₦airaland Forum

Farfalla:
Seemed like performance anxiety at first but when things got worse I knew it was time to end it quickly. I would always wonder why the man was so insecure. He never wanted to even see male acquaintances around me. He also wanted to "befriend" my small clique of friends so he could through monitor me through them. I later came to understand the source of his insecurities.

Kai. You went through a LOT.

I'm glad you're out of that also.

I bought lots of lyrics book in secondary school. I also had my own notebook dedicated to Nicki Minaj songs that my friends used to borrow and we'd sing and rap together.

The good times.

Farfalla:
It was terrible.

That's really terrible. I'm sorry about that.

Farfalla:
Erectile dysfunction.

Oh dear

Farfalla:
If I'm to be really honest about what killed my feelings for an ex I'll appear petty, as it was something beyond his control.

Ah. Say it na.

Farfalla:

Folake...!!

Ma!

Farfalla:
May you heal from your hurts.

I say an Amen on his behalf. 😂😂

Magnoliaa:
No, like. That's basically it.

I just wanted to point out how money relatively aids a relationship and makes it stress free.


One of the ediots we're talking about just quoted me now, looking for attention and making marriage jokes. 🤣

Ohhhh okay. I get it now.


Yesssssssss. Davido say Love is sweet, when money enter, love is sweeter.

Those attention seekers really need a life outside NL but unfortunately, their self worth is tied to trolling.

Magnoliaa:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What a loss to them to not be able to be spoiled by a woman.

And some of them are DYING for it.

Dying o.



That's the only one I've seen so far.

And I lost sight of the thread when the divorce story started making rounds jare.





You know, I think these were common at some point. Even here in Naija.

I mean, people used to have "mango tree" dates and I remember many of my brothers going for picnic dates at gardens.

I wonder at what point any of that changed.

You got that ratings part down to a T. The stories are always wild mehn.



I love this for you 🧡 💙 😁.



Oya, now. We don start am lmao.

Hahaha. I swear those ones will log out of Nairaland and still be in one babe DM begging for love and attention. Na why I always dey chant say them go dey alright las las.

Lmao. I swear, this divorce gist just made me deviate from that thread.

Yes, people used to go on garden dates as at then but I guess everybody wan form "Big boy/girl" now.

The rating thingy dey always muzz me sha. Every single time.

Thank you baby girl. 😋😊💕💜

Oya start the sapa gist. I dey game.

I watched this video yesterday. Asisat is so funny.

Seun!!!

Who brought this nonsense to FrontPage?

siofra:
The shamelessness of Nigerian men remain unmatched

😂😂😂😂

Magnoliaa:
Babeee, they were even ALREADY separated before the rape charges.

They were not together anymore as at when the rape issue came up.

Oh okay.

Thanks for the clarification dear.

BeanmanX:
One Foolish feminist is angry because Redpillers re happy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lol. You'd be fine las las, I promise you.

Dybala11:
Yep, but how is that related to this case??

Hakimi paid an escort to come to his house for sex, she later accused him of rape and the authorities placed him under investigation. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

So he was even cheating while married.

Interesting. How convenient.

abba09:
female logic

K

EmiDon11:
will u shut that gutter...

Disappointed oh lo sho!!!

Pray for your Mom, she's the ring leader in the Olosho business.

GloriousGbola:
Part of the problem is that the average Nigerians entertainment begins and ends with party and fk.

Books dey
Netflix dey
Video games dey.
Even Nairaland sef dey.

But the average Nigerian is into the most basic forms of entertainment, so here we are.

Apt! There are so many forms of entertainment but we too dey limit ourselves sometimes.

DEngima:
How about we start with"How true was the rape allegations", the news might be half baked

He is still being formally investigated.

But wait oh. That guy was accused of rape.

Can we start with That?

Rayban25:
Okay we agree.

Good.

Maas93:
I understand your pains🤣🤣🤣🤣

My pains ke? Na me them divorce?

Rayban25:
Of course she knew what was up..because why will an older woman marry a much younger guy look at the age gap.

Lmao. Nobody put a gun on his head to marry the much older lady who's 36.

He knew what he was getting into.

GreyLaw:
You couldn't know with this generation of human beings. Even the best of couples move to the UK and the wife suddenly grows wings. I believe you are a lady and you should know what games ladies play these days.

The problem I have with Nigerians is that we keep focusing on the negative narrative all the time to suit an agenda.

There are also many couples that move abroad and they're still living together happily.

If you treat your woman well in Nigeria and move abroad, nothing will change. But if you've been mistreating her in 9ja and you take her abroad, you already know how it goes.
Charity begins at home.

Anyhow sha, bad news spread like wildfire so I am not surprised at all.

It takes two to tango, you know that right? Men are still playing games till thy Kingdom come.

GloriousGbola:
I suspect his mother knew what was up and they came up with this as a compromise.

When you put it this way, this is another angle.

ufotunang:
... the lady would had pretended to be a wife material, kind, caring, submissive , lovely to the man before the man decided to marry her...you some ladies pretend like that inorder to get a man to marry her

You can't really hide your true character for long. Something no matter how little must give way to show one self.

While I'd say people have mastered the art of pretense, it also takes two to tango.

Sometimes you Men also set yourself up with such ladies. I am not shifting blame here but fact remains that he knew what he was getting into also.

lexy2014:
Aren't these your words on d subject?

Nor worry you go dey alright las las.

ufotunang:
Hahahaha...he knew his wife was a gold digger

If he knew his wife was a gold digger, he had no business in marrying her the first place.

If you can't trust a woman with your riches, don't marry her.