₦airaland Forum

GreatAchiever1:
It's funny how even till now, people see Buhari as a hero and GEJ as a villain. Nigerians as a whole gave me a reason not to take interest in anything politics.

I biliv u re one of multitude who see Buhari as hero.


Oga, the fact remains that our economy started plummet from time of oga Jonah, the clueless and got worse during the time of oga bubu the lifeless .


The last time naija managed, at least by 60% effectively was during OBJ time.

Because you didn't fight ur fight like a wise man, moreso, its too soon to make it publicly.


A wise man would have waited for supreme court first.

Next, find ways to get majority of law makers to his side ( if you alone cannot win them to ur side, you should have sent very powerful emissaries and major stake holders within and outside the state to each of them separately to woo them with backing of huge amount of money and other goodies goodies)


Now, it's extremely difficult to get them to ur side since the fighting is already in the market Square.

You will fight for ur entire 4 years on the throne, provided you won't be thrown out before that time.

Gadafii:
a man who depends on Govt to marry for him is a weak man

A man who always criticising good things is what? A SATANIST.


if you don't criticise for just an hour , your BP would rise beyond normal level.


It seems by attacking helping you to regularise ur HPB

Radiant01:
Godfather meeting son.....hummmm
I told people then that this guy is working for tinubu in Atiku camp...

Rule no 14
Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy
Pretend to be friends with someone to get close to them and learn their secrets. Then use that information against them.

He wasn't working for Tinubu then, but since he has noticed that, it's end of the road for Atiku, that's why he is running around to become errand boy of Tinubu now.

These type of people always pitch ther tent where they know free government money would be following continuously.

yommen:
OND II student is more focused on relationship than education.

Since daughter of man already knows she can only make it in life by attaching herself on man who she thinks he himself would make it in life.

immortalcrown:
God does not abandon what he started. He didn't abandon Israelites. He may delay the progression but does not reverse the movement. He delayed Israelites on the way but didn't take them back to Egypt.

Wen are you going to blame God for Satan that went astray?

Foolish people that crazy and masturbate for ordnary mention and likes.

Testiebobo:
I dont know if i'm alone on this observation, have you ever noticed that your girlfriend is always wearing english wears and have never approach native wears before? Because, i noticed mine has never put on a native dress before! Or are they doubting the beauty of culture?cuz english is not our own

Is it general public you will ask for her reason for not wearing ur cultural dress or ur girlfriend?

.....ok ooo, I'm expecting when you will go to market to ask people that she is not allowing you to put it into it from front oooooo.


Bunch of social media urchins,rats and cockroaches.

Meanwhile, if they start giving them roles, they would start making government ungovernable for their principals.


Naija people with their passion for power is second to none.


Everyone wants to become leader.

If everyone is a leader,who will be followers?

Okoroawusa:
Wonders shall never end...see Hakeem Baba-Ahmed representing the Tinubu government in an occasion.

In 2022 and early 2023 if you were told by a prophet that this will happen you would have stoned the prophet.

As far as Nigeria is concerned, I'm not surprised, everyone you see attacking govt on media or at gatherings, are doing it purposely for personal cum regional gains and not because of generality of Nigeria.

Today, Obi is shouting up and down not because of generality of Naija per say, but for Igbo to taste goodies goodies of highest office.

Daniel Bwala said rubbish more than Baba Ahmed, but today, he himself is prostrating on national TV if he can see part of national soup lick.

Exceed15:
You hardly see a female child do this to her parent. Always pray for a child that will give you peace. A child sex is not important

Go to getho side, you will see thousand of female children doing more than this to their parents

This one would soon rape his mother.

Anyway, is good for any parent surporting thr children for doing evil.

We4all:
I used to think this Simi was a church girl. Lately, she has been trying so hard to sound woke.

Co-habiting doesn't guarantee a good marriage. The most important thing is to be highly observant which can make you easily know the type of person your partner is.

For your marriage to last, ask yourself what you cannot stand in a partner. Can you stand a dirty, talkative or disrespectful partner? These are traits that are easily identifiable without having to live with someone.

People are having marital problems because they tend to overlook the bad habits of their partners before marriage hoping they will change or they can manage when they eventually get married. But it gets to that point where they can no longer cope and problems start to set in.

Abi oo, cos she stayed with Adekunle and was successful in her first attempt, let say she stays in succession with, like 9 guys and not be able to marry any of them, her senses would come back to normal.

Meanwhile, what about good man/woman turn bad? Thre are some type of people that are good before but after some time, they go bad, can co-habitation makes you know that one too?

Wen people talk, they won't check the other side of it to weigh the disadvantage of it.

How many people you will co-habitate with before you finally get ur husband oo? Maybe after 7 pre-husbands houses.

When you have co-habitated with like 7-9 guys before you finally packed in to ur final husband house, how you as a woman feels about urself? What about the final husband? how will him feel too?


For you to co-habitate with partners before marriage, does that make you know everything about her? Is Adekunle not showing new behavior in which Simi never aware after like 3 years of their co-habitation? Does she run away because of that?

I doubt if women even take cognizant of body count again.

INSTEAD FOR HER TO PREACH MORE ABOUT, FORGIVIN SPRIT IN MARRIAGE AND ABILITY TO BE ABLE TO REACH COMPROMISE.

if couples not learn how to be reaching compromise, no man/woman that the person would be able to leave it.

Go and check behavior patterns of "marriage not for everyone crew" . They usually lack COMPROMISE attitude which is integra part of marriage success.

The 50 arrested alive are supposed to lead the troops to communities they came from and make sure they arrest others that are involving in all these heinous acts, after that, the 50 together with others remaining should be executed without trial, . because, court will still release them, and if they dnt, their friends would still be mobiled and set them free in prison.

princepeter566:
Fubara shot himself ion the foot.
The masses were behind him but he greedily accepted tinubu useless offer

What would masses do oga? To shout and quickly rush inside when they hear just one tear gas abi?

You guys would just be talking the way words coming to ur mouth without sieving them with ur brains.

Is it not the same masses that are being controlling by moneybags?
Did masses were supposed to vote for any candidates presented by godfathers in the first instance?

Where were masses when they left candidates like, Magnus Abe, Tonye Cole etc before they voted massively for all candidates choose by Wike? Including Tinubu.

Don't they vote blindly for Wike candidates?

If you don't address the issue critically now, my friend, he would come back to hunt you.

Man must marry a woman who is ready to loyal with him not because Money and other benefits comming from her man, she too must be ready to reciprocate the same gesture.


My then girlfriend, who is now my wife, voluntarily gave me all passwords she has, (ATM, phone, Facebook etc).
Meanwhile, that doesn't make me to abandon my responsibilities at home for her or turn me to hunter watching over her social media o

I wish teenagers, most especially girls can learn from this story, often time, recklessly past usually destroy the future, ........but trust girls, it's me that I own my body, I'm free to use it to my fullest enjoyment


A teenager girl should ask herself why her opening cover by hyme?

I think God Almighty doing it for a purpose oo.

Only God that supreme for life

elasticlala:
Rape is not not good but I still don't understand why arrested bandits could be forgiven and a rapist is sentenced to life imprisonment in the same country... something is wrong somewhere

So, they should now be forgiven every sin that everyone committed?

If it's so, can u imagine how society would be? Jungle? Dungeon? Hell?

Pls think properly before you write plsssssssss.

marlow1962:
You're a foolish man (no offense), sometimes I wonder why men turn pussies after marriage.your wife send another woman to test your loyalty and still quarrel with you that why did you say only introduction, what a shame bro.
Guy if I were you( of course I can't be like you), that said wife go chill for her parents house for like 2-3years and that her counterpart, I will fk her (seriously that's what I will do). You people don't teach stupid women lessons, that's why the women makes you men look stupid. You dy test me, me wer put you for house cun still they pay your bills, rubbish.
Topics likes this are very funny and annoying.

Yet u think u re a man, the person that takes responsibility of household?

Anyone that marries you, marries slavemaster.

A strange girl would just called u from nowhere and you start fucking her mercilessly?
Is that how u re thirsty for vj? What a cheap he-goat!

Odingo1:
My Wife uses a girl to set me up to see if I will cheat on her. Note I am not cheating but my wife believes that all men are cheating and scum. I have done 4 test after each business trip as demand by her for peace to reign. She gave the girl my information and the girl told me that she know me and the places I have lived in Lagos and worked before, so I was surprised and demanded for a video call to see if I know the person. She ask me about my marriage and I said I did introduction. She said that she wants to come and see me in a private place. I said no that I don’t meet with strangers although she knows alot about me including we’re I have worked and lived but I couldn’t recognize her as someone I know before on video call. I didn’t chat the girl again although she keep on sending me greeting and asking me why did I forget her in a hurry. I didn’t reply again because is strange to me that someone knows a lot about my past but I couldn’t recognize that person.

After like 3 weeks my wife ask me why did I tell a girl that I did only introduction and not marriage. I told her that I said so to see we’re the girl is heading to. I told her that I have forgotten the issue. She said that she is the one that sent girl to tempt me and give her feedback. She started quarreling with me that although that I didn’t fall for it but I said I did introduction.

What I’m going to do in this situation, is it not betrayal

It's only a foolish and cheap he-goats that would fall for this type of cheap bait.

A strange person that u never see called you and you started melting for her, if not, why don't you tell her straight that she should stop calling or chatting with you.


If the girl know how to lure men, you would have fell yakata for her, u re afraid because she just called from nowhere and telling you several things about u,

Imotman:
Hello.

I'm 35 and right now I'm a little bit lost on choosing a potential life partner.. I went through a slight delay career-wise, but God came through and things picked up within the past 1 year. I met a lady also during this time and we've been dating. We both love each other with the mindset of getting married soon.. I was looking forward to tell my mom who I hadn't seen in almost a year about her.

The twist now is my aunt (a very close confidant) whom I told before anyone is trying to pitch me to another lady abroad. (I don't know how she looks or who she is as I write)...

My mum is also tilting in that direction and urging me to consider the other lady abroad, based on my aunt's positive recommendation.

My family absolutely mean well for me. Right now I'm a bit lost on the whole situation as my main goal for the new year is to get married and relocate abroad.

I'm concerned if I'll be able to get on well with this 'other' lady in question or should I just insist on settling with the current person I'm seeing.. this is the real dilemma.

So, it's general public that will choose the best lady for u at 35?
Little wonder why MARRIAGES not lasting in recent time, couple hardly married for love again but personal benefits that would come out of it.

Meanwhile, I think you guys saying it's ladies that normally married for financial security and other gains, when Naija guys turn to woman's ATM?

Jacksonk222:
Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

Is it only lady that marries out of pity?

Anyone marries out of 3 ingredients that can make Marriage work and blissful would surely going to regret it last last.

Love
Income
Understanding.


Beauty, Handsome, Famous, Wealthy, Elite etc can not guaranteed marriage to work, if the 3 above listed ingredients are substantially lacking.

Negative minded would still condernm the ranking, if they rank it worst,they would condernm, now that it's ranked good, they would still wail.

Can you explain to us why gov declared 24hrs curfew and still gunmen came to massacre score of people.

Under normal circumstances the security forces sent to impose curfew need to be sanctioned.

They should dealt with accordingly, even demolition that state gov carried, in a saner society he won't go unpunished.

Why would you destroy govt properties, built by taxpayers money because of political differences with ur godfather?

You find other means to deal with ur political enemy/rivals and not to be destroying govt properties/economy.

Thisisvenuz:
I met this lady early last year and we fell in love we were Soo close and she was like the type of woman I wanted at that time so instead of playing with our future I proposed to her and she accepted then we started planning marriage. Then I noticed after the proposal this lady started being to demanding she wants this she wants that which I try my best and provide but when I don't this lady will call me names this and that the wrist chain this lady wears alone is about 150k but she always tells me I did nothing so I decided to end it all yesterday. Did I took the right decision?

Many of you normally do what you know ur capacity won't carry going forward,wen u are about to toast women or just start the relationship newly, woman is like baby, the more you over pampered a kid the problematic is for you going forward.

I will advise you to look for other lady and start afresh, but now, with moderate spending you know ur capacity can endure for ur lifetime, for ur ex fiancee, you already started what you couldn't finish with her and she already enjoying it which she is not ready to stop with u again.

Celebrities usually have more problems in their marriages than others, not because of lack of money to make it blissful, but cos of fame and so much attentions that fame bringing.

A famous young guy/lady who is also rich, would be disturbing too much by people for sex and relationship, and if you dnt careful, you become "our" husband instead of "my" husband, same things goes to wife, meanwhile no partner would be able to endure it going forward, when the level of infidelity is becoming unbearable.

ObalendeCMS:
Your comment be like say you dey use style jealous the guy.

Women no dey reason all those tins so long she's getting steady orgasm.

Go and read the lady I commented on her comment before u start jumping to say rubbish.

From the post, its jealousy you point out thr.
In what way am l jealous? If u align my comment with "baby mama" situation they post on thread?

U guys think every man is a he-goat like you do with girl and woman you see.

CHoccolaTE:
I wish men would dedicate the same effort and time they use in criticizing women/females to calling out their fellow males bad behavior. Maybe then there will be less crimes and less corrupt leaders and less male violence in general.

Who would you blame in this scenario?

A lady of 26-28 in my area, now dating a guy who is jobless and came to scot with landlord son, who himself staying in her mother room.
the lady in question is a tenant in that house , and she open her eyes to sees and Knows how the boy normally stays indoors all days and smoke India hemp daily.

If the girl gets pregnant and born for the jobless, lazy and smoker now, what would be the faith of the girl?

Doesn't the girl know what might have befallen her before open her hole for the useless, lazy and jobless guy?
Won't the girl end up as baby mama if not single mom?

If she ends as baby mama/single mom would he blame men as usual?

NB: the guy has turned the girl room to his room, since the room free than his friend mum that originally came to scot with, whenever the girl go to work, he would sleep all day until she comes back.