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Kenturkey048:
Is she older than you?

Nooooooooooo

Several, thou not all were rosy but those that rosy outnumbered those that weren't

I traveled from state to another state and the lady welcomed me with everything, she even entrusted property in her room and money inside the bag in me, went to working place without keeping her money properly.

Wen I was going (I spent 3 days in her place) I warned her not to trust total stranger to that extent again, she latter came to visit me in my state too , but not the type I can marry, almost depressed wen I left her, anyway, I thank God for my decision o, because she herself latter told me that she is lunatic wen she gets angry. But too soft without anger.


The one that not rosy, I traveled to Lagos, having discussed with this lady (single mother of grown up daughter) and told me her ex baby daddy was in abroad and she free anytime, we chatted and called for nothing less than 6 months o.

When I wanted to go her place, I informed her 3 weeks prior to that day o, I went to Lagos though mainly cos of church program.
When I got to his place in Alagbado area, it was around 5:30 pm, she welcomed me, she latter took me to her shop, when it was 7:30 we came back from shop, this lady started complaining ,that ehn, her ex husband is coming, ehn she didnt want her neighbor to know that another man visits her, ehn, if her ex comes he might fight her.

I said ah, but we discussed extensive before I embarked on the journey and u said no problem. Immediately, I carried my bag and left, thank God for church program and 24 hours transportation system in Lagos.

Ever since, girls and ladies I met , must come where I am. Besides, I don't do outside town of my residency again.

MufasaLion:
He might have warned her before, but if he didn't then that's bad.

If you read it carefully, you would notice he hasn't, infact their relationship hasn't been long, and he is a man of super ego. Feeling like Lord, it's boldly, even in her comment.

Meanwhile, even if he warned, that offences alone too flimsy to discard relationship.

MufasaLion:
Are you expecting her to respond to that?

Not necessarily comment but her conscience.

MufasaLion:
You ain't getting my point. It's not about making a woman your slave. It's about compatibility. The guy couldn't deal with such attitude and that doesn't make him a dictator.

How can one discard a whole grown up human being with complete different background from his, just because of such pure flimsy excuses? Even without prior warnings , you can see I commented on you instead of him, because his comment irritated me, putting himself to the position of almighty.
Claiming useless ego. Ego my foot.

If he means what he says, he will keep married and remarried, maybe when he gets to number 10, he would wake up from his slumber. ( Even robots disagree, disobey, robbed owner egos atimes)

MufasaLion:
Stop making excuses for her. The man made the right choice that suits him. I would have done the same also. I hate unhealthy manner of living and my ego is important.

You and the guy should endvour to marry good wife slave o

Bola146:
The moment he wasn't picking calls from 6pm till 10am everyday, he would call by 11am to apologise that he slept off , sometimes he would say he didn't see any missed calls mo ya japa

After digging undiggable finish.

c2far:
Your personality should be a major deciding factor before you choose a career. If you love wealth there are certain career paths you can't choose. Not because you won't be wealthy, it is because you have a lower chance to and again there is a bigger chance you may get tempted.

Imagine a young lecturer saying he or she wants to be as wealthy as Dangote. Chances are that your case will be like that of the NECO/JAMB man, Dibu Ojerinde.

You can't be a Police Officer and be as ostentatious as Kyari. Check his Facebook timeline. That picture of him and his brothers puts the latter at risk. That profession does not fit that lifestyle. Imagine seeing my Imam that loves comedy always liking the posts of Mr. Macaroni. He can only enjoy the posts privately.

You know you have a weakness for women and you are a lecturer in the School of Social Sciences. Even criminals who want to stay undetected stay off social media but then they can't help it sometimes. If you love to be in informal dresses, there are certain profession that will be hard for you to fit in. I can't go to the hospital and then I am told the doctor is the best but he is on dreads.... I'll not risk it. I'll take a walk. There are written and unwritten code for every profession. Kyari erred.

He saw my Kaftan and liked it.... Are you normal at all Kyari? (In Macaroni's voice). We loved the idea that there was our own Jack Bauer somewhere but then it seems all is lost now.

Don't just get a job because you need one. Get one that fits. And stay with the code. We spend over 12 hours daily on our work. It's our life. Choose wisely.

Nigeria society just too corrupt, too saturated for someone to go clean if you occupy most- sort -for positions.

From family, friends, neighbors, associates , church/mosque, would pile pressure and most of those demands would be illegals.

I'm very sure family and friends of EFCC chairman would be pilling pressure on him to give/ get it cheaply, properties being taking back from Yahoo guys and others.
Students in schools would put pressure of gratifications on lecturers, they would traumatize lecturers with skimpy dresses

when lecturers collect or woo, its problem but students who offer it scots free, these are situations they find themselves
All these can cause trouble for the occupants of that offices.

In naija , it takes strong grace of God not to soil one's hand if one occupies sensitive and juicy positions

People would pressurize you to the bone marrow to get away with situations, pouring gifts..........bribe. Before you know ,you would succumb.

Someone who is a close friend to socialize Cubana, it says alot.



Cubana has since gone underground now,. Uhmmmmmm.

They say he was putting those he knws personally in appointments , indirectly sidelined those who could be better from other areas which he didnt know personally.

2 if a leader surrounded himself with his people, thre are higher tendency to corrupt and mislead the leader, they would monopolize and claiming it's our time, thus cause problem for the leader.

This is scenario Nigeria finds herself since lunatic assumed office 2015.

festacman:
Extradition is not as straightforward as it sounds. It will involve the court up to the Supreme Court to determine if the offence is worth the suspect being extradited.

In Abba Kyari case, I am sure he will, as last resort, argue that crimes of agreeing to receive bribe money for his team and the arising criminal breach of trust were committed in Nigeria. In addition, he will argue that none of the amounts were paid into his personal accounts. I am sure his numerous wealthy friends would be brainstorming by now on choice of SAN or SANS to engage to handle his case.

Long way ahead but whatever happens, Abba Kyari is already down and in tatters. Smh

@ bolded
Even if the person that wants to be extradited don't go to court. The case will still reach supreme Court.

I also believe you are his personal lawyer who want present all these evidences in court to defend him

inoki247:
lol El Rufai is d tru definition of Wahala be like 69 even if u turn am upside down na same thing he go give u.....

Yet if Elrufai and For are to contest for Nigeria's president, he and his supporters will go for rufai *anyday anyday*

Reasons.1. Falana us kafri
2. Falani is from downtown.

fourboys:
virginity matters a lot bro... When u date or marry a virgin, dats when u understand

Yes and no sir

Person who will go wayward will. I know of two women that husbands were the one who disvirgined them, one of them pressurized my friend for sex even though she is in marriage then

The second one after 3 kids , husband can't control her again and become public hoe til date, she can drink brewery.

chukshobayo:
Mehn I don't think applying the redpill is easy as in the risk involved. Told a lady who said we should be friends that i don't do friends and i dont do brother. She told ne blatantly that she is not in for fun. Personally I became scared that she would tell others. Secondly I felt the respect she had for me Will diminish. This is my dilima. Truth be told i felt bad but had to hide it and more so I love to have sex with the said girl.

I didn't pity you o, but toto wey born you,...

I think u sounds genuine, indoctrination will not only restrict u to enjoy more pussy now wen u re young, it will also destroy ur marriage In future and wen u are now single grandpa, frustrated urchins that giving u useless redpill lectures now, won't be there wen only u are suffering.


Meanwhile, at ur age that u still have marriage ahead, ........even if the girl do sakara but u humble urself and putting more pressure, she may fall yakata in love for you and you will be controlling her like toy (a message from person with vast experiences in marriage and women palaver).

Someone who doesn't have wife at home, indoctrinating you to useless women and sheep like you are following him like gutter.

NB. It's men who don't need another marriage and have money to control women that can play useless redpill as u called and not frustrated urchins on nairaland.
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vicdom:
https://punchng.com/apc-congresses-under-threat-as-scourt-declares-bunis-chairmanship-illegal/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1627522663

So many decisions that buhari is taking are completely illegal but people are afraid to take him to the court most especially people from apc, totally disregard for federal character in appointment is one of them.

If buhari leaves govt today and the govt of the day challenge him in court I believe he won't be able to scale through.
I wish Zuma treatment will fall on him after his reign as a president.

Av u ridden gov, ministers , senators ,oil mongus as other females actress do? Let me know when you do that pls

LilMissFavvy:
You must be a kid. You can't read and comprehend that simple write up. He came back with a knife and stabbed her with it. What self defense are you talking about when she had no weapon on her. Go back and read the post and you will see influence of drugs is not what caused the misunderstanding, rather it was money. If you can't see the wickedness of his actions, then probably you are just like him.

U re not different from the kid, an urchins that's masturbating on ur female moniker and meme pix by trolling you.

Indeed u are Lilly miss!

stinflame:
I tell you!and a serious suitors might be on her neck, but because madam love her lifestyle and the money it fetch she refuse setting down.

Infact at 28, is it the time for olosho work? When time is ticking second by second? And if she wanted, why criminal teenager? Woman atimes.

mfm04622:
At 18 he was already in prison! At 18, he is already patronizing prostitute! At 18 he already has the mind to kill a human being! Just 18!

Since they don't want to work and sweat again

From leaving their mama breast to riding expensive cars

If you blame them, they would come on you on nairaland that they should be left alone to enjoy to maximum

elpochas:
Thank God he is up to 18yrs old,atleast he will reap what he sowed.Unlike that useless little female brat that burnt down Ebeano Supermarket.

Hope you read up where it stated that he just came out from custody'"

If not that her life is completely on the ground already, 18 years old toddler hooking up with 28 years old madam, even if one wants to eat meat.........must she kneels down for cow?

Anyway may her soul rest ............

People do go beyond their boundaries, even 18 years old child, one should have stopped beating him or her with cain not to talk of university's student. I think there are several ways to deal with stubborn students that would be severe than cain. Afterall, I don't think she had committed any offences by not wearing native dress.

Very unfortunate that all over the world people do see red flags in relationships but still force and manipulate themselves to the altar, people hardly changed. It also still beat my imagination how two mature guy and lady would be going out for six months without observingg some big mistakes/characters that are not pardonable.

Lamanii22:
Awwwwwn... I'm really sorry hun.... I pray you find the true one...

Sorry? You didn't question why meeting such ladies? His own way of life makes meeting such ladies

Funding for the project was provided by both countries, but for Fulani and Maradi railway! Funding was singlehandedly provided by Nigeria.

[quote author=Emotionalbeing post=104170609]Are you high or you're just incredibly stu*pid? You're the confused entity here.. [/quote


Even hermaphrodite? Male under female outside. Confusionist.

Emotionalbeing:
He walked away.. There was nothing I could do about it..

These are types of men who readyly destroy marriage in future.

After married in future if he comes back, it will cause whole lot of problem, why ? Surely you will open door for him either partially or fully.

Emotionalbeing:
He walked away.. There was nothing I could do about it..

I guess you re number one confused man, a man who called himself female on public forum, a gender who attacks opposite gender yet he couldn't detach himself from them.

......... anyway there are certain species , ...... bisexual, hymaphrodite.

Nonpartisan1:
Sowore is mad! Even CNN, BBC edit their stories before publishing it...but Sowore hatred for Muslims becloud every sense of judgement and responsibility in him.

Useless weed-smoking- fraudster.

As if Mohammed didn't do worse than Igboho, go and read story of Mohammed's emmigration (hijira) to Medina before you come to fight useless fight on faceless forum.

Three types of lady I can never date.

Church member.
Co-worker.
Neighbor.

Relationship often leads to disaster and infighting. Where would I put my face if the relationship goes south.

I laugh in Swahili, according to princess, her gate man exposed himself indecently to her daughter.

I think what is good for goose should also good for gander nah

man exposed himself indecently for a lady and lead to problem

But for a lady, even if she dresses half naked she is free and nobody should raise eyebrow.

I think we are sliding towards ........