficult and maybe just maybe occasions that demand forgiveness may not have even arisen in the first place because like I said earlier. If two people genuinely and sincerely care for each other, hurting the other will be like hurting urself even if it's in secret. |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 4:43pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
xristos: 1 Peter 4:8, Songs of Solomon 8:6-7, 1 Thes 5:11, Hebrews 10: 24-25. Yes procreation is one of the reasons but centering marriage on procreation is the reason a lot of marriages are failing today, God gives us children and it's a good thing but if it doesn't come marriage will still be beautiful because husband and wife are the only initial and primarypartners with God in that arrangement. Children are secondary so shouldn't be the determining factor of the level of joy in that marriage. And even when we want to have them, we should be reasonable about the number because even having more than you can cater for is a sin of its own. |
Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 3:50pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
xristos: This mindset is the reason many of you can't build a good home because it has already collapsed before you even started. As far as I m concerned marriage is a beautiful thing because it's a union between two hearts that supposed to beat as one. You are meant to marry your friend and soulmate believing to build up your heaven in it to dwell together forever. At that point when you first meet and develop a thing for each other, it shouldn't be about what any of you possessed materially or what to gain materially but the beating of your hearts which will be the bedrock on which every other achievement will be built upon. If you genuinely love and care for one another in all circumstances, you will so bond together that it will be difficult for any of you to hurt each other even in secret. I know that many of you will come after me but I m talking from experience and this is the secret of my 23 years of a very blissful marriage. It's not about procreation because we agreed and only had one daughter who gives us so much joy while we still enjoy our marriage as if we just met yesterday. And if it's for sex, how do you enjoy sex with someone that you don't love or can't bond with?So be careful of what you place ahead in getting your life partner before you start generalizing marriage as something bad because for me it's the most beautiful experience. 4 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: The Voice Nigeria Season 4 (Live Thread) by FavouredNK: 5:46pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Eriggs: Haba! Why are you so pained of his comments! The last time I checked, people are still free to comment however they feel like on any thread. Whether on point or off point so free him to make his comments in peace. |
Business / Re: This Is Why The Rich Don't Help The Poor In Nigeria by FavouredNK: 5:38pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Why are you talking as if the only reason women goes into relationships is for their bills to be paid by the man? Relationship is not all about one person depending on the other for financial responsibilities, stop basing your relationship only for the financial gain rather than genuine love and affection. People like you are the reason Nairaland guys generalize insults on Nigerian ladies. Pls add more value to urself and the rest of other ladies out there. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 3:03pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Owologbo: Except if you are the OP because I was only supporting what you said to the Op |
Crime / Re: Naked Rapist Dies After Smashing Victim's Door Open With Head by FavouredNK: 9:31pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
HeartlessMan: Even if she murdered him he deserved it then, what was he looking for in her apartment in the first place. |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 2:58pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
lexy2014: I tire o |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 2:55pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Owologbo: Make una no mind this person, he just wanted to create awareness, now we know that you are in UK so rest and allow us to rest it's new year pls 1 Like |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 2:47pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
koife: So what happens to the thousands of Nigerians who has been living in UK plus millions of those that still travels everyday. Are they still not there enjoying their lives peacefully and you that just went yesterday will not allow us to hear word telling ppl not come. You are meant to live ur own life and allow others to make their choices, enough with noise pls. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 2:40pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
koife: Come back first to show how serious you are before telling others not to come. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by FavouredNK: 2:38pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Abeg learn how to live a private life and desist from discouraging others, if you can't stay in foreign country then come back to your oshodi/mushin lifestyle that you are use to. It's not by force to study abroad especially when that life is not into you in the first place. It's holiday season and is meant for resting and family bonding not for mushin and ikorodu carnivals 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Richard Mofe-Damijo And Wife, Jumobi, Celebrate 22nd Wedding Anniversary (Photo) by FavouredNK: 3:17pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Juanmike: Sorry o you will wait forever, enemy of progress |
Celebrities / Re: Shan George's Children Gift Her Mercedes Benz Car For Christmas (Photo) by FavouredNK: 12:37pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
dyera: Appreciate good thing and move forward so that good thing will come your way. There's no need hating and calling names when it's not necessary especially when you are not a saint either urself. |
Travel / Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by FavouredNK: 2:39pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Ballzproblem2: This is just the exact answer, it's not everyone that relocates because of more money security and peace of mind summounts every other thing and you and I know that no amount of millions can buy you these things in Nigeria. |
Travel / Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by FavouredNK: 11:52am On Dec 27, 2022 |
faceLAGOS: GBAMSOLUTELY |
Travel / Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by FavouredNK: 11:45am On Dec 27, 2022 |
sukkot: The most senseless comment I have ever come across, mtcheeew 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: May Edochie Celebrates Christmas With Her Children (Photos) by FavouredNK: 2:59pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
kevwemike: Do you live with them or has he complained to you before? It's good to condemn wrong doing when you see it rather than romancing it, don't forget that what you admire and support has a way of coming to you. 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: May Edochie Celebrates Christmas With Her Children (Photos) by FavouredNK: 2:48pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
tiswell: What kind of nonsense talk is this? Retrace her steps how, was she the one who misbehaved in the first place. Some of you are so blinded by this gender nonsense that you no longer differentiate between truth and wrong. She and Yul who needs to retrace their step? 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Did You Achieve Your Goals/targets For This Year? by FavouredNK: 1:23pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Guest2008: To the glory of God I achieved 80% of my goals and still trusting God for the completion of the remaining 20% before the end of 2022 |
Romance / Re: Why Is Christmas Special To You? by FavouredNK: 11:28am On Dec 25, 2022 |
Because it's the remembrance of the gift of salvation to mankind, the birth of christ. Nothing else can be more special than that. |
Celebrities / Re: 10,000 Smiles: Tonto Dikeh Gifts Bags Of Rice To Widows, Single Mums by FavouredNK: 6:51am On Dec 25, 2022 |
drake2: If that 25kg is not big enough why not give your own let's see and applaud you too. Mtcheeew |
Celebrities / Re: Marry Someone Who Has Sense - Elsie Okpocha (Basketmouth's Estranged Wife) by FavouredNK: 10:21am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: So if she is this good as a marriage counselor now, how come she didn't marry the perfect partner? And how come she didn't make her marriage to work at all cost if she knows all these because you should live what you preach if you are not a hypocrite 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: May Edochie Replies Husband, Yul, After He Publicly Asked For Her Forgiveness by FavouredNK: 12:32am On Dec 24, 2022 |
AbujaCitiBlog: Be careful of what you are supporting because the measure you give is the measure you will receive. It's as simple as that 2 Likes |
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