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Travel / Re: Woman Climbs On Roof Of Car To Prevent LASTMA Officials From Driving It Off by fireprince14(m): 11:15pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
sapphiere:No. We wouldn't. |
Travel / Re: Woman Climbs On Roof Of Car To Prevent LASTMA Officials From Driving It Off by fireprince14(m): 11:13pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
sapphiere:This is so funny. Everytime I see this "future is female" thing, I just shake my head. |
Family / Re: Woman Seeks Divorce After 25 Years In UAE; Court Tells Her To Return To Husband by fireprince14(m): 10:56pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
I was thinking along these lines when I first started reading the post. But from the little I know about Sharia law, if the husband was abusive, she would have been granted a divorce. If he had been abusive, she would have mentioned it in court and brought witnesses. Her reasons for wanting to leave are really annoying. I've always said that as much as I like the idea of "love", I'm more interested in loyalty. How do you say you want to leave a 25 year marriage to be free and party with your friends? Funniest part is, she probably doesn't have a job or business which means the guy will still be expected to fund her lifestyle after leaving him. I'm assuming she entered into the marriage of her own volition though we all know how archaic they can be over there. Whatever the case, you don't leave a 25 year old commitment just cos you want to party. How would she feel if she was in the husband's shoes? No wonder the judge asked him to reduce her allowance. Abeg, it's fashionable to be woke but some things are just not right. Saccharine: 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by fireprince14(m): 2:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I think the reason why marriage is so messed up nowadays is because of our reasons for doing it. Marriage at its core is a partnership not a fairy tale or a constant booty call. You both come together to combine resources to build something bigger than either of you. If you love each other, no wahala but love is not a requirement. Like any other partnership though, you must be friends or at least tolerate one another well enough. You set the rules for your marriage based on what you can both deal with not what society dictates. The trick is finding someone whose broken pieces fit your own. We dread fucking one pussy as if sex is food or "keeping my man" as if sex is currency. To the OP, I won't tell you to ignore the naysayers here because they all have a point despite being misogynistic blokes. Read the positive and negative comments and then focus on the person you're with. Observe carefully and objectively every part of her. The good and the bad. Women can be absolutely crazy but they can also be incredibly divine. You'll find both ends of the spectrum in one woman and your readiness for marriage depends on how you can handle both sides of her. Once you're sure you can deal with all her aspects, it's time for your own examination. Do you want marriage for sex, a status symbol, a daycare institution or a housekeeper arrangement? Are you being honest about your bad sides too? Can you marry yourself if you have to? Once you have resolved all this, then hold on to your realisations in the years to come when she gains weight in the wrong places or when you lose your job. When you're tired of the sex or when the silences get longer. These are the things that will keep your partnership going. Above all, don't ever forget to pray all the time. Good luck. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by fireprince14(m): 1:25am On Aug 26, 2020 |
Dorcas23: I can see some people telling you to play hard to get or ignore him completely. I'll advise you as a guy. Hard to get should be fun not stressful or humiliating. We enjoy hard to get when a girl shows you that " I want you, but I'm not going to make it easy or fall at your feet". That's the thrill of the chase. I'm well aware that no matter what we tell you here, you'll probably cave in once he sweet talks you on the phone. Don't feel bad, the heart wants what the heart wants, even that which is worst for it. We've all been there. I'll say this though, most of us guys know which girl is the forever kind and which one is the smash and run kind within the first 5 minutes. This has no bearing on your character, it's just how we feel sometimes. This guy considers you to be smash and run and isn't even willing to do you the courtesy of putting in the effort. If you don't mind being smashed, have fun and weather the pain. But there are other guys out there who will take a look at you and think about forever. The choice is ultimately yours. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Should I Do about my Boyfriend's behaviour by fireprince14(m): 12:43am On Jul 28, 2020 |
You're obviously being abused and before you deny it, remember that abuse isn't always physical. It's quite possible that you might have a unique talent for getting yourself into untenable situations but his job is to correct, assist and encourage not heap insults on you. I'm sure you're probably telling yourself that you love him and that he'll change if you learn to make less mistakes. You're perfectly entitled to delude yourself if you want but I'll say this: He's not going to change, he's going to wear down your already failing self esteem and you'll get to the point where you'll no longer be able to imagine leaving him anymore. I might be overreacting of course but there's a clear difference between pointing out someone's mistakes and hitting them over the head with it. In the end, the decision is yours. I have a feeling that you'll continue to take the abuse though Localchampion: |
Pets / Re: The Owl A Nairalander Caught At A Site by fireprince14(m): 11:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
This bloke is literally blaming an owl cos he dropped out of school and was careless with his money. It's just a bird bro. A beautiful bird nonetheless. Your troubles are your own not some dumb bird. Dididrumz: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: DNA Testing, The Battle For Ladies. by fireprince14(m): 1:41pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
True. Except this one is not goodbye sex. As far as I know, they've never been together. She just thought he looked cute and wanted to sample the goods. lefulefu: |
Romance / Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by fireprince14(m): 9:33pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
geraldinai:I'm an introvert too like you but I'll tell you right now that your attitude would have pissed me off. I assume you like compliments, some attention, some stimulating conversation. Well guess what, we guys like all those things too. I particularly like a woman who can carry on an interesting conversation. I don't care much about social media but replying me in monosyllabic answers really bores me and makes me think you are not interested in talking. Don't change your personality for anyone but try to put more effort in your next relationship. Sometimes just being the first person to say hi can mean a lot. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Was She Just Being Sincere Or Just An Unlucky Cheat!!? by fireprince14(m): 9:21pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Guy let's forget about what she did and focus on what you did wrong. 1. Emotional blackmail- you should not have had sex with her that same night after all that. She basically just gave it to you to keep you quiet. 2. You still don't like her 3. You will break up with her which will lead to her sending one very strong curse your way. Trust me it's something emotional girls like this do often especially if you were the first. 4. I just blame the poor girl for choosing such a lame and obvious method to manipulate you. 5. I wonder why you are still asking if she's a cheat considering you were her first. 6. You will misbehave in future, she will seek advice from the work guy, he will seduce her. Afterall no more pesky virginity issues. Emescot: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: DNA Testing, The Battle For Ladies. by fireprince14(m): 9:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I don't understand why women are so pissed about this. We no longer live in the 1990s anymore. The world is much crazier now. I knew a girl once who was trying to have sex with my friend just weeks before her wedding. My friend and I helped her receive the delivery for her wedding cake. A former church member found out that his first child is not his and before you start shouting about switched babies, the woman confessed who the father was. I hate cheating so much I don't do it. This makes me really pissed when someone does it then tries to justify it. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by fireprince14(m): 12:26am On Feb 20, 2020 |
I find myself replying to your posts because they are so hilarious. You sound frustrated and I can empathize. Perhaps you should try stepping out of your comfort zone. Try to meet a different set of guys. Perhaps the sort of guys you are attracted to just happen to be dumb. Too much muscle and too little brains. That's an overused stereotype by the way. Riele: |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by fireprince14(m): 12:18am On Feb 20, 2020 |
Can't quite decide if I should laugh or be outraged! Funny enough, my experience with girls hasn't been very flattering in terms of intelligence. Most girls I meet can only talk about Nollywood, latest music album or BBNaija. No one reads anymore, no philosophical thoughts, no understanding of history or classical arts. Sighs. Maybe we're all just getting dumber by the day. Riele: |
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by fireprince14(m): 3:42pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
You said you don't want to leave because she's carrying your child. I laud your nobility in wanting to give your child stability but that lady is not stable at all. Domestic violence goes both ways and while you may not want to admit it, you are a victim right now. Hope you've heard of recent cases of wives killing their husbands out of anger. Call it what you want my brother (love or whatever) but she obviously doesn't respect you one whit. If she did she wouldn't abuse your parents and you. I'll advise you to do your best to get a job or start something because like it or not, a responsibility has arrived. You are obligated to take care of the child she's carrying but I would not advice marrying her if you want peace of mind. Try to grow a pair bro. The first time she locked your shirt should have been the last. Diligentnigga: 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: EU: Buhari Doing Nothing To End Killings, Persecution Of Christians By Fulani by fireprince14(m): 3:27am On Jan 22, 2020 |
Witchersunited:Perhaps you should live in the affected areas, see your child killed, your wife raped and your home burnt to the ground. Then come back to nairaland and talk about people overreacting. It's easy to sit in the relative comfort of your home and type about overreacting Christians and tribalistic south westerners. I thought a little like you once until my neighbor was kidnapped by herdsmen, until my mother was made to lie on the express way while she and other bus passengers were robbed by herdsmen. When they come for you, there'll be no one to speak for you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by fireprince14(m): 12:41am On Jun 02, 2019 |
We've all been advising the poor guy to beg or dominate his wife. Perhaps she doesn't like sex with him. OP, search yourself. We all have something that makes us tick. If you're sure you know what turns your wife on, then your issue is complicated. It could also be as simple as her not being turned on. Perhaps you like to slam and sleep. If you're doing what needs to be done and she's still rejecting you, then you are being manipulated and your wife views sex as a form of currency or a privilege to be withheld. Begging won't solve your problem, domination is just another form of rape. If she refused to tell you what you did wrong, my brother leave. I don't condone cheating, so I won't advise you to get a gf. Tell her you are fed up with this entrapment she calls a marriage and follow through on your decision. Punishments should not exist in any form in marriage. Otherwise before you know it, you'll start getting nervous and scared around her because of some perceived offense. Just be sure you are making love the way she wants it. She might be kinky and not want to tell you. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Black Men And Their Hair by fireprince14(m): 4:13pm On May 12, 2019 |
You ladies keep long hair and we love it. Tell me, how comfortable are those braids when you are standing or walking under the hot sun? There's a reason why most African women aren't born with long hair like other continents. The weather will make any guy think otherwise. There's already heat down south and you want us to add some north again? Abeg! |
Phones / Re: Whatsapp Is Temporarily Banning ‘gbwhatsapp’ Users by fireprince14(m): 1:39pm On May 01, 2019 |
I downloaded GB WhatsApp once and I actually liked the amount of features on offer until I discovered it wasn't from WhatsApp themselves then I uninstalled it quickly. My thinking was simple: I don't trust Zuckerberg (who owns a tech company that cares a bit about it's reputation) with most of my private data, so why should I trust some random developer with sensitive stuff that he can then sell to people such as scammers, terrorists or even identity thieves. No thanks. WhatsApp should not have to threaten you before you do the right thing. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: This Slay Queen Killer Curve Got Nigerians Talking by fireprince14(m): 12:12am On Apr 29, 2019 |
Deicide:Just out of curiosity, are you an atheist? Cos of ur handle. |
Romance / Re: Man Shares His Experience With The Real Boyfriend Of Girl He's Dating by fireprince14(m): 11:40pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
I don't believe loyalty has anything to do with sexual preference. Saying that the girl cheated on him because he's weak is not quite accurate. I have a friend who broke up with her bf because he was manifesting traits she could no longer cope with and she didn't want to cheat on him. Cheating on someone is the worst form of selfishness. It says you'd prefer to hold on to that person (hurting them in the process) while having sex with someone else. I don't believe in cheating. If you're doing things that make me sad, I'll try to get you to change. If you refuse to, I'll move on. It's that simple. The guy's still a p**sy though, just like most of the guys abusing him. 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: Contemporary Residential Designs For Nigerians by fireprince14(m): 12:10am On Nov 19, 2017 |
Proposed 5 bedroom duplex to be built in Akure. 1 Share
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Religion / Re: As We Await Tomorrow's Anti Christian Threads On Nairaland by fireprince14(m): 12:22am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Seun:Its really disturbing that a self proclaimed aetheist feels its his duty to repeatedly slam my religion just because he feels it is false. Religion is all about belief and faith. Jesus didn't give us the xtian religion, he gave us the xtian faith. We built religion around that faith to help us nuture it. Since religion is a man-made construct, it is to be expected that there will be some imperfections in it. On a separate level, aetheism can be interpreted by some to mean a lack of the courage required to place one's belief in something that cannot be seen. The prevalence of aetheists on nairaland these days can be seen as an outlet for guilt and uncertainty. |
Properties / Re: 8000m2 Plot Of Land For Sale In Akure by fireprince14(m): 11:30pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Sales still ongoing |
Celebrities / Re: Psquare’s Peter Okoye Reacts To Fighting Video by fireprince14(m): 6:57pm On Sep 26, 2017 |
Check out this thread www.nairaland.com/3872924/contemporary-residential-designs-nigerians#59595326 |
Properties / Re: 8000m2 Plot Of Land For Sale In Akure by fireprince14(m): 10:17pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
Please note that the above quoted Price is negotiable |
Properties / Re: 8000m2 Plot Of Land For Sale In Akure by fireprince14(m): 11:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sale is still on |
Religion / Re: A Little Question To The Atheist by fireprince14(m): 12:05am On Sep 15, 2017 |
johnydon22:I don't believe in accidents. Everything is ordained by a Superintelligence (God). Even the Big bang. Scientists have finally admitted the influence of a higher power behind the scenes. It has been discovered that the big bang happened only once and if the inclement conditions had been just a tiny bit off, the universe would not have existed. Considering this and the unique nature of the genetic code led them to conclude that such precision and accuracy could not possibly be a result of coincidence. The odds would be equal to finding a specially marked grain of sand out of all the grains of sand in the world in just one try. There are no accidents, Just plans so immense our minds can't begin to comprehend them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Canvassing For President Buhari’s Second Term Sickening – Soyinka by fireprince14(m): 10:15am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Its very confusing when I see people asking for a second dose of Buhari when d man can barely finish his first term. Its even worse when I see people talking about Atiku. We Nigerians have short memories, we want to develop yet we keep cycling through the same set of leaders for the past two decades. Our erstwhile military leaders changed uniforms and continued their political dynasties unhindered. Come 2019, we'll soon be given a choice btw the Bad and the Worse. Yet we'll still feel the need to pick. I haven't voted in the last few years because I haven't seen anyone worthy of my vote. Perhaps I'm one of the remaining few who have chosen not to believe the lies of democracy any longer. 1 Like |
Properties / Re: Contemporary Residential Designs For Nigerians by fireprince14(m): 7:34pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
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Celebrities / Re: Karrueche Tran Puts Her Boobs On Display As She Steps Out In A See-through Top by fireprince14(m): 11:35pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/3872924/contemporary-residential-designs-nigerians#60140192 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Meet The World's Sexiest Female Soldier by fireprince14(m): 11:29pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
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