₦airaland Forum

This is one of the reasons women should learn to be financially independent.. most of them in abusive relationships and marriages stay put because the men are the ones providing the money and footing all the bills.
The man that did this to her should be arrested and prosecuted.
Stop domestic violence!!

Most of our people talk as if they are not learned.. VGC is made up of wealthy Yorubas and non-Yorubas alike and is not an Igbo dominated area. Attimes they see SSners from Delta, Akwa-ibom, Cross river, Rivers etc. and assume they are Igbos which is false.

The rubbish is coming from an Ondo man, probably Akeredolu's Igbo wife handbag so he's bound to talk anyhow afterall Igbos have taken over Ondo state govt. house and its finances.

@OP Why not just storm INEC office with your fellow Igbos to declare Peter Obi or whoever as president without election if dem born una well..

As far as we are in a democracy, majority carries the vote and my SW will contest and win with landslide victory.

You no consult Okike Alabama?

Like Okorocha like Ngige.. comedians.

Why is she asking for 50k biko?.. na some people monthly salary the girl wan make in one night.

Kwestionair:
You know they will talk if truly it were IPOB killing people and burning down their villages.
They know who the terrorists are, “The Nigerian Government “ and you know what will happen to them if they try to voice out or criticize the government.
I’ll always say it, Igbos are not foolish. We know what is going on. Shame on all of you supporting this government to kill and burn down villages and render grandmas and grandpas helpless and homeless.

Shame on you and your people for supporting Kanu's madness despite warnings from people like us..

Those killing people in the East are Igbos like you that have been brainwashed and have split into factions and groups controlled by the likes of Simon Ekpa.. in your obvious victim mentality, you think others are the ones doing you when infact you're the ones doing yourselves.

Shebi Ohaneze has started issuing threats that there'll be more deaths and killings in the East after 2023 with your likes keeping quiet.. Don't worry, when they make do their threats, we'll be around to remind you.. open mouth wa say na FG and DSS dey kill them. who da fvck do you think you are?

Let me just answer you and ignore the pettiness in your writeup.

1. APC ticket is for the SW.. sealed! no two ways about it.

2. PDP will sideline Igbos for Atiku in the end because of the votes Atiku will give the party in the North. Peter Obi or whoever from the East translates to sure deafeat for PDP in 2023. They won't even consider SE for VP slot, I see Wike taking that slot.

Now to your question.. Yorubas will vote SW candidacy in APC and I'm sure SS (most if not all) will vote for the Southern APC candidate from SW over another Fulani. In summary, we'll likely see a repeat of 1993 elections that M.K.O Abiola won in a landslide victory even without Igbos support.

In Benue.. Fulani Militias are killing them and using them for suya according to you.

In SE from Abia to Anambra to Imo to Enugu to Ebonyi.. IPOB/UGM are killing fellow Igbos, Fulani militia and herdsmen are killing, brothers are killing brothers in communal clashes in Ebonyi.

You sef check am well.. which is worse? Instead of you to hide your head in shame and be crying, you're busy trolling opposition voices on Nairaland.

You won't see that unfortunate Dj sWITCH or Peter Okoye or Linda stink Ikeji voice out over the incessant killings by IPOBs in the East.. it's how to attack and deride Yoruba youths and politicians in SW they know. Awon eyan adanu, eyan lasan lasan. Shioor!

Haters will be put to shame..
PYO is a good man, a wise son of SW who doesn't place outsiders above his own people to prove a point or attract love from natural haters. This alone endears him to most of us than the other man foisting likes of Joe Igbokwe on Lagos when Yorubas and Lagos indigenes are there.
Whoever gets the ticket in APC from SW is who our people will support

The Ohaneze blackmailers are already doing it free of charge.. I have no doubt that they are acting the script of Fulanis hoping Atiku, Tambuwal and co. will get easy ride to Aso rock once Tinubu and PYO backs out but they will fail as always. Traitors!

They staged EndSars and LekkiLies in Lagos just to discredit SW politicians, not like they care about youths if not the same Saraki, Atiku would have voiced out over the Abuja-Kaduna train attack that killed several train passangers, injured many with several others abducted.

Yoruba ronu!

The girl is not mature yet for a relationship.. she is yet to experience life at that age so we can't blame her much.
For the guy to leave his phone unlocked with her shows he has nothing to hide but the girl finds it difficult to do same, that says a lot.

Dorwadora:
On the contrary... The humanity in him was not totally gone .... He never had sex with me... But money, time, food..... Nigga took advantage of the naive, omo mummy 18 years old me. I work like mad.... Scrub jeans tire

You mean am?.. that kind of guy is very rare. As you don dey scrub jeans na, dey cook better meals, you suppose dey sweat under fan insyd his room.
Your story cracked me up tho.. nice one.

When you hear domestic violence, what comes to your mind?

Majority of domestic violence cases result from emotional and verbal abuse from the wives directed at their husbands, others result from poor upbringing and anger issues on the man's part.

Can you really pin point who to blame when you are not living with the couple in their matrimonial home? I doubt.

The guy get long pr3ek, na why OP go n0n0.. food taking time to prepare food with fried dodo for a real OG

headbasher96:
Baba na hookup transport them send for u like that o release that money and see her travel to deliver material to the said guy

Oshey.. tfare for her to go and deliver the cloths and herself by herself to the guy.

Why are women like this? she just want to keep the OP in the lo0p so he won't cry foul or suspect a thing when he finds out about her trip to the bestie's crib.. her response will be like, but I informed you dear and it's just cloths I went there to deliver.

@OP You said he still comes to pass the night in your house in Lagos while you're away at work on night shift and you're married.. what for if I may ask? hotel or guest house no dey where he can lodge??

Guy, talk to your wife o.. this your friend go fit toast and knack her in your absence.. that's if he hasn't done it already.
Seems his eye is always entering anything that is yours.. some people dey like that.

The bestie asked you twice if you've received the money, you said yes but told your girlfriend no twice.. Don't you know the two of them are also communicating?

@OP comrade talk to us.. na so the thing pain you enter body?

I'll advise you to still keep your cool, give her the money and watch what she'll do with it. Always hope for the best but expect the worse and prepare for life after she's gone, just in case you decide to quit the relationship.

Emergingnation3:
And yet you has been fighting to keep your Imaginery biggest enemy in Nigeria against their very will...

Me fight to keep Igbo in Nigeria? God forbid.
Let your madness end in the East, don't cross your lane into my own ancestral lands. dazzal for now.

Jackson105:
Stop convulsing, no one cares what happen in your region, you can all kill yourself, no one give a fvck, but if you people try to extend outside SE then you all be ready to be wiped out

They will try to attack SW just like Ojukwu did during civil war but was stopped and several of them killed at Ore.. let them attempt it again, they'll meet us there.

seunmsg:
Another disgraceful message from Ohaneze. Ipob is busy killing innocent people in the South east but Ohaneze’s only headache is how to stop Osinbajo and Tinubu from becoming president.

Tambuwal is Fulani from the north west, the same region that produced Yaradua and Buhari. He is a leading candidate for president on the PDP platform and Ohaneze has never attacked him or ask him to step out of the race for an Igbo candidate.

Atiku is a Fulani man from the north east. He shares the same ethnicity with the incumbent president. He had previously served as Vice President and supported Buhari heavily for president in 2015. Despite all these, Ohaneze supported him massively for president in 2019 without caring about Igbo presidency. He has declared for president again instead of supporting an Igbo candidate but Ohaneze has not seen anything bad in his declaration. They only have a problem with the Yorubas in the race for president.

Even in the south, Amaechi has declared for president. He’s from the south south just like Goodluck Jonathan, the last southerner that occupied the presidential office of Nigeria. Ohaneze has no problem with Amaechi’s ambition. It doesn’t matter if South south recently occupied the position. The only people that must not contest for president are the Yorubas.

Good enough, they are not God. Majority of sensible Nigerians from all zones will decide who becomes president and not some bigoted and inconsequential 5% noisemakers. Tinubu and Osinbajo will not step down for any Yoruba hater and we shall support any of them that wins the APC ticket.

Any region that wants to burn can burn for all I care. The rest of Nigeria will not be blackmailed into handing over presidential power to some hate filled folks simply because they are killing and burning properties in their region.

The biggest enemies of the Yoruba race are the Igbos.. it's now clear for the whole world to see.
Asides a few reasonable ones among them, the rest are just not it.

We must start a movement that no Yoruba son or daughter should cast vote for Peter Obi, Uzor Kalu, Dave Umahi, Anyim or whoever is contesting from SE. An eye for an eye.
Glad our people are waking up to see the realities on ground. By God's grace, power will shift South in 2023 and SE won't smell that seat.

Opolopoopolonio:
Shame on piggiddiootts

Why not threaten Atiku from the north whose Fulani brother is about completing his 8 years for trying to contest

Why did they support GEJ in 2011 and 2015 when it was the turn of the north

Piggiddioott amaka

Dem fit face Atiku?.. recently Atiku launched campaign in the East and the Ohaneze blackmailers went MIA.

First it was Tinubu, now they have added Osinbajo to their politics of hate. It's our people that allowed them sha.. not really their fault.

Rihanna and heartbreaks.. at least she will give birth to her own child soon, then she can rest.

We know SE won't support Tinubu or Osinbajo candidacy just like they opppsed M.K.O Abiola and Olu Falae.. tell us something new.

Nobody has monopoly of hatred. . SW won't support any SE candidate now or in future. Two can play the game. Awon eleya.

Influx of migrants from Abia and the likes have defaced Lagos jare.. awon ati oko wa ba ile je.

Pollution everywhere, illegal buildings on drainage and water ways are now very rampant.
Our leaders are sleeping.

koning:
You are unbeliveably naive. For most women cheating is a question of opportunity and strong temptation. If you leave a catholic nun alone in a house with a man for 1 year, something might and would happen. You will be shocked to know what goes on behind people's closed doors.

For the Op, no matter how decent you think your wife is, DO NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH YOUR COUSIN FOR A LONG TIME. Like most Nigerians claim, the "Devil" will work on them.
Either you get him another accommodation or you bring in another man or woman into the house.

I year kwa.. just 2-3 days in a house together is enough time for male and female to knack.
It's even more risky for a married woman that has been enjoying constant knacks from her husband to be left alone with another male while the husband is far away in UK.. just the hunger for sex alone will make one thing lead to the other and like play it'll happen between them and continue for as long as possible. Maybe when he returns, he'll meet twins or triplets from the wife and cousin's collabo

@OP Call your cousin, sit him down and tell him he has to move cos you ain't comfortable leaving your wife with another man under the same roof while you are away in the UK.. he should understand and if he doesn't, let him fvck off. you've tried enough for his grown ass. Highest you'll do is help him with some change to go rent a room apartment elsewhere.

If you do mistake and leave your wife with a 30yrs+ man, he'll fvck her even more than you do weekly.. the best thing is for everyone to respect themselves and I mean you, your wife and the cousin bro. Ire o!

dawnomike:
Obiano milked that state dry

'Milked the state dry' is an understatement.. Obiano and his wife plunged the state into debt that Soludo will spend all his years as governor trying to repay.

christistruth01:
Well done

I was discussing this just today with Someone


It was Major Ifeajuna that refused to let Ademoyega deal with Gen Ironsi and sent him to the Telephone exchange instead

This is the truth Igbos don't want people to know.. Had it been Ifeajuna didn't stop Ademoyega from his mission of eliminating Aguiyi Ironsi, maybe Nigerians wouldn't have termed it an Igbo coup..

The North saw the plot and killed Ironsi in retaliation, his Northern ADC in the person of T.Y. Danjuma did the job.

Igbos always feel they are wiser than everybody but life is calculation not by gra gra or chestbeating.

She must be tried and jailed.. this is why it is difficult attimes to believe rape stories from the Eve gender, anything is possible with them.

My wild guess is that she had issues with a guy, maybe her boyfriend and decided to lie on his head but had to change mouth when she saw the reactions it generated. The authorities should teach her a lesson she'll never forget.