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FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:51pm On Apr 28, 2023
SeriouslySense:
I only help people who need really assistance or who need upliftment. And sometimes, i help to see, how i can be a form of blessing to those in need, but for selfish friends or family, who see one as a free bank account, and a cheap source of money for free capitals, its a no no.

I learnt to detect more deception from their mannerisms abi approaches grin grin
Yeah. I help people who really need assistance, upliftment or whatever, just to cheer and put a smile on their face. I'm always happy whenever I can help.

Lol. One supposed friend wanted to try that too but I don't have that one's time.

I am very observant and so I'd know from their approaches.

I don't even like when people take advantage of kind people at all.
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:35pm On Apr 28, 2023
SeriouslySense:
Nigerians just like problems. No conscience at all, had the money but just wanted to spend it for herself, so she will enjoy free money from another person, because to them, that person does not value his money, but they are smart and value it more.

No wonder everything is not working, very heartless human beings. smiley smiley grin grin

a lot of them, don't like paying loan apps, thank God for loan apps, for exposing their greed cheesy cheesy
Honestly oh. Some Nigerians ehn, their conscience have been seared with a hot iron. Them nor even get heart at all.

How can someone lend you money in good faith and you feel because the person isn't disturbing you means you outsmarted the person. I don't even understand that stinking mentality at all.

A lot of Nigerians don't like paying loans at all. Sometimes I used to wonder if all these credit loans that work abroad come to this country ehn, they'd fold up in 6months!
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:23pm On Apr 28, 2023
SeriouslySense:
So she had the money, but just wanted to keep it, and have abundant capital and free resources at the expense of others.

Whenever i collect something from anyone, i quickly give them back as soon as i can, i can not be comfortable tricking others, my mind will punish me.
She had the money oh. Wicked woman!

Do you know that she even called my Mum on phone to say I came to her shop to disrespect her and her husband. I retorted by saying if she had acted right in the first place, she would have saved herself from all the drama.

It's not everybody you owe money oh. Some folks will even curse the individual and his/her generation for depriving them of their hard earned money.

Nigerians just like when people insult them first before acting right. Very tacky behaviour.


Same!!!! I hate collecting stuff from people sef. Makes me feel uncomfortable to an extent.
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:19pm On Apr 28, 2023
Kaycee54321:
Hey Mami.

Your love interest dey jonze oh.
What does he mean by "men observe little things like this?"
If you carry this love interest to permanent site, una fit no last oh.


Seriously, I prefer people whose word is their bond. I borrowed a friend 50k (not because I'm emotionally connected to the friendship but because he's good for it) - he makes more than 10X the amount in a month.

E suppose pay back today; na me remind am, e don push am go month end.

Money matters or not, a man's word should be his bond.
Hey Kaycee!

I nor fit even carry this love interest to permanent site. Carry wetin? After I collected my money, I blocked him everywhere. No time! 😂😂😂

Do you gettttt? Not just only in Men too. I don't like people who cannot stand by their words.
It tells a lot about their personality.

As long as you and your friend have good understanding and you trust him to an extent, he suppose pay normally.
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:15pm On Apr 28, 2023
Klass99:
Damn girl! You are even more badass than Octo. I thorougly like fa cheesy. That guy is sly and manipulative, good riddance to bad rubbish.
Very sly character! Who gives a fuçk if he takes me seriously? Lmao. grin cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:14pm On Apr 28, 2023
djWALE:
Your chats dey kill me, talking stage don end cos of money 😂😂
Yes oh. The man dey mad! Ontop my own money again oh.
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u: 11:12pm On Apr 28, 2023
SeriouslySense:
You are lucky, Nigerians are highly weird when it comes to paying back.

They love raising capital from people they think they can trick and get away with it.
Don't even make a mistake oh. I wasn't lucky, no be everybody them go try that nonsense on oh.

My parents lend people money a lot and those ones won't pay. My folks will leave them in the hands of God and be praying that God touch their heart to pay back. Certainly not me.

There was one that was owing my Mum 100k for more than 6 months. Na me go the woman shop go collect the money by myself. At first, I was calm and gentle and pleaded with her to pay cos it was due but she insulted me. Na that time my craze activate. I insulted her back and she was shocked. Nobody told her to go inside and bring out the money and give me.

Sometimes I don't even blame these Palmpay agents oh. Some Nigerians aren't credit worthy until you use force on them.
FamilyRe: Borrowing & Not Repaying: Have You Ever Encountered Such From Family Or Friends? by folake4u:
I generally do not lend people money. I'd rather dash. But if you use your own mouth to say I should lend you money or whatever, I must take it back. I am not going to be the bigger person, I will go lower than the devil as I can be very ruthless.

Recently, this love interest asked for funds and clearly gave a deadline for return. The deadline had passed and he kept avoiding convo about the money, until this week's Tuesday that I had his time. I texted him about it and the werey even had the audacity to tell me to dash him. Nor be you go tell me wetin I go do.

He clearly wanted to use emotional blackmail but he met the wrong person to use that on.

I don't even care whether he takes me seriously or not. I hate it when people don't stand by their words. It's a behaviour I particularly find irritating and cannot stand.

Praise be to Jesus, and Our Heavenly Father, I collected my money COMPLETE. grin
FamilyRe: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by folake4u: 3:05pm On Apr 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Lol ... I didn't bother to tell her that I plan to have only two kids . grin grin before we enter another fight.
Honestly I don't understand why a lady, an educated one for that matter will go into marriage without being financially stable. Ordinary to date self go dey do me somehow. Na dem dey beg for sub up and down. grin . I know to chop a man's money is sweet but please have your own grin

I feel sorry for that woman cry cry Truth is men would want their wives to stay at home and take care of kids, it is on women to reject such offers because in the long run they bear it negative impact most. This happened to a relative by marriage, hers is 3 kids very wealthy, she was an housewife too. When her husband died, everything scatter. She couldn't manage his business, his kids were young. Some relatives took over too. They suffered no be small. Women should stop being housewives biko

Also I believe men shouldn't be burdened with too much, imagine working your ass off to take care of 5 children and a wife? That's too much. He makes the money ,yes but at the expense of his health. No I won't take that ooo. Biko no turn me to child bearer and young widow lipsrsealed . Two kids, I work, you work, we outsource and live long. Very simple!
You for tell her say na two kids you want jor, she for tear your bra that day. 😂😂😂

Gbamm. Ordinary to date sef get as e be oh. grin grin Talkless now entering marriage institution without being at least financially independent. E gbami. cheesy

Na their type dey beg for 2k sub. I find that thing very tacky ehn.

To eat man's money is sweet but abeg having your own too brings respect, dignity and overall peace of mind.

Sis!!! Women who are housewives are trying. House wife job is not as easy as it seems. If the men can at least pay their stayhome wives, that won't be bad too.
As for me, I can't be a House wife sha, my legs too dey itch for waka waka. grin grin

You can imagine oh. I felt bad for the woman too. Life took a toil in her. She aged from too much stress and burden.

Some women don't even help matters. They're meant to be helpmeet for their husbands but instead of helping, they keep burdening him with more loads. Them nor just get sense at all. undecided

Wo! Let everybody work and pool resources together. It's easier that way.

I want to enjoy my family. We will both work, and do heavy outsourcing (Let nobody come and be stressed from too much work), and live life.


C'est fini.
RomanceRe: Waist Beads Have Turned Some Nigerian Men Into Mumu by folake4u: 2:01pm On Apr 28, 2023
Gadafii:
i personally selected the three beads she wears cheesy cheesy cheesy
I don't wear waist beads but this is cute. cheesy
FamilyRe: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by folake4u: 1:59pm On Apr 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Folly you need to see me with this lady. We were talking and somehow dived into marriage and stuff. She asked about marriage,I told her I no get money, I'm broke then she asked what I needed money for which I responded to that i should be able to take care of at least a child myself without stress before I get hitched. Na so I enter am oooo. After deliberations leading to argument, I agreed with her and kept quiet.

But the truth is the last thing I will ever want to experience in being held in a loveless marriage for whatever reason or having my kids suffer. If at all person fit use love portion hold man for marriage ( which I will never do BTW) can his life be held too? Nothing is certain in this life anymore. Yes he may be rich and all but there are lots of what ifs that can be avoided.

We always hope for the best but that doesn't mean the best will always be there 🤷

I like what the lady did, at least it's certain she will rest well 😂
Na wa oh. 😂😂😂😂

It is not even advisable for a lady to enter marriage without financial stability and she's here saying another tune.

Honestly, na the best thing to do be that. I don't bother myself arguing with such people, I just agree with them and keep mute.

I don't ever want to experience that scenario also, bringing innocent kids into this world to suffer. It's not cool at all.
Nothing is certain in this life anymore oh. You just took it from my mouth.

There was one woman who I knew in my state then. She was happily married to her rich husband then with 5 kids. The man told her not to work but just stay home and look after the kids. The man later died and that time she was pregnant with TWINS!!!!
That woman didn't have any source of income, no backup plans whatsoever. The man's family came and took EVERYTHING. They also wanted go take the young children too but they protested and said they'd be with their Mother.
It was well meaning Nigerians who had empathy on her and helped her. She gave birth to the twin children. She's the only one currently raising 7 children. All by herself.

Perse, it wasn't funny for her at all.

I also liked it too.
FamilyRe: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by folake4u: 1:20pm On Apr 28, 2023
Persephone1:
I remember having this conversation (the bolded) with a friend and her response was I overthink and I'm planning for the end of something that hasn't happened yet. That was the only time I ever discuss such topic with anyone.

Most times people are never true with themselves. Change is constant, nothing is permanent. Lol
Hahahaha. I feel you. I'm very picky in discussing sensitive topics with individuals, I usually gauge their level of sense and understanding before I indulge in such convos, otherwise I disengage immediately.

Hian. Which one is you're overthinking? Lol.

We don't pray for bad things to happen but it's also best to prepare oneself for the worst of situations.

People even prepare in advance for their funeral. There was a fellow who went to a funeral home in Lagos and posted it on Twitter. She was shocked that people were booking for tomb sites for themselves (and loved ones) in the case of any eventuality.

While some folks condemned the idea, I particularly like it because you'd be saving your grieving family from all sorts of funeral expenses.
SportsRe: Chelsea Results Since Interim Manager Frank Lampard Took Over by folake4u: 10:08am On Apr 28, 2023
Larrysung:
Don't worry. You peepoo will collect pochettino. He's a fine man. Top 3 most handsome coach in European Football. You will definitely like him I swear 🤤💅
Sigh! I give up. undecided
SportsRe: Chelsea Results Since Interim Manager Frank Lampard Took Over by folake4u: 6:20am On Apr 28, 2023
Larrysung:
Leeemaaaooo

SportsRe: Chelsea Results Since Interim Manager Frank Lampard Took Over by folake4u: 9:26pm On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
Another reason never to date your EX
Comot for here before I deck your front teeth. angry

SportsRe: Chelsea Results Since Interim Manager Frank Lampard Took Over by folake4u: 8:44pm On Apr 27, 2023
This is an all time low for Chelsea. That fraud called Lampard SHOULD NEVER EVER MANAGE A TEAM.

I blame the stupid Board for replacing a worse manager with THE WORST MANAGER.

Nonsense! angry
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 8:35pm On Apr 27, 2023
doggedfighter:
The one about beautiful relationships Magnoliaa said you made a commentary on?
Oh!

Here it is:

SportsRe: Barcelona VS Chelsea (Women's Champions League) At 5:45pm Today by folake4u: 8:33pm On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
Dem play draw, but Barça Femini qualify 💅💅💅
E be like say I first know say e go end like that.

Nothing spoil sha. smiley
RomanceRe: What's One Sex Myth You Know Is A Lie But Everyone But Everyone Seem To Believe? by folake4u: 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2023
Sex myth:
Virgins are attached to their first sexual partner.

That's a big lie. I wonder who propagated this thing.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 8:04pm On Apr 27, 2023
doggedfighter:
That piece you dropped is a banger .

Thumbs up !!
Thank you very much DF. kiss

Biko which Twitter link were you talking about?
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 2:28pm On Apr 27, 2023
Eunoiaa:
You like good things too much. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bit it's good.

Like, no.

I think jollof is from there, too. 'Cause even the name doesn't sound like anything Nigerian, but we seem to be the best in making it.

I will like to try the actual Senegalese Jollof sha. Just to see.


I wish you luck in your husband quest o. 😂

I was going to bring up some conversation on Twitter I was following but I've forgotten. When I remember it, I'll tag you.
Hahahaha. Who nor like better thing? Give me a dark skinned man anyday, twice on a Thursday. 😊

Yeah. Jollof doesn't seem Nigerian and I have also seen other variations of the spelling too.
For instance, jellof, jolof.

I've even seen one Nigerian admit that Senegalese jollof was the bomb and I think he was roasted on Twitter. grin I'd like to try it too. embarassed

Hahahahah. Amen oh. Thank you.

No wahala baby girl. If you remember, tag me.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 1:32pm On Apr 27, 2023
Eunoiaa:
Nonneee at all.

Fine men all round. And big steppers.


Some said Nigerians are colonisers and I had no choice but to accept, lmao.

You know Lori is currently dating a British-Nigerian guy too?

Pleeeeaseee, do. I'll be rooting for you. You two! grin
Mai dear. ☺☺☺

Fine and big steppers. Them be my spec. cheesy

We too dey colonise sef. Senegal claimed they have the best jollof but Naija say na them get am. grin grin

Yeah. She's dating Damson Idris.

Thank you 😂😂
FoodRe: What's That Food You Cannot Do Without Eating? by folake4u: 11:45am On Apr 27, 2023
Bahamas95:
Rice.

I just love and enjoy eating rice from childhood. I don't care about the type, be it jollof, fried, coconut, banga, concoction etc. I will eat it if it's tasty.

I don't always feel comfortable if I haven't eaten rice in a day..... Even if I don't eat swallow for 1wk I won't miss it, but I must eat rice everyday.
Same!!!! cool
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 11:43am On Apr 27, 2023
Eunoiaa:
Like, soooo so nice. They ate! 😭

I would never have guessed they weren't Nigerians.

Like, you can tell man was so HAPPY.


See. Everyday Naija girls are this, Naija girls are that, but men of other races dey loveee to snag us and cherish us.
They ATE and left no fuçking crumbs!!! ☺☺

Look at how handsome the men are and his friends shared in the groom's joy. cheesy

He was sooo Happy. I was happy for him too. grin

Do you get? 😂😂😂It's like I will join Persephone1 to find Mexican yummy men.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by folake4u(op): 11:35am On Apr 27, 2023
Eunoiaa:
Folake4u, come, come, come, come.

Report! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


See their happiness:

Man knew he hit a jackpot.

And I am seeing some comments that the guy (and his men perhaps) isn't Nigerian o.
Lmao. I saw this video yesterday. Their dancing style was so nice.

He surely hit jackpot.

Na only Nairaland meils dey talk say marriage only favours women. Yet the women aren't getting married to themselves. cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brentford (0 - 2) On 26th April 2023 by folake4u: 9:39am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
No spoil agenda for me 😂
Agenda must agend. 😆
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brentford (0 - 2) On 26th April 2023 by folake4u: 9:21am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
Arsenal plays beautiful football 💅💅
Back then, na rubbish them dey play.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brentford (0 - 2) On 26th April 2023 by folake4u: 9:17am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
I don't understand why y'all support that club! 😭
Same way people have been supporting Arsenal despite their many fuçkups in the past.
SportsRe: Barcelona VS Chelsea (Women's Champions League) At 5:45pm Today by folake4u: 9:15am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
From 11th positionhuh? 😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥
I nor go answer you again.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brentford (0 - 2) On 26th April 2023 by folake4u: 9:15am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
😂😂😂😂😂😂 make seun work on am first

Barça! I'm a culer for life
Till then.

No wonder. undecided
SportsRe: Barcelona VS Chelsea (Women's Champions League) At 5:45pm Today by folake4u: 9:04am On Apr 27, 2023
Larrysung:
Tell your club to avoid today's defeat first 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Make we dey watch na. undecided

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