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I am completely lost with this topic.
How come someone expects allowance to hang out with another person. See how demanding they will be after marriage.
A man may shower the girl with some gifts if he feels like it, but I just don't get it- when people talk about allowances.

i watched Burma VJ yesterday
and the Dish today on the eve of 40th anniversary of moon landing.

@poster

When your man says you are nagging him, please let him have more space.
Some men are not bothered when they receive several calls a day, but not everyone would appreciate so many calls when they also have other things in life to attend to. Maybe try restrict number and time of your calls.

@demistress

If you are really fed up, why don't you tell your men you need a break. And try not to make any contact with them for at least a month and see how you can see yourself then. Wish you the best.

It's not that hard to remember some of them.
Beautiful mind
You've got mail
In pursuit of happiness
Chicago
,

In other words, 7 ways to show your commitment to your loved one.

When a woman looks straight into your eyes and say 'no', she probably means it.
But I have seen some people change their mind later, so saying 'no' does not always mean this is impossible. Women are not that easy to understand.

One can meet soul-mate anytime anywhere. Why should this internet match be ruled out?

@poster

Do you think you can be a good husband too?
if you are a good person, you should not have much problem finding a good woman who might make a good wife too.

tpiah:
head and shoulders shampoo.

Yes, anti-dandruff shampoo. Very simple and yet most effective.

@deardoc

Please read again, and will see what i have written is a baby have 25% chance of being SS.
So all four babies can be SS (with too much bad luck!)
or all ten babies can be healthy (either carrier or normal).
Most importantly not all SS have serious complications. So it's for the couple to get a proper counselling and make an informed decision. Thanks.

C'mon grow up! There are other more important things to look for in a marriage/relationship.

Yep, no big deal! in the washing machine

An Ex is an Ex, what else?
Remain friends if they wish, but no more special.

@poster
AS and As would give a baby 25% chance with SS, but the other 75% would be considered normal or just carrier. So there's still a good chance of having healthy babies. I'd suggest discuss with obstetrician for details about diagnostic test in early pregnancy including amniocentesis. In some religions abortion is not an option, in that case you have to accept whatever the baby is born with. Then again not all SS have severe symptoms. It looks like a god idea to see a pre-marriage counsellor for this issue.

@ Poster
Why can't you find somewhere else to live?
You must pack and leave.
There is no excuse for this crime. You can love him if you feel like it, but you have no right to come close to him.

pick one of them and leave the other alone.

But, this is the thread from 2006 !!!!

@ poster

I can feel your pain. You cannot ask answer from other people. The decision lies between you and your girl.
Stepping in your shoes, I can only suggest take your time. Let your emotions cool down. Say wait for at least a couple of months before you make a major decision. If you still want her then go ahead marry her. But think hard; when you have already lost trust on your partner, how will it affect your marriage. There must be many couples out there who have been through this and still have successful marriage, so leave your mind open.
As a woman i can only say, "I won't sleep around if i truly love my partner. I just can't".
Just remember to take your time and things will become clearer.
All the best.

@poster
Why don't you try in the dating pages? you never know.
And replace your picture with a SMILE
good luck!

Unthinkable!
Why hurt a baby with unnecessary and painful procedure?

When people from two different cultures/religions/countries were in a relationship, both partners should make effort to understand each other's culture. How much you take someone else's into you is a different matter. Understanding and adaptability would definitely be essential for a relationship.

This doesn't apply only for women. Men can also do the same and earn love and respect from their women. I don't believe only women are responsible to keep a good marriage. It needs efforts from both parties, not less.

@poster
If you were diagnosed with iron deficiency with or without anaemia, please ask your doctor for the best treatment. Dietary intake alone may not be adequate for iron deficiency if the level is too low. You can try normal multivitamin tablets if you think you have not been eating much iron in your daily food. At least they contain 14 mg iron which is better than nothing at all. Are you pregnant? If you are, you need to take higher dose, so check with your local doc.

@poster
This is a common symptom, and usually nothing serious. It may be related to your hormonal levels in your body and you are only 19, so maybe your body is still adjusting it. If it happens again, ask your doctor. sometimes hormonal tablets help, e.g.taking contraceptive tablets for a few months help adjust your hormonal cycles and become regular again. No worry.

I'd suggest check this out with your dentist. It may be that you have some chronic gum disease and need some treatment. It usually takes only daily thorough cleaning, but like I said ask the dentist first.

Depends on how bad his disease is and how the girl cope with that situation. first of all, if relationship is turning into something serious, you should not hide such things from your partner. she will need to make an informed decision, so better let her know first before everyone gets hurt.

@poster
you are a serial cheater. is your wife still with you? how come she doesn't know about you.

@Poster

Yeah, these things happen in life without plans and everyone involved are going to get hurt.
I have found a website with support and advice for women involved with married men. You can ask her to visit www.gloryb.com
I hope she will understand more what it takes to be the other woman after that. I hope she can make the right informed decision. If you are not in love with her, tell her that. You may need to repeat it often to her. Women won't waste time on a man who is not actually interested in her other than having sex.

I just don't understand.
why would a girl accept a guy buy a car for her ? and she does not need to do anything in return? It's OK if he is her father, brother, or husband. But from a BF??
Am I missing something here?

Hey don't forget communication, communication, communication !!
It means more than physical touch/hug for some women or girls. some girls just love men who can understand them and be themselves.
different people have different needs to feed the fire.