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Wike personality is different from Akume, Wike sees himself as demigod in which everyone must worship, he has similar personality with Yeye Bello.


I biliv Ododo is governing in peace currently, no thanks to EFCC that trailing Bello, here and there.

Freshtruth:
I REGRET LEAVING MY MARRIAGE SAYS Tiwa Savage

Don't Listen To That Man Promising You Heaven and Earth, He May Become Worse Than Your Partner; I Regret Leaving My Marriage - Tiwa Savage

"Simi And Adekunle Gold Makes Me Rêgret Being Single, Their Love Is Still Burning Fresh Like They Started Just Yesterday". – Tiwa Savage writes in pain and rêgrets leaving her marriage.

In her words: "While on set with Simi I had to ask her when she met Adekunle Gold again. Because AG kept calling & checking up on her every now and then, like 10 times in 10 minutes hahaha. Their love is still burning fresh like they started just yesterday. Omo, na that day single life pan me…”😭

Indeed people don't know the value of what they have until they lose it, the poor and the rich cry differently, many of those ladies you see out there celebrating their divorce and separation from their spouses aren't truly happy, no one celebrates divorce and if they are truly happy then, they won't celebrate it.

Many were gull!ble, a lot were mislêad and dêceived into leaving their homes thinking that there is something on the Streets but within a space of time the euphoria will die down and reality will set in, most of them cry silently and the big lady Tiwa is one of them, if not a case of violence sit down with your husband/partner and sort things out. Every relationship have ups and downs, even twins fight and have issues.

Don't listen to that man promising you heaven and earth, he wants to have a taste of your new wine and will lick your foot if that's all it takes to get it but when that happens he may become worse than your current partner.

The pasture looks lush green on the other side from afar, it can't be same when you get there.
Guard what you presently have jealously, it is the best.

Being single no be moi moi
https://www./2351567588477305/permalink/3431144597186260/

Nothing sweet like Marriage, when the two partners are treating themselves with respect and contributing by making the marriage become successful, with this, they would jointly seeing their kids growing up in other to become successful in life.


For women, when you re still younger, they would say whole lots of sweet things to ur ears,and if you don't careful, you would start seeing marriage as bondage if not slavery.

Just step out, all those men/guys that have promised heaven and earth, would now start complaining, wailing and lamenting, having succeeded gotten their fair shares from honey pot.

My sister they only interested in body and discard it after a taste. Not even female celebrities.

marksonrick:
Nothing really important.

I tried knowing where she came from and how long she's been doing her business.
I asked her to come know my place but she refused.




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Get her number and start chatting with her on WhatsApp, social media make it easier to express ur feeling for partner.

If you invited her and she refused to come, she might be playing on ur weakness of shyness in other to drain you financially.

Next time, when u see her frown ur face stop be friendly towards her,.....if indeed she likes you, she would come down and start doing ur bidding.

Namaster:
A woman calls you to come and you ran to her. Told you to zip her up and you did it sheepishly.

Guy, you are a HOUSEBOY MATERIAL. You will get used WORSE than tissue papers.

Deal with your timidity.

To do that:

1. Dress better ALWAYS.

2. Get better shoes.

3. Improve your grooming.

4. Say NO more often.

5. Exercise MORE.

Someone say he is impotent in the mouth, u re telling him to dress better, doesn't she see the way he dresses before she asked him zip his cloth for her?


All ur five advise is not solutions to his problem ok

Odebayo4010:
I can't forget how i saw my mathematics lectures and secretary in a lodge coming out frm a room.
Sweating
I once saw a married woman with her about 3years old son and another married man came in for short rest smh
Caught a lot of my married neighbors they didn’t know I worked there
There was a night my Bea call me saying sweet word I was just nagging but I couldn't get mind through what I saw. relationship that year to me seems like world of deception the love I have my girlfriend then reduce drastically.
Even staying close to a lodge..makes you feel things like the eve gender are nothing to take serious.
Working at a Lodge is where u get the ultimate challenge of minding your business and also get a lesson of the type of person u want to settle with. I worked at a Lodge in Ogun State when i was at Uni years ago, the thing i saw ehn. Pastors, Prophets, Herbalists,drug dealers,scammers, Married men, Married women.
Your girlfriend can't be faithful to you if she works in a hotel...from experience
Working in a Hotel will make you hate marriage with passion.
I work as a receptionist in a hotel, one very Sunday, one married man wit 5 different girls
As one girl was leaving another girl was coming in, nd u knw u gats Inform d guest of his visitor
Omo it got to a point I got tired of calling d room, wen dey come i ask Dem to call their clients abeg
I once pimped a girl for her boyfriend and it wasn't funny. The guy wan mad. He was like bro. Na my serious babe you control for me so ooo. That Day I run kitikiti.
If I open mouth talk watin my eyes see 3 home go breakas I see of the Aunty after few month with belle I open mouth because me and she know say that belle nobe for her husband..na them dey first greet me for street I go just pass jeje single girl lyk me watin I know..watin dey vex me most na those women way dey feel say them decent pass.
Ashwear.... Na person wey never work for hotel dey carry girl matter for head.
Lol that's how I nearly cast one guy , then I was working in a guest house as a receptionist and he came in with a lady and lodged then the next day he came with a lady but I didn't know it was a different lady so he was like which room is available I now asked him that do you want the same room of yesterday.🤦
I quit hotel work d day one guy carry my gf come lodge…na me still clean the room wey dem use, I was crying while cleaning…na dat day I make up my mind to make it in life.
Any day wey I remember say I go marry I they fear 💔💔one thing is for sure I no see myself marrying one woman, two wives 3 side chick I can't come and kill myself.
as a hotel Receptionist,i don see things.
there’s this particular guy that lodged for 2 months.
He was always bringing in different girls everyday,I don't know maybe he's doing it for ritual purpose

And there’s one married man that do lodge,u will see people’s wives coming to see him everyday
As my gf tell me say she wan start working, and the place she sort out to work was a hotel Omo
I nor fit for emotional cramps
We both went out separate ways oh
Because I know weyin eye done see for hotel worker
Was I so insecure yet I was because they said karma is real.
I witnessed one back then... My perceive innocent looking teacher with another teacher... It's not surprising again
Omo no just loud a m I don see married women wey carry him pikin come collect gbola and the worst be say the pikin still Dey breastfeed.
A friend of mine that is a Bolt driver. Once told me that will never marry because of the things his seeing when picking up client.
Receptionist job at the lodging post is not for the weak.
One married woman came to my Lodge with someone when saw me she tried to run away had to tel her to calm down as the staff of the place, told her am just making my money that you Don need to be Afraid.
I once worked in a hotel.. Thr one that surprised me most was the married women that came down short time before going to work.

Keep on writing fiction just because you want to hit front page.

When age mates are doing great in their careers and businesses, you are doing boy boy in one guest house, yet you are not ashamed of urself.


I pity hole that born a useless son sha

If you can't cope with partner's behaviors again. Let go of him or her, instead of leaving like cat and mouse under the same roof.
Even Nigeria pentecostal have since be given consents to separations & divorces.
Moreso, society no longer tagging single mother or father as useless as it used to be in years past.

seunmsg:
US, UK and other western countries run a sustainable credit financing system. So, why do you think we won’t be able to sustain our own?

Because both the officials and beneficiaries are corrupt.(they would run it aground)

2. We dnt have mentality of giving back to the society/govt for others to enjoy what we earlier enjoy.


By this time of next year, go and check the account balance of MD of the agency and landed properties he would have acquired.

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If you really know the meanings, you don't have to argue otherwise, hence you are projecting urself as unwise before the public, for you to hate the messenger not necessarily mean you should hate the message.

TAKE FOR INSTANCE.
If you travel and you call ur wife around 11pm, how would you feel if she says she still with a male family friend at such ungodly hour......after all, Mr Ige ur family friend is a bestie to ur wife.

papyjaypaul:
"Will not allow"
As if she's a slave and you're the master.

I was thinking about this topic and was thinking about what happened in the past. Everything is sexual today. No one is talking about family friends now, everthing is now self. A family can be friends with another family but you the husband or wife cannot provide all that your spouse will need or be. Your emotional balance in life needs PEOPLE. This mistrust we have is why women are going to pastors and Imams because they expect them not to have any sexual promiscuity with them.
In the past, men will go to another city or country and the woman will raise the family with support of neighbours and family. If she likes let her sleep out. If he too likes, let him sleep outside. Everything sex sex sex. Una no wan rest

What the mind wants to do, it will attract eventually

Go and check the meanings of this following?

Bestie (close friend)

Ordinary/ casual friends

Family friends

Acquittance

Colleagues

Church or mosque members

Neighbours.

All except the bolded are allowed for married man or woman, when you are noe pushing it to level of the bolded, something is wrong with you.

U re supposed to be ur wife bestie and vice versa.

Man or woman who is into serious relationship and still claiming he/she has bestie, apart from the person she has serious relationship with......I pity the partner, cos the partner not yet ready to go into serious relationship/Marriage with serious minded partner.

He/she still deceiving herself in the hand of community tools

ThiefnubuBandit:
The vacant seats in the Rivers State House of Assembly should be filled with hardworking unemployed youths from Rivers State.

Thunder fire Wike!!!!
Thunder fire Thiefnubuu!!!
Thunder fire HellAnus blockos!!!

.....and wen the unemployed latter got the opportunity? They become tools in the hand of Devil politicians, their own would now worst than rogues that were discarded.


Go and ask Yeye Bello before he became rich.

dominique:
Married for just 2 months and she has already ended her husband's life? May we not end up with psychopaths disguised as partners.

Your prayer isn't for those who knew what the partner is up to, in which they still proofing strong heads by going ahead to marry him/her.

With my little experience of two people leaving as husband and wife. 8 of 10 know exact personality of the partners they want to leave the rest of their life with, but still go ahead to marry, ......after few years of toxic marriage/union, they would be blaming Devil, while some blame the partners for hiding character during relationships.


Only a stupid would be going out with partners for 6months to like 3 years, that won't know majority of characters of such person.

In as much a rapist should be jailed and dealt with severely, I will continue blaming a "mature and grown up" lady that raped due to her negligence as well.


You and ur friend went to a guy's house, who isn't ur boyfriend/husband/ blood brothers by 9pm.
To make the matter worst, ur friend left immediately, yet u still sat thr alone with a guy who who aren't related with.

What were you doing with him alone by 9pm?

This man talks too much, what stops you to put ur game at your chest.

When Tinubu finally tired of you, you would understand that you are nothing, but just ordinary other Nigerians.
Go and ask from Yeye Bello, he is the best man to tell you that you are mere mortal just like every other Nigerians, when you are outside the office of Gov.

Embarrassing oneself up and down because of holes.


When a man learns how to control his 3rd leg, he has won battle of life by half.

immortalcrown:
No source cited at the end of the post. I doubt if Tiwa made the confession. Many are bitter in their marriages while some are happy after divorce. But I observe something about divorced women.

Whether Tiwa made the confession or not, divorce is more painful to women than to men, not just in Nigeria but almost in the whole world. Most of divorced women, especially the ones that initiated their divorce (not the ones rejected by their husbands), are filled with bitterness. They try to use pretence to cover up the bitterness. Even when they get a good man as a second husband, they scapegoat him for the sins of the first husband. They appreciate a good man when he is just a sex mate, not when he tries to a second husband.

Only a few stay happy after divorce, and many in this category are truly decent in thoughts and actions.

Tiwa is not the first and will not be the last because there are numerous fools that never learn from other people's mistakes. Those fools learn from suffering.

But to my fellow men, don't maltreat your wives. Don't tempt her to live in bitterness. Many divorce cases were caused by men.

Divorce is painful for both partners, so far, the two can reason rationally and not be leaving in self denial..


A man divorces and asks his kids not to follow their mother,....who will take care of kids like his/her mother?

He asked the kids to follow their mother,......only a foolish man will be seeing his lovely kids taking care by another man.


I always pity many that use to wailing about Marriage, though, not surprised since they ended up with wrong partners.
If the two couples fortunately ended up with good partners. Though, only few who opportune to have such privileged, fully understood the beauty of marriage. For others, marriage is not only toxic, but boring and troublesome in their eyes.

imagrg:
Yes, this lady had been Victor's girlfriend for three years before she decided to bond with her new man. And they've just married today!

She spent the whole of Thursday night with my friend, Victor for a parting fvck and this morning she tied the knot with Tunde who was smiling from ear to ear in satisfaction for his new status as a married man.

I personally felt sorry for him and thinking too that the first child in this union might not be his.
I fear women oh!

Indeed Colorado and other hard drugs had finished Naija guys, yet they are wailing they want to take over the government.

I pity hole that releases you to become a nuisance to the society.

Ericmaestrooffi:
I’ve no intention to smash even though she’s very attractive, I just want to help her.

And yes I’m in a relationship but long distance (my gf is working in another state).

You are not different from empty headed mofos" that full here, little wonder you use toxic forum to share ur experience.

YOU DNT WANT TO SMACH, YET, YOU WANT TO BE SLEEPING AND WAKING UP WITH MATURE HOLE. A HOLE,THAT WONT PUT AN ATOM OF RESISTANCE IF YOU READY TO SWARM.

YOU GUYS SHOULD CONTINUING LEAVING IN SELF DENIAL, OF COURSE, THAT'S ONE OF TRAITS OF TEENAGERS.

advanceDNA:
Lol.....go and meet whoever annoyed u abeg
because I know it's not me....

Character of Colorado sniffing urchin, who writes nonsense on faceless forum, after taking hard drugs,.....well, go and do ur DNA as ur monicker implies, at least ,to know ur really father, if he is not drunkard as you are behaving.


Only an unintelligent "Mofo"turns it to fight, when he meets superior argument.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Are you not planning to marry for you to be thinking about housing a grown up adult lady?

Don't you think the girl in question, tactically wanted to push herself into ur throat,since she believed you are ready financially for marriage?

If you have girlfriend or fiancee, how do you want her to feel?

If reverse is the case, would you allow ur girlfriend to cohabitate with grown up adult that's not her relation?

In as much I'm not going against you to assist her,but, for two unrelated adults to be cohabitating when they are not into relationship is wrong.

lastly, which is most important....and don't you think you are seeking advice in the wrong room?

I pray it won't be beginning of the end for Isreal, wen you are going beyond ur boundary and everyone is begging you in which you keep going strong headed,.... definitely you would loose surporters and u will be alone.

Not until we stopped worshipping men, mistaken it for worshipping God. We will continue witnessing more than this.

For some Christians, anything their pastors say, they must obey it bumper to bumper.

How can a male pastor telling female that he wanted to bath her naked for spiritual cleansing and for women to fall for that cheap trick all in the name of God servant?

DaddyCoool:
Did you read the thread at all? Everybody is talking engagement or introduction.
Here's OP's own:

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."

So, the abroad guy that stayed in abroad also knew that ur cousin was forming hard to get? I guess the abroad guy is jobless in the abroad he based.


Many of you mistaken deceiving woman to sex, or Marriage that's not last to forming hard.

Marriages can be failed because of many reasons which is different from forming hard.

The process of Marriage is too tedious for rational human beings to involve himself for sole purpose of sleeping with that girl.

advanceDNA:
It was everywhere naaa......can't get the exact blog but some of it is below..it was her first marriage that lasted only few months ooo.. nit with JJC oooo...
...she spoke of the verbal abuse back then how he would always say he would return to his becos he never wanted to marry her ......
https://www.thecable.ng/how-funke-akindele-is-surviving-her-failed-marriage-and-making-life-count/amp/

How the link correlated with post here?.....the post is about, go as far as doing traditional marriage with a lady because she is forming hard and not about Marriage failure after few months, because i didn't see where they say, he did wedding for Funke because she was forming hard.


I guess the second marriage that failed, it was also about forming hard.

Anybody that is getting first salary, it means, he/she is an adult,and, as an adult, you are knowledgeable enough to know how you want to spend your first salary. God, pastor, father,wife etc


Nobody is entitled to first or any of ur salary except you.

driand:
No matter how much he spends on her, the moment he smashes u woman, that makes you the simp...

Not until you fully realised that, the person who spent money for enjoyment the two of them enjoy is one called father Christmas or foolish.

The way you enjoy sex is the way the woman you sex enjoy, yet you put emotional, time, money, energy far far more than she does.

Who is a looser in that context.

For guys, you only having imaginary trophy/ego that you dig a hole ...... people have been having sex long before you were born and they would be having it long time you would have gone.

advanceDNA:
Weda na fake or not......Something similar happened to funke akindele.. the nigga bragged it was just a bet to show he can get her.....
some.guys nor send oooo.... They've been hurt before, and their mind has become devilish ..they can hurt anybody just to prove point

Did Funke Akindele own got to level of traditional?


Did you know the extent a guy went, to do introduction and later traditional for a woman? Carry ur whole family to kneel down and prostrate for another family. And u would say u are going to such extent just because a lady is forming hard?

It's only a mad cow that can go far to that level.

I wish the court to DIRECT the Oba to rescind Illegal order, so that, the army of his illiterates and educated-illiterate followers would know that, Oba of Bini is mere a mortal and that he is subjected to constitution of the land, contrary to their belief that he is small gods on earth.


....FOR JUDGES TO DIRECT HIM TO COME IN PERSON TO THE COURT ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENT.......................

LOVEALAIGBO:
Doofus! Igbos are facing DIFFERENT challenges in Nigeria from those faced or admitted by Arewa and Oduduwa whatever! Each organisation or grouping are distinct and trying to link them all as being similar and indistinguishable from each other is a exercise in deceit and diversion!

For instance, if i were to ask you why no Igbo has been head of state or president since 1966, what will you say? If i were to ask you why the evil Nigerian hegemonic state went to the ends of the earth to extraordinarily rendition Mazi Kanu and are still holding on to him even when their own courts have declared him free to go, what will you say? The honest likes of Sowore understand what you either pretend not to understand or choose to ignore!

How many UROBO, itshekiri, ebira, jukum, Hausa, Ijaw among others have become Nigeria's Presidents since 1966?

Apart from Ijaw that occupied it once, I guess those tribes not qualify to be Nigeria's presidents.


Even if Igbo hasn't been president since 1966, does that mean they won't be president for ever? For you guys to pull Nigeria down just cos you want to be president at all cost.
The tribes that producing president, is their lives better than others?

If Igbo doesn't become president, does it stop Igbo state to develop and move forward?

Remman:
And there it goes again... During Wike's time anyone who dares to talk rubbish, Wike would revoke the C-of-O of their properties or demolish their property and construct road there and they'll rant in vain. He even demolish a hotel and declared every major opponent a wanted criminal. Sim, abeg brace up! Man up! I thought you were Wike's boy, you clearly didn't learn anything from your boss whom you called your father. Be like a man and humble this men...

SIM cannot do that now. First, Wike ruled like emperor, because he opportune to be a gov during the time of "lifeless" president.

2. Wike is part of federal mighty now, with support of a president, that he himself not a push over, no gov can behave like emperor during is reign.

3. SIM not yet get the numbers of suporters he needed,before he started fighting warlord. ( that's reason why clerk of the house is daring him, clerk that is just ordinary civil servant o)

Olokolobo:
The Yorubas will tag Obi soon, them no born them well make they attack jubrin, scavengers.

If you don't attack the Yorubas a day, you would not masturbate to ur satisfaction.

Anyway,since you are hermaphrodite, you need that to procreate.

They must be shouting up and down on the media by playing to the gallery before you know that a minister is working.


2. The minister must also be measured by money putting in his/her ministry and the real amount of such money actually released by the president for projects before you can say he is failed or passed.

Nigerians with eye services problems.

Ministers that not yet spent 10 months in the office, people have been shouting they are not performing.