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Curious345:
I am currently intimate with 4 ladies. I use protection on all of them .

So let me say this , I met a 21yr old 300 level NAU lady in my church .

I really liked her and wanted to date for marriage . So I asked her out . But she said she's to young and want time to sample more Dick's before she can make up her mind .and that it seem I wanted to take advantage of her young age

You are intimate with 4 ladies, yet u want all to focus on u alone.

Meanwhile, you will strugle, even to marry just one of them.

When u finally marry one, what would happen to the remaining 3?


GOING BY WAY YOU GUYS ALWAYS JUDGEMENTAL ABOUT WOMEN ISSUES OO

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

Forget marriage!
Go and hustle!
Make money! ......easier than thou.
How many million you have made this year oo?

ChizzyBuna:
Women have fish brain

In her mind, she think say na only her dey cook for him

As a guy, once you start doing "Wife duties" and acting like my wife.
I will never pay your bride price...Simple

If I can enjoy Kpekus and your food without marriage. Then why should I marry you??

Clap for urself for saying nonsense, in ur own myopic wisdom, u think paying wife bride price is for her and her family alone?

What a shallow way of thinking!


I doubt if u know the real meaning of a bastard children.


U guys would just come online and be saying jargons. Anyway, .....one cannot say more than wisdom deposited in him......

starpower:
What one would do as wife them do am as girlfriend. Women, how man go be in a hurry to get married.

If they refused to do it for you, you people would still lament on top of ur voice. Saying, steet girls are marrying everday, while church girls are languishing in the desert of singleness.

In other way round.


If a christian post hits the front page now,

......why fiancee shouldnt go to her fiance's house alone when visiting.

You would still be the first to wail and condernm entire christian religion.

Only death is satisfying human!

TopBanter:
Best comment here. No for further comment needed than the one you made on a thread where many don't seem to remember how Tinubu is very strategic, visionary and calculative like a Chess Grandmaster.

Tinubu is probably the best leader in Nigeria for making long-term and interlinked planes he then carefully guides to success like the Lagos master plan he initiated, as Governor, and then ensured his successor continued holistically.

What people are reading now is just only part 1 of what may even be a 10 part drama Tinubu is cooking for the reformation of Nigeria through use of the LG as pivotal change agents of development since all Nigerians live in one LG or the other.

With Tinubu, it is a case of trust the process when a man who knows what he is doing is in charge.

Only one thing that makes me like his govt.

No govt appontee, Elected or Members of his political party that is too big to control, or going out to do anyhow, unlike previous govt since 4th republic, including OBJ.

Ojuntana:
According to who? This is a slap on the constitution. The words of the constitution have literal meaning as long as they are not ambigous. There is no ambiguity in that section of the constitution

Ok ooo, keep on ranting, maybe you would head the panel that would reveiw the constitution, even in America, judges still pronounces according to their own wisdom, in paradging shift from letter of constitution.

Ojuntana:
Is this not against the constitution?

Its what supreme court judges say, that is law.

Allee90:
This can not be implemented. Note this and remember me

Hope you knw the man at center.


Govs can do anyhow for Goodluck or Nohammadu and not Tinubu.

OriOko88:
Lol. He don see shege. Na inside marriage person go know say sex is overrated. By the time reality dawns on u,u go know what you've got ur self involved in.

Dem no dey tell blind person say rain dey fall,when e touch am he go run

Did you ever enjoy marriage that existed between ur parents as kids and latter teenager? Going by lamentations you are dishing out ....because of 2 lousy and immature, "who are yet to be married".

When are you going to release praises about thousands that are enjoying their marriages?

IF THERE ARE 10 DRUMS IN WHICH 8 ARE FULL AND 2 ARE EMPTY, THE 2 THAT EMPTY, WOULD BRING LOUDEST SOUND.
I biliv u can interpret the proverb, stop making the few to generalise the majority.

[quote author=YeyeGbami post=130892147]The US accounts for more than 40% of the planet's weapons exports. $100 to $200 billion pocketed yearly from arm sales.

Now think like a business entity, you wan make profit abi you wan dey dull?[/quote]


If you people stop fighting the busness will fall.


Now, think like rational human being, did u want to continuing dying or leave?

You stop from fighting useless tribal fights from faceless forum.

It Shall not be well with you and the gains you are making.


Citizens should perish because you are making selfish gains.


GIVE NIGERIAN SMALL OPPORTUNITY, HE WOULD TURN HIMSELF TO SLAVE MASTER.

They formed hyper superguy* online, but become rag wen they see holes.

RollinTNDA:
I knack one babe last night
Today she started bombarding me with messages on Whatsapp about " What are we?"

She wrote " Are we dating or are we having fun"
"Please define what we are doing so I know where to channel my heart"

I will not be surprised if you are
30 or below and ur girl is between 24 and 30?

sonofsteven:
Can't the south east governors demand for this money and use it to generate power, for the south east alone?
Add money and build something like the geometric power in abia state and reduce cost of purchasing power for the residents??

11b naira cant do shishi" wen it comes to electricity issues, unless they want to contribute more to make it realistic.

Where Obi is getting all this money from? Which is donating up & down? Yet his cult followers saying he is a Saint.

Noneroone:
This one can only happen in the North or maybe west.

And the one that happened in the yeast?

Abi, Hopeless and NLC president,no be yeast they come from?

joseph1832:
I see... very funny.

So people will be waiting for them for finishing fvcking the living day light out of them, right. Lol. They also ask you to pick a hotel of your choice and yet, they will still harvest your organs when they don't know the inner workings and security measure in the hotel?

I believe this girl want to trend, what she says doesn't even add up. How will organ harvesters harvest a person's organ, and leave the hotel that they didn't even pick themselves.

When rational human beings comment on nairaland, they hardly gotten likes, shares or mentions, but let irrational comments hit the post, several likes & shares would follow.

I checked the first page of this tread, the two comments that got many likes above, contributed no sensible things toward the topic,.....either support or against.

But ur own that given insightful, they avoided it like plague.

Can we now say, people natural wicked, selfish towards their gender, foolish or cannot think rationally? Perhaps they must rant to feel being relieved of emotional burden?

smileyoo:
This made no sense at all, going to such long jail because of ordinary konji that any normal man can always control himself, if he can't control himself, why not come back to Nigeria, instead of commiting crime in a foreign land.
anyway recently I learnt that some people's country had become so harsh for the citizens, to the extent that those who japa, prefer to go to prison by commiting minor offenses instead of being repatriated back home, but this is a harsh offense.

It still not make sense to you? Anyway, the fly tht would die must stubornly follow corpse to the grave.

muyico:
I support anytinz apc does! I hates bitter men!

As someone rightly said, why won't you have problems with your grammar, when you ignored every opportunity to upgrade yourself,but using it to think of how you will attack govt/APC.


Ur type would come here to lament how girls don't normally contribute to issues be discussed, I think someone who doesn't contribute is far better than someone who constitutes nuisance to the thread.

purples25:
Nigerians don't have compassion.

She did all that sexual stuff - she was a victim of abuse.
She faked her death - she was getting attacked in real life.

She is fully responsible for her actions, but they are not valid/justifiable. Her FEELINGS of pain and fear are valid, her ACTIONS were not.

She needs therapy, not to be arrested. In saner climes, she would be registered for a mental health treatment in a facility.

That's why I said Nigerians are heartless. Someone wants to kill herself, faked her death, and you want to punish her more.

She needs love, not hate.

So, you biliv she is arrested? Indeed u can fall for anything, did the girl face show in the first instance? ..... So, u dnt think all these are just for public stunt and to get traffic to their useless blogs?

LET SAY SHE EVEN ARRESTED FOR REAL, DID POLICE TELL YOU, THEY ARE ARRESTING HER TO CUT OFF HER HEAD?

You guys just too gullible for my liking.

fergie001:
This is also not true.

The Appeal Court nullified the jurisdiction of the Rivers State High Court but DID NOT order for a status quo ante bellum.

The lead judgement by Justice Bada did not seek status quo, the 2nd concurrent judgement by Justice Balkisu Bello did also not order for status quo.

It was only Hamma Barka who ordered for status quo and that's why vanitybwanti posted the screenshots of Barka alone but that is an orbiter.

Again, the Gov started acting on budget on 13/12/23 and the FHC gave that judgement on 22/1/24, so if the Amaewhule-led House decide to say No way, the Gov will refund or what?

The Gov has used his red biro already, dave. Let them start the fight from today, not yesterday.

.....and you think you are not bias with what
you narrated above?

Why people find it difficult to be neutral wen giving opinions still not clear to me, not even wen they arent gaining anything from both side.

They will praise judiciary now, but wen they go against them, they demonise them.

GoooodHardDick:
When we say Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Una go think say na lie.

OP, the begging thing is for Nigerian girls only. White woman no fit beg u. But u see Nigerian girls? They are so entitled to a guy's money that they think any guy that crosses their path must give them money. Whether online or offline.

This is why they all engaged in Oloshoism and runs, doing hookups online. On whatsApp, tiktok, facebook and instagram, you'll see them displaying their daftness and Olosho business just to hookup With men in exchange for money. Truly, Nigeria girls are useless regardless of their region. This is why you must swallow the red pill immediately
No let any Nigeria girl manipulate u. The only women God created you to maintain are your mother, sisters and your wife. Know this and know peace

Coming from GOODHARDDICK, what can be more useless than Goodharddick?

O boy! Go and see clinical psychologist befero, is too late.

Gboom:
This ya story get k-leg, that ya cousin no get work ni, staying with a concubine for 4-5 days, where is he getting the money he is spending on food? Even if he is working online, he still need concentration.

The bottom-line is don't give him a chance anymore to be using your abode for adultery

Some people are working with govt in which they arent used to go to office everytime.


I knw a friend, who is working with federal govt, he hardly stay at home with his wife and kids, he prefare traveling around and lavishing money on girlfriends and concumbines, atimes he might not go to work for 3 weeks, consecutively.

Meanwhile, he is also into building construction, so, he used to get additional money thr to squander on holes. While wife and kids are suffering at home.

This is real life story of a childhood friend.

If its me, i will tell him directly that, im no longer confortable.


But since you are afraid to tell him, I would advice you to tell him tactically. That, .....it seems his wife is aware of what is going on, that, people telling you that his wife is complaining that you are the one harbouring her husband to do nonsense and sleeping outside, with this, you will tell him to stop becos, you dnt want his wife to disrespect you.

dettolgel:
The Democrats are trying really hard to destroy the US political system. If not that they have a very strong system that tends to keep these guys in check, with the events of the pass few years the US political terrain wouldn't be any different from what APC has turned ours into.

Hope u will also remember us, what Trump/republican did in capito and wanted to do with ballots wen he lost re-election.

Augustine2244:
Most of these Pentecostal churches are more of a nuisance to society and contribute more to the problems of the society.
If not for religious stupidity,why should this fate befall these unthinking fellows?
Catholics, remain stuck in your church, Anglicans, Methodists same too.
Never ever desert your church for any hopeless Pentecostal church.
God answers prayers in every church.

Mad man would blame church rather than foolish attendees who are behaving abnomally.


If church overcrowded did u need to be told to go back to ur house?


If they allow everybody inside, ....mad man would still be the first to rush to nairaland to lament as usual

Originalsly:
The point is North Korea has a super low crime rate and the government provides for the people. How much they provide doesn't matter .... the criteria is met.

You're put in my care .... I'm responsible for providing your lunch ... I bring you four grains of rice ... one small small piece of meat ... four strings indomie and one red pepper on top. Question..... did I provide you lunch? .. yes/no? If it's enough is a different story.

You say certain govt provide EVERYTHING for her citizens.

You argue ur point base on that and not trying to go off point to justify urself.

WHY YOU GUYS LIKE TO POST CONTROVERSIAL POSTS ABOUT CHURCH/CRISTIANS ON SUNDAYS?

WHILE YOU OPEN CRISTIANS THREADS FOR VARIOUS CRITICSMS AND CONDERMINATIONS, YOU WILL PROTECT MUSLIM THREAD BY MAKING IT PARTIAL CLOSE.

STOP BEING USED AS AGENT OF DIVISION, AND TRY TO FOLLOW UR OWN RULES REGULATIONS.

Mummyfour:
Absolutely. The payment of the dowry and acceptance of both families are what legalises a marriage. Every other thing is to spice it up. Marraige is local or traditional, don't let anyone deceive you.
And that is why if you go ahead and do any other type of marriage without paying dowry, that marraige will not be recognised at least according to Nigerian culture.

So yes, when you have paid dowry you can have sex with your wife. She is your wife.

Payment of dowry and acceptance by parents not LEGALISES oooo, but they are most impotant aspects of marriage.

Going to Registry, Church or Mosque legalises it.

It would have better if you use the word. VALIDATE.

7arrows:
Die hard supporters ooo. Even till death. Tribalism has eaten so deep into their head that they can't reason properly anymore. They rather vote a clueless tribes man than a tested and trusted person from another tribe. Who put us inside this mess

Wen other tribes start saying how its about their tribemen going for election, it would surely go round in all tribes.


You cant be relunctant to say other side about ur tribeman and be expecting me to demonise my tribeman. Not even wen ur tribeman had been tested with a particular public office, but instead to say pros and cons of ur tribe man, you are projecting him as SAINT, while saying my tribe man is demon.

ONLY A FOOL FOLLOW THAT TRAJECTORY WITH YOU.