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I'm seeing Dangote going out from 1st -5th Africa richest.

The same way India richest man, gone out of 1st-10th richest.

Better for masses. Let them fight to death, provided it would be, to the advantages of rivers people.


Still don't know why Wike want to control political structure at all cost to the detriment of chief executive officer of a state.

Where you put Eto?

Weah and Eto are greatest?

Often time, when teens want to start having affairs with guys, they show it in their "behaviours and dressings", but parents usually negligent handwriting on the wall, saying she still minor.

If one can evedrop what girls of 10- 15, (which are still preteen), saying when they gather together about boyfriend,relationship and sex. You would marvel and shake deep to ur spine.

Im 100% sure that this preteen girl would have been wearing revealing clothes for long now, in which mum and even OP overlooking until messages and pictures cropped out.

You gave smartphone for girl of 12, a secondary school pupil, for her to be able to communicate and explore the world and you still expecting *least from her.

You think boarding school of primary/secondary is meant for decent students? No, it's for parents who do not have time for kids and who aren't mind, if children are spoilt and rast"


Meanwhile,it's not time to talk about VIRGINITY, (the hyme damaged long ago), I think time to rescue her for her not to completely decay.

Your parents need to 1.Withdraw her from boarding immediately. 2. Withdraw smartphone from her and 3. Give her extremely close monitoring, before you do that, show her all the dirty stuffs she store on her phone.

You can also councel & pray for her as well.

The two below are tip of iceberg among messy stories going on campus.

PureFace1:
Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

Why given ADVICE wen all women are bad and indoctrinate ur fellow men against women?

Why not get married to ur fellow men and go for "adoption" to have ur "biological" kids?

Bunch of hypocrites!

Antoeni:
Hope We Can All See That a Person Character is Not Hinged On Wearing Hijab.

......but for jihadists, if you wear hijab you are a saint.

They respect hijab (ordinary attire) far more than human, only because it's attachment to religion faith.


MAY WE NOT BECOME SLAVE AND IDIOTS TO RELIGIONS (ISLAMS, XTIAN, HINDU etc)

Jerkbaba:
Everytime i see all these stupid men taking all these regular girls on outings i just laugh! They think they're the first to fvuck that pussy! . They dont know these prostitutes in disguise that call themselves church girl have twice the body count of that of olosho even ashawo & olosho combine together! Regular girls are the worst predenters ever! And for some off you that don't know who regular girls are, let me define that for you! Regular girls (Ashawo in disguise) are the type of girls you find in banks, churches, or any other work place and even homes living with their parents that pretend to be virgins and holy! They are the worst type of females you'll ever meet in this life! If most of them open up to you and tell you their body count, you will never believe it! . That's why i hate them so much! It's only olosho i fvuck when kongi come my way! For you stupid men dating all these regular girls, my advise for you is end it there & now! They're playing you! Know this and know peace!

Useless man , when are you going to talk about man's body counts. Not until you waste all ur seeds before you start planning to have family, all in the name of digging holes.

matify83:
Cardoso is clutching at too many policies these days like a drowning man with Nigerians yet to see the benefits.

He has virtually reversed most of the policies of the erstwhile cbn governor in order to stabilize the naira yet it keeps getting a beating when lined-up against the dollar.

Naira is deprecating becos our imports are far far outnumbered our exports, besides, Naija economy has already dolarised. people now use dollar as a means of exchange within Nigeria's economy instead of Naira.

Not until the two above scenarios are tackled, no meaningful achievements can be felt.

Jayden001:
To be a man no easy at all.
Aunty missed her period lately and from all indications she's pregnant.
But her cravings for seemingly impossible stuffs is just crazy.
She could ask for a fried mango or roasted watermelon
She's allergic to smells and scents, I've removed every air freshener in the house.

She can barely cook, she said everything is smelling.
Omo, e come be like say no be my house again.
Yesterday I went to look for kpomo by 12am
This life shaa 🤣
Legends in the house, na so e dey be

Provided you re not posting this base on hallucinations to make front page.

I pray you won't turn Mumu just because ur girlfriend gets pregnant, some people take advantage of every opportunity to control others,in as much that pregnant woman needs to be taken care appropriately, she shouldn't turn herself to egg that nobody shouldnt touch again, she is not the first person to be pregnant neither would she be the last.

As if you have anything to offer rather than, for Igbo to taste power and load Igbo into his government the way Buhari did and Tinubu doing now.

maasoap:
When did Africa become this? Lol. You better stick with your one wife and let others do their things

Others will do it with attendant effects, if you think what ur forefathers did 100yrs ago with total illiterate women , you want to try it.......they will post ur messy story here for us to comment

If son comes out hard on this mad father now, myopic people would start condemning him, that it's mum that brainwashed him.

Father that doesn't know, how to be silent for the sake of his children's futures, and still want such kids to surport him because he has useless anaconda inbtw.

Osashalom:
Can you listen to yourself? How does a married woman do breasts enhancement surgery without her husband's consent?

Oga, he lost to be in charge of her, immediately he brought another woman to be her rival inside her matrimonial house.


Any man that doesn't have issues persay in his marriage,that still go ahead to marry second wife, ......such man shouldn't bother to look for his enemy o, he is his enemy.

Not even in Africa where husband can have different gfs outside.

aikyg:
Hahahah. Looks like May is now entering his eye again. Isi mmili, zukwanu ike.

He is being jealous now, how I wish she sees her with better man, he might commit suicide.

kay29000:
Can you please explain your last paragraph better... Thanks.

Buhari was neutral if not tactically caged Tinubu for opposition to win, but feilding Atiku as candidate made them loose gallantly.

A very rascal guy puts several different women at home and he thinks only him would be "smacking them.
I pity who no pity u, even one wife, husband still struggling to cage her not to let loose, not to talk of plenty women .

If they deceiving u dnt deceve urself Mr.

deyplay:
because other ministers are banned from talking to the press or their work is in the realm of the spirit and thus invisible?

Everyone must play to the galleries, indeed, I understand your type.

You would be very easy to be dribbled by surbodinates ,who are pretenders and who do eye service if u happened to be boss.


If u say it's Tunjiojo alone that's working out of 48 ministers, it's an indictment on Tinubu govt himself.


Bye Mr myopic.

Maybe you are talking about military coalition. Tinubu is not Jonathan or Buhari, even after 8 years it would require, more than colition to defeat APC under Tinubu watch, it's only death and probably if military ready, that can stop Tinubu and not any political colition or 3rd force.


Buhari gave you express way to Aso rock, you guys foolishly gave ur ticket to selfish and serial looser.

If truly she had knowledge of the drug in her bag, (not that someone put it behind her) before taking it to airport, she is most foolish being ever liveth.

Even those who ingested hard drugs, are caught, let alone direct inside handbag.

forgiveness:
Hon. Minister, is it possible to pass the border without human contact? Because those shameless immigration forcefully collect money to stamp your passport to go out and even enter your own country.

In fact, all the agencies at the border collect money from Nigerians and even Africans.

Is it also possible to rearrange the clearance of containers at the ports and borders? Because the agent use this opportunity to exploit importers which results to inflation.

They will never allow you to know the real fee of the shipping company, terminal and custom clearance because importers are not allowed to generate the invoice by themselves except through the agent.

I will advise that it be mandated that invoice must be sent to owners directly through email and owners should pay directly into the government account with the name the importer used to import into Nigeria.

That will reduce inflation because some agent with the collaboration of customs wants to make between 1.5m - 2m naira on importation of just one car alone besides others fees.

The owners of these cars wouldn't want to loose money hence add the agent 2m, other fees and his own profits on the vehicle making it extremely expensive. This is where inflation is also coming from.

Owners must be involved in direct payment of imported goods. Assigning this to agent tantamount to being exploited.

Hon minister of Interior, you can do it, sir.

Channel ur complaint to minister of finance. Port/custom is not under his ministry.

Ogbonna24:
The only working minister

Hope u also know that some ministers may be working than him and not choose to be going to media?

Dnt give excellent for a student when u haven't graded other students. The student who submits first may not score the highest mark o.

Jeon:
Seriously?.

The brain of some Nigerian ladies have been washed with Marriage and man.

And you? Have you ever contributed to any issues outside man and woman issues before? Are you not sleeping and waking up only on relationship stuffs? Are you not dreaming the day one guy will come to ur life to rescue you from jaw of economy deprivation that zoo had subjected into? Are you not feeling helpless with absent of quality" man in ur life?

DeLaRue:
Suspended for misappropriation after just 2 months of appointment?

What an embarrassment she has caused her family, and those who lobbied for her to get the role.

Thank God we now have a proactive President.

Leopard can never change her skin.

A theif must exhibit her trait even if she find herself in midst of saints

Can WIFE agree with football world that her drunk-master sleeps at home?

SPAMBOX7:
https://www.nairaland.com/7954403/been-insensitive-should-just-neighbour

I read the story above and asked myself will she learn from her experience? As the story reminded me of one chick.


So this girl I once dealt with. She was chick and while we were dating she sent money to her ex that was in another state to come meet her. The ex didn't come. But the fact she wanted the dude to come was enough. I found out through her friend and dumped her.

At first I just locked up I didn't confront her cos I wasn't tired of smashing her yet. But this chick was the type that if she call you once and you don't pick she's calling you on video call the next second to know where you at. God save you to pick if not she will assume you with another chick and start keeping malice.
I don't even wanna talk about her sneaking into my WhatsApp at any given opportunity. But one day she went into my WhatsApp and called a random girl's number thinking she was my girl.

I got pissed and told her to bring her phone lemme check too then she refused. I insisted and all this while she rushed to her WhatsApp and cleared some chat she had of she and the ex. This got me mad but I calmly told her I know what she been up to. She tried to deny then I told her about her sending her ex money to come smash her in town. She was perplexed. She started begging..

Then I told her we can't be the same again. Even tho I wasn't tired of hitting I told her point blank I ain't taking her back. The only thing that would make me take her back was if she was gonna be paying me half of her salary monthly

She got mad that I was trying to make her buy me. I told her I don't care cos since she got enough money to send to a man to come smash her like she's some sugar mommy then it was only fair she pay me for what I been doing for free. If not no more fvking and I gave her a deadline if she don't start paying she should forget about me. I told her plain blank that it was my punishment to her for trying to cheat and still having the guts to check through my phone and even go dial some numbers.
She cried throughout the night and left the following morning. But before she did she cursed and spoiled my door knob


Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over and that was it.


This was like a year ago. Last night I saw her at my former hood when I went to check on a friend. We didnt speak cos the moment I saw her coming towards my direction I went inside the house. Her friends kept telling me how she keeps talking about me and how she fbcked up and wished I gave her another chance bla bla.
Now I am asking you fellas if I had given that girl another chance would she have made good use of it?

Because I haven't seen a woman that was given a second chance and she made good use of. It is always the opposite, cos instead of changing they rather device ways to be more sneaky.
This has always been what I observed from modern women. Our forefathers used to exert measures that will make their women not to repeat any mistakes they have done. And they used to Obey and fall in line. But women of nowadays tends to operate differently.

I think it is this evolution that made the statement "once a cheat, always a cheat" valid af.

So I am asking one more time. Are there any women that has learnt from her mistakes and adjusted after given a second chance

At the end the day ,you guys would come back to ur vomits, one thing will lead to another, pregnancy would come up, u will start leaving like husband and wife, and a few years as couples, the character would out again like smoke, you will send her away and you would come to Nairaland to wail as usual.... Marriage Na scam ,.... Marriage not meant for everybody.



IF YOU ARE A WISE MAN, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS A TYPE THAT CAN'T RESIST ANY GUY THAT FUCKKK HER BEFORE. AS SHE IS DOING TO YOU, SHE IS DOING SAME TO ALL HER EX THAT COMES NEAR HER.

Anybody singing he/she doesn't need husband or wife, he/she knows he is leaving in self-denial. Not even men, who are not really born to do house chores.

Thou Im very sure that many of those guys are teen boys who think the way they agile and social today,is how it would be going forward for the rest of their life.

Buffon that wanted to lead house which cannot lead his nuclear family successfully.

Indeed, PDP itself is a joker party.They like to win but interested in fieldin wrong candidates.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
This is a security threat to OP life & property and the idiots here are telling him to mind his business! ?🙀😡

Foolish boy, I'm waiting for you to jointly contribute with OP to assist criminal girl pls.


If u don't contact op to assist u re nothing but rag.

Foolish people that write without smell gutter they wrote.

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

Infact, this type of girl and his mother, a hard/bad guy would be sleeping with them, even with knowledge of both the mother and daughter of immortality that is going on. That's is their mentality and little or nothing can good person does, to re-orientate them.