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Politics › Re: Cross-river North: Jarigbe Agom Affirmed As. PDP Candidate By Court by fof1: 5:24pm On Aug 14, 2021
lecowas:
Where is everybody ? Abi rapture don happen ni , this post since 5 minutes ago and no one to comment
IS EVERYTHING A JOKE TO YOU? IF U DO NOT GENUINELY REPENT TO FOLLOW THE MASTER...RAPTURE WILL SURPRISE YOU. HELL FIRE IS REAL MY DR.
Crime › Re: Noel Njoku, Nigerian Driver Shot Dead While Delivering Food In USA (Picture) by fof1: 1:57pm On Aug 14, 2021
Fahdiga:
He was probably shot by a fellow Nigerian
PLS KEEP UR ILL-TIMED ASSUMPTIONS TO UR SELF. THE US FBI/SY SYSTEMS WILL FISH OUT D CRIMINALS... HATERS OF BLACKS ABOUNDS IN AMERICA....MAY HIS INNOCENT SOUL RIP
Family › Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by fof1: 9:10pm On Aug 13, 2021
WoundedLamb:
That's actually a figurative statement. If hitting kids with rod makes them better adults, Africa would have been producing the best humans. I believe a child raised without being hit like an animal has a higher tendency of being honest, open and compassionate.
IT IS NOT FIGURATIVE...AND IT DOESN'T MEAN U SHOULD HIT D CHILD WITH A ROD. MODERATION IS REQUIRED IN ALL THINGS... DISCIPLINE IS NOT BEATING D CHILD WHEN CAUGHT IN ERROR,PLS. COMMUNICATIONS AND CORRECTIONS, PERSUASION AND LOVE ARE ALL INVOLVED IN D PROCESSES TO MAKE A WHOLE BEING... THE UNICEF CAN NOT TELL US BETTER THAN THE BIBLE,PLS.
Romance › Re: She Says She Won't Marry Me If I Don't Go For NYSC. See Reasons. by fof1: 8:52pm On Aug 13, 2021
AreaGovo:
Greetings to you all. Let's have a small family meeting.

Based on my course of study, I have mapped out plans and strategies (blueprint) on setting up my firm where I'll do my private practice once I'm stable economically. By God's grace, in the future, I see government and even private firms coming to seek my services as a technocrat cum consultant in that field. But my woman (fiancée) is saying those who didn't serve and receive NYSC discharged are not regarded as graduates even though they've exemption letter citing discrimination and even example coming from her uncle of how people were disqualified from appointment for not having NYSC discharged. Please how true is that submission of hers? Does such discrimination actually exist in government and private organizations?

Below are my reasons for not desiring to serve. First, I'm above 30. Second, not really freak about the NYSC of thing. Third, at the moment, I'm unemployed but applicant. Fourth, I don't want to waste another one year when I should be hunting "cool cash" instead of 33k. Fifth, even if I want to start going back to do all those age forgery stuff and the rest, like I said, a jobless/applicant like me can't boast of 70k (or even more) to start running all those stuff but she's hell bent I serve. Is NYSC really such a big deal?

What advice do you have to offer? I'll appreciate.
NOT NECESSARY IF U ARE ABOVE D AGE REQUIRED, PLS. THE NYSC WILL FORMALLY GIVE YOU EXEMTION LETTER ON GROUNDS OF AGE AND THAT IS ENOUGH FOR ANY GOVERNMENT APPOINTMENT OR EMPLOYMENT PURPOSES,PLS. SHE NEEDS TO BE INFORMED PROPERLY. PURSUE UR DREAM. MY BROTHER.
Health › Re: My HIV Test Result - The Shock Of My Life by fof1: 5:29pm On Aug 13, 2021
EMILO2STAY:
HIV is a scam
, to scare you into taking the real killer a. r. v. a virus cannot cause immune deficiency.
Self Deception runs in ur Vein...
Politics › Re: How Abba Kyari’s Police Team Extorted N1M Each From Suspected IPOB Members - SR by fof1: 6:40pm On Aug 12, 2021
dre11:
How Disgraced Abba Kyari’s Police Team Extorted N1Million Each From Suspected IPOB Members



http://saharareporters.com/2021/08/12/exposed-how-disgraced-abba-kyari%E2%80%99s-police-team-extorted-n1million-each-suspected-ipob
THEY MUST ALL PAY FOR THEIR CRIMES AND WICKEDNESS METED OUT TO INNOCENT SOUTH EASTERNERS...GOD PUNISHED ALL POLICE MURDEROUS TEAMS IN NIGERIA...
Family › Re: Kola Edokpayi Hails Man Marrying 2 Women A Day 'To Avoid Being Chidinmanized' by fof1: 6:30pm On Aug 12, 2021
Kriss216:
Nigerian girls are naturally cheap, forget polygamy.

Flash money and watch them worship you. Two at a time, no shame undecided

Tufiakwa!
As they are Cheap...how many do U Cater For,Pls?
Travel › Re: First Commercial Flight Lands At Bayelsa Airport by fof1: 2:38pm On Aug 12, 2021
Jones4190:
What Jonathan can't do for his people buhari is doing it.

God bless professor of language
You are Sick O...! Is this Buhari Project? This is Bayelsa State Project Pls. Fully executed by DICKSON
Politics › Re: Osinbajo: Bonny, Warri, Ibom Deep Seaports To Commence Operations Soon by fof1: 2:09pm On Aug 12, 2021
TheRareGem1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/bonny-warri-ibom-deep-seaports-to-commence-operations-soon-osinbajo/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter
PLS DOES THE VP KNOWS WHAT HE IS SAYING ON D ABOVE PROJECTS OR HE IS DOING A POLITICAL RECAP FOR D ERA,PLS.
Education › Re: Classrooms In Rivers State Schools - BBC Yoruba Shares Shocking Pictures by fof1: 2:06pm On Aug 12, 2021
Biodun556:
If the same pressure we mount federal government is applied to state governors, Nigeria will be better.
I think Something is Obviously Wrong with biodun556... U are Painting an Untrue Scenario,Pls
Agriculture › Re: Imo Woman With Giant Cassava Tuber She Harvested From Her Farm (Photo) by fof1: 2:00pm On Aug 12, 2021
Guyman02:
That thing don become tree branch no be Cassava again, it has undergone metamorphosis shocked
Lazy Farmers everywhere...Go and Learn how to Farm,Pls
Politics › Re: Chinonso Uba On Burnt Hotel: Abba Kyari's IRT Cleared Me Of Sponsoring IPOB by fof1: 1:18pm On Aug 11, 2021
attackgat:
Some of you may remember the picture below from a few days ago when the Commissioner of Police Imo state, Abutu Yaro, paraded over 20 men and claimed they were IPOB/ESN members arrested in a Hotel in Orlu. He also claimed that the owner of the Hotel was sponsoring IPOB. What they never told you is that the security forces invaded the Hotel, randomly arrested the 20 men, burnt the Hotel down, burnt shops around the premises, and moved further down to burn the home of the owner of the Hotel. All this after investigating and clearing the Hotel owner of any wrong doing. Story is below



https://punchng.com/kyari-irt-probed-cleared-me-of-sponsoring-ipob-says-owner-of-imo-hotel-burnt-by-security-agents/
Taro Abutu will Suffer for this...Miscarriage of Justice...and Arson
Politics › Re: Plateau Massacre: Buhari Orders Military To Kill Illegal Weapon Holders by fof1: 1:54pm On Aug 10, 2021
Businesslist:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/08/10/plateaumassacre-buhari-orders-military-to-kill-illegal-weapon-holders/
THIS IS D HIGHEST LEVEL OF WICKEDNESS AND BLOODBATH...IF THE WEAPON WIELDING FULANI HERDSMEN ARE NOT GUNNED DOWN IN THIS ORDER,RATHER THAN D NATIVES. GOD WILL JUDGE BUHARI AND HIS COLLABORATORS IN NIGERIA... O GOD,ARISE FOR THE AFFLICTED AND TURN THIS WAR UPON THE HEADS OF ANY BLOOD THIRSTY MURDERERS...INCLUDING THE NIGERIA ARMY PERPETRATORS.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Moses Adeeyo Accused Of Marrying Church Member's Wife In Rivers by fof1: 10:31pm On Aug 09, 2021
aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

A man identified as Bright Ben has taken to social media to accuse the General Overseer of World Bank Assembly, Pastor Moses Adeeyo of 'snatching' his wife and kids, POLITICS NIGERIA has learned.

Ben, in a statement on his Facebook page, revealed that he was a full financial member of the church alongside his wife, Mrs. Tina Bright nee Everest, and they had been attending the church for a while.

He alleged that trouble started after his wife was given an 'appointment' and she quietly moved out of the house with their two children. He claims that he had been searching for her adding that he even called pastor Adeeyo to seek advice on the matter but at a point the pastor allegedly seized picking up his calls and blocked his line.

Mr. Ben stated that he found out about his wife's whereabouts on Sunday after seeing pictures of Pastor Adeeyo's marriage to Tina. Bright and Tina have been married for 12 years.

https://politicsnigeria.com/popular-pastor-in-hot-water-for-marrying-church-members-wife-in-rivers-photos/



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=996692707764969&id=100022727478100
WOMEN AND DIRTY LIFESTYLE IS UNIMAGINABLE...HE HAD BEEN FUCKING HER SINCE BEFORE GIVING HER CHURCH APPOINTMENT...DECEITS OF LUCIFER...THAT CHURCH IS A DELUDED SATAN INSPIRED ASSEMBLY...IT IS NOT A TRUE CHURCH OF GOD,AS THE ACTS ARE COMPLETELY AGAINST GOD'S REVEALED WORD...MOSES ADEEYO IS LIEING AGAINST THE HOLY SPIRIT OF GOD...
Politics › Re: Governor Ugwuanyi Arrives Venue Of Emergency PDP Governor's Forum Meeting by fof1: 3:59pm On Aug 09, 2021
Built2last:
The guys on the pay cheque of this governor in this forum are working so hard to be paid this month. e remain to tell us that governor Ugwuanyi just came down from on top his wife after drilling the wife's congo
Whose Pay Check are You? This is how U Flaunt Ur Stupidity in Public and get Disdainful Looks...Pls get refined.
Food › Re: This Breakfast I Gave My Husband by fof1: 5:39pm On Aug 08, 2021
Rozcol:
I'm not married but already tired with the mere thought of going to cook everyday for a husband, God knows I can't survive without several housemaids
Laziness on Display... and Derelict attitude being Groomed
Christianity Etc › Re: Reno Omokri: What Boko Haram Is Doing, The Church Did 10 Times Worse by fof1: 7:08am On Aug 08, 2021
JEWELofHELL:
Previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/6691128/unbiblical-pray-jesus-reno-omokri



Source:

Start from 37:58


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2QURC7y6Tcw
These Fellows are Confused and Seeking Relevance in Public Spaces. Should we REPEAT History? If the Church Did such Atrocities in d Medieval Times, Should we Sustain Such Barbarism in d 21st Century Civilised Democratic Era of d Society? IT DOESN'T COUNT AT ALL TO GOOD REASONINGS AND ARGUMENTS, PLS. Blood Letting Attracts Eternal Damnation Except Such Fellows are RECONCILED WITH THEIR MAKER AND CREATOR. ALL that Spill Blood in d Name of God and Religion or for Whatever Cause will answer for it. Be Warned and REPENT OF MURDER TODAY,PLS. HELL FIRE IS REAL.
Romance › Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by fof1: 7:25pm On Aug 07, 2021
GOFRONT:
Tufiakwa!!!
Na wao....wetin remain wey musa never see for gate arena.....

We are now in an era when Fathers find sexual pleasure in their own daughter.

A world where Guys have sex with the younger sister of their brother's wife...

A world where sibling sex eachother...

A world where Uncle sees the puna of his Niece as the world best puna to have a taste..

A world where so many people see nothing wrong when cousins sex themselves.....

Well, let us wait on Righteousness89 to come and tell us if all these are signs of endtime or Not!!
UR CONSCIENCE SPEAKS TRUTH...ALL U HAVE LISTED ARE ABOMINATIONS NOW OR BEFORE...SIN B4 GOD AND OUR CONSCIENCES STATES D OBVIOUS...PLS.
Health › Re: Stop Breastfeeding Your Husbands, Breast Milk Is For Babies - Commissioner by fof1: 1:08pm On Aug 07, 2021
Omicron007:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/stop-breastfeeding-your-husbands-breast-milk-is-for-babies-nnaji-tells-women/amp/
Which Kind of Native Baby Husbands that Sucks his Wife's Breast for Milk...He must be Sick indeed.
Family › Re: Is It Right Or Wrong? Picture by fof1: 12:45pm On Aug 07, 2021
MEGA4BILLION:
Wrong in the view of those that tie wrappers and right in the view of those that wear trousers and bum short
Very REAL Indeed
Family › Re: Is It Right Or Wrong? Picture by fof1: 12:44pm On Aug 07, 2021
Virus99:
Why are the children covering their faces ? This is not 19960 plssssss... Why should they even have to cover their face ? That's the only hypocrisy I see here. The children knows their parents are adults for God sake !!!

This is a President in front of his 2 daughters and the whole world !!!

Why should we always be goddamn hypocrite in this country
Keep Deceiving Urselves. Africa is Africa...Modesty and Chastity is here and it does mean being Primitive...Westernization is Breeding Incest in Our time more than ever b4. PROMISCUITY ABOUNDS BCOZ OF THIS OVER INDULGENCE. Always teach d Right Morals and Let Children Grow into it as Age beckons,Pls.
Politics › Re: Imagine A Nigeria Without DSS - Solomon Semaka by fof1: 11:50pm On Aug 06, 2021
Techguy96:
Rubbish.
DSS don't do shit in Nigeria, they are just there to do the bidding of their oga at the top
Ur Post Exposes Ur Grand IGNORANCE Pls.
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari: DSS Writes Segun Adeniyi; Warns Against Denigrating Secret Police by fof1: 9:22am On Aug 05, 2021
sapientia:
Why is it that DSS lies so much shamelessly

Tueh
PLS STATE THE TRUTH HERE FOR ALL OF US TO READ I BEG... THIS ONE NA OUR CORNER BO.
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari Sent His Photos To Hushpuppi - FBI (Pictures) by fof1: 6:28pm On Jul 31, 2021
Northernblood3:
FBI Reveals How Abba Kyari Sent His Photos To Hushpuppi
GREEDY AGGRANDISEMENT. HYPED SPECIAL COP LACKING TRUE WORK ETIQUETTE...SUCH IF NOT TAMED WILL BE COME IG CONTINUING OFFICIAL CORRUPTION.
Politics › Re: Bashir Magashi Blames Monarchs, Clerics For Insecurity by fof1: 3:41pm On Jul 30, 2021
Insidenaijasblo:
https://punchng.com/defence-minister-blames-monarchs-clerics-for-insecurity-says-troops-compromised/
VERY UNSERIOUS OLD BRIGADES ON PARADE...YOU CAN THINK AND PERFORM, THEN QUIT THE POST. NO TIME FIR BLAME GAME ASSOCIATED WITH APC RULERSHIP...
Politics › Re: Kperogi: There Was Always Something Suspicious About Abba Kyari by fof1: 9:09pm On Jul 29, 2021
fergie0o1:
Farooq Kperogi
ANY POLICEMAN OR OFFICER WHO IS OUTSTANDING ALWAYS HAS A BAD HIDDEN SIDE THAT SELF CONSUMING... REMEMBER ROUGE IG DISMISSED BY OBJ... HE WAS ACCLAIMED EARLIER B4 HIS ABYSMAL END. THEY DO SEVERAL DIRTY JOBS UNDER COVER AND LINE THEIR POCKETS QUIETLY UNTIL OR EXCEPT EXPOSED. IT TAKES GRACE TO BE AND EXIT CLEAN SHEET,PLS.
Politics › Re: DSS Releases Israeli Film Makers Arrested Over Reported Ties To IPOB by fof1: 12:14pm On Jul 29, 2021
EdoFirstBorn:
We all saw this coming.

But who will pay for all the DStv they watched , internet they browsed and KFC chicken that DSS has been feeding them?

If they were Nigerians now it's watery beans they would have been eating
PLS DID U READ D POST? OTHERWISE, U WILL NOT HAVE WRITTEN THIS LIES U POSTED HERE... WHICH CHICKEN DID THEY EAT? THE JEWISH COMMUNITY PROVIDED THEIR SPECIAL FOODS FOR THEM...PLS. ALWAYS LEARN TO BE TRUTHFUL.
Politics › Re: Court Acquits, Discharges El-Zakzaky And Wife, Orders Immediate Release by fof1: 11:15pm On Jul 28, 2021
Nonpartisan1:
We will still appeal the case to the Supreme Court..No space for terrorists in Nigeria.
I think U are not Sick?
Celebrities › Re: Kelly Clarkson Ordered To Pay Brandon Blackstock N100m Monthly In Child Support by fof1: 11:03pm On Jul 28, 2021
WriterNig:
American Singer Kelly Clarkson has been ordered to pay her ex-husband Brandon Blackstock $200,000 (N100 million) per month in spousal and child support.

A Los Angeles County judge handed down the order Tuesday that Clarkson give Blackstock $150,000 per month in spousal support, as well as $45,601 per month in child support, People has learned.

The arrangement means that Blackstock (her ex husband), 43, will receive $195,601 in total from Clarkson each month, or roughly $2.4 million per year. The order also requires the singer to pay $1.25 million towards her estranged husband's attorney fees and costs for their ongoing divorce.

A source previously told People that Blackstock had been aiming for more than double the amount in support, requesting that Clarkson pay him $436,000 per month ($301,000 in spousal support and $135,000 in child support).

Clarkson is being represented by celebrity attorney Laura Wasser, who recently launched It's Over Easy. The service helps streamline the divorce process for individuals who might not be able to obtain her services otherwise.

A source previously told People that Blackstock had been aiming for more than double that amount, requesting that Clarkson pay him $436,000 per month

Clarkson filed for divorce in June 2020 after seven years of marriage.

Earlier this month, Clarkson appealed for a judge to officially sign off on her divorce, leaving other arrangements such as spousal and child support for a later date.

In a declaration to the court obtained by People, Clarkson reasoned that she and Blackstock "both deserve the opportunity to build a new life."

Back in November, an L.A. County judge granted Clarkson primary physical custody of their children River Rose, 6, and Remington Alexander, 4.

A source close to the family told People at the time that Clarkson is "pleased" by the custody ruling and that her priority is to protect her children.

"As Kelly has said, her first priority in all of this is to take care of the kids and all the hearts that are involved in this divorce," a second source said. "It's been a hard time for everyone, but Kelly's pleased with the court's ruling regarding custody."

"Divorce is hard and it gets tense for most couples going through it. But Kelly's primary focus is on doing the best she can to protect the kids," the source added. "In this case, she had to fight for them since Brandon and his attorneys were making unreasonable requests."
RUBBISH AMERICAN LIFESTYLE ON PARADE
Travel › Re: Bonny-Bille-Nembe Jetty Port Harcourt In Pictures (Video) by fof1: 4:50pm On Jul 27, 2021
koondog:
Look at how jet black skin they are like Yorubas. These are majority Ijaws. The day I went to Nembe, I was shocked to how dark skin they are like south sudanese and Senegalese, and I kept asking the people with me, who are these people for God in Heaven? They don't look like native easterners at all, they look very different, more like Yorubas. I was told the Ijaws in present day Bayelsa and Ondo border edfrom mixing with Yorubas had migrated to WellNembe years ago. I said no wonder, they can't be native as they look different from Easterners native.
You Lied and Truly You Didn't See Well,Pls...
Crime › Re: Single Dad Commits Suicide After Being Tricked Into Sending £500 To Woman (Pix) by fof1: 5:06pm On Jul 25, 2021
Holiness2100:
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/15676924/dad-took-life-tricked-online-romance-scam/amp/
RUBBISH... FRUSTRATED WALSH MAN. WHY TAKE UR LIFE because OF LOVE SCAM OR TOKEN SMALL MONEY...LIFE GOES ON ...MAY HIS SOUL RIP
Family › Re: Help! An Unwanted Pregnancy Is Ruining My Life. by fof1: 11:13pm On Jul 24, 2021
Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.
SAD BUT NOT TOTALLY LOST. GOD CAN RECOVER YOU. BE TRUTHFUL TO URSELF. ERROR IS DONE ALREADY. SUPPORT THE GIRL TO DELIVER SAFELY FIRST. LIFE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN PROGRESS. WHILE ALIVE, SEEK PEACEFUL PURSUITS OF LIFE'S GOALS, PLS. DO NOT DENY UR BLOOD. GOD HELP U OUT OF THIS SHAME.

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