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Happy Birthday to the 3rd wife. She does look like the virtuous Proverbs 31 woman.

MONEY247:
A blatant lie. Girls adore fair guys, many do not just admit it.
I know many fair guys girls run after like flies even without the guy showing interest. That's why many guys bleach their skin.

Girls can pretend like crazy...

I speak for myself alone but I'm not attracted to fair men.

@ the bolded. And that doesn't tell you that these men are suffering from inferiority complex/low self esteem?

Caaz:
Lamba from NECK nwoko


Nke A bu nke anyi.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Very good.

Sonnobax15:

Good one..

They are humans like every other person and they didn't ask to be born like the way they are.........

But then again,as a man,if you're looking for a banny who will give you peace of mind, just go for a dwarf girl.......I swear nobody go follow you drag that one . They are unique in their own way . I know what I'm talking about here

I think this is quite an insensitive joke.

Gerrard59:
You see am! It is the reason I insist men are the cause of everything.

A man who loves sex should marry a lady who adores it. Going ahead to marry a lady who is a Mary Amaka or Deeper Lifeish babe is being on the road to misery. It is a major reason I am not fazed about virgins and try to stay away from ladies who have explicitly stated that they don't like sex or find it annoying/tiring.

I jump and pass!

😂😂😂😂😂😂

I also think they also factor in other criterias when choosing their spouse.

GloriousGbola:
the whole business of exes is not quite that straightforward. more a case of thinking the grass is greener where you did not plant it. unfortunate truth across the world is that most women change radically once they have children and the children become the center of their existence. no guarantee that the exe would not have also changed.

a funny multilayered story of when we were on site for a project and the engineer in charge had to start going home late. this man had married a second wife not so long ago and the woman started getting extremely jealous. it was very funny. the woman assumed her husband was messing round and looking for wife no 3, and there was nothing the man could do to convince her otherwise. he said we are working in optimo relay and she responded, that optimo na asha-w-o woman. anyways - my boss, who was incidentally also p***y whipped by his own second wife said a lot of things, but one thing he said - once the man gives the woman pikin all this will die down and she will not have his time anymore.

You are right, however there are still women that have sex after childbirth and enjoy it.

I'm very aware that caring for children takes a toll on women and tanks their libido but one thing is certain, if there's no stress and she's very much relaxed, pvssy is sure especially if she enjoys sex with her partner.

Gerrard59:
That is why I am of the opinion that the side chics are winning. A side chic who means and knows business would win way more than the man's wife. Bimbo Akintola also mentioned the bold a few weeks ago: these men marry women they are not sexually compatible all in the name of wife material, now they pursue side chic upandown.

Nigerian men gave the upper power to their side chicks and I like the fact that these women make money off their heads since they're brainless.

I have married colleagues who complain about their wives denying them sex, anytime I inquire about their exes, their eyes shine and they begin to narrate the good ol' days. It raised my curiosity to what made them marry their current partners and of course, the person was ready, or a virgin and a religious person. No substance whatsoever.

It is why I like my generation, Gen Z, we like what we like, good or bad and go for it.

Jman06:
Stop saying the average Nigerian man please. Instead, say primitive Nigerian man. I don't think any modern Nigerian man wouldn't want his wife to be sexually expressive in bed because that's where the fun is. As far as I am concerned, there's no fun in the act if the woman cannot express her needs in bed. It becomes monotonous and boring if she just lays there without participating.

😂😂😂😂😂

I think the problem here is people not going for what they want especially Nigerian men.

They like sex a lot but would go for women who have low libido/not sexually expressive and then complain later citing the woman gives them peace of mind whereas the heart want what it wants.

Anyways, I think the solution is for like-minded people to follow themselves for a happy home.

bukatyne:
I thought Jarvis was a sensible young girl?

Apparently not.

Else, why should she stoop so low to be entangled with Peller?

Even as a casual fling, he is a minus.

Partnering with him was her biggest undoing.

I'm not much of a content creator fan but I enjoyed her AI robot videos, immediately I saw her alignment with him, I shook my head in annoyance.

dollypi:
This guy needs a lawyer on retainer ship

Certainly. 😂

Caaz:
Any quote i quote,i dey jeun ban

Sorry oh, nor be my fault.

Caaz:
Wetin be your alignment with anti spambot?

Lol, I don tire, e get dagbana choko for head.

5-8 slices.

Caaz:
Arsenal to the world.
Folake4u how market?
Just checking on you.

I'm alright, Oni.

I can see you're in great spirits which is wonderful.

Kaczynski:
no

CD and DVD disc are different


CD mostly pc

DVD for dvd player

Thank you for explaining.

Double0h7:
Shildren of today! 😏

No cd and dvd are not the same although they look the same. dvd players played cds but cd player couldn’t play dvds 😂😂😂. I feel old af explaining this to you 😒

Lol oh wowwww.

Toh. Na DVD player I grow up meet.

Please don't feel old abeg.😂😂 Thank you for explaining.

I owned a dictionary and listened to music on DVD player. CD and DVD na the same?

GloriousGbola:
which is what cosmas maduka did when he named his business coscharis

This right here.

People need to look at the bigger picture sometimes instead of unnecessary sentiments.

Originalsly:
According to you .... she said she does not like her name and she does not like speaking Igbo.

It was automatic for you to ask her why instead of ghosting her. How can you not ask her? ... that's the common sense follow up question? Instead you jump to conclusion and wasn't even man enough to tell her why the friendship has to end . If she later marries out of her tribe I'm sure you will join the bashing of Igbo professional women for not choosing their tribesmen.

Many people do not like their name ... that's common. She used her name on her business card ... is it the same name on her certificates? Is it the same name she used for the registration of her business? Is it the same name she uses for official business? She is wayyyy more business savvy than you. If she uses an Igbo name on her business card .... then the reality in Nigeria is she would be limiting herself to Igbo clients only. If she uses an English name she will be attracting more clients from all tribes because of the foreign is better mentality. She does not like speaking Igbo can be for the same reason .... she can lose clients who do not like Igbos. She is trying to stay neutral....it is good for business. That does not mean she has distanced herself from or rejected her culture. If it's not too late ...I suggest you call her up ... let her know what went down and ask for another chance. But on the other hand ... she may not accept since she would reason if you can ghost her because of name ...what else would you ghost her for if she picks up the relationship?;

A man may want five things in a relationship ... he usually settles for three ....to get four he considers the woman his soul mate. To get all five is God sent but God rarely sends. You had four but be looking for five. Gooood luck.

@ the bolded.

THISSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!

This is my thoughts exactly.

As a corporate person, you're absolutely spot on. I have multiple names from various tribes and I use them accordingly in different settings. My first name is English and I use it strictly for work business as I've come to understand that humans are tribal in nature and I want to maintain neutrality.

Using that strategy has helped me in relating with people and closing deals in the corporate world. It doesn't mean I am ashamed to be associated with my culture.

Dannyjince:
There's something about this guy that looks different now.
I can't place my finger on it.
If it was abroad, ninjas would say he has been cloned.

He recently lost weight and looks trim now.

God bless Nairaland indeed. Who would have thought NTI is a disaster.

Princetee11:
I did the NTI PGDE Program in Osun, 2017. 4 years later in 2021 without a result, I was notified I failed a course and had to resit which I did and cleared the following year. 2 years later in in 2023, I needed my transcript and certificate to run the UK’s Foreign Teachers’ recruitment. After months of waiting, I got the transcript and only notification of results without a certificate. After about a year on UK’s Qualified Teachers Status document assessment queue, my request was denied because I couldn’t provide the education certification i claimed to posses and my portal was shut down after ultimatum I was given elapsed this February. The unbothered manner in which the director and his agents over there reeks and make me believe these people are unrepentantly callous. I wish we had a functional system and sue them all for the damages they’ve caused me and many people who had helplessly recline to this inhumane and avoidable twist of destiny.

Damnnnnn sorry about this. It must have been frustrating.

yorosstores:
This one na entertainer, better go book with Davido and Odumodu for shows

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Caaz:
Lolz....

Na drake twin bruv

Your mouth nor good, Oni.😂😂😂😂😂

Joeboypondeck:
4-4😹💔

Caaz:
Their content creator coach Reuben Amu-nkita don sit up.

Time still dey for Chelsea games still plenty.

Amorim na Mai suya normally.

Oya ña, makè we dey see.