₦airaland Forum

Zirah:
Guy, I have to tell you that you don't have a mother who loves you. She's mean and selfish. Calling off intro on the d-day. That's wicked and heartless. I hope your fiancee will see this as a red flag and stay off you cos even if you end up marrying her, your mum will still make life a living hell for her cos it's who she is.

Btw, I want to ask? Are you sure you're man enough for marriage? I don't understand why your mother dictates for you at your old age

My advice for you is to cut her off. Send money home only through bank transfer but cut off those who are against you for anyone who isn't with you is against you and should be cut off.

This is exactly the kind of woman you shouldn't marry. Already talking about alienating your family? Do not under any circumstances associate with this type of biatch.

Daeylar:
Abeg don't make me laugh,



Too much interferance in the life of a grown man, the mother better respect herself.

And he should be strong, he needs to put his foot down and tell them this is the woman he wants to marry, see the way they are discussing if she will get pregnant or not as if she is a robot they control and can just tell to do anything at any point in time, no care about what she wants at all, they think cos she is 39 and wants to be married, they can tell her "jump" and she would answer "how high"

he is 36 about to get married, even wants to have a child, but he can't put his foot down and be firm? Is that how he wants to marry?

All these people who always try to control someones life under the disguise of " I care about you" forever disgust me

A relation of mine almost married a girl without womb a couple of years back. He only found out when she started having some health challenges and was taken to the hospital. She carefully concealed it from him with born again shiiit
A friend of mine also dogged a bullet under very similar circumstances, everyone else felt uneasy about their relationship except the guy. He was too blind to see because he desperately wanted to get married.
Another friend of mine almost married an olosho on sabbatical. A hoe that had been used like kilode! Extremely high mileage, she's fvcked everyone! No scruples, married, single, young, old, Yahoo boys,armed robbers,just name it, so long as you could take care of her bills and she was packaging the guy. Not like she repented though, she just laid low for him hoping to resume activities after their marriage. There's proof of this assertion.

One thing the old hags had in common was the pretense to be born again. All in their thirties.

Girls are always quick to slam a man as being wimpish if his family advices him against a partner but NEVER think otherwise when the advice is coming from their own family against a guy they want to marry. When their own family advices them against a guy, they have her best interest at heart. But when a guys family advices him against a girl, he is not man enough. I hear una!

valentineuwakwe:
Hello Nairalanders,

Nice again to be hear. Please I need advice from anyone that can give me on this issue bordering me..

I'mm a hard working self employed man of 36years and my fiancee is 39years.. We both are graduates and M.sc holders from uniport. ..

We have known selves since 2014 and told my parents in 2016 that its her I want to get married to.. They all accepted her upon meeting her and sat, January 6, 2018 was fixed for introduction... I was so happy and was in high spirit... Then come on Saturday morning, my mum called a meeting, with dad, grand mum, two of dad sisters, 2 kindred men, my immediate younger sister and brother...

My marriage issue was raised as topic and mum insisted on the age of my fiancee and said she must get pregnant first before us or myself would go for any introduction....

She was supported by 2/3 of the people present at an early morning meeting called by 4am on the same Saturday i had told my fiancee my people were coming.....

The meeting went and ended in a disaster and mum called my fiancee to cancel the introduction insisting she first get pregnant...

Please, what do you guys think I should do as my fiancee is a born again Christian with RCCG....

The issue of first takingbinnholds no place in their church doctrine...its after the wedding ...am a catholic....am in love with my woman and am not backing down....am confused and don't know what to do now...someone should please advice me....please

Please move this thread to front page as I need advice, please

My brother, I'll tell it to you straight! You may not like what you'll hear but my duty is not to make you feel good.
Most of these girls who claim born again at old age are retired ashys. After fvcking away their youth, they start forming borney when the biological clock has reached an advanced stage and come up with all those bed undefiled bollocks. Your mom may have observed something and is trying to protect you. If you want a true born again lady, chances are that you'll find them younger, from teens to mid twenties. Or probably married. You see those ones wey don old finish, they are either looking for husband or child or both.
Don't let any girl package you with that whole born again shiiit let alone a cougar! Anyone going to church to look for wife is on a long thing. You'll see all those cougars forming love for the Lord. They are the ones that are most active in church activities, they hardly miss any. The much younger ones however, are not as punctual, maybe because their whole life is still spread out ahead for them to enjoy and straffe until their own clock advances, then they'll be the new cougars.

Oga, give yourself brain! Your mom is just telling you politely and indirectly to forget the girl. Cougars on Nairaland would not support your mom, but don't think they have your best interest at heart. They all just want to get married regardless of what they'll make you suffer in future, that's the typical Nigerian girl's mindset.

Alariwo2:
It's really disheartening..

Most Yoruba businessmen I know don't have any investments in the region due to their hostile nature.
Even dangote gets series of attacks from time to time and his trucks burnt simply because he isn't igbo.
It's not fair.

Your ignorance is nauseating to say the least. Please prove your above assertions or forever shut it. You wouldn't know anything about investments even if you saw one. Pray tell, show me Yoruba businesses in any other part of Nigeria asides Yoruba land and abuja/ph. There are six geopolitical zones in Nigeria, SE is just one. Name from others let me hear.

Cherez:
OP, Mr. Alariwo please take my advice politely.
You need to come out of your pre-mediated beliefs and travel round Nigeria and at least spend 5yrs in each region before you come out with this proof.
In Lagos where an Igbo man won a Rep position, the area is predominantly Igbos. Point out any location not predominantly a tribe led by same tribe in any part of Nigeria. PLEASE MENTION THOSE PLACES HERE.
Truly, I think any act an average Nigerian does if its Igbos it receives unnecessary attention (I stand to be corrected)). Where in Nigeria not in the SE is an Igbo man a councillor/ward, etc like you opined? Igbos travel, pay for everything they get elsewhere or were they given free?
Most times, the lands they bought are resold and they persist.

Thanks

He is just a mischief maker who hasn't seen Lagos toll gate before but likes threads like this so that he and his ignorant ilk can self-service off it till eternity.

Alariwo2:
It's no news that the igbos from south eastern part of Nigeria are found in every corner of the country.

They live freely and give birth as they like in other regions without getting stigmatized. Their kids grow up among other ethnic groups and contest for leadership positions in any community they find themselves.

South East on the other hand is a "no go area" for other ethnic groups as you won't get the free hand to do whatever you like.

A yoruba or Hausa man cannot become ward councillor.

When are we going to see Nairaland topics like.. Igbo group appoints a Yoruba/ Hausa man president?
I don't think I've ever come across such.

Before you talk too much about an issue you know next to nothing about, ill ask you to do a census of other tribes in igbo land and tell me your findings. How many Yoruba people travel or even settle in other places asides major cities like ph and Abuja? Before you make it an igbo issue, ask yourself how many Yoruba's hold political aspirations in benue or plateau or Calabar? Of course you've not reasoned that part because to you everyone else that is not Yoruba or hausa/fulani is igbo.

Even in Abuja, how many of other tribes have sought political aspirations? Igbos are ambitious and adventurous, you can't blame them for it. That's why you see them in every corner of Nigeria no matter how remote the place is. Oga complainant, travel and see!

Oga set up a secret vigilante using proxies and chase these mofos outta Benue. Stop being a whimp! This is where the former governor of Enugu would have excelled greatly. Chimaraoke Nnamani would have removed all these mofos from Enugu and maybe the Benue man would take a cue. Unfortunately, the present governor of Enugu is a total wuss! Benue too. I only trust obiano and my Abia people to deal with this kind of situation effectively.

Worksunlimited:
The boy is above 18.. Why should the dss dude be sacked for following Oga pikin request to buy motorbike?

Only in naija sha...

They were sacked for negligence of duty. They left his escapades out of their weekly reports and it's wrong.

Firstorderwizard:
It is worthy of mention here that the 1993 election adjudged the freest nd fairest in Africa's election history was conducted by an Igbo man Dr. Ralph Nwosu(option A4).








Just wanna make common sense

Prof. Humphrey Nwosu

obaataaokpaewu:
Growing up then, I still remember some of the campaign jingles
Abiola's lyrics goes like this, I have forgotten some
Abiola na the man oh, SDP na the party
...................
For better tomorrow oh!
My brother, Wetin we go do oh?
My sister, helep Don come!
MKO/ Kingibe Action!!!
Abiola Abiola Abiola progress!!!
Then Bamanga Tukur's own
Bamanga Bamanga
Tukur Tukur
Anywhere you see Bamanga
Stand there Stand there

Lol.... Option A4, the freest and fairest election in our history

On NTA then, the jingle went thus:
On the march again

Response...on the march again

Looking for Mr.president

Response...on the march again

MKOoooooo
Is our man oooooo

joeyfire:
Hmmmm June 12. That was where Nigeria began to really fail and die. What we have now is a carcass that doesn't know it is not alive

Nigeria started failing soon after independence, long before June 12.

sabama007:
I really thought climbing the Olumo Rock is the second adventurous hike after the Awgu hill but this looks great n impressive.

I must surely go there for adventure.

Thanks Op for the detailed narration

Let's go together.


@profile pix...the face is the face of sabama007 but the hand is that of sarrki!

You all should do well to ignore the deomello guy, he just wants to derail the thread with his inferiority complex and it is working.

That's all he does on people's threads, posting counter pictures from osun. Just ignore him! He isn't worth your response.

Damian077:
That car is golf 3 wagon not SUV.
RIP to the deceased and quick recovery to the wounded, while praying that God give the bereaved the fortitude to bear the loss.

Car specialist! Look again!

BankeSmalls:
What you don't know pastor, is that the police can arrest and charge you for murder just for helping save lives of fellow Nigerians in an accident. Its a shitty system made worse by the absence of trained police men.

But you are a mumu too, you didn't call road safety on 112, you just started begging people on the roads like a normal Nigerian "herdsman"

Though your post smacks of ignorance, but I'd rather help save someone's life and worry about police harassment later than standby and watch him die. I won't do that no matter what. It's human life damn it! The pastor is very right. Nigerians are the most wicked set of humans on earth.

Lomprico2:
Its 'a' hotel not 'an' hotel!



Welcome to lagos.

Mr English, both "a" and "an" can be used with hotel.

Alariiwo:
Elections is around the corner..

The killer party is hell bent on giving Buhari bad name.
All they know is dirty politics with ttheir treacherous supporters from erosion republic. Today biafra or death, tomorrow atikulate.
Unstable lots.

Today I mourn the absence of common sense in you. Just read what you have been typing there since and tell me if the resources wasted on your existence is justified. Everything is not about political parties, stop acting like a dimwit! It doesn't suit you.

kuipid:
So Some group Of Youths Were Interviewed AND asked Questions On Nigeria's Amalgamation But They Didn't Even Know The Meaning Of Amalgamation Talk More Of The Year.
<br>
So This Is My Little Piece.
<br>
1.Nigeria Was Amalgamated In Zugeru Wushishi Lga Niger State Then Kaduna.<br>
2.Nigeria was Amalgamated In The Year 1914.<br>
3.Nigeria Was Amalgamated By Lord Lugard.<br>
4.The Site Of Amalgamation Is Now Dilapitated[Ait]
5.A Church Same Age A Site Of Amalgamation Is Standing Whilst Monument Is Now Gone.

<br>
God Bless Nigeria.

Cc lalasticlala,mynd44
Source-http://alhajikuipid..com

...and at the end of the day you failed to tell us what amalgamation is.

SouthEastFacts:
I am not saying they will fare well. I said Osinbanjo can never emerge Presidential Candidate when Rochas is aspiring to become one.

Using roach-ass again as a yardstick is wrong. No one takes him seriously not even in his party. They know he is not sellable not even to his own race.

engrchykae:
the north cannot continue to blackmail the south with violence.
We knew the history of both Buhari and Tinubu.
Both men have no business with democracy.
Buhari disdained the entire Nigeria and toppled the second republic.
What he meant by that coup is that Nigerians are fools,he meant that he knew better than Nigeria.
He became a law to himself,finally God answered the prayer of Nigerians and babangida removed him.
Tinubu since 1999 have made himself a despot in lagos and the southwest with no respect for democracy.
Then these two rapists of democracy ganged up and told us that they will give us good government and WE AGREED.

You probably agreed but not me. There's no law that states that an individual must serve two terms. As far as party structures are concerned in Nigeria, the zoning is regional and not individual. After all the same logic was employed in kicking GEJ out.

LordAdam16:
Surprised no one mentioned this before you.

It's a reprisal attack.

The Fulanis tried the Mambillas, and got instant retribution.

They moved to the Bachamas, and are getting instant retribution.

It's a jungle, that's for sure. Let Abuja continue soft-pedaling, until it blows up in their face.

-Lord

I didn't even know this. Good then! Nice development! And the Fulanis were on that thread wanking all over the place. Let them feel the heat too. But the bachamas shouldnt have involved the women and children

From the responses, you'll see that violence is an innate trait in some people. All the Fulanis commenting never asked for the authorities to fish out the perpertrators. No! It's revenge for them! If only the south will have that same mindset whenever they are attacked by these marauding philanderers. When there's a balance of terror, peace reigns. Christians and southerners in general, take up arms and defend yourselves. The govt won't do it for you. If you are attacked, annihilate the enemy, simple! After that, forgive whatever is left of them for their atrocities. No one should have monopoly of violence!

SouthEastFacts:
So you are supporting Buhari badly so that 2023, Osinbanjo will bequeathed on us abi? Not out of patriotism or love for the country.

You are still a novice in Nigerian politics. Mark my word, Osinbanjo can never be President. If the SW in their usual self try to betray the East in APC whether we voted for them or not in 2019, then we shall return power to the North.

Let me see how Osinbanjo can beat political heavy weights like Rochas, Orji Uzor Kalu, Ken Nnamani, Amechi to emerge Presidential candidate in 2023.

Anyway it will not even happen because APC is losing next year election. Is it Benue, Adamawa, Plateau or Taraba that will vote in Buhari again?

Sir, I think you are the novice here. Why would you even think that Roach-ass or Kalu would fare well in any national elections? Especially a bumbling buffoon like roach-ass?

In any case, I don't see osinbajo replacing the chief dullard unless the man dies in office. Asides that, it's gonna be a toughie.

engrchykae:
sarrki,i agree with you on this.
This man want to sacrifice buhari for another northerner would want to spend 8 years and further consolidate the advantage of the north.
If there is no southern presidential candidate,then its better to allow Buhari to finish his 8 years and open the road for the south.
Northerners are hypocrites.

While you are trying to play politics of region, note that 7 million jobs were lost in 2017 alone! Thousands killed by bh and Fulani. Do the math for 8 years and tell me what will be left of Nigeria?

Janaanu:
You have no love for the president.....

The only reason for your blind support for PMB,whether he burns the country to the ground or not, is so that power moves to your region in 2023.

Such is the true characteristics of omulabis; backstabbers

My friend, you are a hypocrite not a patriot.

That guy is a dolt. Anybody that supports his region is a nationalist. You'd do best to ignore his pathetic being, he is not even worth correcting. It is the likes of him that put Nigeria in this quagmire where the country is saddled with a useless excuse of a human being for president. But then again, it's what they wanted so let them suffer it.
I have zero sympathy for the likes of him because I know he is unemployed with no hope of getting any job anytime soon. But you'd think that alone would reset his senses to default.

queenfav:
A similar thing happened to a lady in Warri. She went clubbing with a guy and his friend. On getting to the hotel room, the guy tried to knack, she refused. The bros called his friend to come and share a room with him and the babe,saying there was no need for his guy to waste money on hotel bill since he wasn't going to smash that night. The babe slept at the edge of the bed alongside the guy and his friend. I asked the guy giving me the gist why she didn't leave to go get her own room?He told me she didn't have any money or ATM card with her. I mean what if they had gang raped her? Or started touching her at night?This babe did the right thing jare! That's why a woman should hold her own financially, to avoid some embarrassing situations. The guy goofed! The babe is the real MVP!

Rubbish. A woman that holds her own financially wouldn't be hoeing around. She clubbed with him and didn't go home straight afterwards? She went to a freaking hotel with him and lodged and didn't expect the guy to want to knack? She shoulda gotten her own damn room if she didn't want to be knacked. Dude shoulda kicked her arse out. Dude is a gentleman. Respect.

Oblongata:
Remi tinubu = bola tinubu

She will come in 23

Ambode will stay in 2019

For posterity sake

And if tinubu dies before 2023, it's bye bye to his dynasty. She bites the dust.

londoner:
Yes Israel is VERY racist towards Africans especially Ethiopian Jews. They sterilise the women when they get to Isreal.

That's why I laugh when Igbos foolishly talk about living there. They are completely ignorant about Israel of today and just how racist they are.

My brother, before you slam Israel note that Africans are racists to themselves. Nigerians are racist towards each other sef, so why Israel own go bother me more? The average Nigerian would suffer more hate from fellow compatriots than what he'd suffer from an Israeli.

She lost me at "Nigerians should be patient with President Buhari. From then onwards, I didn't need to read further.

And no mention of the most important part... Fire suppression systems. Sprinklers, extinguishers, etc. Then the detector is next to useless.

SalamRushdie:
There is no argument that the dullard is irredeemable and must be sent back to Daura please embrace the hash tag #BACK2DAURA as we send the dullard back home . #BACK2DAURA

The image is incomplete without a cow because that is what the man is... A deranged cow! A normal cow would lead Nigeria better than Buhari.