Why disengaing all of them, why not re vet all of them and disengage the ones that were employed without proper qualifications. This is Political vendetta and now innocent ones are being punished
A failed state. The only way to survive in Nigeria is to to become a Warlord in your kingdom and every one will be paying you homage, you colonised all the economic activities of that area by any means either by intimidation, looting, kidnapping or you become a vassal surrendering all your human dignity to a higher illegal force. If this is not a failed state then someone give me another meaning of a failed state
T817: I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.
My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to drain me.
Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.
What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.
My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.
Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.
What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please
Brother sorry ooo. In the next world think well before marrying first child of the family . because I guess your wife is the first child
Guy man continue to chop, Magas continue to toil. After MBA, another Ponzi by Guyman is still coming up and Magas will still queue up to donate their hard earned. Kudos to all Guy men out there, for the Magas sorry you were all born that way.
That's what these petty thieves don't know. If you want to thief go where rich people dey live, if they catch you, small beating and they hand you over to police after small time you will be released. Go to where poverty dey, to go thief, where people there are already blaming their Ancestors, their Old Uncles and Aunties in the village for their condition, and boom you appear from nowhere to come and worsen the condition, they will burn you alive and even go to hell fire, wait for you to help devil make sure your own fire never go off for a second
They all taught they are going to use religion to subdue them forever. Nothern Nigeria is on fire. If everyone keeps quiet it is going to consume the whole country. Nigeria is gradually going the way of Somalia
Estrella366: Hello Nairalander, I would like to know the circumstances that could make it possible for a person who is yet to visit any of the NIMC offices or outlets either online or offline for the purpose of registering for the NIN get the NIN?
I have never made any prior efforts to register for the NIN stuff, however out of curiosity I tried entering the NIMC's NIN registration verification code *346# via my Etisalat phone number and to my surprise the system returned a positive answer with an eleven digit NIN.
So what are the possible technical reasons for this?
Thanks for your suggested answers.
Update## I tried to see if I could verify the number on the NIMC website and di scovered that the site is down with message reading indicating "FORBIDDEN "black black bla
The NIN number assigned to me is different from the number on the recent National ID card issued to me by NIMC, so I guess the NIN is different from that given by NIMC
loopman: Real developer coming with FDI...not someone that did a one way night road journey with a polythene bag to come and leach on Lagos by engaging in buying and selling
MrTAnonymous: Girls Are Quick To Lose Feelings When A Guy Makes These 4 Mistakes
Girls are very observant, there are certain things that put them off or on when they chat with a guy online. Girls are like locks waiting for someone with the right key to open them up.
Below are 4 mistakes guys make when chatting with a girl online,
1. When guys confess their feelings over text too quickly I understand that when a guy has feelings for a girl, it literally hurts so much they want to tell her how they feel really quick so they just confess their feelings over text and expect her to agree to be his girlfriend immediately. No, this is a mistake you shouldn’t do. Rather you should watch how things play out between you and her and if you notice that she might be having feelings for you then you can ask her how she feels about you.
2. Sending “nice guy” text By nice guy texts, I mean the overly repetitive ones where you check up on here every now and then. For instance, you keep sending her texts like “have you eaten?” “How was your night?” “What did you eat?”, etc. These kind of texts are boring and would make you appear needy.
3. Being too available When you are always in her inbox, you are already giving away too much. It would make her get tired of you quickly and you have already eliminated any form of mystery you had and the chances of her missing you. Girls love guys who are mysterious, who are like puzzles they want to figure out. I’m not saying you shouldn’t check up on her, do so but still give room for mystery.
4. Giving up too soon Most girls like playing hard to get not because they don’t like you but because they love the chase and attention you give to them. Most guys simply give up because they weren’t patient enough to get her to open up to him.
MadamExcellency: Like molesting young boys and girls which makes some including some prominent people very happy?
What society thinks matters a lot.
That is weird of you. What society think in this sense means what you do for yourself that doesn't have a bearing on any other person. Or Are you a v0yeur? Do you get orgasm in leaving your own life monitoring other peoples lives?. Though I'm not really saying in it because I support Lynda but for other private people because Lynda ikeji's life needs to be dissected by the public because that is what she does to other peoples life that pays her bills.
Haters. See them up there. Na by force to marry. Everyone should do what makes him or her happy at any time not what society thinks should make you happy
Sirjamo: Katsina is not Borno, they cannot hold that number of abductees for too long when they have been surrounded by the military, soon,, they will have to let everyone go.
How long can it take to move the children across state borders or even across national borders
The US special forces was able to rescue a single individual in this country where they don't know any terrain within few days. The useless Nigeriam forces couldn't rescue the Chibok Girls girls because it was a case almost unheard of anywhere in the world as at that time. Now exactly the same damned scenario has just played again and the useless Security forces and useless slowpoke Government officials are negotiating with criminals. Why are we wasting the biggest chunk of our resources on theses Animls to be squandering yearly, our Army officials are living the Lifestyle Holywood celebrities can only dream of. What the Bleep is wrong in this country
With these their desperation for fame front and back, who knows whether the poor Lecturers roped in, on their hunt for fame are really guilty as charged. There is nothing a desperado cannot do. These their actions shows that they are not different from the lecturers they allegedly exposed, because they are all in the business of satisfying their selfish interests no matter whose ox is gored
Years of Neglect is haunting them. The children they thought that they will all forever be Almajiri is haunting them . Those their hungry Neighbours children have found a better way to feed fat. Swallow the damned Alhaji and his children. There will never be peace in Northern Nigeria for at least a Generation to come ie 25yrs. Running to Abuja, Dubai, Europe and US will not solve the problem. Nothern Nigeria Leaders you have made your bed, go and lie down there
Sebastine1994: i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.
for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now
she is an igala while I am igbo,
So if buy an expensive car and along the line you discover the car has a factory faulty braking system that cannot be fixed, you will continue driving the car and risk your life just because you bought the car at a very expensive cost
InvertedHammer: / The Minister said the graduates cannot read or write. You automatically assumed it is in English language. He didn't mention any language. You are one of the illiterates he talked about.
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There is reading and writing disability which if diagonised early in certain individuals, they can still function well in their chosen field and so it is not really their fault but the fault of system we have who put such people who doesn't know this as our Minister of Education. Some people go through life thinking they are dumb but it is because of undiagnosed disability
Some people have learning disabilities like dyslexia which is a lifelong battle and that is probably the only reason why someone who have gone through Tertiary Education will not be able to read and write well .Even people with above average intelligence suffers from this. Even our so called Minister of Miseducation didn't even know this and I thought they said he is a Professor. It is our system and and people with low IQ we put as our Minister of Education because of Quota system that failed those people, they are not failure themselves.