₦airaland Forum

abobote:
All these baby mama turned wife, they know you have baby mama outside already, they pretend to be the best of the baby mamas, and start showing their true colour when you make them wife. There's nothing wrong with Tuface spending a night with the other kids, most times the request comes from the kids and very hard to turn down as it is very emotional "Dad plz don't go, we want you to spend the night with us"
In a similar situation, a had a son from another girl, but fortunately she got married before I married my wife, last year when I came back to Nigeria, I went to see my son, and he insisted I spend the night or they allow him go with me, finally I had to spend the night alone in a hotel, but don't know how the news go to my wife, who is in Abuja

If its ur wife that spent night outside because of her son, can you tell us ur reaction towards her

Romanoff:
She has more right over him than his brother.

Like it or not, that's it.

More right and not absolute right.

I think its clearer day by day with their posts.

I biliv the wife she is a type of me and my husband.

Marriage don "pafuka


Wen you married to celebrity, just have it at back of ur mind that you married to public husband.

Our husband instead of my husband.

oshozondii:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/09/delta-court-order-not-binding-on-me-says-buni/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

If buhari wants to use it as tool, it would be directed at you, the office would have been beefed up by stern looking security by now.

Buhari mr integrity


How i wish our contry can allow ex leader to smell 1/10 of mess he subjected citizens to wen he was in government.

Zuma is cooling his head in South Africa prison

zinaunreal:
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If you are responsible and you attained marriageable age, what stops you from managing home?

nzeobi:
If the APC candidate is from SE I will vote him but aside that I will vote for the candidate with the best manifesto who will protect my interest

........you guys can never change, where he comes from ,the religion he does.....i pity ur sorry ass


I can never ever vote for north.

Afteral, can good adminstration comes out from less disadvantaged?

iwaeda:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/09/02/apc-expels-adamu-party-chairman-who-wished-osinbajo-replaced-buhari/?

The way apc was doing in the states they were controlling wen they were in opposition, was enough to make us reject them, but we are fully blinded by rhetoric and shenanigans, today 95% are regretting it, including the biggest masquerade now in London.


Despite all these, Anambrans are hell bent to taste their way of leadership.

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/the-many-controversies-under-sacked-power-minister

Bubu said, it's only his clan and religion that have integrity to hold juicy positions in naija oooo. Yet some foolish in down south biliv in his theory, ........which ever tribe and religion ..i don care....i want to Nigeria to be good


What a foolish way of reasoning.

The amount that America has spent on Afghanistan can china and those countries spend it?
When was Afghanistan become annex of America? That she must spoon feed it for ethernity?
How many countries those countries are police like America?

Is it not china that you must work double worth of value any assistance they want to render ?

There group of people that compulsory to shoulder their responsibilities

Ur kids
Ur wife
Ur parents (even parents its shared among children if u re not only child)

Any other one, do ur best and focus on ur own cross, including ur own blood brother and sisters.

zinaunreal:
This one na major villager. So if I tell you I'm not managing a home I am not responsible? Chai... there are still maggots roaming the streets

If you are responsible and you attained the of managing home(married), why you find it manage a home?

Thats y many of u attack institution of marriage.


You want to be responsible man and yet like to be living irresponsible lifestyles

Do 1 for government and 5 for his pocket, but go to several tv stations to broadcast 1 that he did for government


Thief painting himself as a saint since 1669.

Yet this is tribe and religion bubu say he can only trust with juicy positions

jmobile:
https://news.brag.life/bbnaija-2021-youre-lucky-im-married-if-i-was-single-ill-do-more-for-highlights-tega-bragged/?swcfpc=1

Which means, if not for public show, even as a married woman you will definitely go to any length to get money.


After all, its only a woman's rapper that would allow his house wife to go to public show of immorality simply cos they want money.

DSS will send invitation for you today, ...........Buhari regime clapping down on everyone for his failure and clueness, instead of doing needful and let criticisms die of natural death, you said its only Fulani that has intelligent and integrity to occupy offices.

If women can change from bad attitude, the rate of divorce will lower by 50%

Consiglieri:
Ladies, when wearing a short dress and sitting, have you ever caught a guy looking up your skirt?

Have you ever been in a situation where you realized that your undewear was exposed because of how you were sitting?

How did you feel?

Ladies who know that there is tendency for he- goat to peep and in which she can also embarrass if mistakenly exposed, why not dress properly to cover and save you from embarrassment. What about rape?

Buhari came, saw and conquered naija territory and handed it over to his kinsmen bandits

Everything that work perfectly in other clime will struggle to achieve 40% success in naija.

Everybody want to become tin god in his cabal

garfield1:
He actually won at the field but inec cheated him.the court actually restored his mandate

3rd highest votes......pls and bye.

The day you will know the truth, u will be set free

garfield1:
Dont forget apc had been winning in the east.there is a difference between an incumbent contesting and him supporting a stooge.the governor party is heavily divided

Won as a supreme Court gov?

garfield1:
The incumbent governor is not contesting

And if the candidate the incumbent supporting wins? Knowing fully well, it will hard for apc to win in the east

contigiency:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/breaking-6-apga-anambra-lawmakers-defect-to-apc/amp/

People will never learn from past error

I think Edo case is still fresh in memory.

TimeSpaceWizard:
I am sure he went in quietly scared and left quietly before posting pictures when he arrived the dirty gutters of Lahos.

Wen will you wake of from world of self consolation? You guys preach brim and stone that if he ever steps south east, he would be butchered

Angelfrost:
Lol... Did you really read that carefully??! Or you were all too much in a hurry to be defensive??!

I merely painted an everyday scenario without taking sides! Matter of fact, that scenario happens both ways (same thing can happen equally to men and women).

Sex drive always dims in marriages... Some times it happens to men likely due to stress, worries, career demands, etc. It also happens in women (child birth demands, hormonal changes, childhood trauma, etc)! Over-familiarity can cause both to be less sexually attracted to each other, leading to lust for what is outside.

This is the reality faced by married people! The wisdom, maturity, and mutual respect to handle it makes the difference between those happily married for decades and those bitterly divorcing after a few years...

Don't take my words for it... Do some research. Ask around!!! I take no sides, and I come in peace!

Hope you read OP but you commented? Also i biliv you know how to comment appropriately, The post is about how wives are being sex starved and not about how couples (man and woman) go out to consume lust

In the scenario, its husbands that goes out to and abandoned wives.

Angelfrost:
A lot of women keep men at arm's length during dating and courtship, with the man nearly getting mad in his hunger to get in there... After wedding, the man gets his fill of the sex (most guys get over the sex thing after a few years. FACT), and is just content to be a husband and father, providing all they need in the home.

Strangely, this is the point the sleeping or latent sex drive awakens in the women... And BAM! The man is no more sexy, romantic, and interested in sex... So, time to look elsewhere to date the consuming lust.

This is all too common everywhere.

You want to go out to consume lust? Yet someone daughter is in ur custody being starved day and night yet she must be faithful to you

Put urself in that shoe bro.

Vinnie2000:
Yeah, you got a Point..But
As a Lady, if ur BF wants to Wife you, you will know..
Same as guys, if ur GF likes you to Marry her, you will know..
People just Pretend!
I Laugh when I hear words 'He/she wasted my time'..

You never know how some people are heartless, i know a friend who is married but moved to another city, pretending as a single, my friend went as far as going to the girl's parents, that he really wanted to marry her, put the girl to learn chemist, and assisted her and parents alot, financially. Yet my friend knw he was playing the girl. My friend "last last abandoned the girl.

If you are the lady that a guy has gone to that extent, wont you convince? Alot of such scenarios o

Vinnie2000:
This is Simply because They went into 'Loveless marriage'
Or Marriage of circumstances..

Our young ladies of 25,26 yrs will abandon their Boyfriends n be Looking for Big Guys with Cars and Mansions!!
Some get dier Wish But the Marriage turns out like Water..
'COLOURLESS, TASTELESS'

What about boyfriends who will keep delaying to go into marriage with their girlfriends, dating for more than 5 yrs and for no tangible reasons?

thesicilian:
Why won't they be sex starved when many of them are still playing hard to get with their husbands?

Playing hard? Or when many married men abandoned thier legal wives and running up and down, chasing different girls outside.


Attentions they can't give their wives and mothers of their children , they would be pouring it on public holes outside, who they share her honey pot with different people.

100% with you.

I think man u needs his influence this time around much more than his skill, but trust blindly followers thinking Ronaldo of 10yrs ago is now.

My niggard come to collect his pension.