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AheadMarket:
SIN: Any activity that can inflict harm on somebody else. Going by this standard definition, masturbation is not a sin.

Wrong! You can SIN against your OWN BODY! 1 Cor 6:18
That's why a person who commit suicide will be judged because he has no right to take his/her own life. Why? God owns his life. He has KILLED someone. HIMSELF!
That your sin doesn't affect another person isn't an excuse

dapsonlou:
So she Should not Masturbate if her husband is away for 2years. You yourself can't last 6months

Read the post again: Why should husband and wife be apart from each other for two years

First and foremost: Sex/ Sexual urges are good, normal. HOWEVER, Only MARRIED couples are licensed to enjoy SEX. If you ain't married and you're having sex, you are like someone driving a vehicle without a license. That's ILLEGAL 2. Those who have urges to masturbate have a mental picture of sex. And this started by VISUALISING /Watching Pornography. 3. Sexual urges, as powerful as they are, can be controlled. The trick is, don't aggravate it. And 4. This thing starts in the mind.


More to come...

...And this is where I drop the BOMBSHELL....

The OP had no right whatsoever to check the lady's phone. The s.tupid girl should have LOCKED her phone to keep intruders like the OP where he belongs: Out in the Cold.

EggovinMma:
Amebo!
If I am that gurl and I happen to find out you invaded my privacy, I go use that same toto make you lose your job!

I will make sure I Bleep that manager brains off till he is forced you to make you lose your job!Mumu!

...Now, That's COLD

Jonathan ,as President, was asked to make his assets public. His epic response?


I DON'T GIVE A DAMNN

Ouch!

IGBOSON1:
^^^Oh please, spare me your wishy-washy talk! Anybody thinking we're all brothers in this country isn't being honest with themselves!

Appointments apart, has this your President that has visited Kaduna twice now ever stepped foot in Southern Nigeria since being sworn in? Even countries like Niger, Chad, etc, have bragging rights over an entire half of the country, yet you want to tell me the entire country has a sense of belonging in this gov't?

I'm not surprised that an easterner responded to my comments with scorn. You and people from your stock have made it abundantly clear that we cannot be brothers. Have you asked yourself :Why do northerners hate easterners so much? An south easterner by the name of Major Nzeogwu was part of those who led a coup that led to the deaths of the Prime Minister of Nigeria from the north, the western premier from the south-west....let's see, what else? Virtually every senior government official and military officers from the NORTH and SOUTH WEST were wiped out. The only ones left alive were from the SOUTH EAST. But this young igbo officer, who was in the north had the audacity to enter the palace of the Sarduna of Sokoto, (the most revered spiritual leader of all northern muslims and the most revered traditional leader of northerners)kill him in cold blood and put his boot on the face of the slain emir. Your people have suffered the effect of that murderous act as easterners have been brutally killed for decades. And the northerners haven't forgotten. It's just that the idioti.c new generation from your side haven't dug dip into the history of the sins of their fathers. Please do well to know what you are talking about before you quote me again so as to avoid any embarrassment that will come your way

"We can learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools"

Martin Luther King Jnr

Babe2sure:
Oh yes, he doesn't flaunt his wealth. I like that about him as well.He was a recluse.
Philanthropic activities? ??

My dear I think the world recluse is misunderstood and thrown around a lot all the time. He was what I would call a GLOBETROTTER. When you have six custom made private jets you could be in Florida today and Japan tomorrow and Dominican republic the next three days. I once heard of an instance where he was at his island home and he said he wanted to eat locally made amala and gbegiri soup: he simply jumped on one of his jets, flew into Nigeria where an helicopter took him to Nicon hilton hotel. He had a meal of hot amala, jumped back into the helicopter, went back to his jet and flew back! He was so rich and powerful that When you are super rich with six custom made jets and mansions all over the world, you can't sit in one place. And remember, he didn't have any business enterprises here in Nigeria but he did have in other african countries: oil wells to diamond mines.

Babe2sure:
You are making a case for him right?
My dear, he was not the only Nigerian that has been frustrated in the bid to establish business in Nigeria. Virtually all billionaires face that, it is borne out of corruption which has become systemic and endemic in Nigeria and is invariably slowing Nigeria's progress over the years. Coupled with pettiness and incurable jealousy that reigned supreme in this country.

Be that as it may, we are talking of helping the masses. Trying to establish business in Nigeria is not the only way to help, obviously. He could sponsor any causes of people suffering, when you are in a priviledged position, one should help the less priviledged, but he did none of that, all we hear about is his stupendous wealth. Phew!

I'm not making a case for him. I don't need to. His businesses scattered all over the globe have several employees, obviously. But one thing I loved about him is that he was a very quiet man, he's wasn't a noise maker at all, despite his wealth, influence, and philanthropic activities. That's why several people NEVER heard about him until now that he died. That's what I call class.

Am not cursing anyone but soooo many people yap and yap and yap without thinking because it is sooo easy to look at another person's life and start asking dumb questions like: He was rich, what did he do for the masses; what did he do for his country; what did he...? Do you know where you will end up? Or how you will end up? Many young millionaires do nothing but flex their gold chains and wrist watches and show off with different girls having wild parties on yachts and mansions parked with several choice cars, as if they are the first to be rich. I remember this man trying several times years back to establish big business here in Nigeria only to be frustrated because he refused to bribe and cut corners with corrupt elements who saw his wanting to go into business as a way of 'cashing in' by demanding he gives them kick backs and percentages in return for providing him a 'conducive environment to do business'. Many foreigners have been frustrated from doing business in Nigeria because of the environment. And please before you mention people like Dangote as well as businesses like MTN many of us don't know what it entails doing business in a place like Nigeria. The consumers are at the receiving end as we are being milked. It is well sha.

Wow! Finally this man has died !! He was friends with Late U.S President John F kennedy back in the 60's....that's to tell you how classy he was. Also friends with Nelson Mandela and several world leaders whom he hosted in his lavish home. He became a millionaire back in the 50's. Extremely classy. He owned private Jets, yachts, vintage cars like rolls royce, mansions on private beaches in U.S, Paris, etc his yacht, Yemoja, costs a whoooping $107M. His other yacht cost like $57M. Extremely rich and influential, he had no business dealings with Nigeria and the Nigerian Government. Rest in peace.

chukwudi44:
They would be appointed ministers of water resources,culture and toursim,youth development while the North will take over the juicy ones

And just what do you mean by "Juicy"? So you want them to go into government to steal,abi? You have just shot yourself in the foot. When people now say you are money minded you will get angry. Besides we all know what former minister for finance, petroleum and aviation, who were from the east did. No repeat of such, please.

frenchpharaoh1:
That's the only thing they(Buhari and Osibanjo) are good at.
Wasting tax payers money on chatered flights.
From one country to the other.

When one single female minister under the past administration accumulated Billions of naira on private trips you didn't make noise, did you?

Read all previous posts. A lot of people are ignorant, sentimental and shallow. Anywhere in the world, including countries like the U.S, when hospitals have reached capacity, the patient is usually referred to another hospital. Nothing wrong with that. Aside from that, attacking medical personnel will not solve/ remove the problem. Thirdly, the Nigerian health care system needs a total overhaul, like provision of equipment for all the departments and standard facilities and operating theaters as well as availability of life saving drugs.

amoduganja:
Dullar%%dinho and his bad luck. So many deaths within his first hundred days in office. To become president by force he promised them blood and blood they are getting.

So Buhari caused the crash, abi? Are you running a high fever, man??

Kirinwa:
Sharap! Is it not obvious? Its not everyone that is cutout to be a wife. Na you go see am for front page when e don done.

My Friend, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT! What a stupidd way of reasoning. Does that give you the right to wish someone else evil with your words? The best thing to do in such a situation is to KEEP QUIET.

uniklinkum:
It's evidenced from this write-up that the IQ of the average biafraudian is inversely proportional to their age. How does voting out the dumbest president on planet earth means hatred for igbo?

Gaddam

funmijoyb:
it will never happen 2 me cuz i'm not tonto dike. They sud pray 4 themselves 4 d courtship to last more than 5yrs .
See how d thing pain u

It WILL HAPPEN to you, not because you're not tonto dike, but because you will REAP THIS SAME WORDS YOU HAVE SOWN in somebody else's marriage. You had better nullify the wicked words you have sown into another person's marriage and wish them well.

alstacs:
I do hope this is not a true life story. If it is, then you didn't do well to post your encounter here. Medical practice and all the support professions are guided by strong ethics and one of the greatest of them is confidentiality. Details of encounter (even if names and addresses are not mentioned) must never be discussed outside official Medical circles.
The rule on ethics instructs you to keep the secret the patient has entrusted to you even after the patient has died unless if you are compelled by law to do otherwise.

Seconded.

drsolob2:
click like

If u think Amaechi have been used and dumped like Pampers

Pampers are meant to be discard after it has been sh*t in...


Forgive the grammar

experimentist:
hey nigga, why you quoting me nigga.. get out my face nigga.. aight nigga? bye nigga..

I'm quoting you because whether you think Jesus is Lord or not ISN'T the issue here. The issue is based on churches built in residential areas making a lot of noise. Stick to the topic please! Thank you!! Bye!!!

experimentist:
Good.. close all the gadem churches. Jesus is not lord!

Hold Up on that Last Statement ! Even though I'm not opposed to the idea that a lot of churches make a lot of noise, you can keep your personal convictions, as well as your beliefs (or unbeliefs) to yourself.

BABANGIDA AND OUR HISTORY
It is exactly 30 years ago today that Gen. Ibrahim
Badamasi Babangida, famously known as IBB
overthrew the then Government of General
Muhammadu Buhari in 1985. Since that infamous
day, it had not been well with Nigeria, until 1st
April 2015 when Nigerians voted Buhari as their
democratically elected incumbent president.
During those 30 blighted years, Nigeria had been
to hell and back. It was the period during which
all the good values of this country, such as hard
work, honesty, discipline, integrity, accountability
and all the traits and characteristics that edify a
nation and a people were thrown to the dogs.
Many of us observed the survival of Nigeria under
such vicissitudes as a miracle wrought by God
Himself. During the period, Nigeria was raped,
abused and deliberately pushed to the precipice in
the forlorn hope that she would fall therefrom into
the abyss and thereafter disintegrate, ostensibly
so as to free those raping her from any
responsibility as there would be no Nigeria
thereafter. Corruption became unbridled and was
actually unleashed irresponsibly on the country.
The best brains were driven away from her
shores. Perfidy, debauchery and all manner of evil
flourished. Corruption was glorified and became
the sole route to a "happy and successful" life. It
will take several volumes of contemporary history
books to tell the story of what transpired between
1985 and 2015. It took 12 gruelling years for
Nigerians to re-instate Muhammadu Buhari as
their leader, but this time as a democratically
elected President. Expectations are high. Most of
those leaders under whose watch Nigeria was
pillaged are still alive.
Let them please allow the will of God to prevail,
so that this President will repair the damage they
wilfully inflicted on this nation. Nigerians know
that if the events of this day, 30 years ago did not
occur Nigeria would have followed a different
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basilo101:
Yoruba hw market?

Tribal Bigot

TheSonOfMark:
You expect well-ratiocinated explanations from Buhari's equally bigoted sycophants?
Here's what would happen:

*They'd invade this thread to post inciting comments instead of issue-based FACTUAL explanations devoid of overbearing sentimentality.

*Supporters of PDP would be forced to defend themselves.

*A free-for-all cussing polarized squabble would occur.

*When Buhari's sycophants realize the purpose of this thread has been defeated and they've successfully diverted attention from his glaring nepotism and bigotry, they'd desert this thread and move on to the next one to regurgitate the same cliched sentences.

Predictable lots.


Oops! By the way, I am a "Wailer"- a proud one at that. I suppose "wailing" for a better democracy is honourable.♦

What were you doing before you became a proud Wailer? Hmm let's see...you were one of those shouting "No Vacancy" "Born trowey" "Brain Dead" "Quarter to go" "No certificate" "Loser" at Buhari, forgetting that only God puts people into positions of power. You forgot, and Jonathan closed his ears, listening only to the voices sycophants and deceivers who deceived him to defeat...oh well...continue wailing....you have four years( God forbid that Buhari does well, because your wailing period will be longer....

This is Buhari's style of doing things: if he knows you personally or He has heard a great deal about you as a man of integrity as well as being able to produce results, then He will appoint you into position. So far Buhari has been appointing people with integrity and track record of past achievements. That's to be expected because He doesn't want any thing or anyone to tarnish his image. The whole world is watching. And the same modaf*ckers castigating him now will crucify him later if he fails at the end of the day saying,"we said it!".

tellwisdom:
Wished I could be doing that to all these gurls on nairaland

Be careful what you wish for bro. What you will find out will scare the living sh*t out of you

Hahaha....hehehe....hohoho....

Wouldn't have been a problem waiting till marriage...but for a NIGERIAN, non-virgin lady who to say "No sex before marriage"...that's a RED FLAG. Here's why
1. Our ladies are not sincere, calculating, and secretive.
2. Our girls are SEXUALLY ACTIVE. Once they have tasted it, they are hooked and it takes the grace of God to re dedicate oneself as well as a lot of counseling and discipline
3. There are TOO MANY INSTANCES where a lady to be married is suddenly discovered to be pregnant for another guy and her intended hasn't touched her or ladies have been caught/known to be unfaithful to their intended during courtship.
4. Over time I've befriended lots of ladies and I have engaged them in lengthy discussions so as to get into their head and know how they think. What I found out scared the living sh*t out of me

TijaniAbu:
The new howling bauchi governor should sell these cars to yuguda and show his own frugality by using Keke Napep as his convoy. This GMB change mantra looks like distraction, Buharists keep howling look what the wailers did meanwhile they are doing sole administration with Nigeria's commonwealth. Howlers took over from Wailers, all are bad

Why are you talking like this? The value of Our money spinner, crude oil, has dropped drastically, and we are struggling to find buyers. Billions of dollars were removed from the Nigerian economy leading to inflation and the devaluation of the Naira. the leaders of the United States or other developed countries were squandering their resources like this and not developing their country, would our wicked politicians have the option of sending their children there?? They squander money to be used for developing hospitals fly themselves aboard for treatment forgetting that if those same countries messed up their own health care system there would be no where to go. Corruption has to stop and it has to stop NOW.

Dee60:
These look like normal official cars used by governments at state level. what is exotic in these?

These 'normal official cars', as you so eloquently put it, are very expensive. We just acquired the latest Toyota Prado, which is the cheapest in that convoy of vehicles, at the cost of a Jaw Dropping N16million, an amount that the average Nigerian worker will never handle throughout his entire career .If what the op says is true, then you should realize the extent to which the country's resources are being plundered with the term of each new administration. That means the new governor will have to place a requisition to buy another new set of vehicles.