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SeaTrade:
That one no go work for me sha ooo.
Few months ago them increase my babe their salary ,the way I carry triple my efforts and sit up ehn,even me sef shock No be me you go pass lailai.
Not to talk of woman building a house and I go come pack my things go dey live with am,
Abeg ooo.
I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos).
When woman pass you financially ,educationally,even with common sense and exposure,whether she loves you or not you will be reduced to nothing,
Even if she don't show it,you can't stop to think it is what she thinks of you(as nothing) or you sef might feel guilty for being nothing.That's how the ego of a man works.
You and your babe go dey na una go go see her friends that just came to town or so and them go dey discuss their time in Paris on vacation or their study years for UK or dey argue which store for Milan dey sell quality or cheap pass and all those things and you go tell me say if you as a man no dey alright you go stay that kind relationship unto wetin?
Them go intimidate you die with ordinary lifestyle and your prick go dey shrink daily till e finally turn to TOTO
Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity.

Anyway you are entitled to ur opinion and believe, but if God destiny ur wife to be richer than you, nothing you can do to stop it, unless you go for divorce.

I seriously pity that ur girl, I think she needs to pray more for God to open the type of guy she is going out with


Go and read about Folorusho Alakija, the richest black woman and how she used to take decisions on issue pertaining to her own company

[quote author=Rolly22 post=104712727][s]This is not about Loyalty,this is about knowing the truth and saying it.[/quote[/s]]

I still can't comprehend, mentallity behind exposing body by female gender, is it to hoodwink or to get back at male by emotional torturing?

Yet they say their free to go naked and men should keep subjected to emotional trauma.


Rapist fighters will not say "pim now

Human beings? I learnt to understand human beings in hard ways, you know a true friend base on what he/she is saying at your back.........


In naija, out of 50 people around you, hardly you see just one who is loyal/good friend


Atimes, I don't blame govs and president who are misleading by subordinates.

Soso990240:
Understand what am saying, don't go around pretending to show love only when the person dies, knowing fully well you could have done something to prevent that death occurring .

U see, such love, has been started from time immemorral from Jesus to so many great apostles, even outside religion circle. Hope TB Joshua still fresh in ur memory,. ...... people will hardly contribute for you wen one is going rough, the best is plan ahead for such doomsday

No wonder yourba say, ijo taa ba ku l'andere.

People know our worth after our demise .

In naija we sell everything sellable


Facebook, govt properties even children


Na how our poverty level rich"

Marriage is a companionship that's a journey of life which involve two adults. The type of partner one chooses to travel with, determines their destination, if they would ever reach their destination! And if reached, how fast or slow it will take them to reach their destination. Very unfortunately, so many co-travellers often choose physical attributes to go on the journey over spiritual and character.

FORWARDEVERLY:
I can't make head or tail of the gibberish nonsensical write-up you made and Don't care to either..

Would you Fvck off my mention pls..

Onye Ara...
Katum Banza.. Kawaii.

Hit you to the bone marrow

If you think you know how to vomit nonsense, several people are there, to let you smell ur shit.

I liken tuche to someone who likes getting things done in hard way.


I think he got it fully what he wanted.

JESHAL:
That's why you don't enter into any government sanctioned marriage contract where your wife is incentivised to leave and would gain at your expense and also damage your children once she becomes a single mother with full child custody, why would you have full responsibility as a man and zero authority

because you are product of that marriage, and you still don't want to avoid mistake and learn from ur own parents errors.

If two of u treat urself fairly ,what will bring divorce? Even if thr is a divorce, why you have to see it as big thing? Giving alimony to a woman who went through a labor to make you a father, if she dies wen given you a child, wat will be her own gain?


What about people who enlisted people on their payroll without doing nothing for them, they are not siblings but doing it as charity/philanthropy

You want to remain down? hopelessness? and not looking forward to be like that?


You guys are totally myopic in reasoning.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Even thou I don't like quoting derailers here ..
Lemme indulge you a little..

See Kid, if you like preach from now till eternity, I am going to live my life by my own rules.. no human on Earth would make me change it..
Like I said.. I would rather join the Is forces in Iraq than marry in the West..
And as for naija.. I would only pay for brideprice in a traditional setting and that is all.. No church wedding.. No court wedding.. No amount of Wailings can change that..

My wife is not and would never be my flesh.. we are just two strangers that met and decided to reproduce.. Simple..
Go and look for a family thread and go preach their.. here no be Church either..

Yes just the way I'm leaving my own life

I don't pity you but foolish who is towing behind a failure

A failure who can't measure up to standard and resulting to blackmailing.


...he who carries umbrella would understand he carries load at night.

JESHAL:
Spilling bluepilled narratives
Do you think these so-called traditional and conservative women will think twice before destroying their marriage and seeking out selfish hedonistic pursuit risking the well-being of their children if Nigerian laws was to become gynocentric overnight with quotas for women to occupy positions of power where they would push the collective interest of the sisterhood at the expense of civilization, do you think women love idealistically like men, Bros, they are very pragmatic when it comes to their self interest, you would be shocked religious women advocating for alimony, child support and child custody all under the guise of the tender care doctrines of women to their children and also the strong confirmation bias Societies have against men shaming us as physically violent, oppressor, tyrants, wife beating, cheating men who need to redefine Masculinity to suite the Feminine imperative so that the world can become a better place if we can keep toxic Masculinity in check

The result, normalization of children borne out of wedlock leading to degenerates of society, the criminals, drug abusers, prisoners


What is wrong with a man looking after his own interest when it comes to him having a functional relationship, so you expect him to be blinded by love and romanticism, remember he's the leader for the relationship to be successful and he must have full authority as he takes upon the Patriach Masculine burden of performance of having a family, he should not enter marriage ignorantly to his detriment, he must not be sentimental and believe women are faithful on an individual level without a degree of social shaming mechanism to keep their Hypergamous instincts in Check, via religion, culture and the conservative laws, these doesn't mean he doesn't respect her as a human being, he's ensuring he gets the best deal when he wants to make the serious commitment of marriage

What I deduce from ur write up is just tortorlogy, ....... repeating and keep repeating urself with different grammatical expressions.

If you married ur flesh, wife who has same vision with you and the two of you respect each other most especially from ur own angle, all the grammar you blew above would solve naturally, even in the west people still married and remain permanent til death....cliton senior and junior, Obama etc, Gate caused his own downfall


Your wife just like ur kids are ur own responsibilities, you can't run away from them,

Society calls you responsible man and not ur woman.

The more you keep thinking u re enslaved to ur family just cos u re doing ur own responsibilities, the more you would embitter and gravitating towards failure.

FORWARDEVERLY:
I am not necessarily quoting you for us to start arguing back and forth on this..

I just want to make you understand his point.. he said "Gynocentric" society.. The word "Gynocentric" is the keyword.. the West eg US and Canada are totally gynocentric but not same with countries in Africa like Nigeria which is somewhat Balanced..
Believe me, I tow same line with him, I rather join the US Army and go to tours in Islamabad, than to get Legally Married in the US..
As for Nigeria, due to our laws I don't mind getting married here But would never do a COURT Marriage..
Y'all should understand someone's statement in-depth before attacking or disagreeing ..

Why you don't want to marry in the west?

Why you don't want to do registry marriage in naija?

Because you want to enslave ur partner.
How will u feel putting ur own finger in the fire?

Ur wife is ur flesh endeavor to treat her the way you will treat urself.
How will u achieve this? Try hard to marry ur friend, girl that shares almost same vision as you, meanwhile, not only that, respect is reciprocal, do not treat her like servant and expect her to treat you like king as many of you blindly argue here, absolutely not possible. If you don't desist , if you marry all the women in the world, you would keep meeting disappointment.

Mandela27:
Bro better don't be scared of marriage, understand the game and u will win,when I see people saying they won't marry after knowing about the female nature I see them as cowards.Your kids need u and their mother...but understand their nature

Coward or failure? Pls don't underestimate it jor.

Women belongs to gender that can be easily bent the way you want, though you too must be man enough to dictate the tune.

What did want to say from products of failed marriages.

When you see what ur own father went through in the hands of ur own mother, such person is bone to generalize whole gender on personal experiences.

zexy2030:
The irony is that sex chase after men who don't care if it's exist. They nearly have it free all the time. Sex is not worth the chase. Losses always trail lusts this is from personal experience.

I think I totally align with you, when I read through redpiller and olosho joint threads and see how guys lamenting in other to sex or what women subjected them to, it always beat my imagination, to me, sex is more of psychological than fantasy.


Some raise shoulder when girl follows them to a gathering and filled like super man, while me hardly bring girls to gathering. When some sex with different styles he talks as if he has got ticket to make heaven. Some become enslavement bcoz of in between, I still not get reason and mystery behind copulation in some quarter.

Kobojunkie:
You know what, if you don't even understand who Jesus Christ is and why it is important that you trust and obey Him, then you are right that this conversation will lead nowhere.

You arr the one who has been attempting to interpret that which is written in human language to you up to this point. I only hope that soon, and for your good, you learn that Jesus Christ never asked you to do any such. He made it clear in Matthew 25 vs 14 - 30 that you should use the understanding you have and that that who do will have more given them whereas those who refuse to will have even the little understanding they have taken from them.

If you married and ur wife leaves you not cos of infidelity and you have not born wen you are still in early 30, will you be single till death?

Won't you be committing adultery?

Even without such condition are u clean?

Confess it on public forum

God see ur inner most mind oo.

Kobojunkie:
You are the foolish one thinking you to "interpret" that that is written for you to read in plain text and human language.

Right there in the first statement 1 Corinthians 7 vs 12. , the writer of the letter tells you you the advice he gives is from him and not from Jesus Christ...

Foolish hypocrite, sooooooo in ur word it's only red letter words (Jesus words) you are obeying, you are only concerned with, 4-5 chapters in the whole Bible.

Infact I see another new lunatic of interpreter of Bible.

Kobojunkie:
Your post does not make any sense at all to me or any of what I have said so far.


The above is what Jesus Christ declared. You are free to reject Him only know that you reject the Truth of God by that.

Foolish sheep. Interpret 1cor 7 ....12-15 too

Abi that one won't be obeyed

Kobojunkie:
Don't confuse yourself for me. I submit to and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ, God's New Covenant Law in the Kingdom of God.

I don't believe in your churches either as I belong only to the Christ's Church, built by Him.

Bible that quoted for you that also dribling

U re type of fake Christian, who select Bible you will obey, confusionist .

Obey the one who suits him, and disobey and impose those who not convinent.
If you are a pastor, I pity ur gaulible sheep

Kobojunkie:
Your post does not make any sense at all to me or any of what I have said so far.


The above is what Jesus Christ declared. You are free to reject Him only know that you reject the Truth of God by that.

Why will it, teaching you urself cannot obey, even ur blood u can preach it for him/her, you would be imposing on gaulible sheep

They won't remarry, yet you place him on a church with so many singles and married female. Abeg park well

Kobojunkie:
Are you suggesting that what is written in 1 Corinthians 7 OVERRULES God's very own decree as far as what is sin, this through Jesus Christ, His Law?

I won't argue with you again, read ur local version of Bible if you don't understand English version.

Make sure you stop hypocrisy and leaving under law of men.

Jesus you mentioned, did not put us under bondages that men from Bible til now put you.
Don't forget that Jesus also says, all things have passed away.

This scenario..... Husband wants his believer's wife to start worshipping idol, when the wife still in 20s perhaps not yet born, if the wife leaves on condition of abandonment of one faith, the husband goes ahead to remarry and bear children.

By ur own verdict! The woman should remain single for life with no children abi? When the divorce is totally not her fault. She should also be agonizing in form of celibacy? Abi cos of her faithful yo God, she won't be Hot again.

You guys should stop preaching impracticable teachings please.

You see our God is omniscient, he judges us from our motives.

Bible says u serve God in truth and spirit, .......truth comes before spirit o,. The sprit there can be likened to motive.


Bye......

Vickyvice:
yeah. There are various reasons for divorce, but My Focus is on d biblical ground for remarriage, not d reason for divorce, which are very beyond cheating/adultery

If you divorce in which it's pure not ur fault, and you want to marry, you re free. It's not everything that Bible must say, also we are not under bond of law

Telling you not to married , but in the closet such person does whole lots of immorality, masturbation inclusive.

Such person but himself under law of men and not God.

Kobojunkie:
No, that is a sin!

And I would like to stress that God forgives even that kind of sin.

I know you will argue


Go to 1 Corinthians read entire ch 7

Highly take into consideration 12, 13,14 & 15.

If you keep arguing,I leave you for ur ignorance and heresy

Vickyvice:
read Matthew 19;9; you can divorce for reasons, but if it's on d ground of unfaithfulness, cheating, you can remarry.but if not on cheating, don't remarry or you reconcile, but if you divorce, and your mate starts seeing someone, or dies, u are biblically free to remarry

You can also divorce on the ground of beating, threat to life, when spouse abandoned one faith

Kwanza:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-shell-agrees-to-pay-ogoni-people-n45bn-compensation-11-years-after-judgment/amp

They should also forced them to pay interest accrued to the principal since then.

Soso990240:
You dont understand. Most of this Nollywood legends earned peanut from acting. Money started flowing when Companies started endorsing few of them. I know some of these Actors that still enter public transport/ jump bus like an average Nigerian, yet they are legends on the screen. Our female Actresses know where dem de from see money, Money no too dey d industry as people de portray .

Hope u also know that people outside Nollywood earn peanut too and they too do fall sick, who bear ther brunt?


Unless they start contributing health fund by all actors/actress to cater for their health issue when fall sick, oga OYO lo wa sir.

OYO.......own your own.

Soso990240:
Funny how All these Rich actors ignore their sick colleague, only to show up for candle night when the person is dead.. what a pity.

Actors too should endeavors to save enough for raining days


Many lavished the money when they were at peak of their careers only to come and beg when they are down.


You can see how zubby Michael was bragging recently that he is richest, showing luxuries , the money he is supposed to use for investment, he is wasting it on expensive cars and jewelries

Gandollaar:
You are the kid here if you thought Falae stood any chance against Obj in a general election.

Yorubas never voted for Obj in 2003, except you want to recognize OBJs political coup in Sw where even Micheal Jackson voted in Idosi Ondo..

Abeg! I'm not here for mention/likes

Believe it or not, ogunlewe said nothing but pure truth and as at this hour, south west still has the brightest chance come 2023.


Bye

Gandollaar:
You are very funny.

Who told you they are down?

Are they the only corrupt politicians in Nigeria?

Would you have voted for any of them if they weren't down according to you?

Did yorubas vote for Obj? Did they not malign and discredit in 1999 till date?

Oga get it straight and not twisting it, though obvious you were still very young then.


Yoruba had 2 of their prominent sons to choose from, (lesson learned) Yoruba outwisted and show supremcy on all others tribes in the south coupled that we forced north to relinquish power.


2. When it's 2003 , Yoruba vs buhari, Yoruba fully supported his own son.

Ernestforyou:
Argue with him but the man is saying nothing but the truth.An Anambra man will
Never allow Ebonyi man to rule over him and it’s vice versa.Its only the east that you have two Kings in a street.Abeg go sleep!

All the 3 major contenders, has opponent within the party pulling them down, six contenders for 3 political party. What a greedy people .......

Gandollaar:
Which Igbo and which one are up in arms against each other?

You call political disagreement fights?

Your type is disappointed when you see the fueding politicians hug in public.

Go back and read my comment



Kalu and Okorocha ,what did you want to say about their chances now? Who pull them down?