₦airaland Forum

wisdomkid:
Mr madam oga perfect. No mistake is too big or small. thank god for pipo like you who have NEVER DONE any mistake till date.. I hope you apply same energy to other area's of your life and not "recharge card"

Datboredberry:
If you wanna get married while earning less than 50k... This period... With the fuçked up economy...

Knock yourself out!

Nigerian men and their weird satisfaction with poverty...

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

yusluvad:
Honestly, I no get sense. I'm a tribal bigot...

revived:
5years no far


2026 he will be out

legba1:
Naija don suffer... That motor for 1.25milli...mere seing the finishing on the bonnet shows the car don see good old days.... Market go come ooo

Ogaga87:
People trying to dig and make words out of the sacking which took place recently but when I see anything that comes between God and man, I flee from being the judge. Who gave me the right of a judge over the affairs of God and man.. T. B Joshua just left and one day we'll go as well.. Let's be careful of our utterance before we experience the situation of Martha, sister of Moses..

lecowas:
Maybe it’s just me but I don’t think it’s a funny news up there

FalseProphet1:
This project will not be completed by 2023, it's an avenue for the governor to siphon state funds, after 2023 the incoming governor will abandon it and it will become a shadow of itself.

This I have seen.

maak400:
You're right OP, money is important in marriage.

But my question to everyone is, if a man is hustling and he's still not financially stable till he's 40 years old, will you advise him not to marry but to keep hustling till he is financially stable even if he's nearing 50 years old?

saphiere:
Also advise them to not impregnate a girl and run leaving her to suffer alone.

design106:


So it's remaining the 3rd dose now abi.
Then later we'll wait for the one that was designed for the Indian Strand.

What a time to be alive.

chatinent:
Dear oga,

You are your own problem.

1. It isn't a must to do a wedding with ₦1m if you aren't worth it. People should learn to avoid pleasing onlookers by feeding 6000 people. The wedding is supposed to be a day of joy for you both, not for people's stomachs.


2. I noticed you have a thingy with gender roles. You are a man. Your wife is still your responsibility. You refused declaring your salary to her but is quite inquisitive on what she earns. How na baba?


Your wife probably thinks you earn ₦600k when you earn a few thousands.

Coming to the part of she sending money to a male friend, I understand you are hurt because it's a male attached.

But have you tried to understand her?

Are you always seeing yourself as right?


What's the big deal if you pay the shop rent, then, you guys build your communication thingy well?


The communication flow is broken.

Marriage is not a football match you play for halftime and retire, or you get a small injury and decide to walk out because you feel you are the chief captain.


It's a forever course...and the moment you realize this, the better for you.


I see a good wife you have there trying to stand on her feet without your support!


Treat your wife well so she'll be more opened to you.


When you start keeping secrets, trust don yapa. Some men who don't want to disclose their actual salary still tell their wives sth.

If I have a fiancee I had already paid for her dowry, I wouldn't have minded setting up the shop for her.

Afterall, she is going to be my wife.

You let her family support her when she needed you.

You mah no know say any money you spend for wedding don go? You for small invest for her business na. People wey don chop plenti plenti food that day don shit your money finish.


To think your marriage isn't up to a year is quite disheartening too.

Build your beautiful marriage, bro.

Ignore these frustrated sets tagged as redpillers here trying to project their failed lives to you.


Marriage is a gift from God.


PS: if I didn't respond your insults, take heart, I don't owe you an explanation.

reuben81:
Nigeria has turn to one thousand way to die,if u go out come back safely please thank ur God,this days I don't wait make 8 meet my outside even as am living in Abuja city center

Pierocash:
Forget about her. Did it ever occured to her that she will need you someday?

They misbehave a lot,that was how my ex behaved too,she changed during her youth service and I had to breakup with her.

If there is no one to recommend aside her,let the space waste.

This bitches are wicked and heartless. She wouldn't recommend you if she were to be in your shoe,she has other guys she preferred above you,so don't do same for her

Johnchrix:
So this is really true, see what our dear country is turning into.

Johnchrix:
High unemployment rate is the cause of this mess, people are left with no other choice than to accept this.

I met a friend who confessed to me that he lost his job because he refused to join his company confraternity in Port harcourt. Share your experience. Have you ever been issued a form??

cc uboma davide470 help move to fp

benjackugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1388288/suspected-yahoo-boys-seen-bathing-burial-ground-video/

mimyselfai:
The life is lost and wasted already. Even this won't bring him back to his family. Guys, never argue with a man with a gun. The dead tell no stories. Be wise.

BeautyO:
yes. if she's repented