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https://www.nairaland.com/5289780/man-shares-10-things-wife-to-be

abdeiz:
The OP sounds like one of those people that'd ask for advice, receive the best and still not use it.

Why do you so conclude?

Lexusgs430:
Why he could not log on Inmessenger or ask porter to find him better something, pick his choice and offer pump price....... E no go pass 5K.........

Pump price?

I guy who is always calling...she feels smoothered..... like she has no space to breath

So many brothers have told me that the ladies they go out with have said the above or a variation thereof.

I have experienced the same...

In the Nigerian context, what do our ladies define as stress? And for our guys, what did you do that made her make such a remark?

And why do they hate it so much when in marriage one cannot escape stress?

Is this a sort of secret code for us guys to separate those who can stand the heat in marriage and those who cannot?

gerizzim:
To save urself plenty drama. Don't tell her.

Most women don't reason like men.

Sometimes they get Soo excited abt success story abt d man in dia life Dt they unconsciously brag abt d man to intimidate odas esp if the man is stupendously rich ND d lady hz not seen a good life Dt is laced with money.

even sef, it's not always good to tell ur wife certain tinz as regards money not to talk of "gfrnd"

Just kip taking good care of her wit wat ur money can offer.

Thanks

boiz2men:
My dear... you berra keep quiet. If the case was reversed, she wouldnt tell u. As love dey catch me reach, I told her before i started all my businesses, problems in my business, my office stories, my resignation and new job. I told her virtually everything about my life... Only for me to learn some weeks back that this babe has been keeping her stuff very private. I felt betrayed, used, foolish and dumb. Never again will that happen to me. Dont tell anybody about your finances esp your babe or any girl in your life. Dont even tell her about your plans.

Did you read about that dude who got a job in Malaysia and he told his gf, the gf hid his travel documents so he couldnt go. I didnt learn. Experience has taught me.

Dont tell... Keep your mouth shut..

If shes your wife, tell her a fraction of the truth. Women are unbelievable.

One of the reasons for asking is addressed here.

Is that level of openness reciprocated?

If not, stop the openness from your own end

femi4:
If you tell, her demand will cripple you. She ll remember she's not bought that phone, clothes etc.

Women are naturally materialistic, more money means more spending to them

Noted with thanks

nicepoker101:
Seems you want to be relegated to the background

Explain... I'm lost

Offpoint1:
If your money never reach Gates own, keep shot before she demands for private jet.

Discretion then!

ranmoor:
Do you think rich men tell their wives the very source of their wealth? They just know the business line not every details. Why?
1. Ladies actually doesn't care how you make your money nor the nitty gritty of what you do, just bring the money home! If they starts asking questions it means something is fishy or you ain't bringing enough.
2. Ladies needs are insatiable. They are just like leaches, always want more!. They are all extravagant, but only toned down to adjust to your purse.
3. Ladies don't believe guys when money is involved. They believe u only reveal fractions of your actual worth, that is why they don't believe u when you say u are broke.

In summary, remember the rule of thumb; work hard, be positive and keep your mouth shut.

In summary

Bring the money

Don't say how you made it.

She can only demand from you to the extent she believes your purse can handle, so a lot depends on what you share with her information wise.

Phenomenal16:
Like telling who? Is she us wife?..u r funny....how sure are u that u will later wife her.. Let's be realistic... Keep ur damn mouth shut! .....this is ur testing period... Test her to know the level of love she has for u
Telling her abt ur achievement can only increase demand and her expectations
Save ur money for the future ....until u wife her be spending wit calculator in ur head... Don't allow love cloud ur sense of reasoning.... Am also a gal...morning

Oh dear... Coming from a girl....that was quite strong....but you made sense....thanks again

dingbang:
I'll prefer to tell. I have my reasons which I won't want to disclose

A part of me wants to tell

Another part doesn't want to

OkpaAkuEriEri:
If u tell ur babe
U HV tell ur village pipu

Discretion?

Sundrus:
Women wey dem no get control over their tongue... I fit manage tell my wife sha.

Discretion I guess?

Davash222:
No need to her, let your care towards her do the talking.

Modesty? Or discretion?

holuwasheyiWGP:
It depends on the type of babe you have. It's when you tell some you have millions that they would remember they have problems that worth's hundreds of thousands

Been here.... that's why I went ghost mode once....but saying it can reveal a lot about her... don't you think?

Timekeeper:
Don't tell. Her but treat her more specially... Invest more with that money... When it's time, make her ur wife and then u can start telling her everything.... But for now, just treat specially than before and don't use that to cheat on her coz u Don arrive.

Prepare for life after marriage... Very important

Nice thoughts.

An elderly woman advised, don't tell.

A lady friend said if you have money, it will announce itself, even if the guy is silent.

Is it right to tell a lady that you are dating when you hit it big contract wise?

Or do you hide the news?


When the millions come in, do you say it or do you show it or hide it?


Is it ok to give her blow by blow accounts of the progress of your deals?

Or keep giving her money on normally as if nothing has changed?

Backstory:

You date her, she likes you, you are not yet there financially, but you hustle real hard, you are in business not employment.

You can survive but you can't be extravagant.



Argue for and against with experiences.

How acceptable are MicroMasters Programs such as these for the purpose of visa applications?

Or will only a Full Masters do?

In which case, I can pick a course locally to do (cost considerations on my mind) then complement with the online stuff to supplement the knowledge gaps from the lack of updated local teaching methods/materials?

NaHiim:

please contact me I have a circuit I would like you design ASAP

chukel:
yes I have. Even bought the vag cable. But the software isn't a complete one

Please where did you buy your vag cable?

Is it the same as the one in the picture here? https://www.nairaland.com/4654662/vag-com-obd2-usb-cable-needed

Please I need this cable in working order - new or used

drop your details

will holla back

PresidentT:
1. Driving: Abuja-Lokoja-Okene-Kabba-Ikare-Ado-Ekiti. You can also use Google map. Very dependable.

2. Public Transport: You can get Ado-Ekiti straight without going through Akure. Check Jabi Utako Park.

Cheers!

I drove.

I left Area 1 roundabout at 10.30am and got to Ado Ekiti by 5.30pm

This includes a stopover of about an hour or so

First time ever

osagiemma:
Goto Jabi park & enter Ado direct #4100

I appreciated your taking time out to respond.

Gman12:
Go to area 1 motor park and ask for Ado Ekiti trans bus or Enter motor going to Okenne from suba and when you get to Okenne in Kogi state enter bus or car going to Ado Ekiti

Thank you so much

Hello drivers and travelers


1.Which is best in terms of route if one is driving
2. Which motor parks offer transportation from Abuja to Ekiti directly ( or shall I have to go to Akure first)?

Thanks in advance.

1.Best in terms of route if one is driving
2. Which motor parks offer transportation from Abuja to Ekiti directly ( or shall I have to go to Akure first)?

Thanks in advance.

How much is Samsung Galaxy SIII original not Chinese or tokunbo battery?

taxiappguy:
I used my Gt card about 2 weeks ago. Payment was handled through a third party processor. I think Payu, I'm not exactly sure.

Then it seems I would have to create a new account according to online sources

Jethrolite:
Try Fidelity. A friend uses it with his Google account, it should work on Facebook too.

Thank you.