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Pwetty2:
the poverty mind speaking lolzzzzz

The "...because you are broke" Format don cast
Is a statement women use on men, to guilt-trip them

Women and miracles, I feel laziness is the reason people sort out for miracles. Nobody wants to put in the work, you just want to be lucky.
Back in the days when I graduated, I didn't miss out on church services because I wanted a job. Fasting, praying, night Virgil, but all I needed to do was start from somewhere and build myself up which I later realised and started.

jaeyking:
Paying a lady money because she is your girlfriend is trash

Sending a random girl money because she is beautiful is the most stupid thing I have ever seen

No girl is more beautiful than my mother or sisters

Actually it's because of the stupid men who bank roll these ladies that's y it's seems normal to them

I blame the MEN

Nigerian men spoilt them, bro. The mentality that you must be financially buoyant before you can get a girlfriend, irks me. It is not like that in other countries. That's why they feel frustrated when they travel out because they don't get the same attention they get in Nigeria.

I heard women in the UK will send money to guys to come to their house for knacks and she will still cook for him. Men can turn the table in Nigeria. We just have to remove the desperation for sex. I don't ask women for sex, I act like I don't care and don't even talk about it. She feels she isn't attractive enough, then ends up bringing the food to your table willingly.

Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

A narcissist will guilt trip rather than apologizing.

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This is what you get when you marry a rich man, I think is the way to go now. Make money then get married pay all the bills and she can never challenge you. Since is what most women want lets play the game.

The truth is to survive in Nigeria, you have to think like a politician. You can't beat them bro.

purples25:
True, but I'm still right.

If everyone is jumping off a high cliff will you do it, because everyone is doing it?
It can be likened to a Yahoo boy blaming the government for his act.

purples25:
Men are the ones that press and insist on meeting a new lady friend in their homes even when she is also a stranger to them. They insist, claiming the woman can trust them. If the woman refuses, and states reasons, they would claim she is paranoid, she is having a very bad negative look on them, she is a hypocrite, judgemental. A good number of men, even the good ones, will drop a lady simply because she refuses to meet up at the man's house. Many women are pressured into it through manipulations, they don't just go there like that.

But the truth is this, they wouldn't easily do this to a woman whom they have good intentions for, who they respect, who they believe has standards. So, as a lady, choose more of those who are not eager to pull you into such situations.

Story story, women are carried away with what they see, when they see a guy doing very well from his pictures, fresh, clean and handsome they drop all their moral compass down. A woman can date a guy for 1 year and he wouldn't see her pant, but she can have sex with another guy she meets the same day. Is all about attraction (whatever the reason is)

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Them dey hear word
Female children are very difficult to control and raise
I laugh when people say male children is very difficult to control probably they haven't been around female kids or they didn't grow in place filled with females

The funny part of it all is that once they start seeing thier period and having boobs that is when they become so difficult to advice

They are Dramatic, manipulative, money conscious, attention seeking, clingy, jealous spirit, emotional, possesive and stubborn....their stubbornness comes in a romantic way

Exactly

Persephone1:
No be today we don know say our men dey buy love for overseas

Nah Nigerian women teach us

Ireportlive:




No long talk.. girlfriend allowance is the game changer

Most ladies these days need a provider

Most men just need a companion, sex mate and someone to vibe with

Getting a prostitute every other night is expensive , plus prostitute don't vibe with you

Marriage is a long time financial and emotional commitment most guys can't afford

Perfect solution, get a girl within your dating class who is right for you but below you financially, leverage your money to get her loyalty.


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I use to have these mindset that my wife must be a working class lady or a career woman, but after doing few businesses with some rich folks wives (sit at home mums), I found out most of the women can't take any decision without running it through the husband first. When the husband says jump her answer is how high. Reason these rich men cheats on their wives and women can't do anything because if they dare leave they are back to square one.

Ladiesdream:
To borrow money sweet, to pay back na quarrel. Na wetin I see for your chat.

Instead of am to pay up, baba they find unnecessary quarrel. Why she type "LOL" bros funny sha.

Kosoco:
Women sabi use person shaaaa.

I don't keep them as friends, except we are smashing. It is one favour or the other.

Visa2022:
@Ejiod and other gurus in the house.
Please I need your advise...

I don't have a computer science/statistics/Mathematics background at undergraduate level.

I studied Accounting and Finance(2:1) and also a chartered certified Accountant(ACA, ACCA, ACMA, CGMA).

I have a very strong passion for data science which is driving me crazy, this made me apply for an MSc in Data Science and Analytics.

I just secured an admission(MSc) in Teesside University, Middlesbrough, UK (commencing Jan 2022).

But now I'm beginning to develop cold feet as to whether I can do it considering the fact I have I have no prior computer or programming knowledge and I'm getting a tad worried.

What do you advise?
Can I study it at MSc level without prior computer/programming/mathematics knowledge at undergraduate level?? (Though, if there's something I know about myself, its the fact that I'm smart, and can learn).

Please I need your input/insight on this.

PS:
Pardon me if this issue has been addressed before, I just stumbled on this thread tonight, and I've followed through to page8, and didn't come across such.

Bro, how did it go. Did you finally go for the course? I am looking at the same thing, though I have little knowledge of computers.

Women are easily spoilt. Don't be too nice to them unless them go see you finish and when they get to that stage nothing can be done anymore.

You just type lots of long paragraphs without even testing what the issue is. Na so una go they write OP for exam.

Winningbot:
Guy if na to open all those fixed match, forget am. All those stuff na scam, no bother yourself

Thought as much lol.

IamDavid:
Convert your 2M to dolls first. I don't have any serious advice like dat but just know that tech is getting saturated already. You have to be really skilled to edge others now. No matter what you think, you're actually doing better than some others

You don't have to be the first, but be the best. Facebook wasn't the first social media, Uber wasn't the first e-hailing service.

Tomek09:
I earlier opined that society and nature are sympathetic and lenient to female gender and some people thought I was chasing clout.

Even in interviews, job hunts and what-have-you, females are highly favoured and considered more than men.

Truly, penis is very useless

They got more advantage over us.

1. If you are man life is leading you with 1
2. You come from a family with no money and connection life is leading by another 1
3. You are from Nigeria that's one 1

Life - You
3 - 0

PatrickOkunima:
You've said it all. Unfortunately, some people will still fall for this. If he's really sincere, there no way he will not know at least one person who can give him the loan, considering that he has a tangible collateral.

Bro, I was in his shoes when I was about to start my master's nobody gave me a dime, then I knew I got no friends. Till date, I work with that mindset.

You can see how OP is humble, let him get the money. Time to pay back his true colour will surface.

Tremple8v:
Never ever save your debit card on any betting platform, its risky .

Bet9ja makes it difficult to delete your details unlike before, so my details were saved. I had to discard the atm card and get a new one.

Stjahboy:
A primary six pupil mfon ekpo in Q I C primary school,uyo who involve in sex act with her head master was caught by the school security on friday,24 feb. At 3:00pm at the school farm.

Akwa Ibom sex is like 1 & 2. Did my service in secondary school, those ladies are something else.

stinflame:
We keep shouting moving for your kids , tell me how many big men in 9ja have their kids schooling in Nigeria high school... You can send your child to study there ,while they stay with a Foster parents. After that they gain admission into the university overthere.
While you stay back sending them upkeep with routine visiting. These have always been the usual way most big men, who earn well here do. 1.5mill in 9ja isn't a small cash and even if you remit $1000 every month for your child's upkeep oversea, you won't feel it.
You better sit down and think it through, save as much as you can here, start a reliable business you have ownership of with good profit. Live the life of your dreams here.

Anything little thing, japa. Most of these young folks think as soon as you get outside Nigeria everything automatically turns perfect.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Baby girl way you go bang well make that lesbianism japa from her body

Give her correct lashing...touch all the inner walls with your fertile rod....her brain go reset..

Or if you be better badt sharp guy....then na threeesome you dey see like this...

Is not worth it bro, make e just enjoy her, till he gets tired and move on. Now an him they in control, he can always blackmail her to do his biding.

Same Zlantan, that refuse to share money to those begging him on the road side, even if 100 naira e non fit share. Mtchewwe

Ekejoestar:
Sometimes e go be like say crime dey pay, just imagine person wey thief millons of dollars being sentenced to only 8yrs plus while most people have been suffering for decades without 5000 dollar to show for it

Especially those white-collar crimes. Steal millions of dollars spend some couple of years in jail and then you are out to enjoy the stolen loots. Though it is wrong to steal from people.

Mgada1ne:
I appreciate you a lott.
She doesn't seem to have other imperfections, she loves me so much, the only problem is the anger issue.
Our relationship is about 2years now but this keeps happening.

That anger issue is what you should be scared of until she destroys all your properties thinking you were cheating or worst-case scenario kill you. Then you can understand how far anger issues can go. That's one thing I wouldn't tolerate in a relationship.

Negroid001:
Travelled from Lagos to Ibadan to go visit my first Facebook girlfriend.

Had one then, was planning to go to uniabuja from Warri. Mtn was having a promo when you register one special number you can call for free. Babe disturb my life then, now babe level don high scara. Abuja things.

Simp story: I sponsored a girl's meal throughout the 3 weeks in camp. Her voice was something else and her eyes damn.

Unfortunately, the last day when everyone was chilling with their newfound love I was all alone. She redeployed before burn fire night. The thing is I had ladies giving me green light at the beginning but I was always with her. Doctors and soldiers just they beef me then.

viyon02:
Money got from thuggery and looting from innocent bus drivers, and you think you can enjoy these children. God can never be mock whatever a man sow he shall reap.

If these so-called prayers worked by now Buhari would be dead. It doesn't work bro. This child will be back in Nigeria with a juicy deal in the government house.

Your only advice should be those who sacrifice their lives as political thugs to use their number 6.

In Nigeria, everybody is potential criminal. Trust no one.