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CareerRe: Man Shares The Things He Allows As A Gen Z CEO Running A Tech Company In Lagos by folake4u: 10:10am On Aug 30, 2025
DeepSight:
Just on point of principle, its absurd.
Lol, leave litigation and go in-house nau.
CareerRe: Man Shares The Things He Allows As A Gen Z CEO Running A Tech Company In Lagos by folake4u: 9:34am On Aug 30, 2025
DeepSight:
Well said.

One of the things that disgusts me the most for we lawyers is the wig and gown. It is such a ridiculous colonial outfit especially in this weather. In most court rooms, lawyers sit like Christmas goats while wearing a garb meant for European courts of centuries gone by.

It is sickening.
I intend to present a petition to the Bar Association to start the process to drop it.
Hahaha Pele.

I haven't worn my wig and gown in almost two years. Still good as new. cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 10:12pm On Aug 29, 2025
Shegzdave:
People that even open eyed than some of their southern counterparts grin grin

If he lived there he go know
Do you gett??!!

Who nor go nor truly know. cheesy
RomanceRe: What Do I Do In This Situation by folake4u: 8:20pm On Aug 29, 2025
Caaz:
But you were happily doing go zaddy and spending lavishly on a corper earlier this year who ate your money like crazy...maybe her big bobbi decieved you.
Allow! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 8:12pm On Aug 29, 2025
Gerrard59:
Apparently, it seems the notion that northern women don't have it good isn't true. On the other hand, their southern counterparts have so much freedom to pursue any goal they desire.

Yes, the divorce rate still shocks me. This means, technically, the region should have more single mothers than its southern counterpart. Yet southerners are said to abuse the marriage institution.

Nigeria is an interesting country with interesting people.
Oh well, I am not in the best position to state if the Northern women have it good or not.

But yes, Southern women have the freedom to do all their heart desires.

Lol I know right. If you noticed, even the recently engaged Princess of Dubai divorced herself from her ex-husband.

Well, I don't know if they have more single mothers than their southern counterparts, I'm not bothered about that, honestly.

Yup Nigerians are indeed interesting. Good people, Great Nation. cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 8:07pm On Aug 29, 2025
Gerrard59:
It means their cultural upbringing differs. That's why I don't take at face value every criticism labelled towards Nigerian men and women. People should be specific regarding who they are calling out.

I agree with the quoted poster about their honesty and straightforwardness. Respect the religion and don't be arrogant, everything will be fine.
The last paragraph sums everything up. kiss kiss
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 3:22pm On Aug 29, 2025
descarado:
If not because of religion and politician weaponising poverty, northern nigeria is the way to go.
Check out any southerner that grew up in the north.
They are very respectful and never loud. They mind their biz. My family don't know how to speak igbo. My husband was on the look out for an igbo babe when he met me. That family behaves like non igbo. English plus the north. I wasn't surprised when people ask me where did he grow up right from Nigeria. Me, I dey form but truth be told, that is how northerners behave. I did my wedding there. They are very down to earth. The elite are so humble. Forget politics.
I was invited to Mrs abacha birthday some years back. See me and fear. I no gree go. I was newly married then. Still, gifts shared reached my house.
When I was in school, a close friend asked for kilishi from her mum's friend( governor's wife). This lady didn't only send it, she wrote a letter personally to him not to slack in his study. Governor's wife. Who will do that in the south.
Who born you.

Remove boko haram and poverty weaponisation, I prefer the north anytime, any day.

When I was selling jewellery. I usually buy from a northerner. This man will go extra mile for me.
One day,he told me to get 250k and he will take me to dubai so I will stop buying from him. That was how my journey to dubai started. A nupe man. As in he was in awe how a student will be hustling and studying at the same time and I am a lady. All the time I did biz with him he protected me and my interest.
Meanwhile I was sent to an igboman who didn't waste time to try entering my p..nts that same day.
That man rescued me and help build me up financially.


Depending on where you reside, if you are somewhere close to the north like Abuja, lean towards the northerners but be mindful of your dressing. You will climb up faster than you know it, in your career and no strings attached. As long as you are truthful and respect yourself.
Quite a nice experience you have, Des.

I wholly agree with you 1000%.

I love love Northerners, stayed in the North for few yeara too; they're easier to deal with. They're honest too, if they don't like you, you will know straight up.

In my PPA for Nysç, the married MD (a Southern Christian) was moving mad and generally weird around me, he deducted my salary unjustly, all the Muslim Northerners in the company stood up for me, including the HR personnel. That was a touching experience for me. Meanwhile my fellow Southern folks just sit down dey look me.

I visited Abuja earlier this year and still hung out with the Muslim Northerners and they welcomed me well with open arms, the reception was amazing.

And this is the reason I asked Gerrard if he's seen any core Northern man bash their women on social media.
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 2:13pm On Aug 29, 2025
Gerrard59:
Christian or Muslim? How come they - the men from both sides - don't complain about their women as much as those down south today every Eke Market day?
Both religion.

This is because Southern men are very loud.

The Northern men protect their women a lot,despite them having the highest rate of divorces every Eke Market day.

How many Northern men have you seen bashing their women on Twitter?
CelebritiesRe: Falz Shares Pre-Wedding Photos by folake4u: 11:07am On Aug 29, 2025
Gerrard59:
Looks like a Northern Christian lady. I guess that's the solution to the "open eyed" ladies across southern Nigeria.

But then, southern men made their women what they are today.

God bless Islam.
I'm amused that you think Northern women aren't "open eyed".
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Grimsby Town Vs Manchester United 2(12 - 11)2 On 27th August 2025 by folake4u: 9:20am On Aug 29, 2025
Nazgul:
How many matches have we played so far. Just wait and see...season just started.
Yen yen yen. That's what you said for last season too. cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Grimsby Town Vs Manchester United 2(12 - 11)2 On 27th August 2025 by folake4u: 8:30am On Aug 29, 2025
Nazgul:
Lol but we're the biggest club in England na. Google and chatgtp is your friend.
Keep on living in delulu. All the matches y'all have been playing recently have been quite disgraceful but I'm very happy about that. kiss
FoodRe: How Much Is A 12.5 Kg Gas Refill Today In Nigeria? by folake4u: 10:09pm On Aug 28, 2025
Mariangeles:
I was wondering what Laygurs was, till I said it in my head. 😀
Lmao, nor vex Maria. grin grin
FoodRe: How Much Is A 12.5 Kg Gas Refill Today In Nigeria? by folake4u: 7:44pm On Aug 28, 2025
I filled my 12.5kg cylinder at N960 yesterday.

Location: NNPC Laygurs.
CelebritiesRe: Dubai Princess Sheikha Mahra Engaged To French Montana (photos) by folake4u: 5:38pm On Aug 28, 2025
Esthered:
Okay. They're doing well.
I know right.
CelebritiesRe: Dubai Princess Sheikha Mahra Engaged To French Montana (photos) by folake4u: 2:16pm On Aug 28, 2025
Esthered:
Those ones that opens a thread saying men should avoid single mothers, what do you have to say.
The equation even balance for here as both are single parents.
CelebritiesRe: Dubai Princess Sheikha Mahra Engaged To French Montana (photos) by folake4u: 2:13pm On Aug 28, 2025
emperor4love:
Can't be 18million dolls,even obi cubana dey on 500million dolls networth
Lol. We have a numbers problem in Nigeria.
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Gives Birth To A Baby Girl, Names Her Yakira Eliana by folake4u: 2:03pm On Aug 28, 2025
Congratulations Toke. May Yakira Eliana be a blessing to you. kiss
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Grimsby Town Vs Manchester United 2(12 - 11)2 On 27th August 2025 by folake4u: 11:32pm On Aug 27, 2025
dominique:
So man Utd has crashed out of the EFL cup this early. Can they possibly sink lower than this? Their coach has said they would suffer, this is part of the suffering he's talking about. I feel bad for the new signings sha
Lol I'm very much satisfied at their loss, it'd help me sleep well tonight.

Nazgul Keep on deluding yourself that the club is the biggest in England. Jokes on you.
RomanceRe: The Harsh Truth About Weddings Nobody Tells You by folake4u: 6:39pm On Aug 24, 2025
Magnoliaa:
Is a millennial ever really at peace with themself if they have not thrown a shot at Gen Zs? 😕
My sister, the matter tire me.
FamilyRe: I Need Honest Answer Please by folake4u: 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2025
ediko5:
Best answer to a simp. You're doing well.
It's even abomination to me for a single girl lady and not to talk of a married woman sending her nudes to men and the man is asking funny question
OK.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Ham Vs Chelsea (1 - 5) On 22nd August 2025 by folake4u: 6:35pm On Aug 24, 2025
Nazgul:
Wait and see.
Till then.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Ham Vs Chelsea (1 - 5) On 22nd August 2025 by folake4u: 6:00pm On Aug 24, 2025
Nazgul:
Are you aware that we're winning fulham?

This season's EPL is coming to Old Trafford.
Lol because una manage score today, we nor go hear word. If una lose now and I drag you, you go run go hide again. grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Ham Vs Chelsea (1 - 5) On 22nd August 2025 by folake4u: 5:56pm On Aug 24, 2025
Nazgul:
De play
undecided
RomanceRe: Harsh Economy : How I Take Care Of My Girlfriend by folake4u: 3:46pm On Aug 24, 2025
On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

This is quite thoughtful of you.

It touched me. May God bless the work of your hands.
FamilyRe: I Need Honest Answer Please by folake4u: 11:43am On Aug 24, 2025
Solved55:
I caught my wife chatting with men in romantic ways, she apologized , like twice . As a result , I link her Whatsapp and discover she's still continue even sending nudes. Just because of money . How can I handle this,I consider divorce but divorce will affect us ,we have 3 kids, 3, 5 and 7 years. Her character has not been good to me anyway and now this
Please forgive her. She just used those men to scratch an itch.

Go into your deepest closet and pray for your marriage. Watch this Christian movie, "War Room", apply the principles in your home and you will be singing a new Hallelujah tune.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Ham Vs Chelsea (1 - 5) On 22nd August 2025 by folake4u: 10:44pm On Aug 22, 2025
Southysouth:
What a night!!😁
Chelsea doing wonders😁💙💙
The pride of London for a reason. 💙💙💙💙

Cc: Nazgul.
Foreign AffairsRe: World's ‘nicest Judge' Frank Caprio Dies At 88 by folake4u: 1:05pm On Aug 22, 2025
mastermaestro:
You are welcome ma'am. Wishing you a super weekend. smiley
And you too Sir. TGIF.
Foreign AffairsRe: World's ‘nicest Judge' Frank Caprio Dies At 88 by folake4u: 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2025
mastermaestro:
Well mutual happiness is the end goal. Mean vibes plus mutual understanding= a happy home... cheesy

Feeling your spirited energy from far away, and I fancy it. cool
Yes, most definitely actually. As long as you're happy, Madam is happy = Everybody's happy.

Hahahaha thank you Sir.
RomanceRe: Boys Have No Idea,what Girls Going Through. by folake4u: 9:26am On Aug 22, 2025
Majesty33:
omo i am not interested in her at all. omo me i be ladies man ooooooh. I sweep most women up their feet. Check my profile and see for yourself . i am very tall ooh. Too many of them in my dm playing around grin
Show us screenshot of the women in your DMs playing around, leave Cho cho cho.
RomanceRe: Boys Have No Idea,what Girls Going Through. by folake4u: 9:25am On Aug 22, 2025
Majesty33:
The biitter truth is that u are enjoying the attention u get from these men and thats y u brag with it. The day the attention stops, u begin to feel bad. Kiss the truth and stop forming macho here. grin
Bragging? Is the attention giving me money? Am I using it to fly first class Ibom Air?

Forming macho ontop unwanted attention? Taaah! Talk better thing jare. You can do better than that.

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