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Nairaland GeneralRe: Popular Automobile Tycoon Lanre Shittu Is Dead by frankoben(op): 2:59pm On Feb 27, 2023
frankoben:
Mr Lanre Shittu, who was one of Nigeria’s prominent automobile dealers and socialites, passed away Monday morning at age 65, as a source close to the family asked for prayers for the deceased.

May his soul rest in peace
His old mother is still alive at almost 90 years of age, a strong woman she still goes to her shop on Lagos Island practically everyday.
Nairaland GeneralPopular Automobile Tycoon Lanre Shittu Is Dead by frankoben(op): 2:33pm On Feb 27, 2023
Mr Lanre Shittu, who was one of Nigeria’s prominent automobile dealers and socialites, passed away Monday morning at age 65, as a source close to the family asked for prayers for the deceased.

May his soul rest in peace

PoliticsRe: Arise News Dissociates Itself From Election Results Being Circulated Online. by frankoben(m): 6:19pm On Feb 26, 2023
Yorubas and their messiah BAT (Emilio Kan)
Grand patron of corrupt politics in contemporary Africa

PoliticsRe: Southwest Leaders Of Labor Party Speak After Decamping To APC by frankoben(m): 7:42am On Feb 14, 2023
HenryThegreat1:
https://thenationonlineng.net/obi-will-not-get-1000-votes-in-southwest-lp-leaders-predict/
Unrepentant tribalists have finally shed their fake skin and now brandish the true one after receiving kickbacks from the Don himself El Emilio Kan.
PoliticsRe: ISWAP Distributes Old Naira Notes To Passengers On Borno Highway by frankoben(m): 9:31am On Feb 01, 2023
ArewaNorth:
https://dailytrust.com/iswap-distributes-old-naira-notes-to-passengers-on-borno-highway/
Even Terrorists are more generous and compassionate than the Government. Indeed this country is not of earth.
TravelRe: Nigerians In Ghana Decry Exploitation As Govt Imposes $120 For SIM Card Registra by frankoben(m): 9:40am On Jan 14, 2023
And I know lots of Ghanaians here in Nigeria who sell illicit gin (Ogogoro) and no authority asks them to pay a dime for anything whatsoever. Even the notorious agberos who are eternal thrift collectors never seem to look their way. Ghanaians seem to harbour this mortal grudge against Nigerians. Poor them.
CrimeRe: Body Of Missing Kenyan Teacher Found Buried Inside Concrete Coffin In His House by frankoben(m): 6:15pm On Jan 13, 2023
FamilyRe: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by frankoben(m): 6:11pm On Jan 13, 2023
Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED
Guy you want marry mad woman. If you value your sanity just give her whatever she needs right now and jakpaaa
CrimeRe: Attempted Murder: Robinson Uwak's Wife Remanded In Prison (pic) by frankoben(m): 5:22pm On Dec 17, 2022
Wickedfacts:
Michelle?
That was the girl he married in 2013 or 2014
Precisely
CrimeRe: Attempted Murder: Robinson Uwak's Wife Remanded In Prison (pic) by frankoben(m): 11:32pm On Dec 16, 2022
2mercy:
https://punchng.com/attempted-murder-ex-lawmakers-estranged-wife-remanded-in-prison/?amp
This same ex lawmaker that married this girl on my street and then divorced her in less than a year after she has had to endure battery and gross infidelity from the man.
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Clash With Tinubu Supporters In London (video) by frankoben(m): 7:41am On Dec 06, 2022
PoliticsRe: Rufai Oseni Accused Of Threatening To Assassinate Reno Omokri (Leaked Audio) by frankoben(m): 12:24pm On Dec 04, 2022
PoliticsRe: Festus Keyamo Posts Snapshot Of Tinubu's American Visa by frankoben(m): 12:20pm On Dec 04, 2022
PoliticsRe: Festus Keyamo Posts Snapshot Of Tinubu's American Visa by frankoben(m): 12:18pm On Dec 04, 2022
PoliticsRe: Obi And His Obidient Supporters Are Pretending To Be Angry Youths - Keyamo by frankoben(m): 1:48pm On Dec 01, 2022
RomanceRe: How Many Of Us Have Noticed This? by frankoben(m): 10:31am On Nov 27, 2022
Jazzman01:
Handsome men and Beautiful ladies tend to be more intelligent and successful in this world. (Note that when i say handsome/beautiful, i am not necessarily referring to the jaw dropping type) Just take a look around you and see things for yourself. A large percentage of successful people and people in high places of power are Handsome and pretty individuals. have you ever seen a very handsome man or extremely pretty lady that is dumb or wallowing in poverty?

I am beginning to think that there must be a correllation between our genetic make up and our finesse in everything both inwardly, outwardly and spiritually. What i am trying to say is that individuals with very good genes turn out to be very handsome/beautiful, intelligent and with a higher success rate. Although I am not saying ugly people don't make it, but when we compare their success rate with those who are generally accepted as "good-looking" in the society, then we can see the difference.

cc: lalasticlala nlfpmod
Is BAT handsome, what are u saying sef
RomanceNigerian Guy Finally Calls It Quits With Cheating Girlfriend by frankoben(op): 1:00am On Nov 21, 2022
A Nigerian guy who has been in a toxic relationship with his girlfriend who happens to be a serial cheat has finally found the guts to end the relationship according to this screenshot even though she never bothered to reply his message....poor poor guy..

CelebritiesRe: Davido's Son Ifeanyi With His Nanny Before His Death by frankoben(m): 6:35am On Nov 02, 2022
Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cF5y1SwbCE

Davido's Son Ifeanyi With His Careless Nanny Few Hours Before His Death
Wow! Nanny looking so much like the witch of endor...


Rest well Lil man...... God's got your back from now on
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Goes Down For Users Across The World by frankoben(m): 9:45am On Oct 25, 2022
MuslimIgbo:
tongue

This is how Obidiotṣ and ipîgs will lulẹ next year.
Mumu time wasters.
It's unfortunate that we don't have a better option than Tinubu.
Bravo! Faithful pilgrim of the famed Iragbijian
FamilyRe: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by frankoben(m): 1:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
Your matter off me guy, I feel your distress
TravelRe: Federal Government Evacuates 542 Stranded Nigerians From UAE (Photos) by frankoben(m): 10:45am On Oct 24, 2022
Futile effort in search of the golden fleece...
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Hands Over His Seat To Peter Obi At An Event (Video, Photo) by frankoben(m): 1:23am On Oct 15, 2022
Abfinest007:
So it is in the spiritual realm
Physical manifestation to follow in Ernest
CelebritiesRe: Funeral Ceremony Of Don Jazzy's Mother In Lagos (Photos, Video) by frankoben(m): 3:19pm On Oct 08, 2022
diplomat058:
You've got to love the Yorùbá. Even if you are not Yorùbá by blood, as long as you dwell amongst them and imbibe their Omoluabi values, they believe you can be culturalized as a Yorùbá. That way, there are hundreds of thousands of non ethnic yoruba who now identify as Yorùbá. Many do not even remember where their lineage sprang from again LoL

May God continue to bless and prosper the most advanced, liberal and sophisticated black race on earth, amen.

Oòduà a gbé gbogbo wá o!
Amin

PoliticsRe: MC Oluomo Fixes New Date For Solidarity Rally For Tinubu, Sanwo-olu by frankoben(m): 11:18am On Oct 08, 2022
CrimeRe: Two Anambra Vigilantes Nabbed Over Attempted Rape Of A 12-Year-Old Girl by frankoben(m): 2:40pm On Oct 06, 2022
LeoDeKing:
I have no doubt those vigilantes are ipob pigs currently parading themselves as zombidiots.

They have been doing it and always getting away with it. After raping, they kill their victims, so very difficult to trace the rapists and murderers. To make it more complicated, they are the first to go to social media and start tagging fulani herdsmen.

This is the reason they started demanding for Charles Soludo's head when he told them the home truth.

As it is right now, this attempted rape will still be linked to fulani herdsmen and Tinubu. As in, any offence in the east must have been committed by outsiders, not them because they don't commit crime.

Which kind pipu be dis sef? huh
Ode.....Lol
FoodRe: I Bought This Cheap Food For #800 Only Here In Lagos by frankoben(m): 3:45pm On Aug 03, 2022
VeryWickedGoat:
You stole the sacrifice I dropped at Pen Cinema junction this morning? shocked
Loooooool grin cheesy grin grin
PoliticsRe: BBC, Daily Trust Will Face Sanctions For Glorifying Terrorists - Lai Mohammed by frankoben(m): 8:25am On Jul 29, 2022
Where did this goat resurface from?
PoliticsJenifa (funke Akindele) Emerges As PDP Deputy Governorship Candidate In Lagos St by frankoben(op): 12:29am On Jul 07, 2022
Reports reaching us indicates that actress Funke Akindele of Jenifa fame has emerged as PDP deputy governorship candidate in Lagos

More details soon

http://frankobenmindspace..com/2022/07/funke-akindele-emerges-lagos-pdp-deputy.html?m=1

TravelRe: Windhoek, Namibia Is Africa's Second Cleanest City by frankoben(m): 11:27pm On Jun 28, 2022
VeryWickedGoat:
Which position is Lagos?
Not listed

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