₦airaland Forum

Oneloveyo:
Omo, it seems many of you didn't read the post or you guys just lack understanding. It's like you guys have what I call, rigidity of thinking. What you have already concluded in your mind, no matter the contrary to that, you guys would still maintain your stance. The man clearly stated the context and you guys are still claiming He did what He was alleged to do. Let's even assume it's true, if Everyone votes for their country man, will Osimhen win?

If u re not stupid, and if you can read between the line, you would know his post is afterthought" not even wen Osimeh saluted him after crowned as African king.

EtinosaDLaw:
The traffic situation in Lagos will not let armed robbers get away with it. That's what's stopping them. Not all this balderdash. Celebrating mediocrity.

So, it's last four year that traffic started in Lagos?

How you guys sleep with full bitterness full your heart, still not clear to me, but I will still warm u for acummulated BP in future.

Wen you did if heart attack in ur 40s, people won't know you have accumulated loads of bitterness in ur heart & liver for very long time.

victorclean:
Is Agbadorians among them?. What can the world be proud of from owamberians?.

Everything about them is deceit and cheat.

At least they mentioned you now, and that gave you enough masturbation for this hour, waiting for next post for you to masturbate on agbado republic, before Tinubu finishes his first term ,all your semen that you need to replace yourself would have wasted on mentions and likes of faceless forum.


See what your fellow embittered republic said before Osinmeh crowned Africa king

Tempulated:
Simp first of all unhide yourself from the m sign on your monicker.

As for me it is none of my business whether anyone is married or not.

The way you are taking Colorado and "monkey tail" that had not only rendered you useless but also putting you in hopeless situation, you think everyone is like that. Anyway, I will still advise you because the remaining sun in your life can still make cloth dries.

...."face ur life squarely and leave woman matter now, by focusing on women matters when your precious life is devaluing on hourly basis would surely destroy you irreparably".......

Did you know why you are struggling to have relationship with women now? It's basically because you don't have life. When you progress in life, you would see woman swimming around you and the frustrating story you are telling now, would change to boastful story.

Boy, keep this bitter truth in ur archive for reference tomorrow

liamjakes247:
Age for ladies really doesn't matter. Many teenage and girls in their 20's does more than those in their 30's. For men, just pray, get money and live right, the right woman will come stress-free.

Infact, I laughed like drunkard wen he said 30+ blablabla, if he knows what secondary sch girls are doing with their private parts, he would choose 30+ like golden girls.

What all these yahoo guys doing with teenagers girls in secondary and higher institutions(immorality, drugs etc) are beyond imagination.

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

I will advise you to run flee from such girl. Any girl that can be saying truth and even if she wants to tell lies, she would be struggling to tell lies, they have master in manipulation skill already, such lady would sleep with all brothers in neighbourhood and still look innocent like S.U girl.


Meanwhile, you too, have you shown her enough commitment for her to jettison all garbages and unwanted handbags. Because many of you would come to Nairaland to weep on women matters when you too, aren't showing more than enough commitments for ladies not to think of having second choice, because of "fear of unknown" that you guys portrait before them.

MAN CANNOT TURN HIS HOUSE TO MINI-HOTEL FOR WOMEN AND STILL BE EXPECTING ABSOLUTE LOYALTY FROM HER MAIN GIRLFRIEND OO.

Bliss52:
Nothing is impossible and they have nothing to loose trying alternative medicine

.

And they told you they haven't tried all possible means?

Oga stop too being attached to what u read on social media ok.

madscientist88:
well what you say is true in most cases,its not even s matter of being rich as in having lots of cash,(most people in Nigeria only call people with excess cash rich,they dont recognize people with assets of high end value as rich),just show these ladies you are beyond the level of value and they cant figure out were to place you because you are too much,yes it hurts when they cant figure you out or manipulate you, manipulation is just a genetic signature in females,its what i know about them,not all manipulations are evil,they want you to just be a pet or their teddy bear at their beckon,they are subconsciously logged in lol.i get that a lot most of them even unfriend me despite having great chat sessions, probably because they cant keep up and i dont have time to talk about nonsense online.

If you are old enough to marry in which you have money to feed family comfortably and you don't show sign of planning to marry.

Won't ur family members and ur male friends be worried about you?

The way you guys are reason one way and myopically are worrisome for Nigeria's future. Totally delusional about female gender.

Women that they would still ask you to be sleeping with that you would be tired of.

Bliss52:
His wife blocked the chance of him getting herbal cure, calling it poison

Herbal Cure for blood cancer? hope you know, it's too dangerous to be deceiving urself.

The stage he is now, only and only God can bring him back.


Infact he is gone already. Only to be confirmed clinical death that remains.

Infact, the way his son is parading himself like defacto governor is enough for people to reble against him, most especially some political appointees that must pass through son before they can get things done in the state.


They are serving both father and son at same time.

Tempulated:
Has any well to do Single man noticed this in most Nigerian women and ladies?

I mean why does it pain them so much when a bachelor is doing very fine financially but refused to relate with them or get married?

Is it by force for them to always want to relate with successful men. They believe now that you are okay. Automatically they are meant to be in your life.

Why is it always paining Nigeria guys, whenever ladies approach 30 and not married? Abi you haven't noticed that Naija guys having high "BP" on that?

16 ,17 ,18 years patrolising night club to select any kind of girls they want , where are they getting the money to drink expensive wine?

I THINK ITS A CASE OF TWO DEVILS FIGHTING FOR SURVIVAL.

Streetdoctor:
Yorubas tink say every tribe reasons like them with their backward thinking. U can't be in Abuja and still wants to control rivers

Backward thinking yet they determine who will occupy the highest office,..... backward thinking they pushed Naija delta off the seat, backward thinking, they block Igbo and sit on the seat instead.


I think I would prefare a backward thinking that would make me a slavemaster over you guys.

vazsily:
Them say who dey ask questions no dey miss road. Although with the Internet crazy people are bound so I am circumspect.

I have been married over 15 years and in that time I have always complained about the way my wife over cooks and then start looking for who to share the food with in the name of giving alms. You would think having managed kitchen and home for that long, food measurement should come naturally.

I have not taking much interest until with the recent inflation and high cost of goods in the market. And why I struggle with the Grace of God to earn a living, madam on the other hand thinks going to the market regularly and living above my salary na achievement without any adjustment. The matter don tire me, I want to simply pick my bags and run but for the kids.

Responsibility is a choice but I think she's abusing it. Giving to the poor comes naturally for me but you must be wise about it. How do i resolve this?

You too, stop buying overfood" at home, when she sees that the food in the house can barely feed herself and kids, nobody would tell her to adjust.
To force her to adjust, when foods finish, don't buy that day, complaining lamenting for her, that you don't have money and that u have borrowed part of ur salary even before month end. This may force her to use her own money, when she does that, she will understand how things hard in Naija now.

Yet male Maga would still enter her trap!

GVTAsiwaju:
Well... A neighbor told me he gets good erection when he's broke. I don't know how though. Bro, sort out the financial mess and be happy again, then the dry bone would rise again

The person is broke and not in financial mess.

Hope u know the real definition of being broke and also when someone is in state of fire hopelessness.

Go and consult clinical psychologist.

UDOKABESTLUV:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/12/anambra-man-accused-of-killing-his-mother-and-sister-and-burying-them-in-shallow-grave-in-enugu-video.html

Whenever a teenager starts smoking /taking cigarettes and other drugs newly, he would be feeling sense of big/hard guy in himself, meanwhile, hardboy/ big boy on top nothing. Such teenager won't know he just started a journey of self destruction.

The mustard seed you people planted during Obasanjo regime, apparently using religion war (sharia law) to fight perceived political enemy, has been germinated and grown up to be GIANT IROKO TREE, it now collecting sacrifice from the planters, even at their own detriment.

Dtruthspeaker:
Go check it out, even some sisters hate their brothers

[s]And it is not subconscious, they are very much aware, it is us men who are not aware that those moments when she just exploded unreasonably and for no reason or cause, leaving us perpetually wondering why she behaved unusually and crazily are one of the moments where she was expressing her great hatred.

And check it, after that wicked behaviour, she is happy again.

And check it, she does not stop unless you cry or beat her.



[s]Truth is, it is not these declaration that made them become evil but that a one man somewhere did confirm and seal it.

And this is where the evil and wickedness of fornication is seen BECAUSE SHE SAW THAT SHE TRULY DIED AS SOON AS SHE HAD SEX WITH A GUY AND HER GOOD REGULAR AND NORMAL LIFE ENDED FROM THAT DAY.

AND SHE NOTICED SHE LOST SOMETHING HENCE WHY YOU SEE SOME HAVE A BEWILDERED LOOK AND THEN YOU SEE THEM SPEEDILY TAKE OFF FROM THE BED RUNNING IN TEARS AND SORROW, AS THEY NOW SEE THAT THE WARNINGS ARE TRUE, AS YOU ASK WHAT IS IT.

AND THEY STOP TALKING TO YOU AND AVOID YOU, WHILE PRAYING ENDLESSLY HIDING IN CHURCH.

BUT THEIR LIVES WERE NEVER THE SAME AND PHYSICALLY THEY CHANGE AND LOOK DIFFERENT.

[/s]


Are some brothers not hating their sisters?
Are some father not hating their daughter?
You urself, haven't you been HURTED deeply by ur male friends before?

Infact, the wicked world we are dwelling today, which gender contributed more for the wickedness?


The way u guys sounding as if you are messengers of Devil is frightening me, or is that how prejudice making you sounding like myopic and total idiot on public forum?

If you try to establish relationships with women and they turned you down probably because of ur despair life or animalistic looks, must you turn to blackmail entire generation of female gender? In which you also aware your mother is among? Abi ur mother not dear to you again ni? Even let say she is no more, does that say you shouldn't proud of her even in the grave!

Dtruthspeaker:
Men, stop dreaming and fantasizing about a perfect world with a woman.

WOMEN HATE YOU!

And you know it and you see it.

But because you are looking at it that you have not done anything to her as you dont know her and have never met her before , therefore you don't think and see that she hates you and wishes to cause you pain and even harm you and destroy you, leaving you in tears, sorrow, blood and death.

What you have not watched to see is that women are out to desstroy all men since you people destroyed them first, for indeed they first loved men but you destroyed it and then she became a whòre.

And then she sees that you have destroyed her and gone your way, happily even, whereas she is in great pain. And in pain and did more worse things which even made her more devilish and caused her even more pain.

So, now they hate all men and definitely they cannot wish you well or do you good, SO THEY ARE OUT TO KILL AS YOU SEE.

And they are all working together in unison, as a very fine system designed in the way that if you do not fall for girl 1, you are meant to fall for girl 120.

As shown in the conversation.

Truth, is many of you do deserve to be killed by them, and I have no care for you for you are guilty as charged. You did kill and destroy one of her sisters, so she had a right to kill you too.

But my problem is that innocent boys/men are also being killed just because he was a man who was unfortunate to have met one of these devils on rampage. That is why I deemed it fit to speak.

So, this post is for the young undefiled who have wounded no woman, I would have recommended that you hide in God and in prayers and reading the bible for guidance and understanding but you people don't like God nor do you understand there is no other Way but Him. So all I say is stay safe, stay sharp and good luck.

It's certain that your mother destroyed your father, the way your grandmother destroyed her father, I think since this has been a reoccurrence decimal in ur lineage, you are now generalising it........but for me, women in my lineage are making us great and not destroying us as ur own family.

Can you see we are different world apart? And that if I now toe ur line of argument it would make me look like idiot, because a lunatic comes online and imposing destruction & decays in her family for general views.

I said it in a thread one guy attacking blablabla

In next ten year or more,... HUSBANDS WOULD HAVE KNOWLEDGE THAT THEIR WIVES ARE HAVING AFFAIRS OUTSIDE MARRIAGE AND THEY WOULD TURN BLIND EYE TO IT(it would have become norm of society then, just the way wives are indifferent to side chicks of their husbands now)

ShangTsung000:
I like the fact that the waiter asked if the bill should be split. If na here,one mumu waitress go carry the bill come hand am over to the guy like say na only am chop the food. Good radiance.

Infact, all those yeye sales girls would now be disturbing you by telling you different kinds of fish, meat and costly things they are selling just to drain ur pocket or embarrassed you in the present of the girl.

anointedlinks:
Number 3 is a table shaker

Table shaker how?,....I guess u re not be delusion about what people saying on social media or boyfriend/girlfriend of a thing.
We are talking of Marriage proper.

Go and do ur findings very well, 95% of home today are joint spending on their family ok.

Infact, in many homes wives contributing higher.

Love EACHOTHER (@ least 50% from both side)
MATURITY IN WAY OF UNDERSTANDING.
MONEY.

The must come from as listed above.

My only fear with this man is that if he becomes president, he would turn presidency to clanishing as his predecessors and this would make him load mediocre tribesmen that would pull down Naija deeper into dungeon.

If Obi is given minister of finance under focused and incorruptible president, Nigeria would go far better.

SweetBuns:
Best I can do is to be more receptive and initiate body contact
If you don't step up, it's your loss
When you make the moves instead of them, they hate it cause it emasculates them

U like a guy, u show him signs he doesnt look ur way, you said, he is the one that loose out. HOW? If may ask you ma.

Are you not the one who looses out in the contest? By not achieving your desire.


The day lady starts seeing it, she isnt doing favour by having sex with guys, is the day such girl puts her mind firmly for greater future ( such woman would go to any length for life achievements devoid of relying on men).

Moreso, it would also give her peace of mind by not encouraging toxic in ur relationship.


Lastly, I will orientate you that, it's not all men that are he-goats, which sleeps with any hole,...........so far it's hole.

Some are discplined, they stricty stick to the type and class of ladies they can go out with. Plsssssssss have this orientation going forward to ur Marriage, it would help you massively.

online4business:
Betting is not a sustainable way to make a living.
Know this and know peace.

YET YOU CLAIM TO BE A GURU ON CONTENT WRITING.


Learn how to stick to the topic of discussion, know this, so that people would respect you as a rational human being. Op asked way out, on how to collect game won and not help from gambling addiction.

SoNature:
This is FALSE. Many Nigerian girls have nothing in their brains. They are totally clueless, but there are some exceptions though. Chatting with most girls is extremely boring. Like OP said, you have to always lead the chat because the moment you stop, the chat ends.

Stop forcing urself on girls just as Op narrated, wen girls like u, you would be tired of her disturbances on chats.


Reason why many of u having terrible relationship with women is that. You guys are forcing girls to love you ,by putting enomous pressure on them (spending more than normal, excessive caring etc) meanwhile, woman is not built as such, such woman would end up liking you conditionally and not not genuine love, with that, she won't give you all her heart for u in relationship and that's how toxic relationship starts.

Are u not brought up in naija

When are you going to come to realisation that all these draconian rules not feasible in modern era?

All these rules were conjured by a certain individuals when world still at his knees. wen Islamic religion still within one local area, when people not struggling to get jobs and not in 21st century that races, ideology, and different religions are mixing on secondly basis couples with joblessness and wide spread poverty.


The (alcoholic) Haram money they are sharing in Abuja, hope you guys would reject it as ur salaries at end of the month too?..

If Saudi and UAE are finding ways to open up from religion draconian rules that are causing economy entanglement cum backwardness, how much less you kafri in black Africa.

Tobichima:
Last week I won 500k+. To withdraw it have been war... From verification to otp etc... Anytime I request code for email it will give me error. I still try sms code sent thing....
When I messaged them they said I should wait till 3days which is today.. over the wait I have managed to make the money 2.4m+ now they are telling me I need to come to their office because
1. I have multiple account with them...
2. I requested for code too much and for security reasons won't give the money until I come physical....

All this untop my own money....

Even sportybet no dey do me like this

Go there physically first, if they fail, you can report them to consumer protection commission in your state and if you have money hire lawyer.