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swiitJese:
Ahh, God bless u sir.

sweet jesse

Surugede...the brother above me, for your mind you get fast fingers ba??

And this is supposed to be a counter thread the thread that says, no guy should marry except he lives in @least 3bedroom flat and have a car ba??

DemiGoddess:
That thread annoyed me ehn!

i love your personal text

valslove8715:
Tanku.

where are you resident??

Durentt:
Yea, i know.

Ok.

Durentt:
"I summoned much courage nd spilled d words to my parent Yesterday "Am Gay".
It wasn't easy, i went to church nd d pastor "prayed" for me. Dad gave me bible passages that strongly condemns homosexuality. My mom has been crying since last night, saying she won't forgive me if i discrage her. Am not a discrage to my parent. I love dem, but i cant be sad all through my life to make them happy. Yes, i can act straight, get a gf nd suppress gay feelings but it would make life more difficult. At least, i expected my parent to accept me. Suicide is on my mind now, i could drink a whole bottle of hypo and rest in peace. Am tired "
-Felix

Desist from gayism, you know we were supposed to be friends right, durrent??

I don't have problem marrying from any church, but i have problem with the individual i'm marrying, hence i'm rooted and balanced scripturally wise , if you understand what i mean.

I don't have problem marrying from any church, but i have problem with the individual i'm marrying, hence i'm rooted and balanced scripturally wise

ifeajikap:
u 4got d caring part, plus if u ask any gal d qualities dy need in a guy dy will be fast to list dose qualities

my brother, it's not all about being caring or looking handsome or even having money...most times you'd possess all these qualities yet you still find yourself being friendzone or single,,,,when it comes to relationship most of the times is luck...there are alot of Good mannered and Godfearing men and women out there who are single, mesef most times i ask myself why....well, i 've come to conclude that it boils down to luck....pray to be lucky brother.

Olomubj:
love is not all about sex,but in a situation where by she is not romantic,every time not in the mood,even common kissing nothing romantic whatsoever,.but the love is there what cam someone do in this kinds of situation and if u leave her side to attend to something or a call alot of question wil be ranges.i thinks she need counseling ,if I'm right because I blv to keep a healthy relationship there are many things that need to put in place not only cooking,washing clothes and assistance in terms of financial needs but all romantic

the only course i see for alarm here is sex, sex is just your complain...be patient with her just like i am with my girlfriend else she 'll think you are there for just the sex.

Nor mind that vinshu of a girl

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]What a cold world I live in.

No man has ever seemed to like me or even care about me. What can I do about this?

Do you think I will ever find someone to love me?[/color]

is it now you are noticing it, change your attitude cos even in this forum you misbehave alot

Olomubj:
What types of love is this.you engaged to someone who doesn't stay close to you because of work only see once in awhile like only on weekend,.she normally do all house soure ,cooking your meals at the right time,wash your clothes even assist you in terms of financial problem but doesn't like sex and moreover only see once not regular,....please what kinds of love is that.your advice is urgently needed .a friend is waiting for your advices

is love sex??

So, because you look good and have good physique, it then means you are automatically entitled to a girlfriend?....your mindset is really shallow.

lekjons:
man u man city today! like for man u, share for man city..

Man u go lose profusely

kstadaura:
Hello guys something happened between me and my girlfriend yesterday, i visited her, when i reached her place she was not at home so i had to wait for her to come back, as i was waiting she came back running,gasping, i curiously asked her whats wrong, she told me its some guys that wanted molesting her but she escaped, i asked that she take me to these guys, on reaching the place where these guys are, i noticed from far that they are three in number and they are smoking something,probably weed, at that point i told my girl friend lets go and report the matter to police, but she said no, that she want me to go fight and warn those guys, i tried to show her that i cant fight them and they are not in their rightful sense but she was not ready to listen, she started saying am a coward, i cant protect her......... she finally left and told me not to follow her, i called her number she didnt answer. she sent me message saying that she is done with me, i should forget that something happened between me and her.

Pls guys have i done anything wrong, and is there anyway you think i can get this girl back cos i actually love her?

you mumu o, why did you even ask her to take you to the guys in the first place??, so, even if it was to be one guy that harrased her, you woulda fought unbehalf of her or what, smh for some guys, you never mature bro.,,,so, this is hw you 've been dating her foolishly, no wonder she dumped you.

Abegi, that no 4 sound too sisterly and brotherly, unless except you are in the friendzone

Op keep the fate, dreams come true you know

It's a natural phenomenon, stop trying to fight nature

Cutehector:
Growing beards isn't a function of cream. It depends on an individual's DNA.

you ney dey pick person call ba??

Vinshu:
My father wasn't "Rich"! He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual

your father wasn't rich ba??, but you want the man that wants to marry you to buy land build house, buy a car ba??...you are a potential golddigger in sheep clothing, gerrarahia mehhhn

Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

i actually buy what you said, but answer this question with all sincerity of heart, how rich was your dad before marrying your mum??

xtervaganza:
that you see yourself as a walking atm doesn't mean you should turn others into what you are



1st let me say I'm married and this is 2016 not 1804. Women go to school now and get good jobs just like we men.


It's no crime to spend on your woman but does she spend on you too? Does she sort you out when you're broke or assist with things in the house or in the relationship? If your mindset is to give to someone all because they have a poocee then you're a mugumaga



The proper thing is to be financially open with each other, not that you'll be a fool spending on her while she keeps her own money

i think my points are clear, if you have the money you spend on your woman if you dnt have make here understand....we complain either because we are deathbroke, stingy or that we are there only for the sex...get me right and qoute me well, she should be able to understand when you are broke temporarilly...i'm surprised a married man is sounding this way....




Happy sunday...

modextus:
firstking01 Thanks a bunch... You also spoke to me there.

yua welcome

[quote author=valslove8715 post=43935804][/quote]yua pretty

dupsil:
Am not much of a people person, i love to be on my own, i would not describe myself as a quiet person, more like someone with mood swings and most times i just want to be alone. i av just 2 close friends that i talk to about everything and they've bin quiet helpful in the ways they can, I am not close to my family members at all due to the way in which i was brought up so we don't speak much on personal issues or things am going through.
Just got out of a very bad breakup that shook me up so bad and have not been able to move past it, am in my finals in the university, just finished my first semester exams and it was so hard for me to focus and read for the exams but i was able to scale through the exam period. we are on semester break now and i have lot of assignment and project to focus on but its so hard for me to do anything meaningful this days. i just lie in alone all day doing nothing, i feel so weak, alone and depressed. i feel lost, scared, worried. Things aren't working the way i had imagined and hoped for, am 22 years old, i don't av a special talent, no skill am interested in and then this education i took serious so i could confidently say am good in something doesn't seems to be working out because am going to graduate with a 2nd class lower. i feel like i don't fit in anywhere, at my age i should have plans, goals and target for the future but i don't and i don't know how to go about it. Pls i need mature advise on what to do.

That's just the problem with most of us today's youth...even when all we ever needed to succeed in life is in our hands, we will still be looking outside turning and stretching our neck up and down looking for someone who will come motivate or encourage us...my sister, there's nothing wrong with you, as far as i'm concerned you have just one problem....SELF BELIEVE...truth be told you lack self motivation....the best and easiest way to go foreward in life is to always beat your chest and say to yourself by caling your name, i can make it...




You already have something in your hands to thankGod for, i dnt know what else you are crying for...there are lots of people out there who you are better of than, and here you are crying foul for nothing, smh...




What has really kept me strong and going in life is self motivation, i dnt need anybody to tell me i can make it, i'm a strong guy, nothing discourages me in life, i can adjust to changes in any kinda weather and succeed, i implore you to do the same my sister.




And you said something about not having talent, you make God look like a liar here...God dropped a unique talent inside of everyone of us, your problem is, you haven't realised who you really are and what you have passion for in life ...




Go and prosper in life and stop complaining cos if you dnt rise up and help yourself nobody will help you in life.





Goodluck and happy sunday y'all...

flokii:
guy nawa for you o..

must you cast her?

all these romanceland pple sef..

cast her?, you nor understand...we speak on phone almost everyday...i'm surprised she brought this issue here that's why i'm sounding that way...she's my cordial friend.

KingCheezyPuff:
I'm Afro American First01,I live in America it 5pm here

oh, but you a male or female??