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Hello bukatyne. Good morning. Please tag the monickers of the females. Not everyone will see the message.

gstelly:
Uniben did me shege I for don grad or serve... 2016 I was given adult education, 2017 no admission despite Crossing d cut off mark 2018 I didn't pass the putme then AAU accepted me in 2019 by God's grace I'll be graduating December the journey hasn't been easy but I thank God

gstelly:
lol... Had it been uniben no mess me up wa I turn to AAU I de certain we for meet

gstelly:
You are welcome ma btw name is Nancy

gstelly:
Folake4u: Despite us being age mate she has achieve things I can only dream of while I'm struggling to meet ends need and schooling, at times whenever I feel like giving up I just go and read her diary... Baby girl inspires me alot

babythug:
Have a good week y’all 💕

Acidosis:
😢🤗🤗

Sha give us update tomorrow

Acidosis:
Sorry ooo

Yoighaman:
I can see you are a proud and confirmed Gen Z with your full chest

Have fun dear, na una time

Yoighaman:
"Ode" is a derogatory word, whether said jokingly or not.

I read another post of yours where you mentioned, "Big head", "nonsense boy/girl" etc, now these are words that allude to being playful and can never be (mis)interpreted as an insult.

It starts from "Ode" and gradually graduates to the use of more 'playful words', which eventually leads to insults that you actually mean.

And yes! A 'simple Ode' can crash a marriage over time; if how toothpaste is pressed can break a home, then we had better pay attention to the little things.

XAUBulls:
Indeed... Take care.

XAUBulls:
@folake4u,

Aha! The second paragraph you say?You cheeky GenZ baby lawyer... Your anecdotes here cracked me up. In that case, objections overuled.

Case adjourned.

Yoighaman:
Exactly, "to each his own"
You can see how 'successful' relationships and marriages have been with Gen Z

Mutual respect never goes out of fashion, and generational gap does not preclude it either.

Yoighaman:
Irrespective of the age range by generation, what I meant was that it is an insult to call your spouse "Ode", whether you are joking or not. There should be some level of respect.

I don't know if this is what you mean as well.

Yoighaman:
But why call your spouse "Ode"? Love or marriage isn't an excuse for insult, whether said jokingly or not; it's like calling him or her "Oloshi".

There are better approaches. My opinion though.

Nyascobar1414:
If you understand the nature of women, you will never love a woman!

bukatyne:
I want to follow peace this evening

Gen Z, the mental health generation.

Even for we late millenials, we are as far apart as year 1999 to year 2000.

I remember a Gen Z colleague who was talking about mental health and claustrophobia like you guys just invented the words.

I looked at her and told her that I have been claustrophobic since before she was born and it is not limiting me or affecting my 'mental health' in anyway.

Na patience we go dey use deal with una.

XAUBulls:
Objection!

Ode is NOT a pleasant word to say to a man you are in a long-term relationship with depending on the tone of voice used by the female spouse and vice versa. It's rather insidious and can lead to a collapse of the marriage.

On the other hand, ode or the English translation called "fool/stupid" can be used in a jocular way though based on how you say it, and both of you can engage in a pillow fight and tickle each other as part of some pre-intimacy rituals, but this should not be overused because most men have a healthy ego. Lol

bukatyne:
Also try Wheat bread with butter, lettuce and scrambled eggs.

Spread a thin slice of butter, lay the lettuce on and spread your scrambled eggs (fried with little olive oil, garlic, carrots and spring onions) and eat away.

Eunoiaa:
You may be onto something here.

It seems you just have a nack for discovering little food treasures. It already sounds delicious to me so much I want to try it.

Perhaps it's because I've not tried the bread with something really sweet. Like jam too.

bukatyne:
😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃

I was going to say 'You Gen Z' but I decided to choose peace this evening.

You guys were kuku the ones that started the Ode stuff.

@bold: Very true.