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Bestinstinct:
The thread

by QuinModah got me thinking. I have been betrayed countless times but all of the times I got betrayed, it brings unexpected blessings. I most times become grateful after most betrayals that I forget who or why I was betrayed in the first place. Every significant developments in my life were borne out of being betrayed. I noticed I've been fortunate about been betrayed but I realised I equally betrayed people who might never forgive me. I will like to share two pressing ones and I pray I find peace after sharing. Feel free to bash me but share yours too. Nobody holy pass.

While in JSS3, I had two friends namely Bee and Ade (Not real names). We do virtually everything together. Walk home from PWD, Ikeja to Oshodi on daily basis. Always in same football team, the three of us will board Molue with five naira and get sent down by Sogunle Bus Stop by stubborn conductors while some gentle ones will just abuse us and ignore (people who grew up in Lag during Molue Era can relate). Growing up with them remains the best part of my childhood. I was a good footballer and I am always the highest goal scorer then. Our friendship was boundless until we noticed Bee no longer leaves the school with us after closing. He gives series of excuses until we got to know he has a GF who’s equally in JSS3 (love letter kinda GF). He confided in Ade that he doesn’t want anyone to snatch his GF that’s why he's keeping her. Being a kid, I careless until he started bringing her to field every afternoon during break and after closing hour. Being a slim cute boy, coupled with my superb football skill, B’s GF started cheering me extraordinarily during football matches and that was how we became friends. I innocently got very close to her and she joined our long walk home every afternoon. From there she came to my house once or twice and Bee got furious and stopped talking to both of us. It remained like that till we finished our Junior WAEC. My family relocated to another state during the holiday and I changed school. About 10years later, I reconnected with Bee on FB. I was so happy to redeem my image and was quick to apologize for what I did as a kid and we both laughed it off and admitted that it was just kids’ stuffs. Few weeks after we reconnected, I accepted a friend request from a beautiful lady. We got chatting and we became FB lovers (when Facebook love by Essence ft. Jaywon was a banger) till we agreed to meet. She came down to my state for the weekend and we had awesome sex. While gisting, she told me about her BF who’s very serious with her but not as cute and adventurous as I am so she decided to open another FB page to chat me up since he’s my friend on the other profile. To cut long story sha, Bee was her real BF. I told her my first act of betrayal towards him and she told me this isn’t my fault that I should ignore. She went back after our splendid time together and started flaunting and posting my pics on her wall. Bee saw it and sent me series of messages. Before I could reply, he blocked me on all platforms and I’ve lived with the burden of being unable to explain for almost 10years now even though my relationship with the lady didn’t last for 2months. Each time I remember how I ruined our friendship, it hurts me badly. Will share the second one later, I still can't find the courage to let it out. Like I stated earlier, feel free to share yours…nobody holy pass.

drimzsmoke:
My brother, no fear. E. coli is an organism found in our stool(feaces). It's the commonest cause of urinary tract infection(UTI) in this our environment, followed closely by Staphylococcus aureus. Women mostly have UTI because of the proximity of their urethral opening to the anus. Men sometimes have this too, but any man who practices anal sex without condom will have UTI.
E. Coli infection is not a sexually transmitted infection(STI) but in a case where a woman who has UTI caused by E. Coli is also having a vaginal infection caused by the same E. Coli, a man who sleep..... Let's leave that, it's not important!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

drimzsmoke:
Urine M/C/S yielded heavy growth of E.coli and S.aureus after incubation at 37°C for 48hrs
Organisms not sensitive to any known antibiotics!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

garriAndsugar:
Na the benefits of making money in the morning I wan dey read now

tsephanyah:
she is fooling you

tsephanyah:
They f#ck their own teenage daughters and blame the north for child marriage.
I can bet anything that you can't find a virgin 10 year old in the south
Hypocrites

Testiebobo:
How much is international passport registration? I want to register.

Nigerianxpress:
NO EVIDENCE, You go explain tire, post pinshure

johnog4sure:
Deny the pregnancy lets see her reaction. You aint got no problem, She RAPED u.

Unbreakable26:
Congratulation bro
you even have sex with her the second time.., the lady really want you back by all mean and you fell for it l just pity your current babe.

YourBestWriter:
So many people think that masturbation is a spiritual problem, others simply don't care, and by so doing, plunge into the act at any chance they have. But what could be the cause of the bad luck that often follow after the act of masturbation?

Without much elaboration, I want to tell you that these bad luck are the consequences of psychological alterations that masturbation create in humans.

Let me elaborate a little. When you masturbate, your brain goes into a state of constant excitement that triggers your COMPLETE LAZINESS (body, soul, and mind). But what masturbation won't tell you is that the excitement can be addictive and also the laziness can be addictive. It will affect EVERYTHING! How you see the opposite sex (example, you may feel lazy to even woo a girl as a man). The effects of masturbating will affect how you face life challenges; it will feel like each time you are faced with challenges, you will often go for the easy choices when life itself demand the tough choices at most times.

So, if you are thinking that masturbation is a spiritual problem, my dear, Satan is already laughing at you at one corner. The best way to stop masturbating is to develop a new mindset centred around positive thinking and hard work.

Remember: masturbation is a tool of idleness/laziness, and an idle MIND is the devil's workshop. The real spiritual problem is when you allow the devil to use this tool to manipulate your judgement. And the reason why you won't go far in life masturbating is because there is no food or success or breakthroughs for a lazy man.

Texcyndy:
Hello nairalanders.
I was outside at dawn today. Around 5:30am.
I heard the sound of bird and I went to check what bird it was. It was an owl. It perched on an electric pole, but was facing the opposite direction. Suddenly it started turning its head until it made a complete 180 degrees turn and then saw me. We stared at each other for some time and then it flew away.

I see owls fly all the time since I was a child and it was nothing to me. This is my first time and I want to know if anyone has had similar experience and what happened afterwards.

I have read from other sources that it has some spiritual meanings to it.

Share your experiences. Thank you

ObalendeCMS:
Share your funny experience, engaging with any of these spiritualist, be it pastor, alfa, babalawo.

It could even be your experience with online psyche.