Travel › Re: Abuja Light Rail: This Is Not Dubai, Tokyo, London, But Abuja by Ferdinandu(m): 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
We are not moving forward till we start manufacturing our own trains and build our own railway by our indigenous Engineers |
Business › Re: Charles Chuck Feeney Fulfills Dream To Die Poor, Gives ₦3.48 Trillion To Charity by Ferdinandu(m): 9:59pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ferdinandu(m): 5:16am On Sep 13, 2020 |
[i][/i] Iceyjayzz: This is complete bullshyt
how will I pay my ex such amount, when we are not even married or have kids together, this is stupidity at it's highest order. Niggee, over there to make sure your money is in your wallet you gotta make sure you keep your dick in your pants. That's their simple rule  |
Politics › Re: US DOJ Says Kingsley Kuku Used Stolen Billions From Amnesty To Fund Air Peace by Ferdinandu(m): 10:21pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
Pentagon007: fake news!!! Where is the DOJ publication bearing this? The thing is, No matter the amount of bile, propaganda and bitter mind from ndi Waste, Air Peace will continue to soar higher.
Air Peace to the world!!! See how you are supporting criminals who stole your country. I'm sure it is 100 data you are using to type this nonsense |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija Erica's 100,000 Dollars Gofundme Campaign Hits Over 9000 Dollars In 3hrs by Ferdinandu(m): 9:22am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Mcheww. Used to castigate people who takes offence in people watching this show but obviously they were not wrong. The useless govt we have is running this country to the ground and the decadent lazy youths is busy organising fund for their favourite IndecentStar. I spit on this country. I spit on Leaders of this country. I spit on the useless youths of this country |
Career › Re: FG Rejects Plans By Multichoice To Sack Nigerian Workers by Ferdinandu(m): 7:39am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Who are they sacking?Multichoice is the the worst in casualisation of it's staff. The whole of Nothern Nigeria, Multichoice does not have upto 50 permanent staff in their employ, every other person you see telling you he is a Multichoice staff is either a casual staff or a staff of Multichoice accredited Dealer or an independent installer. Even the tellers collecting money in their offices are bank staffs not Multichoice staff. They are just criminals, their labour cost is less than 1% of their operational cost so they shouldn't use that as an excuse. Liars |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Eke Buys Venza For Her Sister, Promise, As Birthday Gift by Ferdinandu(m): 5:04pm On Aug 28, 2020 |
I thought that there is a difference between brand new car and Tokunbo |
Romance › Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by Ferdinandu(m): 3:50am On Aug 26, 2020 |
Dorcas23: There is this guy I just recently started talking to. He's very good looking and intelligent and dresses well. He is my type and we have so many interests in common. I'm already falling in love with him but I haven't told him. I'm still trying to take it slow. I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. He told me he is in love with me and I was so excited to hear it but I hid my excitement because I'm still confused about his intentions.
The problem is that whenever I try to become vulnerable with him like texting him early in the morning to ask how his night was, he will ignore my texts for days and then call me out of the blue as if nothing happened. But other times he will call me multiple times and talk on the phone like we were dating.
Yesterday after ignoring my texts for over 24hrs he called me and said I should come over to his place. I've never been to his place before. I was already on my way when he called me to tell me that a lady visited him and she is spending the night at his place. He apologized and told me not to be offended. I acted all cool and told him some other time. He hasn't texted or called me since. I'm confused. I know we aren't dating but why would he even tell me this? A Guy who holds you in high esteem and maybe have a dream of having you for keeps will not casually disrespect you like that by cancelling your meeting cause of another girl coming to sleep over. That is height of disrespect. The relationship is only in your head, he is just keeping you around to be one of his next conquest. Unfortunately you have fallen deep for him and it will take a whole lot to drum it in your skull that you need to flee |
Crime › Re: Aboubakar Hima Declared Wanted By EFCC For Contract Scam & Money Laundering by Ferdinandu(m): 8:31pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Anazp: Imagine a man from Niger republic s scamming us Because the Rogue Nigerian officials he is working with must have specifically chosen him because it will be easier for them to launder money through a foreign national. EFCC should forget about him and go for the Nigerians who gave him the contract in the first instance because they are the real scammers |
Politics › Re: Kashamu Begging Adebutu Kessignton ‘Baba Ijebu’ From Sick Bed (Leaked Video) by Ferdinandu(m): 6:38am On Aug 20, 2020*. Modified: 3:48pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
It is only someone who has experienced Near death experience and returned especially from sickness that will understand. At that point you will only realise the real meaning of vanity upon vanity. At that point your life will flash before your face for you to realise how every damn thing you put your energy on in this life all seemed useless. You realise that 100 years is not different from a day |
Car Talk › Re: Help Me Find A Permanent Solution To My Overheating Car by Ferdinandu(m): 4:20pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
7pages: Nairaland Car Gurus please help me find permanent solution to my golf 3 car(America spec) doing overheating barely every day
I started experiencing this over heating after the change of fuel pump and speedometer censor was changed by a recommended Rewire
I'm using this golf for commercial business, nothing give me any issue in the car than this over heating, is becoming embarrassing when I carry passengers and it started. the car is clean and engine is working fine
it's relay today, it's the water in the radiator boiling tomorrow, I'm becoming sick of this. my mechanic told me when it started this night that my gasket is damaged in the process. I put water in the radiator everyday because of this over heating
please what do you guys suggest as the permanent solution to this over heating gazzuzz Sienna royallord1 and others and I wouldn't mind a recommendation of good Rewire. I reside in Lagos. Most mechanics are just dumb assholes, they will be changing one thing after another until they completely kill your Engine. Had the same problem with my car and they continued extorting me until I had to buy a new engine and that solved my problem permanently. If the cooling fan is working and water pump is working without leakage then the radiator is probably dirty or bad you may either wash it or buying a new one will be better. But know that radiator issue is usually accompanied by irregular movement of your temperature metre. The temperature gauge always goes up and down. You said you usually top water everyday, then look for leakages especially at the radiator and water pump side |
Crime › Re: Nduka Anyanwu Of Lord's Chosen Impregnates 2 Underaged Sisters 13 & 17 Years Old by Ferdinandu(m): 9:52am On Aug 05, 2020 |
What religion has done to some people's brain. Imagine the parents against the arrest of the abuser of their children |
Education › Re: FG To Fence University Of Maiduguri With 64 Billion Naira by Ferdinandu(m): 9:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
What does it cost to blow up a wall for a group that have easy access to explosives |
Politics › Re: Kidnappers Raped Me, Forced My Brother To Have Sex With Me - Lady Narrates (Pix) by Ferdinandu(m): 8:13pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
idahme: Check the meaning of kidnapping in the dictionary please.... Everybody go school my friend. Everybody understand what kidnapping means. She put it in the context of the usual type of kidnapping we all have grown used to. The people they duped is trying to find a way to recover their money by force and you are telling us that you are the only professor of English available. |
Politics › Re: Kidnappers Raped Me, Forced My Brother To Have Sex With Me - Lady Narrates (Pix) by Ferdinandu(m): 9:34am On Jul 29, 2020 |
Obviously the people are not kidnappers. They were people who were furious that the company she is working with have duped them. It is risky working in a ponzi scheme because as far as the victims are concerned you are part of the the people who connived to dupe them |
Celebrities › Re: Video Of DJ Cuppy And Bbnaija Kiddwaya Having Fun At An Event by Ferdinandu(m): 9:06am On Jul 29, 2020 |
starchris: Which way for poor man for this country  Just live and die quietly |
Politics › Re: Ali Mohammed Magashi Is From Niger Republic & Not Jigawa by Ferdinandu(m): 9:04pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
There is what we call naturalisation. Someone who has been in Nigeria since 1972 is a Nigerian as any other Nigerian if he has done all the necessary papers. He can be an ambassador. I think it is only President he is not qualified to be |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Wolves (2 - 0) On 26th July 2020 by Ferdinandu(m): 1:28pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Since morning I've been drinking red wine. E get why |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Insists We Spend N500k Or Less On Our Wedding But I Want To Spend N1M by Ferdinandu(m): 3:10pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Ninobraw: I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.
She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.
Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira. the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.
So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.
Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain. Where una dey see this kind women. The ones I dey meet dey even want collect their bride price from me chop before I will go meet their parents |
Romance › Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Ferdinandu(m): 10:44am On Jul 23, 2020 |
proxillin: She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.
I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.
3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.
We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.
My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).
We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad. She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.
This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.
That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.
But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.
In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache. Girls are crazy human beings. Forget what happened while wooing her, most of them do equivalent of that to guys they are secretly crushing on especially when they are in front of their so called friends. If she truly loves you now and you feel same way about her, forget the stress she let you go before it is all part of the game. |
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan: I'm Grateful To Buhari And Amaechi by Ferdinandu(m): 9:07am On Jul 22, 2020 |
This is a strategic realignment in preparation for 2023.Tinubu's ambition is in trouble |
Politics › Re: Obiano Defies Rainfall To Inspect Road Projects In Anambra (pics) by Ferdinandu(m): 4:49pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Ajayi work. So rain beat him means that he is working hard |
Romance › Re: No longer in use! by Ferdinandu(m): 10:26am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Ekakamba: The way you guys take out time to write about how to treat a woman right baffles me; so men ain't got no feelings right?  Kai my Guy I tire. We are robots. We have to suffer to please women like this with the stressful condition of Nigeria and die in stress. On our tombstone it will be written. "Here lies the man who did all he can for his woman and died for his woman.. Allow them to continue to misyarn |
Celebrities › Re: Laila Nwoko Congratulates Regina Daniels On The Birth Of Her Baby by Ferdinandu(m): 8:56am On Jul 01, 2020 |
SocialJustice: When your first wife is a white woman you can safely practise polygamy. Marrying a Nigerian girl first will most likely send you to early grave. I guess Ned is a Muslim, Morrocans are Muslims. So easy to accept. Your assumption is wrong, you can easily find a Nigerian woman that will accept polygamy than finding a white where the culture of polygamy is almost non-existent |
Romance › Re: What Should I Do About My Girl ? Please Advise by Ferdinandu(m): 11:14am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Boy it is not about good traits. It is about emotional investment. Once you have emotionally invested in a relationship forget it Quitting will be the most difficult thing no matter the attitude of the your partner towards the relationship. You just have to think of long term aspect of your life instead of short term. When you quit every morning you will feel like running back to her and apologising until maybe you will find a suitable replacement but definitely you will. Marry that girl, start living with her, then you will realise how horrible her lifestyle is even with with her so called one in a million good traits. |
Politics › Re: APC Crisis: We Plan To Visit Tinubu – Buni by Ferdinandu(m): 8:33am On Jun 30, 2020 |
National Leader who was not aware before NWC was dissolved. National Leader ko national follower ni |
Christianity Etc › Re: 'It Is About Microchips' – Chris Oyakhilome On Black Lives Matter Protests by Ferdinandu(m): 12:07pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
One of the best way to be on top in this world is been able to control the mind and reasoning of a whole bunch of people. The Great Leaders who raked havoc on the human race in the past were able to do that because they were able to control the mind and thinking of so many. Take example of Hitler he was able to convince the Whole Germany that they are a superior race who should be ruling the world and was able to send them on a killing spree all around the world. Some people are only good to be told how to think and that is why people like Pastor Chris will continue to remain relevant Generations after Generations |
Romance › Re: Don't Ever Date A Broke Girl by Ferdinandu(m): 3:50pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
It is not about been broke. Anybody can be broke. It is about dating girls with entitlement mentality. If they have entitlement mentality Bros whether broke or loaded your problem has started. Some girls when they are broke and you are helping out, the way they will treat and respect you will make you always thinking of how to please them even to your own discomfort. But meet the ones with entitlement mentality, even if you have 1m and she has 10m she will collect your 1m and add to her own to make her own 11m while always reminding you, usually subtly that you are not doing enough as a boyfriend Bros if she is broke with entitlement mentality Bros know that dey don dey follow you from village  |
Politics › Re: General Otiki: Caught In The Web Of Sokoto Election Politics! By PRNigeria by Ferdinandu(m): 12:46pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
There is no damned reason why someone should be moving 100 million in cash in this era of cashless society except if there is some fraud involved. General carry your cross |
Politics › Re: Chad Begs Nigeria For Electricity Supply by Ferdinandu(m): 7:03pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
On behalf of citizens of Nigerians who has been all in darkness since they were born we regret to announce to you you that our pot of power is empty we are just scraping the pot with our fingers and and leaking so how can we help you |
Politics › Re: Ehanire: Buhari’s Government The Most Sincere Nigeria Has Ever Had by Ferdinandu(m): 6:54pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Before nko we are not expecting else from. If you critisize your Boss you lose your job. It is as simple as that |
Politics › Re: Senator Abiola Ajimobi Is Alive - Kemi Olunloyo by Ferdinandu(m): 9:49pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Kemi the Yoruba oracle has confirmed it |