₦airaland Forum

Tenrack:
ROTFL. E ear stand as him hear you say you started developing early.

Lol nor mind am. E wan add to my problem.

Tenrack:
😭😭🤣 Guy relax. She fit no be your spec. You're getting carried away by what she said about herself. Lmao.

@ the bolded. I know right.

E just wan jump and add to list of men I ignore daily, not knowing whether I be frog or princess.

Gerrard59:
Lol

Isn't that what she is doing, except work related men whom she has to respond to their calls/messages?

I just tire.😂😂😂

Majesty33:
Can we talk in private? I mean WhatsApp and if that won't be possible then I have this piece of advice for u. Try and cut off every guy that is not a family member and from calling you and even if they approach u on the way, ignore . Only call entertained from your boss should be strictly work related. And mind you, no cheating ooooh. I want to check something.

I'm sorry, I don't want to talk to you outside Nairaland.

Looool and who told you I entertain catcalls from men who approach me on the way? I don't even answer those ones. Matter of fact, an ex-lover had told me that if we had both met on the street, I wouldn't have given him audience which is 10000% true.

My male friends who know me very well do not call me past 9/10pm except it's an emergency, and that rarely happens too.

It's like you don't get it. The people I'm even talking about are men that I have to deal with strictly because work brought us together but now they're deviating and losing focus.

mastermaestro:
Judge Judy owns her courtroom. Anyone who comes to her courtroom to play ego games always regrets it.

Mean women... I prefer peaceful women sha.

Oh yes! I love love her for that. Such a fierce woman.

Lol nice one. Mean and peaceful women, all are good as long as both parties are happy.

Gerrard59:
The very reason this "alpha male" rhetoric doesn't faze me. Men would always want the companionship of women and are willing to spend any amount to get it. The biology of men won't allow us to stay single and without sex.

I know right!

Ndi alfa meil preachers in da mud.

Maybe this will motivate me to open TikTok account finally and start my vlog, "A day in the life of Folake".

Majesty33:
This is not supposed to be a topic cos it's the way the most high designed nature to be. Any girl that is not chased, then something is wrong with her . What makes u a girl if guys can't approach u. Even girls feel bad deep within if they are not approached by any guy for one whole month

@ the bolded. Says who??!!

Please speak for the women you know.

I have short attention span but since the beginning of this year, it has been worse and my WhatsApp DMs are a mess, I respond to some and ignore some. My head FULL.

Due to the number of irrelevant messages I receive from your gender, I don't pick calls from random men once it passes 9/10pm. The exception is close family, friends, gist buddies or the LOML.

So yeah. Not every woman desires male attention from unwanted men.

descarado:
Use wig thats like that.

Sure thing. I have one pixie cut wig.

mastermaestro:
Dude was truly compassionate. I love watching his court sessions. He heard cases with his conscience. Rest well, sir.

Meanwhile, Judge Judy iz a mean devil even though I love her adjudicating intelligence and aura.

I love the late Judge Frank but no one does it better than Judge Judy. I love her so much. When you say aura choke, leave am for my madam.

Mean women are also the sweetest. Fact!

JovialJune:
So many of these kind of hairstyles I want to make but can't cos my hair is too long and too full, and I'm not ready to cut it anytime soon 😩

Same here. Mine is natural hair and it's very thick.

Nazgul:
Didn't you read the article, the wife is the one who brought him over.

Lmao 🤣 anything for them to bash Nigerian women nau.

Gerrard59:
Bros, that line no follow again o. Things have changed as women, especially educated and financially stable, can remain single till thy kingdom come. The belief that a woman cannot remain single forever ended in in 2020.

TuFace sef no try. So I'm surprised you made him to look like the good guy.

I didn't bother engaging him further since he's already painted 2face to be without spot and blemish.

koladata:
You don’t really get what that means. Look at 2face’s ex-wife for example, living alone as a woman isn’t cool, with time she’ll feel it. No matter how bad 2face is, it’s still better than having no man. She endured his flaws even when 2face had over 3 kids in that marriage, but once she chose Tiwa as her confidant in their marriage issue this time, boom, the marriage completely over.

When you have issues with your partner, your best friend shouldn’t be someone battling her ex, but someone who is happily married. And since Tiwa’s close friends are single mothers, it’ll be hard for her or her friends to settle again, because their talks will always be about how men are scum.

OK.

koladata:
Tiwa Savage is always friends with single mothers

Yes.

Is there a problem with that? Y'all have deluded yourselves that women hate each other.

Women friendships are all we've got and it is refreshing to see our gender support the other in good and bad times.

GloriousGbola:
Folake4u right now

Lmao 😂😂 I've already dragged his ass on another thread.

pocohantas:
Well, maybe it is not a red flag for her.
I wish her the best.😀

Yeah me too.

pocohantas:
I think they know and pretend not to.
Or maybe they do not know. I have read many of your friend's kinda case on FB and TT. Give a lot of women money and we would know how many of us truly like marriage.

Staying alone teaches you how to navigate finances, life and a home. If you have a good source of income, it should never be an issue because a woman is an autonomous being.

Tell her to please get a job that will make her go out everyday. Even as husband and wife, if you too see yourselves, see finish fit dey enter. So she should find something doing. A man is not a plan. It might look good in the beginning, but it hardly ends well.

@ the bolded. Yeah very true.
I kuku nor too like marriage. 😂😂😂

I know right. Staying independently as a female for a year/years is always a pro, never a con.

She actually has a job and same profession as I am. The reason I don't really like him is 'cause he once "jokingly" said when they marry, she'd be a SAHM, and she'd change her phone contact, that was a walking red flag to me, amongst other things.

pocohantas:
The reason many ladies rushed into wrong marriages is the family house to start with. A lot of Nigerian homes are inhabitable for their kidd and these kids only tolerate for as long as they cannot fend themselves.

@ the bolded.

Thissss!

I feel every woman should experience staying alone for one's sanity.

My friend is currently staying at her family house and wants to enter wrong marriage 'cause of freedom. I feel sad on her behalf and stylishly told her that they're not compatible but I cannot do pass myself. However, if she invites me for the wedding, I will wear my dancing shoes to eat rice and scream "Latest bride in town".

dollyjoy:
na my favourite breakfast sef

You're doing well baby.😘

Cc: dollyjoy

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Juliearth:
That's another angle, but ovulating women don't react that way.

Eyyyy you say what?

Proserpina:


You get?

If I reach that level just know I'm about to go "aura" for "aura".

Na love dey make me shalaye, if I mute just run or do the right thing

I'm telling you.

Ogbono for Ogbono!!

Anything wey make me mute, just delete my number.

achorladey:
Sometimes they joke about it not knowing they are bent on it.

You are right actually. That's a very expensive joke. I wash my hands like Pontus Pilate that I never meet such men.

Proserpina:

Especially a woman

Screaming!! This is so meee.🤣🤣🤣

pocohantas:
I tried so hard to remember o.
How you take know what I wanted to type?
Ehen, Get them!!! 😂😂😂

Lol I just know.

Yessss, you're in the program now.

pocohantas:
In addition to Toke's pregnancy news, I am proud of this mother of 5 and the female comments on this thread.

Give them!!!

It's Get them!!!! Nor change am.

I chuckled reading this. It's good that women are going this route. I admire her audacity.

These men think raising children is a walk in the park.

Ordinary my friend's 6months baby, I almost ran mad when I visited and stayed briefly with her, she was cute and all but the stress mehnnnn.

sisisioge:
Not a mystery....its the same reverence given to religious leaders nowadays regardlessof their obvious shortcomings. Nonsense has been in existence for a while.

My thoughts exactly.