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CrimeRe: Governor Dickson's Special Adviser Who Robbed A Bank Arrested by forandy(m): 8:10am On Jun 09, 2016
I like their guns sha kiss kiss kiss
RomanceRe: Assumed Love - Everyday Self Deception by forandy(op): 8:43am On Jun 07, 2016
Cutehector:
Hot truth served this morning like tea.... Sips it
Yea bro, do enjoy the sipping smiley
Good morning
RomanceRe: Assumed Love - Everyday Self Deception by forandy(op): 8:42am On Jun 07, 2016
jamesharryson:
I am just curiously watching the sky to see the missiles. I wish it could happen
smiley smiley Be careful what you wish for, for you just might get it lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
RomanceAssumed Love - Everyday Self Deception by forandy(op): 8:35am On Jun 07, 2016
We love, we give our all but we get nothing back. This is a common scenario that most have either seen or personally experienced. It tends to happen more to females even though males experience it too.

From the bottom, one is tempted to ask why, in the first place, a person will give his or her heart to someone who does not need or want it. Well, unfortunately, not everybody can tell or predict the most likely end of a journey.

This is a personal one to me from both ends of the table unfortunately and if there's anything I can say for sure, it is that nobody has to go through or make another go through it as some of these hearts take forever to mend.
The worst part is that, everybody sees the real situation of things except one person, the person who needs it the most. Friends will warn and tell you, friends of the partner will hide it but everybody will know except you.

Let's assume the mind of the villain for a while. Why play around with someone when you know it is not going anywhere? there are many reasons here but none of it looking nice. Sex, money, connections, ego, the list is endless but the most annoying reason is......"no reason". I mean, how can you not have a reason? (like having a reason is not bad enough) that's the height of being inconsiderate.

The signs are usually there and we just ignore them (although some players are so smooth you will not see anything even if you employ a private investigator)
Forget the sweet flow of talks and ask yourself the questions that really matter like what you really know about the other. I am not asking you to go all CIA but you need to conduct basic investigation. There are so many things out there to help nowadays, unfortunately people are still outsmarting others but you have got to try.

You think this is bad till you hear of people who have actually been trying to tell the other that there's no relationship. "Mr. I am not in love in with you, I have a boyfriend" but no, not this dude, he is as motivated as it gets, his friends urging him on "she loves you but probably can't say it because of the current guy". Let them make you keep hurting yourself. The same can be said of a girl who goes about deceiving others that she is in a relationship, oh no that's not the bad side, the bad side is that she actually believes it.

True love is never assumed, it is confirmed by unseen intentions and seen actions, it is told by unheard thoughts and spoken words. Anything else is probably phoney.
Poems For ReviewThey Never Heard My Plea by forandy(op): 5:48am On Jun 06, 2016
I looked at her in sadness
trace her cheek with my hand
a silent tear runs down my face,
I held my hands together and I prayed
that God would give her back,
but he never did.

I sat huddled behind a car
they called my name and told me to come out
"You can't hide forever! Such a baby!
Come out now, it'll be worse if you don't!
Freak, everyone wishes you were dead!"
well sometimes, I did too.

I sat slumped in my chair
staring at the giant F on the page,
now everyone knows just how stupid I am
"I always knew you'd be a failure,
you should have listened to me when I told you to quit," the teacher said smugly
while everyone else pointed and snickered.


I cried while he packed his clothes in a bag
never said a word, I learned long ago it did no good,
I didn't look up as he walked out the door
I couldn't stand seeing him leave again
but what drove the knife in deeper
was he didn't even say goodbye.

I begged and pleaded for him not to bring me there
because I knew what would happen if he did,
my childhood would be taken away piece by piece
for hours and hours to his delight
while my family laughed below me and my boogeyman.

I soothed my sorrows alone in a field
with eight cans and a bag to drown out the world
and the nightmares its plagued with
my eyes stared at the stars and thought
that heaven must be real because I'm in Hell.

I tied the knot with shaking hands
tears blur my vision as I sign my name at the bottom of the page,
my fingers tremble as I place the envelope on my bed
while I put the noose around my neck
I try to go through with it and I hate that I can't
but sometimes death is scarier than life,

I pour the pills out into my hand
I stare at them for a moment, hoping its enough
surely this will end it all
once I take them all there's no going back, can't back out now
So I throw them all in my mouth and swallow
but sadly, I woke up the next day.

I held the blade against my vein
and I dragged it across my skin,
leaving a crimson path in its wake
I bled their words and my pain out
until their was nothing left
but emptiness.

I tried so hard
I screamed and begged
called and pleaded
prayed and cried,
but no one ever came
because my pleahuh No one heard cry
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RomanceRe: Ladies: 10 Signs A Shy Guy Likes You by forandy(m): 8:05am On May 29, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
sure u can, cheesy
Done cool cool cool
RomanceRe: Ladies: 10 Signs A Shy Guy Likes You by forandy(m): 6:58pm On May 28, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
grin hmmm, isorai, i can feel ur pain wink ... But u knw u cnt b shy 4 lyf, cos u would ve 2 b d 1 to ask ur WIFE out, b4 PROPOSING to her smiley , abi u no go marry
Lol, yes dear, I'm working on it. Ermmm, in a bid to shake off the shyness, can i PM you?
RomanceRe: Ladies: 10 Signs A Shy Guy Likes You by forandy(m): 6:41pm On May 28, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
smiley finally, i get to meet a shy guy grin, but y d cry face na? Aint u happy being a shy guy ni?
Lol, it's the bold ones that get the girls nau. We the shy ones would just be all "SHYdish" about it thereby losing out on getting the girl cry
RomanceRe: Ladies: 10 Signs A Shy Guy Likes You by forandy(m): 6:13pm On May 28, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
Shy guy's? Do they still exist? undecided cos i ve neva come across 1 b4.. embarassed
Oh yes sad we do cry
CrimeRe: I Slept With 400 Men In Five Months – 22-year Old Trafficking Victim by forandy(m): 1:58pm On May 19, 2016
All these exaggerations!!! I give upcry
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson And Husband In Matching Outfit (Pics) by forandy(m): 11:12pm On May 16, 2016
Amelian:
Who would ever imagine mercy johnson will be this decent and dedicated in marriage. When she was single, i know most guys will judge her from a distance as a slut because of her sexy shape then go for the plain looking girls, thinking there marriage is safe.
See.mercy still very sexy and very focused in her home.. Her husband saw a diamond which most single men couldnt see , even with their eyes open.
God bless your home mercy, keep the joy in yur alive and pure smiley
. Divorce will not come knocking on yur door, cause i believe you are wise and grounded..

I always tell pretty ladies around me, dont allow society box u into a corner , which is not yours.. Always look yur best and to hell with any guy that feels cos u r sexy and pretty, u wont be a marriage material but a sex object...Your husband will locate you , and damn what people thinks. He will see the rare goodness in you and marry you.. Cause u r worth more than a diamond in his eyes.
Embrace your looks, cos its God's gift. smiley
Ooooh!!! Somebody should clap for this girl!!!
RomanceRe: What Kind Of Kissing Is This At A Traditional Wedding? by forandy(m): 1:32am On May 14, 2016
Virgins kiss
CelebritiesRe: Caroline Danjuma Puts Her Killer Curves On Display by forandy(m): 9:28am On May 11, 2016
Who indecent dressing epp?
HealthRe: Top 10 Fertility Myths Debunked by forandy(m): 11:50pm On May 03, 2016
Lmao. My wife needs to see this!!! shocked shocked shocked

Lift legs up for 20minutes after sex!? shocked shocked shocked
...that's quite impossible coz by the time we done, she'd be feeling lame already. lipsrsealed embarassed lipsrsealed

And then the swallowing part...hehehe... grin grin grin
Baybee...you're gon learn today!!! Take some protein!!! cool cool cool
FamilyRe: My Husband Pours "Anointing Oil" In My Vagina Before Sex- Wife by forandy(m): 10:46pm On May 03, 2016
Lol... The soon-to-come baby would surely have a bald head grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by forandy(m): 3:10pm On May 03, 2016
Birds of a feather baybee...they sure would flock together kiss
CrimeRe: Woman Hides Cocaine In Sweet Packs In Lagos (photo) by forandy(m): 2:25pm On May 03, 2016
That's the hustling spirit at work baybeh....Your luck go shine one day kiss
SportsRe: Leicester City's BPL Triumph: 5 Life Lessons To Be Learned by forandy(m): 2:16pm On May 03, 2016
Nice one.
But ermmm...

That Buddhist monk too grin grin grin
I don't think his efforts should be overlooked undecided undecided undecided

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: List Of English Premier League Champions From 1993 Till Date by forandy(m): 10:12am On May 03, 2016
permanentgrace:
What sarcasm am i trying to bring about again? Can you debunk any of my comments except this season that Man-U had to manageably beat Club Brugge in play-off to qualify for Champions League?
Insinuating that Howard Webb had in some way a hand in the BPL success of Manchester United is overly falacious. Did you check the stats before making your wrong claim ? I think not.

In the 47 games that Webb officiated, United won 29 of those - taking a win percentage of just under 62 percent.

They lost 12 and drew just six over the 10 seasons that Webb was a top-flight referee.

In that time United won five Premier League titles, with the official taking charge of a maximum of seven games in each campaign.

Given a separate referee officiated another 31+ games per season proves Webb probably didn't have too much bearing on their title chances.

So, I say again, unless you're trying to be sarcastic, you havent a point.
RomanceRe: 5 Things Men Find Super Sexy In Women by forandy(m): 9:42am On May 03, 2016
Doesn't make them super sexy anything angry
CelebritiesRe: BankyW's Mother Ejects Teebillz From His House - The Capital by forandy(m): 9:31am On May 03, 2016
Badt guy Tbillz...Nigga say he no come for the body ooh...he come for the money ooh grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Phone Numbers Of Governors As Published By Sahara Reporters by forandy(m): 9:28am On May 03, 2016
...it's more like dialing a customer care line angry
EducationRe: 10 English Sentences That Can Make You Appear As A 'Quarter-Baked' Graduate by forandy(m): 9:24am On May 03, 2016
...he now COME AND BE TELLING ME that because I didnt PICKED his call THAT I am cheating on him cry cry
EducationRe: 13 Pictures You’ll Get If You’ve Ever Had A Horrible Nigerian Lecturer by forandy(m): 9:21am On May 03, 2016
cheesy cheesy cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: List Of English Premier League Champions From 1993 Till Date by forandy(m): 9:18am On May 03, 2016
permanentgrace:
And since Sir Alex left and Howard Webb retired, Man-U is yet to secure even the 4th position after their ruling days back2back? This has really proven there was a means of communication between Sir Alex/Howard Webb and English Premier League.
Unless you're trying to be sarcastic...you haven't a point cool
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: List Of English Premier League Champions From 1993 Till Date by forandy(m): 9:16am On May 03, 2016
Manchester united everywhere!!! grin grin grin
CareerRe: What Do You Like About Your Workplace by forandy(m): 7:13pm On May 01, 2016
tohpahz:
What i do for people there.
My other colleagues whu can be annoying and nice at d same time.
My salary..


2nd job..
The satisfaction i derive even after a hard days job.
The tasks which mk mi bcom a beta sweet talker.. wink
The money cheesy
Some oda benefits i cant mention here.. wink
Some other benefits u can't mention here...hmmmm huh huh huh cry cry cry
RomanceRe: What's The Funniest Thing Someone Has Said To You During Sex? by forandy(m): 7:10pm On May 01, 2016
tohpahz:
U went on for two hrs. See lie
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed kiss kiss kiss
You knw wassup wink wink wink
CelebritiesRe: Juliet Ibrahim Stunning In Bantu Knots (Photos) by forandy(m): 2:36am On Apr 30, 2016
Shez cute...but i dont like the eyebrows' make up sha cry

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