Dvampire:

me thinks ladies do most of the breaking up. what are my reasons? most girls i've come across pick on slight things to call off a relationship. eg he does not care about my feelings, he is too disturbing, he does not give me space, he is stingy, he is a mamas boy. the list is endless abeg. not to talk of if the guy is not able to meet up with their financial requirements.

cabali:

U had better

ThoniaSlim:

where would be her pride as a lady?

kimba:

@Radiant

lets call a spade a spade. your friend is seriously screwed up. Forget the out-of-wedlock, many kids are born out of wedlock stuff,

She wants to have kids with a man who would take care of her and the kids "on a monthly allowance basis" but she wont marry him, yet she wants to be called mommy? shes wicked. Out of wedlock equals fornication and such a child is a bastard.

ask her: was that the same arrangement that her father and mother made before she was born. Why deprive a child of his right to a family. So at the end of the day, she'll finally see another man who can take care of her better than the first one, and the other guy will find another woman who wants another arrangement. Then both begin fucking around. Her second child might be from another man altogether. She might just become Mrs Jackson. and she'll expect such children to become responsible members of the soceity?

Before, women who had kids out of wedlock were ashamed of themselves. They couldnt say it in public that they even had kids. Now it has become a matter of pride.

methinks: the fact that she allows such a thought to cross her mind, shes sick already. Pray for her. She needs help.

Pain:

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