₦airaland Forum

Heathrow44:
Dating a Nigerian girl is like raising an orphan, it is worthwhile to go about searching for gold in oshodi than date a Nigerian mosquito 🦟

Then rest na. Nobody put gun on your head to date a Nigerian girl. Go and date foreign women and have peace of mind.

Simple as ABC!

qtguru:
She said she doesn't like light skinned men

😂😂😂😂

Persephone1:
Even guys that had never traveled out of their towns or seen an airport joined the bandwagon. LoL 😆 In fact the foreigners we had here back then felt like demi gods. . Them too dey overdo. You throw your people under the train for some illusion that you are "rushed" by foreign women. Imagine the little mindedness. Very pathetic lots .
When they get there they realize the people rushing them are senior citizens, societal rejects and ancient artifacts

That's what most of them end up doing, Op should do that too or link up with the aged

Apt! People wey even still dey squat for their friend's house come out dey chant nonsense.

I remember. The foreigners were feeling like Kings ontop our own platform. Na we do ourselves oh cos even here working in Nigeria, people rate them more over their fellow Nigerian. Tell me if it doesn't reek of low self esteem. They come to our country, we rate them highly and give them special treatment and they feel untouchable.

They should keep on with the good work by marrying the ancient of days.

Vinnie2000:
OP,

One day, dat Intimacy gadget will hook on ur Sexual organ.

Better find a good Dating partner.

I can't leave Nairaland. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Persephone1:
🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂.

Plus Konji wan kill Op. 😂😂😂

They didn't even allow op "put the tip inside" 🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's wickedness nah

Konji wan kill Op, for real. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I remember a video that trended on Twitter last year. The guy was complaining he hasn't had sex for almost two years. The comment was so funny. Na them dey always tell people "Come with your partner to the abroad" because they lack self control and their minds revolve around sex basically.

Lmao. Make him try put the tip for inside na, if him nor go sleep jail. Oyibo nor joke with consent at all.

Persephone1:
You remember vividly.. there was the team foreign girls back then. The minute a male nairalander who is chanced to chat with a foreign woman on Facebook or Skype the next thing is to create thread and shame Nigerian women. Then I use to wonder if it's not the same foreigners that disturb my dm with all sorts that I had to block them and later leave the app. LoL . Nigerian men are too loud! Just too loud!

Op is lacking in all areas 🤣 😂 🤣 😂. He should look for some ancestor like his brother's are doing.

They overdo EVERYTHING! They were so disgusting with the Team foreign women or nothing and later go and marry someone older and uglier than their mothers. Tsk!

Las las, Op will look for one naive girl from Nigeria and marry and ensure he engrains it in her head that he brought her to Canada, so she should be forever grateful.

Geminita:
Yes. Trust Twitter peeps now . She had to do another thread to explain herself . Even guys sef drag am.

I no even dey like put myself for "Social media matter"

Lmao. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She's very foolish. She doesn't know we're familiar with her game.


Hahaha. Sometimes e dey sweet. That's when them nor troll you sha.

Sixfeetbelle:
I remember reading those threads back then. It was the reigning topic on Nairaland when I first joined. Nigerian men insisted they were the prize and abroadian women fight over themselves to snatch them off the dating market. It was the stuff of imagination and dreams. Reality, on the other hand, is not so merciful.

Truth has always been that those women only want Nigerian men for their attractiveness wealth and maybe, personality. When, as a man, you're now lacking in any of these areas,...hmmm 😂😂😅

Truth is that many of them have a Black man fetish. 😂😂That's all. After they satisfy their craving, they move on to the next available black man.

Persephone1:
. Abeg laugh well.

"Ndi Na them dey rush us" while in reality nah our brothers dey rush fossils 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

Leeemao. God abeg, this woman. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I just weakkkkkkk. Time nor dey their side again, their biological clock is running.

Tadadobe:
They create theirs as diaries. I used to secretly read some. I read some where the women were complaining of being ghosted by white guys after meeting. Lol

Interesting. But even if such exists, it is not rampant like the Nigerian men threads littered all over Nairaland complaining about rejection yada yada.

Geminita:
Yes. The lazy ones are always the ones doing the most

. I don't know if you saw the tweet from a lady saying that any lady above 24 years old and unmarried is a rotten tomato

Yes oh. The lazy women keep winning.

Lmao. I didn't see that tweet but that lady is obviously a pick-me lady. She know wetin she dey do.

Persephone1:
The only thing he will attract over there is his shadow.



No dey give man hopeless hope

Perse, rest na. I dey roll for my bed. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ndi Nigerian men are hot cake overseas.

Geminita:
Folake4u

Yeah, you are right. Cooking should not be used as a prerequisite for wife material yadayada.

Some people don't have a problem with it.
I don't have a problem with cooking in a relationship because I am a picky eater and I hardly eat out. It becomes a problem if you turn it into your birthright . Like calling me to come over and cook every time ( I hope you get what I am saying)

My ex never stressed me about cooking. He even preferred buying us food. The times I cooked in the three years relationship were because I wanted to cook.

I am not a badass cook and he never complained or rejected the food. He ate the food with so much joy .

There was a day I fried egg and added excess salt (I don't know how it happened). He only said, "Odunayo, shey na because you no dey chop egg na why you wan kill me with salt". And that's it. He ate his egg in peace.

So many kitchen errors and he never said anything to belittle me or so.

Cooking in a relationship should not be a big issue. It is a matter of whether you like it or not.

It's just that some guys dey do too much

Cooking should not be used as a prerequisite for wife material yadayada.

My darling, if it's by that one ehn, let me just remain single abeg. I once saw a thread on Twitter where a guy was saying he'd want his wife to be cooking fresh meals daily. I just shouted "Subhanallah!". 😂😂😂

Yeah. I get your point sha. It's everyone's personal decision if they'd cook (or not) in their relationships but not the one that you'd now enforce it. Hian.

As for me, I like dates/ hangouts, take outs, let's try different restaurants and the likes or he'd cook.

I even have a problem with people that see Cooking as a gender specific role. Heck! I wasn't born with onions round my neck and knife in my hands.
Cooking is a skill. A basic survival skill that anyone should embrace, just like swimming or cycling.

Infact, the people who are considered best Chefs in the world are Men. Surprisingly not Women!!!

There was a day I fried egg and added excess salt (I don't know how it happened). He only said, "Odunayo, shey na because you no dey chop egg na why you wan kill me with salt". And that's it. He ate his egg in peace.

So many kitchen errors and he never said anything to belittle me or so.

This is so funny but cute.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He did well by eating his eggs in PEACE!!
As he should.

There are Men that marry women that can't cook even noodles and Heaven did not fall.

Las las, they employed a Cook or ate the food their wives made in peace. It didn't diminish the love they have for their spouse.

Everybody go dey alright sha, las las.

PS: You can check the list of Best Chef in the world. It is men that are dominating the field.

Tadadobe:
Yeah. It's heavily based on looks. Nigerian women are also facing the same thing over there. They can't find commitment

I never see any Nigerian woman create thread yet.

The dating scene is really different from Nigeria.

tensazangetsu20:
Guy, I am very sure if you did an IQ test, you won't score higher than 60.

🤣🤣🤣🤣Wetin be this.

Unlimited22:
Lol.

Wait until you see the number of Indians and Pakistani abroad.

We Nigerians are just loud about everything. One bozo will enter with Tier 2 or Care Work visa and two weeks later we'll start seeing winter coat videos everywhere on Tiktok and Twitter about how dating and relationships don't work and bills are plenty.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 You know them really.

Jashub:
What have they said that sounds "chauvinist "? Please list them

Lol. You should rather list the things that they said that made you kill your feelings for women since you're an ardent follower of them.

The Nairaland family will like to hear your thoughts as well.

Persephone1:
That's true😃

Death to all stingy men, they don't make the world go round 😠

Endorsed!!!!

Jashub:
What has my age got to do with this conversation?

I just had to ask because you said you listened to those three chauvinistic men and thereafter, your feelings died for women.

It begs to ask the question of "Do you not have a mind of your own?.

Persephone1:
What killed my feelings for a guy is his entitlement mentality. He kept asking when I will visit like he is some celebrity or USA president or the next best thing after cake

Cc

Magnoli.a
Fol.ake4u
Iyaeb.ethegreat
Eyi.nju

Please share yours 🤣 😃 😊

Hahahahaha Perse. 😂😂😂😂

What killed my feelings for a guy is that he was too stingy. A stingy man is worse than an infidel.

Persephone1:
Lol... I just dey laugh .

This thread dey funny me 🤣 🤣 😂

Very funny thread oh.

Persephone1:
🤣😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 😂😂😂😂😂

Ah. E reach to ask.

Jashub:
What killed my feelings for women actually started when I listened to guys like FreshandFit, Kevin Samuel and Andrew Tate.

Their views and opinions really made me see into the deception of women and the motives behind why women deserve less than what they get .

Your feelings died for women because of Kevin Samuels and Andrew Tate?

Kevin Samuels and Andrew Tate that were still secretly following women after they've convinced gullible men like you. 😂😂😂😂

I'm sorry. How old are you?

Magnoliaa:
Angel Frost, ma pa mi nau. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Damn, this is crazy.

The thing weak me too. I was howling. 😆😆

Angelfrost:
I kid you not!

One camera and a few clothes, and they are good to go.

I hear some are even shot with camera phones.

Wow. That's crazy oh.

Those movies would be nonsense as usual.

Lmao with camera phones?? 😂😂😂 And e nor go be better phone oh. The quality go be like say them pour oil for the phone camera lens.

Magnoliaa:
God will help them.

If you said this on Twitter, I can already picture hoe they'll be dragging you for being against "our own" or call you an hater.

As for the cancel culture topic, I'll see.

I may write something on it in my diary.

Amin!

Lmaooo. Nor be today them dey drag me for Twitter streets. I always maintain my I said what I said stance. 😂😂😂😂

Nigerians are funny to be honest. They'd tag you a hater when you tell them the truth without any iota of emotions.


Thank you baby girl.

Angelfrost:
This is true... That's life, but most of the time it pays off big for them.

Nigerians just never take the time to do proper preparations. Everything is always a rush for us.

Look at the other terrible part of Nollywood! The one we call "Asaba Movies"! Where you have actors filming up to 4 movies in a week! Like WTF!!!

Yes. It usually pays off for them in the long run.

One interesting way I rate their movies is by going to the Wikipedia page and check how much money they invested in the movie and also see if their profits matched their investments. I also check how well the movies faired in the Box Office in Asia, America and Europe.

EVERYTHING is rush for us. It is very annoying. They want to maximize quick profits at the expense of quality.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you say?? 4 movies in a week? Are you serious right now? That's interesting.

Persephone1:
Thank God I didn't see Chief Daddy , my big sis saved me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 . I think that's one movie it's review gained popularity. It was widely trashed.

Honestly I love those their lekki and third mainland movies best. I saw "a simple lie" yesterday and I love it. Very simple movie with lots of laughs 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂

See ehn. I was pained oh cos one of my friends hyped the movie that time and we all went to watch it at the cinema. That day sef ehn, cinema full and tickets were sold out quickly.

After the movie ended, I was so angry and told her never to pick movie for us to watch again. I can never forget that day. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Na God just save you that day. Wallahi. 😆😆

You see!! I miss the days of those Iroko TV and Ibaka TV. The movies were enjoyable and plot nice as well.

Angelfrost:
Shanty town started quite well but lost their way after the first episode! The story/plot was just too thin to keep up!

They need to quit rushing their script writing! It always shows in the quality and outcome of their movies!

Movies like Black Panther and Lord of the rings, the writing can take as long as 10 years to complete... Even after, editing and improving can take further 6 months to 2 years before they begin filming!

Even casting can take them years too!

I see.

But asides them rushing their script writing, they also need to hire qualified script writers. For real.

Yes, that is true about Hollywood movies. Even though they take up to 10years to complete their movie, it doesn't mean the movie will be a huge success though. It could either be a huge flop or success.