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Davash222:
The parent with the Kids will always sell bad image of the other parent to the kids.

This is exactly what Tonto Dike is doing right now. If the son is not street wise, he might grow to hate his dad not knowing the fault is from his mother.

Women are naturally manipulative. Don't allow a woman to solely train your child/children.

UncleKoboko:


This guy that banged that shameless whóre called Lîló within 3 days of meeting in a house.

Some girls are just so shameless...


A disgrace of a child!

Kobojunkie:
I am intrigued by his story and would like to know how it ends is what.

Kobojunkie:
Any response?

Kingsuave:
As e dey be now like this,Tems don go international,

Sagas dey pass around for streets say she be full time lesbo no cap..

dangoteinlaw:
hate that dude with passion i mean wtf is the world turning. Blocked him on ig and his pictures keep popping up

HellVictorinho:
Born this way sexually is not a journey


Born this way sexually is a reasoning


But it's not correct

HellVictorinho:
Nobody was born gay or straight


The attraction happens by chance

Kaycee7:
Standard procedure for my Naija people. Empathy is an alien concept to them.

DieRich5:
U be gay I never see anyone in Nigeria way no be homo attacking someone hating on dem

OchuAja:
I regard myself a Nairaland veteran, having been an active member of this site for close to a decade. I decided to use a new moniker for the purpose of privacy.
I took a decision to make this writeup or pseudo diary as objective as possible, based on my first hand experience with '[b][/b]Babalawos', a popular African Traditional Religion IFA spiritualist on Nairaland.

As an individual from a non-devout Catholic background, I can safely say I'm 'Christian by association'. As a child I had an unusually curious mind and asked questions about Christianity which no one seemed to have a satisfactory answer. I was the type who would attend church service and focus on the time, hoping the hand of my wristwatch would move fast enough so I can leave. Lol.

Fastfoward to my mid- 20s, my deep research about the true origins 3 Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) opened my eyes to reality. I quit church going altogether and have no regrets to this day.

My long time lover of several years and I had only 3 weeks ago been involved in a dispute which involved unfaithfulness. I confronted my loved one about it, but got no response as to the accuracy of my accusations. I have been given the silent treatment and I decided to do the same unless my lover initiates contact and refutes or confirms my claim to which I have evidence. I was devastated by this dispute and thought of placing a curse on my lover and my just discovered rival for cheating on me and wasting all the time and efforts spent on relationship.

This is where my experience with 'Babalawos' begins. I have never consulted with a spiritualist prior to this encounter. My interest in the ways of our ancestors made me a regular reader of Babalawos posts on Nairaland. I decided to send him a message to help me get my vengeance.

I complained about my situation to him. He requested for 2500 consultation fee and sent my photograph. I made a bank transfer. In few minutes he texted me saying my reading was ready.

I gave him a call.

"Aboru Aboye" he said in a guttural tone.

I responded to his greeting.
"I have consulted IFA. Because you made a consultation offering to the oracle on the last day of 2017, IFA said I should tell you that blessings will never leave you in the coming year. I have a lot to say to you. Good things and the bad. During my divination I found out that 2 Oris showed up. Your original Ori has been exchanged". IFA said that not all you claimed about your lover was 100% true...."

At this point I doubted his authenticity. How could I have lied?
"Who else did you have sex with during your relationship with S ? IFA says you did, and on one occasion your Ori was exchanged with ill luck because the person is in the occult"

I broke into a cold sweat.

"Baba, I did not sleep with anyone, ok, I did have sexual encounters with 3 persons during my relationship with S, but it was only MouthAction or kissing, no penetraton."
"Then you were economical with the truth, IFA sees everything. It was during one of these encounters that your Ori was exchanged for bad luck. Your life is upside down not so? You've experienced several unexplained ill luck not so?"
"Yes baba, you're absolutely correct" I said, with dried saliva in my mouth.

"Another thing you failed to disclose while complaining on Whatsapp was that you gained a lot from S. A lot of factors caused S to find a new love interest. S has been under pressure from friends to settled down. There are some things you should have done to keep S, which you failed to do, for instance..."

He went on and on. My hopes of getting my revenge began to fade.
"If S is not destined for me, then I want the new found relationship destroyed." I moaned.
"IFA says you shouldn't do a revenge spell. They recommend you let sleeping dogs lie"

Na wah o. When did the gods become so benevolent to abandonment? Is karma dead? I mused.

At this point my tongue felt like paper.
"Revenge spell against S has to be monthly because S has a strong sixth sense. S will sense the spell and fight back".

Dear reader, my doubts about Baba's words wore down. It might interest you to note that S practises voodoo.

"Ok Baba, is there no hope? I want S back."
"Yes you will get S back, it has to be done through a love spell."
"Ok, what is it going to cost me?"

He named it.
"Truth is I'm so broke without a job. I have nothing on me."
"There's one thing you need to know about African Traditional Religion. It costs money. If you can't afford it and you aren't brave enough, you can try Christianity or Islam. Its up to you. IFA says you don't have a tough heart."

Well he was right anyway. Everyone including my family thinks I'm hard. But I've managed to conceal my heart of a chicken from everyone all my life.

"You will also need to have a spiritual bath in my shrine as part of the love spell ceremony and to restore your exchanged Ori, and also because you're an ogbanje. You ought to have died long ago, on several occasions, but the orishas have been keeping you. Olokun showed up during your divination. You also need to do your ogbanje. This is not child's play. It's the bedrock of most of your adult life's misfortunes."

Omo na wa o!. Which kain wahala be dis? I started to regret the phone call altogether.

"Baba so you mean I should come to Benin from Lagos to do the spiritual bath ceremony? "

"I told you earlier, ATR costs money. Yes you must come to Benin. Ceremony won't take more than an hour. You can return to Lagos same day if you please. This is a custom spell for your own case. If you don't conduct the bath, the love spell will 60% chances of success".

" Ok baba, ill see what I can do to get the funds for this trip, ill come very soon to get this done. I really need S back. I love S so much. We've been through so much together. I'm willing to go through this to get S back in my life. I won't give up without a try. S must have a change of heart. The gods will do this."

"Ase!"

ThEGodFaThEr104:
Their immorality is our business because it has a direct or indirect negative effects on the society.
If characters like this are left unchecked, our children and the next generation to come will pay for our lackadaisical attitude.
What happens when you have a male child and one day he comes to you and say mama "I I love boys"?.

MrBrownJay1:
whether illiterate or intelligent women, some insult (whichever they may be) hurt people deeply, thus they act upon it violently. these women know exactly that and thats why they utter these insults. who are we kidding?

now yes, men should just dismiss these insults and walk away, but we all know that all men are not made equal...so, how Ibrahim reacts to these insults can be different than how Jide does, let alone Chinedu.

MrBrownJay1:
calling a straight man gay is the ultimate insult to a man.... and some dude take such insult seriously because you are reaching deep into their ego, especially when you know how Africans view these tutti fruttis!

some women out there are quick to throw insults at men knowing fully well how much they hurt men's ego. "gay", "rapist", "wife beater", "small dikc", "you cant fukc" etc is all the fake lies and insult they are quick to use senselessly. to some men out there, this aint no joking matter

luminouz:
Lies lies and mudafuckin lies

IfGodbeforus:
What sort of nonsense is this? Lalasticlala must see this.

luminouz:
Sango was a dreadlocker for fuq sakes. I was born same and my hair was braided till I was like 10 years old. I also looked feminine till I grew my beards. Did those make me a homosexual?

All the research I made never pointed to Sango as such. Ain't it funny that it's Oyinbo who never knew our REAL history that will make such reports and your ass will believe that shiit?

chatinent:
I was amazed how he acted gay so bad.

slimghost:
As a health worker, she only highlighted the health dangers of gay males. That’s not homophobia.
The world has really gone nuts!

Skynet55:
Lalasticlala, Dominque farano abeg advice me next action to take I won break this boy head this night

damosky12:
This happens more often than people think... But the society doesn't take it as serious as they should.

Kingcalls:
I agree with u...women should be put in their place... they are causing more harm than good... they are just everywhere trying to bring down great men.... alot of men are turning gay because of that evil gender...alot of men are refusing to marry because of that evil gender and its part of the devils plan...the devil is certainly a woman...Lucy is the short form of lucifer

tnerro1:
Male rapists are the worse, an abomination to human kind.

tnerro1:
This is why gay men should be hunted down before they can do any harm to others

Randy100:
When we tell them to behave, they will say, I can do what makes me happy. I'm happy for her marrying herself. If she is happy, we are happy for her. I hope she impregnate herself. Yeye

Seniorwriter:
I always say that all queer sex oriented peeps are sick and demonic.


Pinned.
Are you a fencer because in some queer stories posted on front pages, you defend them?






Our NPF going about with what they are mostly known for >>> Arresting the innocent

@SENIORWRITER

tnerro1:
Maybe tonto should try loving a woman, you never can tell, she might find the love she is desperately looking for

Any gay motherfucker man way like this post , na thunder go fire am

Nonexisting1:
And Chioma, an olosho that go about fuccking every available dick without condom has a nice history? Why do you think Davido dumped her ass?

kokoA:
Guy, weda you're receiving gbola in your yansh o or you're dipping gbola in another man's yansh is none of my business..It's your yansh and gbola not mine. Just stop disturbing us on Social Media abeg.

Fahdiga:
Fat Olosho