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MrDoGood:
Read very well, op is not talking about dating the girl.

I think minding his business will be better because it clearly shows that we read meaning to someone trying to help.

He might just be concerned and don't want her to mix with bad boys. Same thing any good big brother will do.
But almost everyone is telling him the girl won't agree to date him.

Wahala

If you read OP silent character, he is been jealous seeing the girl with so-called bad guys and he is being pained that the street guys are having upper hand on the girl.

He wants to *come-in now, to rescue the teen girl, "just to be seen as Messiah" and used that opportunity to have upper hand in the battle of contest between him and bad boys.


He is a type of guy who normally pretend to be morally upright, in which they would be dying in silent for what their body desired.
Instead for him to have convinced the girl and occupied her heart from very beginning in which the street boys wouldn't have had opportunity to near the girl, not to talk of becoming rival, he let it slipped away from his grip , having seeing his potential prey in the midst of his rival/competitor, he now resulted to name calling.

Tallesty1:
Bro, how is your conscience treating you? Is it okay with the whole "mind your business" stuff? Will it not judge you harshly if you don't help? In most situations, I do things that satisfy my conscience, and there are times that I regret following it, but I know deep inside that it would have been worse if I hadn't listened to it.

Forget what people will say or think; do you, do what is right.

The lady is still in the age of unseriousness and will likely regret her actions in the future. This very incident will teach her a good lesson if she has sense, so please help if you can. If a certain police officer minded his business in 2015, I would probably be in prison right now wasting away for something I didn't do.

Looking away always sounds nice until you are the person being ignored.

Forget the mother; she actually doesn't have one.

Do you; it might be your worst mistake or the best decision this year, but you'll never know if you don't try.

If you read this story from beginning to the end and still adversing him to continue put mouth into the matter,....I fear who no fear u.

If OP butchers by cultists tomorrow, you will only offer RIP to the dead, .

..... meanwhile,if u think op should still be putting mouth on the issues, in which the mother of useless girl had already warned him to stay clear, I will advise you to ask OP to send u his phone number, so that he can give you useless girl's mother number to contact them in other for u to involve directly into issue that isn't concerned you.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

If u pay a dime, u re not but idiot from pit of hell

Issues40:
What's wrong with her contesting for a senatorial seat? Didn't Oluremi, wife of our dear president contest for a senatorial seat and win?

Oh so because it is Betty ANYAWU, she's not allowed to contest?

Your post reeks of sentiment at its best. Admit it!

And for your information, there would be no Rotimi AKEREDOLU if not for Betty ANYAWU.She stood by him at his worst. She was first, his friend and then his wife and closet ally. Aketi the lion Aketi the lion! Who made Aketi a lion? Betty ANYAWU made AKEREDOLU a lion. Wake up!!

Im sure u have comprehension issue. Give it to someone to tell you the meaning of SITTING GOVERNOR.

DIDN'T REMI STEP DOWN WHEN SHE KNEW HER HUSBAND WANTED TO BECOME PRESIDENT?


INDEED, INDIGBO ARE DANGEROUS AS TRIBE, AND I THINK I WILL JOIN SCHOOL OF THOUGHT, WHO ARE AGAINST MAKING IGBO THE PRESIDENT.

Workch:
I don't know, I am not planning to settle down. I'm above 30 years.

I don't think I can condone the shenanigans of females forever.

It would be preferable if ur testles are removed surgically. With that, no temptation or manipulations from shenanigans republic that would prop up again.

Please take note of plural form of testles.

PlayMaker14:
The way these people are trying to shift all the blame to the woman is really surprising....

Would all these blame games come into play if her name was Betty Adeosun?

Allow the family mourn peacefully.... Except you are angry the First lady did not open the looting vault for you and your cronies.


Shameless people.... Na woman body una sabi show power, but when Fulani herdsmen land, una go run enter Benin Republic.

If you closer to the woman, you would know that media didn't carry, 1/10 of her atrocities.


Check image below, as a wife of sitting gov in which her husband just started his second term in office.


Meanwhile, if you are a xtian, I will advise you to go and read story of a Queen(Vashti) that Esther replaced as Queen. What Vashti did that made king, her husband to chase her out from palace.

Women head easily swollen big when their husbands are in power, if you, as a husband don't let her know her level, she would cause problem for you. Infact, even in ordnary extended family, husband must cut his wife wings for him to be able to leave in peace with his siblings.


One thing that stained akeredolu legacy is too much power he gave to his wife and son, not even wife & son that too intoxicated by power.


I STILL NOT FATHOM WHY, WIFE OF SITTING GOV WOULD GO AS FAR AS EAST TO CONTEST A SENATORIAL SEAT, LET SAY SHE WON,SHE WOULD HAVE LEFT ABANDONED HER HUSBAND AS GOV IN ONDO AND GO TO ABUJA TO STAY AS SENATOR.

Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though

What makes it a bad sign? Colorado and monkey tail have completely turn ur head and make u reason like lunatic.


If lady leaves you for sane guy now, u would come online to wail as usual, which rational girl will like to settle down with a guy who reasons like a lunatic?

Ikaeniyan0:
The video made me Lol

I can't blame the police officers for their actions. Their salary and allowance is poor.

If they give them ₦1m per week, the greedy police would still take bribe and take money from ground.

Redpiler's gang pls let hear ur opinions about the actions and behaviours of his father, a fellow man like you.


...... because if it's female doing this, ur derogatory comments would have be better imagine.


I pity redpilers/feminists who think a certain rules/ indoctrinations can be applied and effectively tackle all humans behaviours.

Anyway it definitely show ur myopic thinking.

abc115:
One day, his wife or girlfriend will ask him to choose between her and his mother😃🤣🤣
Heartless girls. Imagine struggling with ur mom and a girl who comes from nowhere trying to control what your own mother does with your money. They even go as far as stopping your mom from living with you in the same house.

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Mr Op, pls stick to ur mummy o, infact, make sure you carry ur mummy to higher institution u are attending. When u get job take her to city and let her continue spoon feeding what she started with you and when it's time to have ur own children.


You don't need to go and bring girl that u already know it ur enemy and enemy of ur dear mother, ur mother can also perform the duty of wife, FIRE HER, FRONT AND BACK, SHE WOULD GIVE AS MANY CHILDREN AS YOU WANT FOR YOU, with that, be rest assured you will have peace and no enemity would spike btw ur mother and someone daughter.


Bunch of myopic and foolish urchins!

LUCASC:
I have read most of the comments here, people who try to defend man and woman friendship end up shooting themselves in the leg😁. Contradicting themselves.
There's no way a man and a woman will be casual friends.
As for me I don't have any casual female friend, many have tried to get me to that zone, I quickly reject that.
It's either we are intimate, or a workplace friendship or neighbours. I don't do casual female friends.

U see many of proponents of female besties don't know the different between CLOSE FRIEND AND (NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS, SAME-CHURCH, SCH-MATES even ACQUITTANCE.)

Kaybaba5:
I support you
Some men minds are dirty towards women
No self control Mtchew

You call ur girlfriend by 9pm ,she says she is with her male friend , gisting inside room!

Your wife is taking food out, you ask her,she says ,she is taking it to Mr David her male friend,a single father that leaves in Estate which is about a mile from ur place.

I guess the two scenarios above, your mind would still be pure as snow.

You guys should endeavour to think like rational human beings for once, endeavour to check ur comments before you post them to public platform pls.
ANYWAY MANY OF YOU DON'T BILIV IN BASTARD SHA, ANY CHILD WIFE BRING HOME IS UR CHILD.

maasoap:
They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to be mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

If she can't see a single man from husband family and no single man from her own family to be discussing her marital issueS with but unrelated male friend, such woman is nothing but rag. She is olosho in making who wouldn't think twice to bed her so called bestie.


Ask urself honest question, if ur wife is fun of discussing ur marital issueS with her male friend, how would you feel?

Invest4growth:
What is bad in it. Sex is mutually agreed but everything is not sex. There are women that you can use to your advantage to grow your business to the benefit of both of you. Take my case, I have female friend that I have not seen since year 2020 but we chat regularly. She is happily married. She brings business from her and we share profit. We are not dating no assistance sex no sext chats, no nude pictures nothing romantic. But we chat nearly everyday. Even if it is to drop a sticker. When my wife is nagging and moody, what I do is I just book a call to her and we discuss other issues to allow my woman to cool off. We don't discuss family issues. I don't discuss my wife. She does not discuss her husband. It was her status that revealed she was the second wife of her husband and I never asked her but I know. But if there is money to be made, I am.her first contact.

First, the scenario you narrated is business partner and not friendship, but let say it's even friendship

If it's ur wife that is in your shoe, will you allow her? infact, will you give her opportunity to invite the man for discussion? Even when the man comes out clear that nothing more than business, will you still biliv and allow ur wife to continue friendship?

If ur wife chatting with a male friend deep into 2pm, how will you feel?

That's how marriage do crack and crash, if ur own wife strat chatting and having male friends, how will you chastise her when you urself is guilty of it?

If you leave her to be having friend just because you have, if her own now degenerate to ammouros, who will u blame?

Oga, I will advise you to reduce the friendship to bare minimum in which ur wife will even notice, don't let devil crack ur marriage because of things u think are not significant.
WE SHOULD LEARN HOW TO PLAY THE GAME OF MARRIAGE ACCORDING TO DICTATE OF ITS RULES.

Tranquility2345:
Never ever trust a girl that has male besties or that prefers to hang with guys. In most cases, she’s fukking them.

Those friendships occur because one person is attracted to the other that may not find them desirable at the moment. The undesired one accepts to be friend zoned with the hope of something happening in the future. And in many cases, something go happen. Una go fight and that bestie go take advantage to shine Congo. Infact, Bestie go dey pray say make una dey fight well well

Infact, girls that do write, "love you", "react in love emoji", "my boo", "my dear" for random guys on Facebook, in which they would say it's just for fun of it and thr is nothing btw them.

Beware of them, these girls/women fucck several of such guys , if u can get into their private chat, it will shock u.

luvgurl:
I support the movement ojaree! Wish such will happen here

Have u fed ur mouth satisfactorily can you maintain ordinary girlfriend let alone one wife? Does anybody stop people not to polygamy?

Did you even know your own gender correctly

Bigkoko:
They ain't see nothing yet. Had the rare privilege of sighting 2024 report prepared by KPMG, hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Naira is going! I do not rejoice but the foolishness of those people who brought Buhari in 2015, 2019 and even Buhari self became tired of his own cluelessness and tried preventing this usurper.

After four years they will realize by force that elections have consequences. When next people like Asiwaju come near them, they will pour him hot Ewedu soup!

How did you think Obi will do it better?

How did Obi do it wen court gave him opportunity to lead a section of the country?

Instead for our policy maker to fight corruption among Official in CBN, NNPCL among others to give succour to his citizens, they push the whole problem on masses to face.

They only want to sit in the glasshouse and do nothing while hundred of dollars coming to country their pockets.

4 years is around the corner to see acadabra that my uncle wants to perform with his harsh economy policies without single human feeling.

Marriage not compulsory but very necessary and every reasonable human being craves for it.

If the two partners play the game of marriage according to it's rules they will enjoy it to the very last day.

The bitter truth that opponents of marriage institution do deny is that.

Even though, their marriage not working & crumble mainly because of either or both of the partners' characters. They still lonely and dying in silent to have life partner.

Funke Akindele isn't be able to stay with husband peacefully, "principally' because she can't let go of her "non submissive" character and probably extral marital affairs.

.....but the main attribute that would never allow her to succeed in marriage is her bossy nature. Several young actors and actress have called her out in the past.

"Funke Akindele as a case study"...she is a woman and married to Africa man and yet dnt want to be submissive to him, and having issues in marriage.

Why would people now be blaming marriage institution instead of her character?

When toyin aimaku doing gragra and thrown out of marriage in two succession, now, with 3rd man she drops her ego. I biliv relatively she is enjoying her marriage now.

LordGoldenswap:
Marriage is dead in this era. As there are many harm than Good from it. I only want a child as I cannot condole cheating

Let start from from ur own immediate family. I mean, marriage btw ur dad & mum, ur sisters ,ur brothers, and your own relationship.

Are they all have negatives than benefits?

We can use ur own family to look outward if ur assumption is logical and true.

Even though she born for the man, still went public to rain curses on him just because of media followers. Not even considering kid btw them which had glued them permanently.

Will the daughter happy to see her dad going through lifetime pains?


If it's a grown up daughter now, and decides to go hard publicly on her mother, myopic people would come out and be saying nonsense about African tradition. Africa tradition that father/mother didn't consider before doing nonsense.

BarristerWumi:
Ever experienced a setback ?
Did you move forward towards a next direction that’s even better or you went back to correct a mistake .

I was on a rigorous postgrad Legal course, it’s one of those course that seems long and daring but if you’re halfway you thank God but you can never imagine failing and repeating because that’s just too distressful.
For example, my course is not just read, pass & move to stage 2.
It’s a host of legal work placement in different states, those internships are beyond stressful, far & expensive due to transport & accommodations.

One day on the legal placement I just decided I can’t carry on and quits because the senior staffs are just evil! I was getting pressure on every side and couldn’t take it anymore.
Looking back I know the devil caused those seniors to attack me and if I could just persevere more I would be half way now.
When I quit, I had a 4 weeks cooling period by the board as they are also aware that the course is pressure.
So of course within those 4 weeks I was ready to go back and manage things better but now i’m starting at the beginning again
My mates are practically half way and I’m in stage 1 again. Still have to do same work placement that I’ve nearly completed again from the start.
I feel as if I fell down flat 💔

What really demotivated me to even quit easily was that before I enrolled, I had an option of running my own firm & being self employed. Altho risky, with proper planning it’s a fantastic move & even more profitable

..The loss was too much for me to bear and I don’t know if I should move on with my own legal firm or go back to repeat such rigorous experience

If you have married now, you would blame all these stagnation and retrogression on marriage. You would transfer aggression of trials/persecution in ur office to ur wife and kids.

When the woman tired condoning ur toxic attitude and Marriage eventually cracks or crashed, you will put the whole blame on marriage institution and free urself from any blame.

If you latter post it here, hopeless guys would stand with you , without even know the genesis of ur plights and start singing their usual anthem "Marriage Na scam." Marriage not for everybody. Blablabla!


BACK TO POST.

I WILL ADVICE YOU TO FOCUS ON ANY OF OPTIONS YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED WOULD TAKE YOU OUT OF WOOD AND MAKE SURE YOU BECOME "EXTRAORDINARY" IN IT.

BRO, EVERY WAY TO SUCCESS IS HARD O, DONT ALSO FORGET TO BACKUP UR OPTIONS WITH PRAYER TO BREAKDOWN, IF THERE IS ANY SPIRITUAL STRONGHOLD HOLDING YOU BACK.

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

The opposite sex you want to make ur friend, won't he/she have lover/husband or wife?
How did you want him/her to be feeling when she sees you going close to her husband?

If you think nothing is happening between you and him, will other parties think in that way too?

What about ur own lover? Do you think he/she would be comfortable with that too?

Will you because of friendship not settle down or you want ur marriage to suffer because of mere friendship with opposite gender?

IF YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN AND UR HUSBAND BEAT U AND THROWN YOU OUT AS RESULT OF UR MALE FRIEND WHICH HE MISTAKEN FOR INFIDELITY, IM SURE YOU WILL STILL BLAME UR PARTNER AND CLAIM INNOCENCE, MEANWHILE, "Marriage na scam crew" WILL NOT BLAME YOU BUT MARRIAGE INSTITUTION.

I Thank God for the guy, for God to give him spirit to know before marriage a satanist pretending to be good girl for Marriage.


If you have value as a girl, you won't be devastated and resulted to cursing just because man left you .

If they asked them "what they bring to table" they start murmuring. If the useless hole has something to bring to the table, maybe the man would stick to her, [b]ordinary even prayer is empty in her warehouse.


Vigina is totally useless without good character and income to the family.

Zhunnurayn:
It's obvious you are frustrated, for replying to a harmless quote this way.. since you don't have an iota of humor left in you.

Your family members should be on high alert.you will soon go berserk

Oh no! werey quickly comes back to his senses, "madcow" can now read incomprehensible English and understand.

Very sure educated illiterate will still interpret madcow literally.

They lament and curse him privately, yet they troop out to sing hosanna publicly. Human nature is highly unpredictable.

Zhunnurayn:
You also used incoherent and incomprehensible english here

Go and hug transformer, make sure u do that before January oo.


Meanwhile, my message is for sane people and not a lunatic on faceless forum.

In sane society, individual can go to court and proof it for them, but our own court will start saying all form of incoherent English, tactical delay & denial and technicanity to frustrate people........ meddlesome interloper, status quo, interlocutory objection , Ultra vires among others.

socialmediaman:
People these days consider love as a feeling rather than a decision (choice).

Having said that, let me also note that while 50% of first marriages fail, many divorced people go ahead to remarry and live stable married lives

So yes, marriages are failing at a much higher rate than before, but many people are living happy lives after they remarried, they learned something from their previous marriages that was helpful when the next marriage happened

Talking about learning, for example, when these men-haters and women-beaters end up in a divorce and eventually get the therapy which they didn’t have before their previous marriages, they sometimes learn something positive that helps them become better people

If ur position about remarried and enjoy Marriage latter is true, it means it's the people who going to MARRIAGE that are making mistake in first attempt and not Marriage itself.

People do go to into Marriage unrealistically after fee months to years in marriage the reality would now down on them.

Meddymeddy:
I have seen plentiful post about failed marriages on the Internet. Most marriages only last a couple of years before divorce comes up. Although there are few happy marriages. The ratio for happy marriages and failed marriages is 20:80. There are many factors that contribute to failed marriages which include cheating, unfaithfulness, finance etc. Some just wake up and realise that their wife is no longer attractive ( did they force her on you? ). Back in the days marriages were pre set up whereby couples barely knows themselves. Nowadays you see couple dating for 6-10years and when they finally get married issues will start poping up.

Maybe marriage should be like a contact after some years it will be terminated depending on how long the couple want it to be

You asked yourself, how many successful MARRIAGES comming to social media to advertise?

The several failed marriage u read on social media are they all true?

The loud of few failed MARRIAGES are they not overshadowed several SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES?

...and above all, hope u know different between failed economy/ wen man going through turbulence time and stormy Marriage (wen someone is going through stormy of life but u mistaken it for marital crises)

And lastly.......is single, single-father or single mother not passing through difficulty time as well?



Emeka separated/ divorced more than 7 years now.... does it make his life free from battle of life now? is he not embittered man still as a single father?

Akinzo2121:
This general mentality that a man must either be drinking, smoking, or/and womanizing is driving me crazy.
To some extent, if a man does not do all of the abovementioned things, he might or would be seen as weak nowadays in our society.

Thousands of men are like that......you guys should stop deceving urself that guy must do one of aforementioned 3.

It's just a way to consoles oneself and to keep on do nonsense.

Meanwhile, abstinence from them not making man bad or good neither does it make it weak or strong.